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The truth has started coming out.

Two of them are wrong.

Xiaomi is better. Do some research.

Let me know when you invite Sheikh Gumi or Pantami over their statements.

NwaAmaikpe:




An innocent heart fears no accusation.
My Bible tells me that the guilty run when no one is chasing.

As a man of truth, he should honour the police's invitation and hear them out. If there is a mix-up in the allegations levelled against him, then it's in his place to set them straight because the Igbos have a saying, "A fu okwu, a fu osisa".

It's not fair, we need to pity the President and put ourselves in the position of our leaders.
There are too many of us running away and hoping for this administration to end.

If everybody runs away, who will they now govern?
Who?

Are you joking? There is no enforced justice in Nigeria unless you can pay for it.

If he said this, then the man is unwise. A person in his position should know the value of wisdom.

1. He is meant to be apolitical. That position is not meant for political talk.

2. It shows the lack of depth of his understanding of the issues. The problem with Nigeria is not just Buhari. The problem is far wider than the former general.

I really hope he didn't say this. Nigeria is suffering but he should not be the one to make this comment.

One side of me says she is looking for a reason for conflict in the relationship.

Eddodoh:
Can u do this job? Is it advisable to continue wit dis job?

I am stuck & afraid to quit.
I am a graduate but decided to take dis job early last year when nothing was forthcoming.

Work where u earn 12k, n most times u don't get to collect d amount complete. U collect 3k or 5k after deduction of shorts & I.O.U. cos u don't even get paid at d end of d month.

Salary is usually not paid at d end of month but second month. Maybe mid or towards ending of d other month.
Bills piling up & always broke. 1year + on d job but nothing to show for it.

Work from Monday to Sunday. Resume b4 8am & close by 8:30pm or 9pm.

It's being very challenging & I felt I should share to get some advice.

Unless you are gaining experience for some future activity leave this job. Seek some other job e.g. lesson teacher

This is not the time for this. This screams to the high heavens of distraction and divisive tactics. Ignore his rantings and rather review his performance.

She went to arrest someone with 80k in her wallet? A lot of questions are running through my mind. Was she there before the other police arrived? Was she the only one stripped naked? Is that her normal patrol? Questions boku o

Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

Nothing will happen to you. The harvest of her actions have shown up. If she felt no wahala with her past she would have mentioned it to her bobo. Thanks for looking out for your neighbour. Ignore those saying the curse will land - they are free to take all of it.

Druss:
Where do we lose more money; corruption or investments in cryptocurrencies? What next? They will crack down on Trove, Bamboo etc because people use it to buy foreign stocks?

Looks like I was right!!!

Just how many weeks and people can't control themselves? I don't get it.

engrchykae:
CIA and covert operations.
People are not seeing the role USA is playing in these games,but hausas think they are fighting to get Sharia but USA is doing business and also destabilizing Nigeria with their terrorists stooge.
They planted isis in the middleeast and openly backed isis against syrian government.
They openly backed terrorists to overthrow gaddafi.

Your enemies are not external but internal. Deal with them and this nation will see progress. External forces can do nothing without traitors.

It is inappropriate behaviour. It wasn't necessary for him to touch there. Sexual harassment is difficult to prove in Naija cycle. This is behaviour unbecoming of a lecturer.

EvangelistChuks:
we don’t tempt God ok,but by mistake I take ,it transforms to nutrients in my system. No case is a lost case to Physician Jesus for it was for such HARD CASES
He left His majestic throne. Don’t let people or pastors deceive you because they have a form of godliness but lacks the essence that give a new life. REGENERATION OF THE HEART MY BROTHER IS TRUE ,AM A WITNESS.WHY WILL I LIE TO YOU.DID I TELL YOU TO GIVE ME MONEY.

Son, this is not the time. Respect people's grief. DMX got addicted through no fault of his. His battles with addiction are well chronicled for those who know where to look for them.

Let us grieve. A great man has fallen.

RIP DMX. A generation grew up listening to you as your style and energy carved out a following.

Played your songs for my kids. May memory of you not pass away.

My heart and my feet shall miss you. May the Lord have mercy on your soul. At least you shall meet your Grandma.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2Ro2Dipr08

My favourite song was 'I Miss You' - his convo with his grandma.

Rhesusmonkey:
Who else noticed that this SERAP is as useless as the P in the word "psychology" always suing and issuing ultimatums all the time yet nothing to show for it........

They are 'useless' because we the people are useless.

Something is wrong with this type of South African pastors and those who follow them.

He without sin should cast the first stone.

I pray that you forgive yourself and go and sin no more.

I can't answer unless I know what the lady was going through. Easy to judge without knowing the full story.

Also know that I would be asking HR some questions. Phone etiquette can be trained into a person. Surely she was selected for more than her ability to answer a phone.

Parties are based on the people in them. Nigeria lacks proper well meaning intelligent politicians!!

Any man that chooses beauty over brain tends to regret it especially successful men. Let me clarify this - there are many qualities that make a woman. If the woman is totally lacking in brains, avoid her. Especially if all she promises is physical beauty with no brains. I read somewhere that the mother determines the intelligence of the kids.

Now for those that have brains, it is often the presence of some other factor aside from beauty e.g. attitude, disloyalty, uncleanness etc that will cause men to run away.

Before anyone gets their knickers in a twist, there is no proof that this is true.

That said, cheating is wrong and there is no excuse including the yeye one of 'He is a man'. Are we animals? Do we lack self control?

Waterlrd:
No , he is not brave neither sensible.
All the common sense he used was bought in the police station with #20k.........
That is too bad.

Let me give him one more hint before he will become a victim of his own weakness.

Op, you can now go back to police station and make official complain and submit the recovered money & the phone as an evidence to your complaint , so that the said girl will pay for her crime by paying you all you lost on the process including your #20k to the police guys who sold you the idea in the first place.

If you didn't, the girl may go & sue you for harassment & snatching of her phone & money.

Remember, she didn't steal your money.
You willingly gave her your pin & perhaps she has been withdrawing from same acc which makes it joint acc .

I agree that the route he took leaves him open to counter arrest. However she stole the money. Knowledge of PIN doesn't mean one can't steal. It is not a joint account neither did he give her permission. He also has proof on her phone.

Speaking of which, how did he get access to her phone? Does he know her PIN also? OP, that is a crime by the way unless you bought that phone for her and you can claim you collected it back.

How did she get an IPhone 11pro? And still needed to scam you of money?

Did you buy it for her? Or did an 'uncle'?

I read this thread and I weep for the reasoning of people.

Ok he gave her the PIN. Does that immediately translate into being robbed? It is even the ladies that are insulting OP that puzzle me - you want a man who will trust you yet here is one who trusted a girl, and got scammed. Instead of calling out the girl that did wrong you are insulting the guy, think long term. When I was younger, my parents used to keep money in the house and tell me about it. Apparently some of you will interpret that as an opportunity to rob your parents. Telling her his PIN was a sign of trust and what did she do - I am sure OP will never trust any lady with it again. Me, my wife has my PIN. There may be a time when there is emergency and I am mentally or physically unavailable.

To those who said it is payback for the good time. What? Are relationships prostitution rackets now? Is it only the man who has a good time? Do females require payment by money for relationship? That is pure materialism and it leads no where.

@OP I am just seeing this thread and have seen where you were successful at tracking the lady. The only advice I would give is to be careful with girl friends. There are some well brought up ones; e.g. I had a girl who I could leave with a spare house key - nothing bad happened. The fact that this one could willing put hard earned money in a Ponzi means that she is not on the same financial intelligence level with you. That is a major flaw talkless of the lack of morality.

Sad to see them leave. They opened and inspired others to come.

saphiere:
https://www.thenationonlineng.net/i-feel-like-raping-any-girl-that-comes-my-way

20 year old boy

He needs mental checking and flogging.

marylandcakes:
Meghan’s crime was being mixed race and marrying a royal prince. She never stood a chance. I was naive to think that Kate or the other royals would take her under their wings and teach her the ropes. The best decision Harry took was removing her from a toxic environment.

The royal family is classist and not racist. There is zilch proof that they are racist. But then I recall Harry wearing a Nazi uniform for 'fun'.

goltokka:
Would you have chosen he stayed with the royals and see his wife suffers ? How do you guys think?

What was she suffering? Plow through the words she has said and state what she suffered.

What she didn't realise is that being a royal family member means that she has duties and duty trumps anything else. The expectations were she would behave in line with the royal family. She couldn't accept that. She couldn't accept that she would be second fiddle forever to William and Kate. And even worse if William were to die, it is not Harry that would be king - it would be William's son.

That woman has ambition. She expected to eat her cake and have it. Funny thing is no matter what Harry does - he will be accepted back. Meghan has fought her father, fought her half sister and the only family she has left is her mum. In fact that was the only member of her family who came for her wedding.

Beremx:
Seems the British Monarchy will end soon. I see massive protest looming.

Just my thoughts

Protest about a one sided narrative? What this is - is an attempt to publicly emotionally blast the Royal family. The Royal Family will give a short response and move on.

The English monarchy is going nowhere. Better worry about the useless leaders we have in this nation. The English monarchy has led that little island to be an empire bigger than any other and still has clout. Nigeria's leaders are still clinging to old ways of breeding and taking care of cattle.