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Yes. It is wrong.

It is a setup. She is not happy your bro spent that money on you and she wants you out of the way.

Very wrong behaviour by both of you.

This is a juvenile thread. I predict in 5 more years, the OP will change her mind.

Get her a driver. It is cheaper than the woman's expenses i.e. the woman you want to fvuck

You sure you no dey do lesbian runs??

RUN!!! FLEE FROM HER!! She seeks to destroy your family!

chronique: Gosh!!! Why I stopped visiting this section and other social networks frequently so as to stop reading about all these infidelity on the part of women as it seems to be escalating daily. The stories I've been reading have been affecting me somehow and making me see almost every girl as a potential cheat. Today that I mistakenly stumbled on this section again,what stares me in the face is a thread on infidelity. I'm not the one you cheated on but I know how I'm feeling and just feel for the dude you're hurting. And I guess you're one of the many chicks I'd meet in public and possibly start liking... What's your excuse for cheating if I may ask? If your guy had done this to you,I'm sure all hell would have been let loose. Now that you're the culprit,you're tryna advice people to lower their views on infidelity to a level that you're comfortable with... I guess you want all of us to go and cheat too so we can understand your predicament and not judge because we've done it. You're like a bad student who has failed and you're giving excuses why you failed. The bible says "judge not that ye may not be judged" but you judged others before. Now that it's your turn,you're trying to soften things... Let me tell you what people with dignity do. They judge themselves with the same standard/measure they use for others,accept responsibility,take the insults that follows,tender unreserved apologies and learn from it. If truly you got any discipline and dignity in you,what you ought to do is report yourself to your man and ask for forgiveness. If he accepts,fine. If not,see it as the price you have to pay for being irresponsible. But telling him you need space when he has done you no wrong,is deciet. You're not being sincere and that not fair.

Same here. Too much infidelity.

It has happened already so all this is medicine after death but I must say it. You didn't do well at all. You knew the signs, saw them and thought you were strong enough. You relied on your own strength thinking you were on top meanwhile the more experienced predator is laughing inwardly knowing his plans are working. To ladies, there is a high potential of the grass being greener on the other side.

Go forth and sin no more. I do not believe in making peace with people by telling them how I have wronged them. It would cause too much trouble.

Etisalat are ruing the day they let this bobo go all for a measly 20 million naira. People don port o!!

I wonder what happened to

"For better or worse, In illness and health" ..

Both parties disgusted me in this episode. Very unprofessional of both. I wonder who would want to be interviewed by these clowns again. The show was meant for education and not ridicule!

This is true for anything contained in plastic. BE very careful with such. When I buy CWAY or pseudoCWAY canisters, I avoid buying those in the sun. IF anything is left in the heat and it is contained in a plastic container, then I avoid it!!

Not long after GEJ announces that Nigeria is safe for international investment, the INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT GETS ROBBED!! Am I bothered? NO!! Na una vote GEJ in!!

It depends a lot on the persons.

[quote author=Hour_Glass]Welcome to the thread, I hope you are doing this for yourself and you alone..

What is your height sir?[/quote]5ft 10

[quote author=ekt_bear]Hot damn.

White girls with azz. Wetin man go see[/quote]You call that shapeless thing - azz ..

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TotalFinaElf. Sort out your keyboard!

Repubocrat: Thanks for the reply.

My currency conversion was a little faulty. The guys I was talking about in my previous post were asking for 15million naira. I mistook 15million naira for $90k, but it's actually about a $100k, so you're right.  Nevertheless, that's mad cash for an entry level position.

That is more than what employees with a few years experience earn in Shell. Is that before or after tax by the way?

IT is not a bad idea. By the time he is fully into it .. He would earn more than 50000 per month. 50000 is just less than 2000 naira per day. Are you telling me you cant make 2000 naira profit per day?

It is not too late. Dont marry the young girl. She is not matured and will drive you to an early grave.

Let me give you a try

Weight - 122kg
Age - 30

Normal weight - 98kg

Key worries - work routine. Have limited free time except on weekends.

Did it once and regretted it. It depends on the lady. Some have a shiite heart and such stuff often reminds you why you ran from them.

Sealeddeal: the petrol subsidy removal is an effort in right direction.it will help to remove the obvious inequality/discrimination that govt has so far shown to the poor.Petrol subsidy is something that govt placed to enrich the rich and further leave the poor to die.
Equally,the subsidy regime has successfully resisted the direct private investment in major sector in oil and gas industry.the removal of subsidy will help to attract investment in those sector and facillitate the effective management of oil/gas industry while creating enormous jobs..the petrol subsidy removal will help to cover the loop holes in oil/gas industry to great extent. The removal of petrol subsidy will increase the price of petrol but which will definitely reduce as time goes on. President Goodluck Jonathan has shown that he is a strong leader but is very cautious. I strongly support the removal of petrol subsidy.

Sorry - you think the rich will suffer more than the poor if subsidy is removed? LWKMD!! The only reason we are underdeveloped is we are a corrupt nation!! GEJ is NOT A STRONG LEADER!!

warrior01: most filling stations in lagos sell pms btw 110-120 unless you don't really live in lagos

Bullcrap!! From Marina to Lekki to Surulere - I have never bought for more than 97.5 naira. Unless something has changed since Sunday.

Bukkyade: I will be very glad if this subsidy is finally removed. I understand it is stalling development of the oil sector and causing serious hardship on Nigerians.
Even with the subsidy thing, some areas still buy fuel as much as 140 a liter. So what's the difference?
It's better we remove it and reap from the benefits of deregulation that it has to offer rather than keep postponing doomsday.

The fuel subsidy is not stalling the development of anything. The only thing is government want to reduce its responsibility to the Nigerian people. Unfortunately they have not realised for this thing to work - the standard of living in Nigeria has to rise higher. Government has to prepare a workable and viable vision for the future, sell that vision to Nigerians and other stakeholders and implement it.

The current leadership has shown they lack the integrity, communication skills and will to do such!

ochukoccna: I'm buying fuel for 110 naira already in Lagos

Where from? I have never bought for above 97.5 naira in Lagos.

sanchez4eva: When I wrote that they are laughing at our bank accounts you took everything personal..It's a simple fact that most of us are just hating on them....we Don't know their history or how they suffered before they made it..just because we were lucky enough to go to school doesn't make us better..

It is quite funny that you assume that people are hating on someone because they are pointing out flaws which someone has. If you go far enough down the history of music, you would find bards and classical music composers. These guys were knowledgeable not only in music but were also enlightened. What we have today are intellectual-lazy people who seem to be chasing only money. Perhaps that explains why many do not last that long or achieve true greatness.

If Fela had been asked that question, I am sure he would have scored well and you can tell from his music that he has a solid command of the language he is singing in. Celebrity status is often given in this modern world for flimsical reasons. I know people that know people and the people you refer to as celebs - Good luck. If those are who you consider - I laff. You have a long way to go.

Tintinix: I always recall that we had two live in 'aunties' or aunty and uncle in our home up until secoundary school!
This did not stop my mom from waking up every morning at 3-4am, a habit she is finding very hard to break many years on and none of her kids are at home with her (infact my dad barricades her from leaving the bed somedays), and this did not stop us her kids from having morning duties from a tender age.
When the stress of these aunties and uncles eventually caught up with all of us in the house we asked our mom to send them back and never to get anyone again, that we didnt see what they were doing for us!
Now i know (as a mom) that that decision was not a light one for her to have taken , but yes she made it, and we lived as a nuclear family for more than 15 years till i left home,
How did we manage; I and my sister exchanged kitchen and house chores weekly. My Mom bore the brunt of our learning curve, but in a year we started pursing her from her kitchen until the food is cooked, and she comes to serve, they ate enough salt and burnt food initially, but everytime the food made small sense.

Now years on all the maids (even the ones from so called agencies and all above 19 years) have to be seriously trained because they all dont know how to work!
I see myself repeating the same errands daily, they cannot handle multi tasking ( i.e. after this do that, they will forget the that) or just think on their own! and so you have to ask for the most minute and obvious thing to be seen and done. This is not because i cannot do them, but because they should just reason as a human being, i teach them how to do that too.
However i notice that as human beings too, when it comes to their own personal needs, like their salaries, their food, personal care, looking good before we leave home, bathing time they know just what they are doing....

So when i see critisism generalizing all Nigerian working mothers as lazy, i just shrug..I AM HARD WORKING, I LOVE my family, but i realize that their is sense in having minders run around with the kids, watch them ( though they cannot watch them more than us the parents) infact i am always watching the minder and the kids.
Now i realize the wisdom in my parents advise, that the most crucial ages for the kids and your sanity is actually from the toddler to about 8 or 9 years. After then we will restructure.

Not all Nigerian working mothers are lazy. I feel you on the intelligence aspect. My wife's maid can be so slow when doing things and doesnt hear well but when it comes to food and salary - forget it, Albert Einstein Part 2 don land.

I love the sarcasm!! I was chuckling but yes we mistreat our helps in Nigeria.