₦airaland Forum

The only way he would be sacked is the share price takes a huge fall. What he did is ethically wrong but is it against the bank's regulations? Two consenting adults having extramarital affairs.

Depends on the situation. I don't spank everytime but employ words and punishment as well. The truth is children have to know there is a limit and caning is one of the ways to set a limit.

Continue arguing Muslim this Christian that. The number of people that have been infected has increased. We are all at risk yet we the special breed of people in Nigeria are doing politics etc. When will we grow up culturally?

What of curses for false prophets or people who declare themselves to be holy men of God?

People like talking until the shoe is on their foot. If it was her brother that had been deceived by his wife, would she cry the same? It is easy to expect that a man should do xyz. At least take time to understand the emotional effect on the man and demonstrate some empathy. Nobody likes being deceived - Nobody.

This requires further investigation. What is her Instagram?

Does Femi realise that non alignment with the current government doesn't make one an enemy of the country?

Especially as from the common view, the enemies of the progress of this nation are most likely those tasked with ....

Why did she show? It is like a pot bellied man complaining that people are yabbing his nude pics after he uploaded them to social media.

Has NIN even be shared among all Nigerians? Do these people think about how their decisions affect government policy?

I don't get the complaints. I will not send my kids to this university because I don't agree with the way young adults are raised there. However parents that send their children there know the rules. You agreed to them before paying for school fees. The man didn't put a gun to your heads.

Nice advert

Could you post more info regarding the docking station? And what is price of it?

Some questions come to mind

What exactly has just been harvested?
Those bags look very clean. Farmers on NL - is this how harvested crops look like? They are gathered and the bags sealed on location?

This picture.... Hmm it looks more like a photo op.

Uyi213:
She is in school same school with Lady A but she works. Lady A doesn’t work and I had to open a beauty shop for her which ended in disaster on her part. Thanks

Is she close friends with Lady A or are they acquaintances? As some have said it should be a concern if they are close friends. The proverb says birds of the same feather flock together.

I remember when I was once smitten by the female sex and my mentor asked me a few questions about the lady and I realised that I knew nothing about her. Those questions saved me.

I don't know what you are looking for in the lady but be careful. You are a target with the way you have been spending.

MyGeneration:
To me invest now.

Naira is at an all time low because of covid and drop in oil price by next year when covid ends and naira starts rising ur money might not be as big as it is if u invest right now.

Naira start rising? Ehn? Which Naira?

Do not come back to Nigeria

GGirll:
This too happened to my cousin. He dated a girl n somehow she got pregnant n he didn't tell anyone out of fear,d girl stole his 400k to her mum n later her mum told him to do court wedding n finally he did court, trad n white wedding this year. Just yesterday I called him n he started telling me that d wife had been misbehaving, he goes to work n will come home to see no one only to call her n ask her whereabouts she wouldn't pick and always come home late like 10,11,12pm with d kid n he told my uncle since his dad is dead, d uncle called d girl cautioned her but it kept going on n on until he stated locking her out for 3 hours just to punishbher n make her stop but she kept on. He then called d mum n explained n still no change d laat time she did that n came home late she told him always she was at her mum's shop. He asked her if she wants him to open a ship for but she said no. As I type now. He came home one day n d girl had moved all her belongings n that of her child n had moved out. Now I asked him to change his door keys n probably relocate to cool off his brain n plan on d next line of action. I asked him is he's still in love with her n if he needs d child n if he can do DNA test in d child but he told he doesn't want both d child n d mum again in life. He told me how she poisoned his food d last time if not that he drove himself quickly to d hospital he would have been dead yet he forgave her n now they want to kill him n take all his properties. Pls I need your advise for him or someone should make this a new topic since I don't know how to post such thanks.

No hope for him except a brain transplant.

Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

First of all I wish you well. You are not the first person to date or marry the friend of their ex. Ignore the insults.

Secondly you didn't provide enough details about lady B. Is she in university? How have you ensured that mistakes made with lady A hasn't repeated.

Thirdly if you are worried about her, then that is another discussion. I have seen enough in life to know 1 plus 1 is not always 2.

Meanwhile in other news a group threatens violence over the term 'Black Friday' and the government said ....

North London is White and Blue. For those asking if Spurs have won the highest league title in England. Lol!! Don't worry Hungary were once the best team in Europe. Oh and yes at one time Spurs were the best team in England over a period of time.

apparentlylaw:
God knows even if I raise a child and I find out the child is not mine ..I would still accept ..children are blessings from GOD ...This man own too much sef

Why not wait and have kids then say what you would do. Hard to judge a person without being in their shoes.

This is how the madness starts. Power has entered some people's mind and they can't handle it.

Which animal will be used as excuse this time?

awesomeJ:
Read this

https://nairametrics.com/2020/11/25/cbn-governor-alleges-parallel-market-used-for-bribes-and-corruption/

I wonder why you will judge determine value of a currency by prices in a really shallow segment.


If you want to buy rice, and 19 shops are selling at 386 per kg, while only 1 shop sells at 480 per kg.

Does it make any sense for you to say "the price of rice is 480 per kg"?

Is he going after the banks? Using their cards and procuring online items indicates that they do not agree with the CBN governor.

Great for him.

Now he needs to learn from Bill Gates, Warren Buffet et al. Now he should focus on improving an aspect of the socio-economic environment in his area - Do charity work, help the less privileged.

A nation that produces crude oil should be proud that it is importing from a nation poorer than itself

Nigerian police are demoralised? They should imagine how normal civilians' morale is especially after being victims of the crimes of some of their members.

The police in my area are not demoralised. Perhaps because they didn't shut themselves off from their neighbours.

Doyin2:
Atiku the clown.Wants to be president at all cost

How does borrowing cause recession?.

Recession is caused by persistent decline in gross domestic product,that is productivity, not increase in borrowing Oga Atiku.

Neither does increase in cost of governance cause recession.

As a matter of fact,the more the government spend money,the less the effect of recession.

The best economists in the world could not have averted the recession due to factors beyond control: oil price and covid 19.

You are also wrong about some items. Government spending on the wrong things can lead to recession. Borrowing can lead to reduced spending by government as they have to focus on paying back the loan.

You are right about productivity. Government spending on the right stimulus to encourage local production is key.

I do not wish to throw out the baby with the bath water. Atiku has said some true things as well. For Nigeria to improve, one thing is clear Buhari and his cabinet must reduce the cost of governance. We cannot bear the twin burden of servicing the excessive salaries of the arms of government and debt. We must find a way of taxing the exclusive rich and being more strategic with our expenditure. Continuing the way we are going is only good for government officials in the short term. Every other person that is Nigerian and depends solely on income and business in this nation will suffer if the situation doesnt change.

Yenefer:
Every problem. Buhari Buhari. PDP ruled over this country for 16 years. Just because Buhari is from the North. They try so hard to make it look like he is not working to take us to the promised land. Buhari is the best president Nigeria ever had

Nigeria has had 4 recessions. 3 of them were under one man. 3!! That man is Buhari. History will record him as the worst economic President of Nigeria's first 60 years.

GreenSignet:
None of the clubs were big even when he won trophies with em. Inter was dying. Manchester wasn't good. Chelsea still retains Mourinho tactics. So should be continously be on trial over this false claim

Do not post false information. The only club that wasn't so big was Chelsea. Inter was consistently winning Serie A under Mancini just before Jose took over. How anyone can say Inter Milan was dying is shocking. They started dying after he left and Rafa took over.

Manchester United were big. You could argue that they were in a rebuild.

Mourinho is a pragmatic coach and someone I have respected since his days at Chelsea. Don't diminish his work. Inter brought him in to to win the CL. Chelsea brought him in to win the EPL. Real Madrid brought him in to win La Liga and improve their CL performance. Those were the days Real couldn't pass CL quarterfinals or second round. Lyon was their daddy. Manchester United brought him in to win EPL and CL. Tottenham have brought him in to win a trophy be it FA Cup, EPL, Europa. The club just wants a trophy.

babajero:
This is impersonation, you use someone's name, picture and still pretending to be him, not minding how porous crime has been in this country. Was he too ashamed to use his own picture and name that he chose to use another man's own or what is he trying to hide?.

How old are you? Parody accounts are known. The only mistake I see the accused making was not realising the petty nature of certain persons in Nigeria