₦airaland Forum

Nnamdipapa:
I have nothing against marry a second wife but personally, I will prefer to live alone if my first marriage fails. I will never go into marriage a second time. It is unnecessary bondage for me at this time. No matter how I am enamored with a lady, It will never pass a FWB situation and you cannot move into my house.

Exactly, the covenant of life is always greater than the covenant of marriage.

Silentgroper:
No correlation..


You sound like you've been in a similar situation ..

Is that the reason you're getting worked up about it ..

Hell no.
I'm wiser than to get entangled with the shitshows that are some men(especially those like this Gaspardd fellow)

I just see a lot of funny cases like this in my practice, entitled men who behave like their actions have no consequences and can't tolerate the bullshit they dish out. Dem plenty.

Silentgroper:
crap ..


He could just divorce the first of she causes too much trouble ...



Good part is , she gets nothing after the divorce .. except the man decides to compensate her. So the choice is hers, do anyhow and see anyhow...

then let the 2nd wife be knacking a younger man her age with better prick on the side and giving you her bastards to raise and play house, then abandon you in your old age. Na their format be that.

We see those types dying alone and abandoned once in a while.

Gaspardd:
Met the 2nd lady mid 2022, but got pregnant late last yr. My parents are already aware esp my dad who told me to embrace my new status.

The first wife isn't aware yet but I will fake remorse and blame it on the devil and see how it goes.

motherfucker.

Prepare to lose sleep, develop hypertension and die faster than your predestined time

Trueprophet91:
It's no rocket science, keep your pants up!
Unless you're ready for what comes with it

we're saying the same thing then

Trueprophet91:
They're just sugarcoating the whole thing.
Immorality is too much over there,they should call a spade a spade.
People should stop having sex like dogs.

easier said than done

Moony45:
Source: https://abcnews.go.com/US/judge-challenge-trumps-executive-order-ending-birthright-citizenship/story?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=dhfacebook&utm_content=app.dashsocial.com/abcnews/library/media/494114386&id=118005855

The devil's agenda, 'Project 2025' is already underway and Trump is it's executioner.

I would advise women of reproductive ages in America to run and leave that country before they die like fowl because of prick and its sequelae

NewDigitalWorld:
Source: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c17ewl98kgvo

Trump wants to screw over nigeria. Delusional man

Focusmind:
How are the going to get the offenders? Is it that the woman will report that the man is withdrawing or there be means of monitoring men that pours out the thing outside the embryo.

simple, she will sue the man within an inch of his life if she gets pregnant and he decides to not take responsibility. This will make men more responsible. It will also up their withdrawal game.

But a lot a young underage men will be likely victims of this lawsuit especially teenagers.

Omoawoke:
Man don suffer

Make man no ejaculate again ??

they should amend it to "ejaculation into or near a woman without the intent to impregnate""

I wholeheartedly agree to this bill. It will make sure that men will take responsibility for their genetic material especially proper disposal. They should be responsible for disposing and destroying their used condoms so that women will not take it to impregnate themselves and bill them for child support, like the lady who put hot sauce in her vagina thinking it was Drake's semen.

I heard that most Americans went to rednote, a Chinese app. Let us see what their government will say this time

Dtruthspeaker:
https://www.nairaland.com/8316760/man-commits-suicide-over-pressure

We have seen and heard too many times how a poor man struggling and managing his life is often pressured and forced into marrying.

And we have seen that some families go as far as even forcing a girl to marry him.

If it is not wickedness and an attempt to throw him into more torment, so why?

What is the rationale for this wickedness?

And it is not that these families will always be there for them O.

And why do the girls/women they bring to him not have sense to run away from him?

simple. The economy needs poor people.

Poor man being forced to marry is because he got the girl pregnant. Poor men should pick a struggle between poverty and lack of discipline. They will commit suicide when they can't bear the consequences of their actions.

Crimealot:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OerOOilqKso?si=P9JnDeD2bbvpI9WS

Pamela, a married woman, had been in a romantic relationship with Frank since he was 15. On December 2024, Pamela invited Frank to meet her at the beach, where he died under suspicious circumstances. An investigation revealed that Frank had scratch marks and injuries on his body, leading to suspicions of foul play. Pamela claimed it was an accidental drowning.



https://www.instagram.com/reel/DEkbylqtSAr/?igsh=Y29uYnBuZ29qaWtm


Note: The Lady Started Dating The Boy When He Was ONLY 15. But he died at age 19.

This is disgusting!! A female pedophile!! Hide your sons, lock her up in cell block one and throw away the keys

Reverseng:
Virgin men should settle for virgin women. You can be a non Virgin guy and be looking for virgin woman. You can't have your cake, eat it, and still have it.

Women working in masculine roles robs them of their femininity...their woman energy as they start to think and behave like men. Survival is logical.

That being said, women should know that they're equal, simultaneous and opposite to men, as Newton put it (although he left out the Simultaneous part, which is the Big problem of the science community today)

Women should know that equality with men in every standard is wrong. A man can never carry a baby. Women aren't Fit, mentally and physically, to work in masculine roles as society preaches.

Remember, there's nothing like dirty water. It's either water or it's something else. There's nothing like logical women, and there's nothing like feminine men.


So women should return to feminine by being appreciative of what men bring to the table and know their place in humanity, NOT society because society is made up of some people who don't think for themselves, forcing rules of others, on Others

And men should be masculine by taking accountability for the women they're with. You don't promise a girl marriage and castles, only to have sex with her and abandon her. Be precise with your dealings.

Courtship should be a step towards marriage and not the nonsense we have in society today. If you don't see a future with her, don't date her.

Most of you men are dating girls you know you'll never bring to your parents. But instead if ending the courtship, you'll keep deceiving the girl, all because of sex that surprisingly enough ruins your life , because you're having a spiritual activity with someone you don't love. Obtained through deceit.

Some people choose the path of suffering and complain when the suffering happens.

Nice guys creates dysfunctional girls and dysfunctional girls creates players.

But guess what? Players don't create nice guys. So it's a straight line and not a cycle.

The burden is on men, because it's the mess we started, so we have to take accountability and put an end to it.

It's not a matter of setting for less. It's a matter of dealing with the monsters you made.

thank you for your accountability and honesty. Hopefully, op and many more lost men will listen to your post.

amazingspiderma:
They sue her for murder.
Her family will sue for child molestation, force rape.
They will plea, the girl acted in self defense as she was asked to marry against her will.


By the Nigerian constitution, that girl is a minor.

Age of consent is 11yrs of age in this country

EmperorCaesar:


The kinda evil women are capable of doing, not even the devil has ever conceived that in thought for centuries now(thats if the devil does exists)

The real evil is a 29 yr old pedophile man 'falling in love' with, marry and have sex rape someone old enough to be his daughter.

How won't she be deceived/coerced/blackmailed/persuaded by her original ex-sweetheart to poison his food?

All these semi- literate northerners sef.

She is

Better alone than in bad company.

May we all find what we are looking for.

Happy new year!

See an ENT(Ear, nose and throat) specialist

EzehFx:
It sinusitis/Sinus infection. A Google search would help you understand the infection. It been over three plus weeks now I've been battling this infection.

The first time it started over three weeks ago my mom rushed me to a healthcare centre and that where I was told I've frontal sinusitis. My head seems as it it wants to explode... The pain is out of this world, it feels as if something is breathing in my forehead that is causing extreme pain. I was given antibiotic injection for three days and some drugs..... The drugs just relief me of the pain for some hours then it starts again.

So as the doctor told me and with my research, this infection is chronic (long term) and it been taking a big part of my life. I'm just 20 and I don't know my this is happening to me ... I've been living on pain relief/anti-inflammatory drugs for the past three weeks now .. I'm confused I don't know what to do.

It 2Am now and I can't even sleep😢😢😢😢the pain

Guys pls have you had the infection before?? How did you cure it. Mods pls move to frontpage I really need answers🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Rapmoney:
This picture gives me a nostalgic feeling of how kids born in the 80s dealt with stressful situations. Fondest memories.

I still do that last one when stressed or bored at my big age.

10,000 for noiler that a colleague was selling. I got 2.

My dad just killed them, they will be barbecued later

Love800:
Double tragedy for me. Few foodstuff at home together with my stabbed arm injury i collected when trying to separate a fight.

So unfortunate!

So sorry about that. Merry Christmas.

Sonnobax15:

A renowned bachelor like me won't cook...... Instead,I trust my good neighbors to do that and surprise me on the wee hours of 25th of this December with their different delicacies .

I can't come and go and kill my innocent self

True, Poisioning yourself to death is one of the dumbest way to die especially in a festive season. Cooking is a basic skill every adult should know and it has nothing to do with bachelorhood.

Please learn how to cook so that your stomach won't be held to Ransom by others.

jaksmillioniar:
hi

hello!!

Compliments of the season!

Susily:
It goes both ways. Ditto to women

True!!! Very true!!!

Loveenthed:
Emotional Tales by moonlight as always😂

This is why you are a bad person

Susily:
Common, let's be realistic, a lot of Nigerian men are not this bad na. They try their best to take care of their wives in all stages of pregnancy, puerperium, and onwards

The few bad eggs doesn't make it a rule for all Nigerian men

Yes they may be a few bad eggs, and we a grateful for good spouses.

But the good ones don't pay attention to details and tend to take things for granted. Evil will prevail when good is silent.They also don't disparage the bad ones, leaving a bad taste in women's mouths.

durentboi:
You can be with the right woman without getting married!!

The right woman will not give you those benefits without marriage, only your mother can do that.

Susily:
Humor me. What shit do women go through in pregnancy and childrearing in Nigeria?

Social shit
1. Getting pregnant for men who are not worth it(the kind of man that will embarrass you in a hospital full of strangers becausehe doesn't want to pay your medical bill).
2. Getting abandoned with a pregnancy.
3. Mood swings and weird cravings
4. Medical gaslighting especially if the doctor is male or the nurses are unkind.
5. Being pressured to reject life saving medical care because of religious beliefs of her or her husband
5. Post-partum depression and psychosis
6. Insults from in-laws especially if she gives birth to a girl.
7. Extra work once the baby is born
8. Miscarriages.

Physical shit.

1. Getting sicker, weaker, slower and fatter.
2. Destroying your body.
3. Becoming 2nd priority in your life now that you have a child.
4. The child could be born with problems.
5. Bleeding to death.
6. Womb rupturing during labour and Bleeding to death.
7. Having high blood pressure which could lead to seizures, coma, and death.
8. Complications arising in labor leading to infertility and death.
9. Saw a patient die few days after childbirth because she had tapeworms which would not have put her in a vulnerable position if she wasn't pregnant.
10. Vesico-vagina fistula.
11. Losing all your teeth.
12. Nose getting fat and almost ugly.
13. Being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
14. Fracturing your hip, leaving you paralyzed for months and being abandoned by the father of child.
15.Vaginal tears which some doctors sew up without proper pain relief.

God there's more, more gruesome stories.

ChildOfDoom:
Day 4 - betting free



Day 1 - Oloshos free

you are doing a great job. It's one day at a time.

Susily:
Which country do you practice medicine?

Here in Nigeria.

And the shit I see women go through in the name of pregnancy and childrearing alone, not even other things, marriage is almost not worth it because many husband's don't know the true meaning of in sickness and in health. Nigerian Men need to be better as a whole.

The weed in Aso rock must be of superior quality.

Susily:
Men these days wouldn't care less. It's already showing, given the reluctance of a lot of men to get married.

There's just not too many incentives to indulge in it anymore.

Here's the thing, getting an ATM that may pay most bills and behave badly while she cook, clean, have sex even when she don't feel like it, risk her life 1+x times to bear children, be subservient to a probably bad boss who has a higher chance to harm her physically, thinks it is acceptable to cheat and renegade on the vows he made, is not a good deal for a lot of women(This is marriage in a nutshell for women). This is why society and media has to keep priming women to want marriage or face consequences if they don't.

Even biology has to scam women with hormones after going through the most painful experience of their lives to make them forget the pain as a consolation. A lot of women are miserable in their marriages too.

The day nigerian women wake up to realise that they are no longer interested in the scraps and potential headaches that men are dangling in the name of marriage, and the juice is most likely not worth is squeeze is coming, and nigerian men will be the one to cry more than the bereaved just like in western cultures.