i've been living under the fear of having a heart problem for more than five years, but my people refused that i should go for scan probably because of fear that it might be true, and there won't be money to care/treat it..
Even me, i'm afraid to go for scan, because the moment it is comfirmed to me, i don't kno if i would be able to live with it..
i can't run nor do hard work, my pulse is always high and sometimes my breathing stop totally.. I've fainted multiple times, and i've been living under depression for so long..
Now, this symptoms is increasing on daily basis, but my people dosn't want me to go for scan.. Is like they already knows the result will turn out positive.
But what if i go for scan an the result shows that i have a heart probem, how will i be able to live with it, knowing fully very well that we don't have the money to cure it..
I don't kno what to do nairalanders, i need advice..
i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..
when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..
now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..
i don't know what to do..
please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..
how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..
though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?
And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe.. pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..
You have already made ur decision to do D& C. Well D&C isn't a painful procedure if done by an expert, but then there's high risk of infection if not done with a sterile equipment, nd proper post evacuation treatment should be given including pelvic scan to check if there's no retain products of conception in the there
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