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No one will come out to the Nigerian government because people are afraid to speak up to the government. Who will dare to do so with the behaviours demonstrated?

Let me see I have to choose between believing CNN who has standards for reporting news and believing a Nigerian government whose agencies reported that a snake swallowed monies. Let me not forget that Sanwo Olu and the military are yet to agree who summoned who.

I wonder who I will pick....

sabbiboi:
You answer these questions:

Is it wrong to get married to an 18 year old secondary school student?

Is it wrong for an 18 year old to have sex?

Do you know or not that sec school mature student have sex?

Hypocrisy everywhere

As long as the human being is above the age of maturity as determined by the law of the land, it is not legally wrong as long as the laws governing those actions are followed. That is clear.

Counter question - what is the proportion of secondary school students that are above the age of 17? Would you feel ok if your secondary school child has sex with an adult even if your child was 18 and above?

Regarding the use of the word Hypocrisy. Funny use of the word. I will assume it is a slip as inserting the word here means that you are accusing me doing the very activity I am saying is wrong.

This thread is wrong on so many levels. There are very few under 18 students in secondary school be it senior or junior. You need help and those that support this need help. Imagine your son or daughter in secondary school being lusted after by these persons.

I am wondering if you are incapable of successfully toasting women above 18 years old. This thread is wrong and if there is a sex crimes division in Nigeria, they should go after you.

Wrt foreign investments, one thing I like is that they force our businesses to evolve. Nigeria has a way to go commercially and industrially. At times I feel our capability in those areas is getting worse.

This is plain 'see finish'. You disrespecting your marriage for what? sex? excuses to leave her because she is loyal? Go and read Proverbs and learn. Adultery is a fire that will burn you.

Ok. It is very clear that the man in the OP has achieved what he set out to do. Continue feeding the 'troll'.

First be sure that she stormed out for the reasons you stated. If indeed she did, then thank God that you dodged a bullet. A wedding is the first time a couple works together to deliver a project. Walking out during a discussion is a no-no and is a form of emotional blackmail. That is an immature way of behaving.

You already know the right thing to do. Stop being weak. Resist the devil and he shall flee. Stay away and find something else to distract you.

I hope he is joking. I havent forgotten his links with match fixing and that weird goal against Scotland pre-WC 2014.

**shakes head**

What is this life coming to?

The baby will block your path to working for offshore company? How? You didnt think of this before having unprotected sex with the girl? After you used sweet words to entice her into your bed and taste what you have to give her?

Son - go get a job so you can take care of your future child. Who knows - he/she may be the saviour of Nigeria..

What is the cowrywise rate now? My wife is interested in it. If it is a personal investment app, I am not so thrilled as I handle my own investment.

Sewgon79:
Don't accusé someone without an evidence.

What is the accusation? What is the lie?

Too easy to blame the thread opener. At times our actions are what cause trouble for us. Yes the OP did wrong but the seeds of those wrongs were sown in the sister's actions. Way forward - I don't know.

Hotfreez:
Before he became the Ooni, he owned and built the Inagbe resort.

He has been a multi-billionaire before he became the Ooni. His company handled multi-billion projects in the Lekki corridor. He stepped down when he became the Ooni.

Stop allowing poverty to make you see the good life as only being possible through public funds. If you see Obat, you would commit suicide out of jealousy.

Yes he is also one of the directors of the company behind the SouthPointe / Golden Leaf crap where people lost their monies and investment. Multibillionaire before becoming Ooni - don't make me laugh. In another society, he would be in court.

LMAO. He didn't use JuJu to fly out ...

The only thing I will say is 'Pay yourself first'. If you understand that then you are on the pathway to freedom.

lilmax:
He said his wife is a born again Christian

I ignored that part. The behaviour doesn't show that hence I treated it as falsehood. Person can't be born again if they are unfaithful.

Confront her about it. By the way also realise that trust is gone. It can't be recovered without years of rebuilding. However confront her first. Deleting number and social media doesn't mean chin chin. He has her details already.

Wisdom is profitable. In all cases I inform my wife as she is my partner and close confidant. If it is a gift, it goes to both mums. If it is something else, we deal with it. Your wife is the person you married as your helper. If you are with a good wife, you trust her 100%.

Husband needs to step up. I can't imagine my sisters trying this stuff in my home. Even the attempt to boycott me will be laughed off!

I have only read the first page but my advice is to check her. I have a feeling that she is unfaithful to you.

When I married my wife I said something regarding slapping and physical violence to her. The moment it happens I am leaving the house and the marriage. To beat someone is to first view the person as a lower human than you and then secondly to believe that you are justified in using force.

To the OP either you or her must leave the house. In a marriage we train one another to accept or reject certain behaviour. If slapping is accepted, what is next?

Two wrongs never make a right. What she did was very wrong but I would never recommend hitting another human unless your life was at stake or at risk. The beating suggests something about how the marriage is perceived by both parties.

Admitting there is a problem is the first step. Discuss with your wife. It will surprise you that she wants to tell the sister similar thing. I am also sure the lady knows what she is doing.

ignore

Still available?

How much last?

Hmmm I tell my wife the investments quarterly o. She knows the difference between available money and locked up money.

The monies are locked up - I aint letting them out (Akon). The only thing now is request of holidays for the children outside Nigeria. No thank you.

Jennypharb1:
Good morning guys, I'm a novice at treasury bills and want to invest about 3.6m. I went to Zenith bank and they offered me 10.5% for 91days on the secondary market. However when they did their calculations I saw that I would only be getting about 97k because they would be dividing by 365days. Is this normal? I thought that I would be getting 250 to 300k at the least? Is this how other banks work?

Formula is simple. Interest = Principal x Rate (in %) x Time (in years) X 0.01.

Use this to check.