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Jenny1010:
Guys are known to be open-minded and don't hesitate to give a simple, straight and direct answer to questions.. But, I still wonder why they go totally blank and sometimes furious when a girl ask them this one simple questions.


1. How much do you collect as salary every month?

emabe:
this is an all out war of Christianity. On other people´s belief. Lets not shy away from doing what is right in the face of humanity.

Chillisauce:
My dear, enter your lane abeg. We no dey the same speed o jare.

Chillisauce:
Go and sit down. I would not sympathize, and pray with a friend only to come and share the story esp when she is going through haRd times.

So the OP doesn't have any story from herself she could share online and we learn from .

What happens if the friend get to see this story.
Shows the kind of judgemental sick individuals we call friends. Some waiting to hear your downfall.

Yeye

Chillisauce:
After praying with your friend you came and shared her sad story online
And what made you think the other person would be better off as a good spouse to your friend?
Adults make decision . Let them deal with the outcome. That does not mean your own life is better off.

Woged2005:
In 2009 a friend of mine from western Africa and I ran into this very nice kind guy at a mall. He came down from his car and helped us load a heavy furniture we bought into our car, held the passenger side door for my friend to enter. She was charmed instantly and both exchanged numbers. 2 weeks later they were dating for real. During the course of the relationship the man who was about 37yrs then (my friend was 30) and an IT professional modestly paid but definitely not rich, observed that my friend’s inability to drive was the reason she was still doing a menial nursing job. As a good friend, he encouraged, motivated my friend to take a driving lesson. He called around to get an affordable driving school for her, where my friend registered. I witnessed the man spent practically entire evenings and weekends over a period of 4 months teaching my friend how to drive till she got her driver’s license. However, some misunderstanding led to my friend quitting the relationship. She complained the man was ‘cheap’ and too official (whatever that meant). Few months later I noticed she’s got another man who within the first month of their dating, bought her a used car from an auction site for $1,700. She fell neck-deep with this man. I sat in a church we both attended then muted when my friend gave a testimony of her life that attracted a rousing ovation how God blessed her with the best people, she got a car, a better job, and announced to the congregation that she was also getting married to the man she described that day as her mentor, best friend, biggest fan of hers, etc. Not even a mention of the man who motivated her and gave hours of his time to get her driving. All the focus was on that car. Even as a lady I felt it was bit unfair. She actually got married to the 2nd guy and they moved out of town.

Fast forward, I ran into this my friend last week in a mall with two little girls (about 3 and 2 years old) she looked quite unhappy. We screamed, hugged and exchanged pleasantries. But out of curiosity I asked how her husband was. She went on for about 20 minutes narrating what a horrible experience it was for her, the man was abusive, a manipulator, a cheat, a liar, a master con-man. Etc. Se they are separated and filling divorce. I sympathized, prayed with her and left. But I have been thinking the entire story over since last week. I am no longer going to rush into conclusions when people come up with stories and account of bad marriages except I know their past and entire story. If I didn’t know how my friend dumped a good man for another man who wielded cash, I would have wailed and cried over what she told me she passed through.

Hmmm! Everyday some of us ladies walk away from jewels into the ‘mouth of a Tiger’ because of cash. We friend-zone good men and describe them as too slow, too soft, too stingy, too cheap, too mild, etc and fall for con men because they bring cash. Most ladies will starve a man with a kind heart and kind words, but open their legs wide for the man who dropped cash. Most con-men know this weakness and use cash to woo ladies. They almost always get what they want easily, while kind men labor in vain. But this is how most of us women ended up marrying ‘rubbish’ and some even have lost their lives.

From now on I need the entire story before sympathizing with a bad marriage.

feedthenation:
This is a serious issue for the 'Senator' if this is true.

misspicy:
This is the reason broke niggas be calling babes gold digger

TheFreeOne:
Though not surprised but am sure it's saddening to buharists that the goodwill APC/Buhari enjoyed before elections could be fizzling out so soon.

But we told them the story of the loepard, they refused to listen but preferred propaganda to reality.

However let us hope/work for a better Nigeria.

mowah:
Well, as we all know, not all that glitters is Gold, here is a Testimony of a unilag student named David, surname withheld at an MFM church.

David is a 400L student of unilag and has been attending MFM youth church since he gained admission in 2011. He was a very active church member until sometimes in November 2014, it was getting close to the exam period at unilag and David decided to study at his favorite destination in campus which is the Lagoon front.

While reading in front of the peaceful water, he meet a very beautiful dark Lady crying, he felt sorry for her and decided to walk up to her. He later asked her why she was crying and she told him all that happened that her boyfriend dumped her. David as a Christian gave her some words of encouragement, preached to her and consoled her. They became friends, more interesting, he has fallen in love for the first time in his life. Unluckily for him a mammy water.

After their exams they became much closer and by february 14 2015. They became lovers. As the relationship grew the young Lady began to demand for sex but David was reluctant until one day he decided to forgo his church program to go out with the young Lady. He was drunk that night and had sex with the lady, you know what it means to sleep with a yemoja, David life changed, he started having sex with her more frequently, he never went to church, he started smoking, his friends started to notice his change and started advising him but he wouldnt listen.

Until July 2015. David fell ill. He went from one Hospital to another but they couldnt diagnose the cause of his illness. Until he started seeing the girl in his dreams he then went to the church for Prayers. The pastor Later told him to confess his deeds which he later did. He later realised she was from the marine world and had ruined his destiny. After seven days of Prayers he finally became delivered. I'm wondering what could have happened to the girl as David shared his Testimony on sunday. This story of David is lesson to us, Pray while choosing your girlfriend before she ruins you.

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

Enouwem:
The dog below (see pix) went inside a small bush near my compound to play and suddenly the dog started screaming and suddenly stopped screaming without any other noise from the dog.
The children who were playing outside suddenly rushed into the bush to check what could be wrong with the dog, only to find the dog dead. They were surprised and comb the bush to find out what could have killed the dog. After killing the dog the snake hid itself and so the children didn't know. A small boy saw a grassy area and suspected that something could be there, and so he put his leg inside the grassy area, only for the snake to rise up quickly and nearly grabbed the boy's leg.
The children started shouting and their shout attracted their father who came out with a locally made gun (hunters gun) and shot the snake dead.

xertyy:
I work in a technology firm where my colleague happens to be a female.. She's in her mid 20s, not too pretty but okay and goodlooking. Among all other staffs we both happens to be closer a bit that sometimes in our spare times we talk generally on relationships, love, heartbreak and all that..

Before those discussions kick starts something like a topic or an action relating to it has to take place.. So for the past one year + I have been working their with her, she's always telling me how Faithful and loyal she is to her boyfriend which happens to reside and work in other state within the south western part..

They talk on phone everyday at work and to some extent I do believe that these two are really in love and matured, even the fact she working, she told me her boyfriend even sends her allowance monthly..

And according to her they have been dating for 2 years+ and for the past 4-5 months they haven't seen.. This same lady got some toasters that do disturb her on phone and all that, in which lash them with harsh words and rejects them, her action in all makes me starts having a second thought of being faithful or even sticking with one girl.. I had a crush on her then,but due to this their lovey lovey lifestyle with the boyfriend, I decide to back off and keep my crush to myself instead of being rejected and all that..

Recently,earlier this week, our HRM sent for her,so she forgot her phone with me, usually she don't allow me to handle her phone,which was becoming obvious she's hiding something, not until she deletes or hides a particular chat or what then she can give me her phone to see her pictures.. So on this fateful day! On Tuesday to be precise, she forgot her phone with me,so I decided to go through her pics, fortunately I found one of my pics she took me with her phone,I decide to send the pics to mine phone via whatsapp, as I was about to do that, I discovered our MDs chats with her that she ended with "Love You Too" my curiosity increases which I opened to read..

What I saw was beyond my imagination, I didn't still believe what I saw.. From the whole conversation I can deduce that they have been sexing eachother and all that.. Early in the morning,she goes to the MDs office for quickie and all that.. I was shirt of words if this is really her or who.. Till this moment it seems I'm dreaming cos I never believed this girl can ever cheat on her guy.. I'm scared of Ladies! I'm scared of commitment, I'm scared of relationship! Right now I can't even put my trust on any lady! Ladies of these days are Something Else for Real!

Metalgoong:
Single ladies? . . You mean the feminists??
well, most single guys are now running away from you feminists as fast as they can, especially those living in US and UK.

funshybam:
An evangelical pastor arrested for raping his faithful, after convincing them that his penis contained “sacred milk”
Sobrino Valdeci Picanto, an evangelical pastor from Brazil, persuaded his followers that he practiced MouthAction because it was the way he preached the word, saying that his ‘milk’ was sacred.
And this pastor said his penis was blessed and that “the Lord had consecrated with divine milk of the Holy Spirit” and of course, had to go around evangelising.
“He convinced us that only God could come into our lives through the mouth”, a follower said, “Often, after worship, Pastor Valdeci asked us to do MouthAction on him until the Holy Spirit came through ejaculation and delivered funds to the church.”
Sobrino Valdeci Picanto, 59, was arrested in Apore, Goiás, Brazil, for raping several women attending his church. He gave as an excuse that his penis had been consecrated with “divine semen of the Holy Spirit.”
Valdecir came to abuse some elderly, and defends himself by saying that ‘he had an encounter with Jesus in a brothel and gave him the mission of spreading the sacred semen throughout the state, beginning with the faithful Apore Assembly, of which he is responsible’.
Denise Pinheiro, delegate of the region, said, “Valdecir was caught red-handed while rubbing his penis in the face of a local merchant, which promised to make more sales in her business due to the divine liquid.



http://www.ghettoradio.co.ke/pastor-makes-congregants-suck-his-privates-in-church-says-his-semen-is-holy-milk/

ochejoseph:
‎Buhari's Asset Declaration: An  Analysis 

After the public outcry and condemnation  All Progressives Congress  has once again squandered a great opportunity to redeem itself.
Rather than coming fully clean and apologising to Nigerians  for insulting their, Buhari and. His team  have once again polluted the media with thier stream of half truth and manipulated facts.

The essence of this thread is to simple , dissect Buhari's  declaration objectively notwithstanding the deceptive attempt by Shehu to use the term "mud"to sway sympathy!!!


1. Buhari's wife wears a =N= 10 Million wrist watch and he has just 30. Million hmmmmm I no say anything 

https://www.naij.com/450930-aisha-buhari-wore-very-expensive-wristwatch.html

2. The the tuition  fees for just one of his many  Daughters who studies at a Prestigious University in the UK  is  in excess of £ 30,000 (about 18 Million naira) and wants us to believe he lives in a cave............ in Patience Jonathan's voice continue! 

http://www.noniloaded.com/forum/showtopic.php?id=1183



3. When Yar'adua declared his assets  he beared it all, wife etc Mr Buhari is narrating his via a third party in bits excluding the "Jeffersons loot" wired through the beautician if You understand what I mean...........


http://www.proshareng.com/news/2554/Yar-Adua-makes-public-his-assets-declaration

4. Yardadua a PDP pacesetter gave us photo copies of his Asset declaration forms dully certified.

 Mr Buhari is using Shehu to tell us Stories...... 4 months after the assets were declared .....

http://www.proshareng.com/news/2554/Yar-Adua-makes-public-his-assets-declaration

4. Shehu in trying to be clever by half listed  the Companies where "Pastor" Osinbajo is a Director and deceptively excluded Alpha Beta the same company Tinubu et al used In fleecing lagos State.

http://lindaikeji..com.ng/2015/03/photo-so-is-he-prof-osinbajos-father-or.html?m=1

This people are not clever at all.......


This same people said they never promised to declare assets publicly
! 
https://www.naij.com/519951-say-buhari-never-promised-declare-assets-publicly-adesina.html

They said they never promised to feed any school child !

http://www.newsexpressngr.com/news/detail.php?news=14669&title=HURIWA-carpets-APC,-says-Buhari-must-feed-school-children-as-promised



They said GEJ and PDP is the reason why  those waiting for 5' k will have to wait forever..

http://www.nigerianbulletin.com/threads/jonathan-is-the-reason-we-cant-give-school-kids-1-free-meal-or-pay-n5-000-monthly-apc.116781/


They said the 20,000 megawatts of electricity promised was a mere roadmap !

http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/2015/07/backlash-the-economics-of-lai-mohammed/


They said they never promised to scrap the office of the first lady but to rename it! 

https://www.naij.com/349866-why-i-wont-have-office-for-first-lady-buhari-reveals.html


It is this kind of hypocrisy, Lies and outright deception that we will continue to fight against until there is "Empirical" evidence in the Words Of Oby Ezekwesili that Justice Has been served. 

May God Continue to Bless Nigeria and Nigerians 

Shalom

hubs:
alibaba posted this on instagram and asked if you can let your pregnant wife party like this in the club see more >>

http://rangeblogz..com/2015/09/photo-would-you-let-your-pregnant-wife.html

jarkbauer:
Election they say is a game of numbers. Alliances are needed to win any election in Nigeria. It is nobody's birthright to be voted any person or group. SW,NW,NC,NE, decided to vote for Buhari while SE and SS devided to vote for Jonathan, all these based on personal convictions.
While everybody seemed to have moved on, the Igbos are still angry with everybody that decided not to vote for Jonathan. Can somebody explain why?

teymihthope:
Popeye the sailor man

Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe . I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me . I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried . He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala

Sunshine2016:
UPDATE: for those who are interested.

He's back from South Africa, spent a few days shorter than I thought he'd be spending, ended up being 10 days not 2 weeks.

In a nutshell, he admitted that SA girls can be quite forward, he said ''i can't lie, it's true'' lol. He also mentioned that he met new people and I asked if he met any babes and he said he did. He however laughed it off and assured me that ''nothing happened'' and I shouldn't worry. Also i playfully asked him for ''gist'' and he said there's really no gist. He did a bit of shopping, hung out with friends, met new people, attended concerts and had a relaxing holiday. By the way, I didn't ''attack'' him or anything, I broached the topic of babes in SA in a very friendly and casual manner, not in an accusatory tone.

Thoughts?

Will get more gist from him later when we speak, even though he's insisting there's no gist to share.