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Lol shame dey catch me small to buy groundnut and sugar.But then,who no dey chop am?
I no think say na shame sef.Na shyness be my own.

Na condom I never buy before.
When the time reaches,I'll buy the pack(that large box).They will think I want to resell it.It will also save me the shame of buying every time.

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Sweetplum:
What I m talking about is marriage is good.
If you don't fancy it, waka pass.

On Nairaland,men complain about their marriages or not wanting to marry more than women.This should tell you that women benefit more from marriage than men.

Countless women go from religious leaders to religious leaders just to pray to get a husband.
But I hardly see men running around just to see a wife.

You are lucky you are a woman.

Peace out!

Sweetplum:
Hope your Uncle is enjoying the dividends of having multiple baby mamas?

That's not what you were talking about initially.

ajayiopy:
PRAY TO GOD TO PROVIDE YOU WITH WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE AND VALUE. MARRIAGE IS GOOD AND THIS IS MY 12-YEARS.

You didn't read the story on page 1 of this thread.The man who married a lady he dated for 9 years.Their marriage lasted for another 14 years.The wife had an affair with her co-worker.She almost sent the man to prison when confronted.Now the man has lost almost all he had to her under UK law.

Pray your wife doesn't go berserk.According to him "she was a good wife for many many years".

Sweetplum:
Yeah. And that's illegal. Who go arrest/question you for having sex with your wife or husband?
Who ll arrest/question you if you v child for your wife or husband?
Last Drop:
Marriage is now by choice. Don't discourage those who believed in marriage.

My uncle has 3 children for 3 different women (failed relationships).
The last time I checked,no one has ever questioned nor arrested him for that.He is over 50 years old and still counting!

Gatekeepers:
For the fact that you listed all these points And you still think and talk about marriage, it then means you are seeking for who will advice you against the right thing to do.

Irrespective of wrong advices you will read from this Nairaland, be reminded that God your creator sees marriage as good. He said it's not good that a man should be alone. If God said singleness is not good, and he made it good by providing Eve to Adam as a wife. Are you the one that will now say marriage is not good?

If you find your real wife/husband all these complains you listed will disappear.

Things have changed now.
Is the way Eve acted towards Adam the same way women of nowadays are acting towards their husbands?

In those days,women were super submissive.But now,women are covert and overt feminists.
Adultery was punishable then,but now? It's a thing done in the open.
Back then,people were preserving their bodies and marrying as virgins but now?Even underage are having sex.

Marriage has lost it's relevance abeg!

pappilo:
I have no reason to lie. I am not claiming to be a saint and after peservering for a few years after our sex ife dried up, I looked outside and didnt look back. i was determined to stay in the marriage even though it was dead for the salke of the children (dumb move). She was a good woman for many many years so a good partner can go rogue.

I can understand people can stop loving each other but I can never get over the thought of a woman i had been with for 22 years (dated for 9 years - we were teenagers when we started) had no qualms about sending me to prison for her new flame.

Those were were the worst 2 years of my life. No home, had to move into shared accomodation, something I had never done in all my life in the abroad , had to sell my car and, took on so much debt to pay almost £20,000 in solicitor/barrister fees, took a second job doing 12 hours night shift in a factory. All this was going on with the prospect of prison time and a criminal record.

Those were really dark days and I contemplated suicide. The ironic thing is, it was a woman who helped me through those very dark times. i honestly believe if that woman wasnt in my life in that period, I wouldnt be here today.

I know this is a bit off topic. I am sorry but this is like therapy for me..

But are you sure you didn't commit any crime like assault on her or the guy?
Cos prison just like that??

pappilo:
Bro whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not get married! You will always regret it. I love my late dad, he was the best dad anyone could ask for but if I see him in the afterlife, I will ask him why he never told me the truth about marriage and advise me no to get married.

Love someone (with sense), have children, live together but never ever sign your life away. Finally do not let any woman you are with know everything about you.

The first thing that deteriorates after marriage is your sex life. I think its a psychological thing. Maybe the subconscious feeling that you've both got each other for 'life' messes with the brain.

I was married for 14 years. My ex-wife started a relationship with a work colleague and a month after using the police to kick me out of my house, the dude left his own family and moved into my house.

I was charged with several offences for an altercation I had with the guy when I caught him in my house. My ex-wife (we were still married at the time) the mother of my children came to the crown court to testify against me on his behalf. The jury saw through their lies and determination to send me to prison and acquited me on all charges (over 5)

Its been a few years but I still shudder at the thought that I believed so much in this woman and chose her over my own siblings.

Attached is msg I got from her this morning. This is despite her taking the house which I put
down 66% of the deposit. This woman earns almost double what I earn and I pay her over a quarter of my net earnings for child maintenance.

You'll probably still go ahead and get married but its almost guaranteed that one day in the future you will look back and wish you heeded the advice of many people who told you not to

You carry woman abroad yet you no sign prenup before marriage.Shon whine mi ni?

CamusMidas:
No naw, he would be dragging it small small; throughout the night self just so the light won't off.

Alright thanks.

CandyOps:
For me, I was a daily stoner but I smoked in small portions because I have a very low tolerance level. This means that I can smoke 1 joint for a whole day or 2 and it'll still get me very stoned.

How can you smoke a joint for 1-2 days?
Won't the light go off or you deliberately put the light out.
Pardon my ignorance.

Congratulations in advance my bro.Your marriage will last long.

You must be a man with the balls of steel.Only men with steel balls can stand marrying these Nigerian girls.

You should wear the condom before pre intimacy.Pull it off when you're ready to thrust.Then put it back on after he cums.

She must get pregnant before I'll wed her.

WondaBeauty:
To all fellow Nairalanders,

It's my day today and I am really excited, can't lie about that.


Many more years to come.


HURRAAAAAYYYY!!! WondaBeauty is +1

Why use a foreigner's pics?
Low self esteem?

Ishilove:
So this pretty woman is a lesbian?

What a waste

Ishi!Waste kwa!

You know people don't wake up one day and DECIDE to be gay right?

Twoclans:
Work necessity .They have blown the rail line and this has forced almost everybody to use the road.For now I cant afford chartered flights

I cant abandon my work,it pays the bills .I dont know how to beg .

If you get kidnapped, won't you beg for money for ransom?

Jk tho

donbachi:
Dont ever exchange words with her.it will make her not to be able to see you finish.

But if you keep quiet, don't you feel she'll hurl words at you next time?

Lionnation:
you mean Yoruba don't have sense to know their left and right

Yes.

Lack of sense is better than drug peddling.

Lionnation:
Yoruba is there too, stop tribalism

It was dominated by flat heads.This is to tell you that flatinoes are starting to influence Afonjass.

Bad influence!

Johel:
Man must survive...as country no work,Wetin make men do?...abeg free the drugs and arrest them jor...jail them for only 3months and set them free on 2m bail each,simple and fair,life goes on...they should be careful with importations...world government can't stop drug business,no be today..

NDLEA just dey act film because of their own share.

See this drugs apologist..

All these flat headed cartels dey vex me!

Lionnation:
even tinubu do drugs stop tribalism

Show me proof and I'll wire 100k to you!
If I no wire am make I kpai!

nairalee:
All my life I never knew Biafrans were actively into cocain consumption o. Naive meee

Fixed!

Aonkuuse:
Nigerians and drugs

Biafrans and drugs.

Parachoko:
Where are the miscreants arrested and killed?

The Nigerian Navy should focus their energy more on naval warfare. Infantry job should be left alone for the Nigerian Army.

N Army,N Navy,N Airforce are all trained to fight on land.

Rosaline5000:
So apparently I have seen 2 threads attacking this poor lady because she choose to post crimes against women but hey what right do we have to posting a fraction of what is happening to women.
We should just sit and cook for our husband or boyfriend and just keep our mouths shut

She and her posts are sexists.

Is it only men that commit crimes?
Why is she posting only male crimes in a bid to paint men bad and women as victims?
Are men not also victims of crimes perpetuated by women?

To crown it all, you'll see her typing trash like "May God punish all men".Is her father not a man or is it not through a man that she will get children?
If she claims lesbian,is her partner's father not a man?


She is just a man hater, nothing else!

Candidlady:
Oga good night! I'd hear the pastor sermon in church tomorrow... Save your sermon for those that won't be going to church


Do have a lovely night rest

It's your life.
Spoil it as you please.

saphiere:
I'm hoping to establish a foundation soon. We are coming out in full force for all the rapists.
I would be you all greatest nightmare once the foundation is launched.

Pray that your days be long?
Where is the husband of Yinka Odumakin today? Where is Gani Fawehinmi today? Where is Bola Ige today?Or you think they died a natural death?

There are many assassins waiting to be hired.

Candidlady:
Waste anger on a faceless forum?

Iam in a good mood! Trying mixing CB + gold nothing will ever get on your nerves

Kai stop all these things you're taking.It will get harder to stop the more you get engrossed in it.

Do you even wish to stop?

Candidlady:
Thank you sir!

Ihear this alot... Can you help me?

Why you no vex?
Me I wan vex you this night