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My advice to you

- Are you sure you are mentally able to take care of this woman? You make decisions and get angry too quickly

Thank GOD - it all worked out. Treat her with care and get matured. No rich man wastes money - Poor people do!

Ujujoan:
There you go again, maing baseless conclusions. In Nigeria this  . .  in Nigeria that!

John Terry was fired cos he slept with his team mates wife abi? But in that same country, the president dedicated a whole month to homosexuals! What does that tell you? One is acceptable and the other is not! _{Besides I cant believe you'd actually compere that with this} 

In Nigeria homosexuality is considered a crime  . . but every hotel you step into, you are confronted with married men having fun with their concubines! I assume they are free to do it since it's not a crime abi? Or wait, marrying a second wife is 'morally' right? According to your standard - the bible? This is what I mean by hypocrisy! You are talking about Nigerian culture which condemns one and approves the other, and then you turn aroung and quote the bible where it suits you!

I pay no attention whatsoever to the Nigerain culture which is myopic and discriminatory in nature!

And YES by my standard, homosexuality is not wrong and so is sex with one partner - Afterall, both parties consented to it and nobody cheated on the other!

This case is obviously prejudiced against her sexual preference. If the woman's ( her boss)  daughter were a son I'm, sure she wouldnt have minded. She even had the guts to call her a pervert just because she's gay!

I dont know where you come from but where I come from, I can comfortably date my boss's son without the risk of being fired.

My primary concern is that you are not reading my words and you are assuming many things about me. Even worse you are ascribing words I didnt say to me.

I have never approved of the culture in Nigeria of men cheating on their wives or women cheating on their husbands. It is self destructive.

John Terry is British not American. The inference there is if someone can be dealt with heterosexual affairs in the office how much more for homosexual affairs.

My standard is the Bible and not Nigeria. According to the Bible, homsexuality, fornication and adultery are sins. So IMHO they are not things I approve of. I am not a PC person. I dont give a damn about what society deems right or wrong. My standard is simple - GOD's word! Am I perfect? NO!!

I discussed in my post what my inferences are regarding why the woman made the decision.

I have told you - obviously the woman feels homosexuality is wrong - hence the decision to fire the girl and to keep her from influencing her daughter.  Afterall from the poster's own mouth she led the girl back into practicing it!

Ujujoan:
Please spare us the 'nitty gritty' of the immorality of homosexualism!

People like you are bound by the chains of your own hypocisy. What you think is immoral is not what is actually immoral! And I wasn't suggesting Obama should be you standard for morality, I just thought you should know that it is not a crime to be gay!

Homosexality might be considered a sin/sacriledge against in the eyes of God but so is adultery and fornication. But you dont see people losing their job cos they has per-marital sex!

Personally, I dont care how moral the act itself is, what I do care about is the fact that she was fired for something that is not a crime!

Secondly, she did nothing wrong by dating her bosses' dauther. People marry their bosses' children all the time here in Nigeria so I dont really see your point there!

In Nigeria homosexuality is regarded as a crime. By your standards homosexuality is not immoral - that is your standard. I will not harp on about your standard.

I have in no way condoned adultery and fornication and neither will I condone homosexuality. That is my standard and GOD's. As per people losing jobs for adultery and fornication, I disagree. It has happened - It happens and it will continue to happen. Fvck with the wrong person and you will lose your job. I have seen people lose their jobs for hints talkless of actual occurences. John Terry lost his position as captain because he slept with his mates' wifey.

You have labelled me an hypocrite just for me calling lesbianism wrong. How can a man be an hypocrite for calling lesbianism wrong? Quit using emotional impulses in an illogical way.

By the boss's standard homosexuality is wrong. She has sacked the lady for that reason and because she feels she is a bad influence on her daughter. We have no indication of what has been done to the daughter. For all we know she might have sent the girl to a nunnery or disciplined her in some way. It is not mentioned.

All we do know is that the lady was fired. Nothing more - nothing less. I cant and will not comment on what I dont know or dont have information on.

odiaero:
who is this wacko? , oya run away 4rm dis thread and go where your mates are; Gaming Section , that is where kids play.     u are not yet 18 and u are not welcome in this place 

Real confused character ,

Ujujoan:
Yea she lost her job. That was wrong and highly discrimanatory!

Tell that to President Obama who dedicated a whole month (June) to them!

Just because you think it's wrong doesnt make it wrong.  

Obama is not my standard of morality. He is a politician. Because a politician says something is right doesnt make it right.

Would have loved to go into the nitty gritty but this is not a thread on the morality of lesbianism.

In the so called evolved western society - it is viewed as discrimination.

In Nigeria she would be sacked for two reasons 1) She had an affair with the bosses daughter and 2) she is a lesbian.

It depends on the society. She has done nothing wrong by the societal law of this country.

Ujujoan:
How

They are both consenting adults and have a right to be together. As far as I'm concerned, there's nothing wrong with dating your boss's son/daughter.

Hell my boss has been trying to hook me up with his son for years now!

The woman is a psycopathic b**tc!

Lesbianism is wrong - plain and simple. The boss thought so too and acted to save her daughter in the way she deemed possible and right.

She cut off the source in her opinion.

A girl might be fine - she might be ugly. However once they have started going out - it is not the physical looks and attributes that make a man leave you. It is something from the following.

- Lack of integrity
- Dirtiness
- Communication Problems
- Attitudinal Issues
- Expenses - Financial Stupidity
- Lack of desire to improve oneself (mentally, spiritually, physically)
- Lack of Wisdom

michelin89:
I didn't see the "not".

My apologies.

Apologies accepted - I will edit my posts.

michelin89:
Just like your brain has been cast out of you?

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You sure you were a poor broke man before?

What kind of idiot that was poorly paid before throws away a 180K naira ring? What dumbness is that?

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michelin89:
Have you also seen the poster is a male and that there is a link to the website where the story was published?

No, I guess not.

For fertility reasons.

Has any of the posters considered that the thread starter is not the Jenny in the story?

There is an affair. There is no reason for a guy to call a woman that late unless he wants to hit it!! The man wants to hit it!!

Avoid both of yourselves being alone in private

Read the Bible

Go find another babe

lashontae - ignore her. Dont go for J. Instead set her up such that J sees the two faced - double mouthed - biatch she is!!

Chinyere Elizabeth Harrison doesnt demonstrate the attributes of a FFG. She is not that active on FB. Can the accuser state what happened and provide 'proof'?

Some despite all the proofs are calling the girl innocent , I don die.

Male mugus boku for Naija!!

olly pass , cant u see the Hot bagas wanting to go chop some Temi pie ,

This babes' formula dey work well o , we get plenti mumu bobos for this countri!!

I don die - someone actually believes the girl will admit that she scammed the dude to him/her!!

Wetin I no go see for this world - amazing mugus!!

Are you equating smarter with deviousness?

Are we now FBI - facebook investigators

that is the golden pasta one - right? the friend applied already last week.

tks tho!!

Specifically

Hyundai Santa Fe and Tucson
Kia Sorento and Sportage

I am happy I have seen this thread for one reason. I need advice.

I have a friend - NISP and rounding up NEBOSH. Also studied Physiology in school. However my concern is jobs for the person!! Is there a site which displays HSE jobs in Nigeria? Or even better does anyone know any vacancies!! Feel free to drop a PM!

PS I am serious and am not a forum bot! Tks.

Her original name wasnt Tomi Okoye in the first place.

Reading this thread just proves access to the internet and education doesnt change bigotry and ignorance. We still have backwards people in Nigeria and this thread is proof of it.

Funny enough I dont see the true developed countries (not the US or UK) but instead the Scandinavians who are truly a developed nation in that list , How is Norway doing? Debt is never good!!

What is wrong with it? I am confused!!