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Urchinpainer:
DSS can only try. If they near Emefiele with that their short gun, the military will deal with them decisively.

Do you want to be comparing Army's Ak 47 with DSS' Tavor rifle??

Sixfeetbelle:
Attend sport events. In my school, they play different kind of sports in the evenings and on weekends. Show up there. Get interested in those sports. Ask other spectators what's going on. Guys usually make friends easily this way.

If you meet ones from your department, try to make time so you can wait for them after classes. Hang out at eateries, and carefully figure out their after schools schedules so you can indicate interest and be invited out.

After you have made a few friends, you just wait for them to bring up girls and chip in that you've never had one.

Remember, do this slowly and intentionally. If it takes you a whole school year before you even manage to talk about girls, that's okay.

Lots of insights. I appreciate.
I'll just gather the courage to do that.

Ibkrichie:
I'm a virgin, you can dis-virgin me to know if men bleed 😜

You're using your future to play

Amotolongbo:
But why? 😲

That is unfair😞

Why you dey whine them na

Dey too no sabi sarcasm toor

frozen70:
Ok good

Start getting closer to your course mates

Meet them to teach you more about topics you don't understand

Take them out for snacks within the school

Visit them and invite them to visit you

Start from there

Alright thank you.😘

Namaster:
Realize this:

People, male and female, are a hot steaming pile of sh1t. You are not missing much by being antisocial.

But if you think being antisocial hinders your progress, join a gym and lift weights consistently.

Now, go out right now and get yourself a chilled can of black bullet. That'll do you good.

Then if you have the money, get yourself a hookup girl ASAP. Bleep her good, as good as any virgin boy anyway.

Just lose your virginity.

After fucking a girl, you'll realize that girls aren't sh1t...if not that they have vaginas and can suck your dick.

They are not special.

On the skills front, you can take it slow and dedicate one hour, or even 30 minutes, per day.

Avoid graphics design, though.

1. I go to the gym regularly.

2. I stopped alcohol.

3. Tbh I've considered this hookup of a thing. I might give it a trial.

4. Is graphics design oversaturated?
I wanted to learn programming but that b1tch won't earn me money till like a year or two. And man's broke.

That brings me to this question, where are you people seeing money please?

Siminialaye20:
You're not alone. Just accept yourself for who you are. Continue to work on yourself, read self-books attend seminars etc. Those friends going to club, partying isn't necessary as it stands.

Make friends that will help you achieve your goals in life, that will influence you positively. Join a department in church and work for God.
Honestly, The choice you make now will determine your future.


Regret is a terrible experience, expecially the one that is irreversible. There are so many old people filled with regrets right now, hoping they can turn back the hands of time but no way. When it's too late, there's nothing one can do about it.

Be wise.

Hmmm thanks a lot.

ModCaller:
There is difference between being antisocial and being asocial.

Antisocial involves standing against everything the society stands for.

I believe you meant asocial, not antisocial

Antisocial can also mean asocial as it has more than one meaning.

care4you:
And you masturbates alot too...

You forgot to add that 👆 to your CV

Okay you got me right there😂😂😂

Chocoloco:
Hmm you are not antisocial or should I say you where and trying to break free.

Cause from your text above you want to break free and socialize.

Force your self to do things you won't do normally, socialize more with both genders..

Or have a blunt from my chocoloco

I bet you can't go a month without the blunt. Weed fuvks people up. I've done that twice, it felt good but I know it will be difficult to quit if I go into it fully.

siofra:
Quiet and antisocial people are usually invisible to other people, except you're rich, very attractive or have a very mysterious/weird personality. If you're not, sorry but people will not give two fawks about you. It's almost like you don't exist to them.

I don't think you're voluntarily antisocial, I think you have social anxiety because people who are truly antisocial do not care if other people like them or not.

Maybe you should start thinking of how to overcome this, then other things will start to fall in place.

I've been like this since childhood and I've never had an issue. But now, seeing how my mates are living life, I feel left behind in life.

I'll need as much help as I can in overcoming this.

advanceDNA:
This is not the time to look for unnecessary enjoyment..You just started paying your dues in life...pay the sacrifice needed to get ur good grades
..good grades can help u unlock some door when the time comes....this is the time to also pay the dues for discipline......u will need it in front...

Yeah.. friends make the atmosphere fun..make a few of them if u can... but u gotta learn to fly solo as well.....be happy on your own...

friends are just extra additions ....if u make the right ones they can help u up the ladder.... but if u need friends for party d enjoyment....nigga trust me...u are better without the distraction

Thank you.

frozen70:
You are in school already
It gives you the chance to meet people both the good and the bad

It gives you the opportunity to have friends both male and female girl friend

Mix up with people so that you get exposed when you go home for holidays or you rerun to uoir shell till you are back to school

Lastly free yourself and approach people

I'll appreciate if you can tell me how to pull this off.

Dshocker:
I believe you have room mates or hostel friends, you can hang out with, particularly during the weekends.

Because all work and no play, makes jack a dull boy.

I deliberately not have a room mate. The compound I stay is dominated by non students. But now, seems I'll leave for a student dominated area.

ImpregnaTor:
It seems we are on the same path

Like how old are you now?

Early twenties.

Autobot05:
You are not alone 🙃
Some even think I'm crazy or a psychopath cause I live alone. No girlfriend , the girls come around a bit but I dunno how to keep the conversation going. The only people I engage with at school are my roomie who is actually in another dept. I spend a large amount of time online doing silly ( but quite knowledgeable ) research.

The bolded will be a big mistake .. I learnt to accept myself and believe that what's meant to be will be . Just try and get a friend , engage in church activities too

Yeah we're similar.
I've been like this since childhood and I've never had an issue. But now, seeing how my mates are living life, I feel left behind in life.

Heck I don't even know how to make friends.

noobaland30:
bro im 21 yr old male the only time i can get girl is online. in real life i dont think i can get a wife

You're lucky you even get online.

Ati online, ati offline, awa o ri nkan nkan.

thesicilian:
You say you are antisocial. Perhaps that answers your questions. Nobody likes being around antisocial people, except the rich ones

How can I stop being antisocial? I'm awkward in public.

falcon01:
it's hard man but the easiest way is to pretend. Pretend you know what you are doing, pretend you are the shit adopt an interesting lifestyle talk to girls more

It's hard bro 💀

falcon01:
Well .. you are Boring AF what do you expect?
By the way, how would you rate your looks on a Scale of 10, 1 been hedious 10 been very very attractive

I'll say 7.
Because everywhere I go, both male and female tell me I'm very fine. A lot of people call me fine boy and all of that. My course mates usually say I'm just wasting my handsomeness by not going after babes.

So how do I stop being boring?

siofra:
The hate I'm getting from here is becoming too much and I don't think I can hold on for much longer.

I'm a very sensitive person in real life and your hate has started affecting my offline life.

Anyway you guys should enjoy me now o! Because soon I'll relocate with my ridiculously older husband and settle into the role of a house wife, tending my herb garden and looking after my home and being famous/chasing clout on other social media platforms like I was doing before I became addicted to nairaland.

I'm going to miss you guys so much! But there's only so much hate I can take here.

This is not a final goodbye but I'm just telling you guys what to expect when you don't see me here again next year.



Toodles!

The content of the likes of your thread I posted below leaves you undesirable.
I can't but shake my head at the 20 year old girl that is building her life on folly, grooming herself to be a leech.

I now skip your posts as I don't want it to reduce my intellectual capacity to your level.
I didn't skip this so I can let you know you don't entertainment us here... you're a pain.

Foodqueen:
Thought she has a grown up daughter.

Yeah she has.
Her name is Jemiyo.

DaddyCK:
where is the button located?

Ode

pocohantas:
Abeg o, my love for food no reach like this

Good morning.
Please are you into writing?

femi4:
With over 30 people already failed ....lets assumed its a class of 100, That means less than 75% of the class pass the exam. The lecturer did a bad job there

Lecturers in my department only teach preliminary aspects of a topic. They set the hardest possible questions in exam on that topic. Example: Teaching 100 + 100, 4 - 3 in class. Then asking 5433(776 * 79) in exam.
Yet, we have the highest number of first class graduates in the school every year.

The lecturer might have done a bad job, but you don't sit down and say "They did not teach us". You should go and seek knowledge yourself!

ibkayee:
Watch men who have never left their local government area come and contribute

You that have left your local government area, what's stopping you from contributing?