₦airaland Forum

Jadeng:

You are saying the truth...
But things happen.. unplanned things happen, unexpected things show up.
When you lead people, you MUST learn to put yourself in their shoes.

What happen to joining them first and scolding them later or even in the course of the service ??

"ALL THE PATHS OF THE LORD ARE MERCIES AND TRUTH"
Mercies always go before truth !

Read your Bible well please.

I pray for God to open your eyes !

God bless you.

Depends. Typically people behave like this when there is no information getting to them about what is causing the delay. If the delay was due to serious reasons, I doubt the pastor would behave like this. And I personally doubt it was 5 mins.. especially with the way people lie about how close they are to a mutual meeting point.

She came only 5 mins late. If it was a million dollar deal appointment, will she be late after being warned that being late would cancel the deal?

Also way to go with writing the story to arouse anger against the pastor. I personally doubt it was 5 mins. Pastors are also human beings.

Esseite:
Atiku is just chasing clout... CBN took the best decision.

Unregulated Crypto currency is a lazy investment that tilts more on outflow of FX rather than inflow.. it is death sentence to import dominated countries.

E.g- I buy bitcoin with N10m that would be domiciled in source Nation(not Nigeria).. if it rises in 1 year by maybe 10%, I may have gained 1m as an individual, but I have starved my country economy of recycling my 10m if it was domiciled in a Nigerian bank or invested into the society which could have produced more than 10% while creating jobs.. note as an import dominated nation, the chance of loosing that 1m as another escaped forex is 95% on foreign goods while 5% I may spend on local food.

The Nigerian greed for small margins has blinded a lot of people, imagine Crypto currency trading far beyond your indigenous Stock exchange and some feel it's okay

Where do we lose more money; corruption or investments in cryptocurrencies? What next? They will crack down on Trove, Bamboo etc because people use it to buy foreign stocks?

Man is silly. He didn't need to inform the wife before doing the test. They should both go siddon inside gutter.

If true, the mother has a case to answer before God. God gave children as a responsibility to parents to raise in the right way.

Rugaria:
Foreign oil majors have ripped Nigeria apart for over 6 decades! These are companies that have sponsored coups and wars in Nigeria but Nigerians don't know. Their presence here is the main reason the NNPC is an eyesore. Most of these oil companies, together with their home governments are responsible for sponsoring Nigerias war machine during the Nigeria-Biafra war and have different secret agreements with the army officers that played major roles in that war. This explains why western countries prefer brutal dictators masquerading as democrats to hold sway in Nigeria. Most of the joint venture agreements favor the foreign companies! Half of whatever Nigeria earns from oil in a day goes to these companies! Irekefe panel in the early 80s established the fact that in most pump stations, there are no metering of any sort. Essentially, oil companies will load oil into oil tankers and then quote figures to the Nigerian government through the ever comatose NNPC!

This only happens in Nigeria! Not even in Kuwait or Libya will this happen.. Countries basically under western control! Part of the reason why western governments only make "silent noises" about government brutality in Nigeria is because of this reason! They need brutal tyrants to hold down restive youths so the oil companies can suck dry! A CIA report once stated that an African country produces more than double the amount of oil that is declared on daily basis! And that can only be Nigeria, since the report came before Angola joined oil exploration big time. Let's not go into deliberate environmental degradation unleashed by these evil imperialist companies on poor oil communities.., it's the worst in the whole wide world! I just hope that someday in our lifetime, a very hot headed president will take the fight to this oil companies for recruiting the worst of our kind, making them rulers over us and using their greed and lust for power to loot a generation bare..

Emotional BS without proof

You must have watched the clean version. The ones I saw left little to the imagination

Lawalemi:
Always stealing from another country

Can you steal your own property?

brainiac228:
Aside Trading 212 which other app can I use for trading that is effective?

I use Bamboo for US stocks

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WeYsTmIzjkw

This song fits the IGP

Guy, forgive her and move on with your life. It may seem painful but move on. God has someone better planned for you.

Note the above only applies if you are a better person so don't stop advancing physically, intellectually and spiritually.

Godoverevery:
lol no need for the long sermon....... so of all food in this world is just indomie bread and egg
bro is just basic common sense only girls who don't no how to cook make this fast meal....

Only foolish people see cooking as slavery...is only ladies that can cook that see it as slavery...I guess you have a mother (maybe it was your dad that did the cooking).lol

You need to elevate your mind. Slavery is the behaviour exhibited by the nigga. In fact nigga is the right term. I am a guy and I don't see how the above should cause a break up unless other things dey my mind. The slavery here is expecting the girl to know his mind and to do his whim unless she would be punished.

Cooking is not slavery. Funny thing is I don't allow girls to cook for me when they first come to my house. It is me that does the cooking. I only expect her to cook if i get to her place and rest assured my hands will not be empty if I am headed there. And yes my father cooks as does my mother. I cook as does my wife. And my son and daughter who are yet to be teenagers are also picking up on cooking. You dig? As said you need to elevate your mind and pass that message to your 'nigga'.

The ability to protect and provide for her needs and those of her offspring

Sixfeetbelle:
I hardly taste what I cook.

In general, I'm not immediately hungry after making any meal. I will serve others first and then serve mine like thirty minutes later.

Same here I am least hungry after I have finished cooking. I am most hungry after someone else has finished cooking.

Godoverevery:
You don't see anything wrong in spending 4k on buying bread,egg,indomie, sardine for just weekend

if we call most of you fish brain you think we hating......If you are too daft to know he gave her money to cook a proper meal then you should stfu... weekends are meant for cooking proper meal dummy.

What is her usefulness if she can only cook noodles and fry egg...... something the guy can even cook himself...nawa oooo

Don't worry. Y'all should go marry a mind reader. He wanted to break up with her already. This excuse is rubbish. I can't even imagine someone doing this to my sister. I can't even imagine the conversation

Me: What happened?
Sis: Boyfriend broke up with me because I didn't cook the food he wanted
Me: Why didn't you cook the food he wanted?
Sis: He gave me 4k and said I should use to buy what we would eat
Me: Then?
Sis: I used it to buy some food items
Me: Did he tell you what he wanted to eat?
Sis: No
Me: Let me understand this. He gave you 4 thousand naira, didn't tell you what he wants to eat and said you should cook food. He then broke up because it wasn't his type of food?
Sis: Yes, now that you put it that way. There is something wrong
Me: Yes he was looking for any excuse. Imagine if y'all married. Ordinary 4k is reason to break up. 4k!! Let him go marry a slave.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

Reminds me of my nigga..

His babe came around...

He gave her 4k to cook what they will eat..

The gyal used the entire money to buy eggs bread, indomie sardine and tea things...

The nigga ended the relationship there and then...

The nigga is confused and I am a guy. Did he tell her what he wanted to eat? Is the woman a mind reader? Not that she stole the money o. She used it to buy food that he didn't tell her that he didn't want to eat. Dude is not ready for marriage. He should go get a slave.

If that is the case, they should swear allegiance to the local existing ruler not create fiefdoms of their own. The Seriki should report to the local chief.

Also they lost their history within 60 years? Doesn't make sense. That is less than 2 generations.

matm:
Attack in any form is condemnable.But then again,remember we are not like western nations.
Stop immitatng their lifestyle.
If u want to do exercise,engage in manual labor,farming or compound cleaning.Thats a rigorous exercise of our forefathers that made them live long.
If u must jog,do it in a field tks to govt schools who still have fields here and there but in d day time.
Jogging on d street and along d road in Nigeria is risky .A keke or motorcycle can send u to d nethwerworld.Even a hungary angry guy can elbow u into d gutter and run away and u will lose half of ur teeth

You need to elevate your mind. There is no excuse for this attack in whatever culture. It has nothing to do with imitating culture.

Restore street lights

A family member tried it but apparently some of them are refusing to pay even after completion and submission of the forms.

I don't believe him. We had issues with access to onshore fields yet we were racking in billions for federal sharing. Where were the billions coming from? That 260million per year can't be correct.

I just searched on Google for further info. One particular facility is sized for 220kbopd. Let's say it does 150kbopd. That is 55m barrels in a year - one field. We have over 5 deepwater facilities in offshore Nigeria. Cost of oil has been on average above 40 dollars per barrel (not bothered to fully calculate). The mathematics and economics don't add up. Royalty are often above 50%.

I call this Bullshit!!

Yampotatocarrot:
They didn't even understand NwaAmaikpa was talking in sarcasm... The guy is just too good, seems they don't know him in Nairaland

Sarcasm is often difficult to detect. This one was clear though and poking fun at the OP

Better tell your brother. Do to others what you would want them to do to you. How can you even ask this question? Are you a kid? Is it until YOU are accused of stealing? Actually you are an accomplice.

Also for you to be emotional about correcting this, I am led to assume that you are sleeping with the lady or enjoy something sexual with her. You need a very heavy reset.

Irresponsible by Festus and co. No masks.

anonymous1759:
There's no covid in Nigeria. Stop believing that falacy. If covid is real in Nigeria we would have been all dead . Visit all the markets ,clubs , churches, during Edo and Ondo Election plus End SARS.

Note : cases of covid started sky rocketing after that Minister of health started dishing out lies of the second wave . After that two Governors went into isolation suddenly they want to impose another lockdown stylishly because of money .
If student across the Nation allow these old thieves to tie them down for 3 months in the name of lockdown and greed their business. After ASUU strike for 10 months.

Don't be foolish. Be grateful that you don't know anyone who has it. I know of at least 10 people who have had it - working class people. It does exist in Nigeria.

ashala:
Lol, this reminds me of a movie I watched so many years ago.

Exactly like what happened here, one guy was making advances at a particular girl who declined because she had a boyfriend who was also treating her with utmost disdain.

Despite how badly this girl's boyfriend treated her, she still loved him. This continued until he got her pregnant and abandoned her.

This girl out of heartbreak went to abort the baby and nearly died in the process. While on her sick bed, with tears in her eyes she called the other guy who had been trying to win her over and he rushed to her side like king Arthur, ready to slay 100 dragons for her.

The Mugu took her in, spent a lot of money and nursed her back to health. After some months, the old boyfriend started disturbing her, telling her that he wanted her back.

Believe it or not, this girl left the Mugu that was there for her during her trying times and moved back to the abusive boyfriend.

Any lesson learnt

Last American Virgin? I watched that film and the memory is still up there. Took me a lot to trust females again after that film.

If she drops you for him based on this latest occurrence, go and thank GOD that you dodged a bullet.

You want to feel like a hero right? Like you are saving her from the evils and trauma of her upcoming marriage?

Maifren slap yourself to reality and get rid of your 'Captain Save-a-hoe' complex. Girl is playing with you. We, men, like to feel subconsciously that we are problem solvers and this lady is taking advantage of that to make you feel good.

She is saying what she thinks will get you all interested in her and keep you wanting to service her.

Better flee from her and tell her that her touches are irritating you. But then I expect a grown up man to know this unless he is lying to himself.

amdman:
Download the Bamboo app, join their telegram group where you will learn to trade in US stocks, start trading.

Thank me by succeeding at it.

What is their telegram group

This is wrong

The people buying the rail lines should be dealt with as well.

AsiwajuNdigbo:
Clinton is a good example. He was indicted and censured. Till date that baggage follows his wife. Three times she attempted a run for presidency and rejected. The indiscretion of her husband always come up.

There was another presidential candidate from carolina that was also knocked off due to infidelity. Several governors have been forced into resignation due to infidelity.

The simple rule is no society will accept this type of scandal without a rejection.

This is the kind of scandal that sells nollywood movies. It is abhoring and a society taboo.

The reason Hilary didn't win the presidential election was because she isn't liked. It is not because of Bill's actions. She has been in other political positions and people didn't like her because of what they had seen.