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Seandexter:
This story has gone on for too long and it has taken its toll on me. I have been on and off with this girl for a while now. Nothing official though. I am based in jand and she in naija (uni lag). We met in naija and exchanged details. She came to jand on hols and we hooked up. I made the mistake of coming on too strong for sex early on and which apparently turned her off and we argued a lot on this. But this babe still dey come see me and i dey take her out and spent on her but we just kissed couple of times despite me wanting more. When she left i actually had a breakdown. It felt like her rejecting my sexual advances was like me getting slapped mentally. I eventually moved on and dated after that which she was aware of. She tried to come around when i was naija again but didn't let her as i was dating.

Me and my GF broke up and suddenly i am thinking of her again (to be fair i never really stopped). We reconnected and started talking again. She claims she likes me but cannot jump into anything due to me knowing some of her family members and our fight history. But she still comes around a lot n we talked nearly everyday. we make out, fingered her once but she won't let me go further. She still managed to bill me while doing all this. Now i am back in jand and i have let her know she is just taking advantage of my feelings for her. We aint talking right now. I still feel that she has the edge on me or something. I feel down on it which is why i keep going back i guess. The question is how do i break this hold? I know have sex right?? but i think she also knows this and is playing her cards right.

Also the chick says she likes me a lot but think she is just playing me cos why would u like a guy and not have sex with him after all this while. She is not a virgin and she is probably sexual active. I don't know why but for some reason i feel cheated. Everyone is telling me to move on now that this is taken too much out of me. Everytime you and this babe have anything u end up feeling bad. I am just confused cos moving on means losing and no way to recoup the investment made. I know i sound cheap or rude but i am just saying it now as i feel.

How old are u? A full blooded woman is stringing u along and u are on Nairaland complaining. God help me if I not slap am for lap with touch and follow. Who born that person?

jonaifame22:
are u for real?

Really so u haven't heard or seen that b4. Then let me re-educate u with a life example.

I heard of a guy who promised a girl the alter just cos he wanted to see her pant. When he didnt see it. He bought her a Toyota camry for wedding present, she still refused to flash the cu.nt. So he organized her wine carrying after that was done. He started organizing traditional wedding and just b4 thr traditional wedding he scored and started scoring for days. After 4 weeks of scoring, he called off the traditional wedding and b4 she could say jack robinson he asked hos people to go collect their dowry. That was how thr issue ended. The girl almost ran mad.

I know met the lady it happened to.

SUGARBEE:
I love that babe, she's taking the bull by its horns.. I guess she's trying to avoid you dumping her in future..

It still won't prevent him from dumping her if he wants to. Haven't u seen naija men that still dump women even after traditional wedding

SUGARBEE:
Naija dudes acting like sister mary since 19AD..

Tell me you haven't been eyeing her since?

The unclad pictures of her or idonbilivit

Madam is that why u called people that looked at ur profile page stalker. Na wah 4 naija babe's. Always acting ajebutter since 1900.