Romance › Re: Why Would A Girl Keep Her Nudes In Her Phone? - Personal Experience by Dshocker(m): 8:34am On Oct 30, 2017 |
Divay22: Lol I really don't know.. I have seen a lot in my bro's PC and it's so heartbreaking. You just lied! |
Romance › Re: Why Would A Girl Keep Her Nudes In Her Phone? - Personal Experience by Dshocker(m): 8:31am On Oct 30, 2017 |
QueenSekxy: lies,,why would she open her phone when she was sitting next to you what was she doing in her gallery knowing fully well that her unclad is there to display in the public..please tell us another lie Were you there as well¿....You aren't sure if the OP was lying as you lied to us as well. |
Culture › Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Dshocker(m): 9:28am On Oct 29, 2017 |
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Culture › Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Dshocker(m): 9:26am On Oct 29, 2017 |
pweetiedee: It is "every woman's place" not "every women's place"
You should spend the rest of your days in the kitchen and baby sitting. Let your wife go and make money, cos you wasted your time in school. So why do you want to cry like a baby,it was a mistake. |
Culture › Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Dshocker(m): 7:51am On Oct 29, 2017*. Modified: 9:27am On Oct 29, 2017 |
Queerlyshrewd: I remember one time, me and my friends settling into the night talking about our reviews on movies and then it hit the rest of us that one of us had to watched "Gravity". BOOM!!! We were beyond dazed. Why? We are a movie loving people and we love to criticise movies. So, to us, it was a friendship Crime.
Yesterday i got to know who Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie was and that was shocker to me for She's too important not to know. To those who don't...
She is a brilliant writer, and her noteworthy works are books like "half the yellow sun", "Blue hibiscus" and "We should all be Feminist". It gets even better , she's featured on the song "flawless" by Beyoncè or we could put it like this, 'Beyoncè asked for permission to use her words and she granted Beyoncè permission'. I think the latter sounds cooler.
So What's the point? Chimamanda has a message for all "supposed feminist " and feminist-lovers. She sees the big misrepresentation or the total lack of understanding of the word Feminism. Here are her words while referring to her work with Beyoncè
"Still, her (Beyoncè)type of feminism is not mine," she said. "As it is the kind that, at the same time, gives quite a lot of space to the necessity of men. I think men are lovely, but I don't think that women should relate everything they do to men: did he hurt me, do I forgive him, did he put a ring on my finger? We women are so conditioned to relate everything to men. Put a group of women together and the conversation will eventually be about men. Put a group of men together and they will not talk about women at all, they will just talk about their own stuff. We women should spend about 20 per cent of our time on men, because it's fun, but otherwise we should also be talking about our own stuff."
I don't quite agree Men could gather and not talk about women. It's totally dependent on the kind of men gathered but i do get her point. Go on Facebook, Twitter and whatever social media site there is, it's everywhere, Women talking about how "Men are scum" , how women should stand up against Men. Gender Equality and all sorts of agendas that are Men-centred.
Men don't have the time to lament about women. Men are busy seeking how to make fast money so they can accure more women. That's the difference right there. A man's centre is money .
For too many women , the centre of their world is a man, There's too many online post about Men's fidelity, too many memes and jokes about girlfriends struggling for passwords to their boyfriend's phone and Its astonishing how women celebrate being engaged, it's seen as some milestone or a feather to the Cap to find a 'man that may as well still decide to damn the engagement and ditch you".
To crown this aberration up, one of the most searched words on the internet is "How to please a man".
It would be totally unjustified and cruel of me to blame women for their seeming misfortunes but they honestly are a part of their own problem. They give men the very power they accuse them of having.
To be a Feminist isn't to go online disturbing the peace of your followers Timeline about how Men are this and that. It's about developing yourself for yourself; to be self-sufficient and seld-dependent .
Self-sufficiency is the best kind of attractive. It leaves no room to be bothered about how a man should or shouldn't treat you. It's power and beauty interlaced into a appealing knit. We should all be Feminist.
http://queerlyshrewd..com Every woman's place is in the kitchen and the living room...  |
Romance › Re: .. by Dshocker(m): 7:11am On Oct 27, 2017 |
Iseeit: What do you want me to do for you, to satisfy your doubts that I'm a fraud Kill yourself first and i promise that your family will at least get a donation of a million ducks. |
Romance › Re: .. by Dshocker(m): 7:09am On Oct 27, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: .. by Dshocker(m): 7:04am On Oct 27, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: .. by Dshocker(m): 6:57am On Oct 27, 2017 |
Donaldduke2019: You don't joke with people situations Bro.....I bet u....very soon u would experience wah dis Op is going thru You can help him out,since you've chosen to fall for his scam! |
Romance › Re: .. by Dshocker(m): 6:53am On Oct 27, 2017 |
Iseeit: Yes, this is gonna be the exact caption in the few days from now.
This world is filled with heartless and wicked souls who don't care.....some people may say it's cowardice but it isn't. I love myself so much that I can't watch me go into much pain so I have to end it. Don't worry it's not a threat... Even if it is, you don't even care whether or not I live or die.
I know some will say, he committed suicide because of 30k....no I didn't. I did it because I'm tired of this world, I'm tired of people who would rather watch you suffer than help you. People who are happy seeing you suffer. People who always blame you instead of understand what you are going through.
I have tried so hard to raise 30k to enable me do clearance in school and collect my result as well as join my mates in nysc...I have called all my relations...they kept giving sermon of how bad the economy is. I have approached some church here for help. The pastors kept treating me like a fraudsters even after providing enough evidence(my nysc call up number included).
I have begged on Nairaland, all I got was insults. Nobody cares to understand what I'm going through.
Everyday I look at my NYSC call up number print out and cry.
I know my burial will cost more than this amount, but wicked souls and relations will prefer to give it help bury than help me now.
I will drop the username and password to this account so nobody will blame me when I'm gone.... At least they will see how far I've gone trying to raise this money, even after working on building sites for months. STOP all this rubbish and commit the suicide once and for all...Those that wants to commit suicide tells no one. Instead of you to get a job,you chose to come here to scam people of their money. |
Romance › Re: Kenyan Man Parades All The Ladies He Has Slept With (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 5:53am On Oct 27, 2017 |
Divay22: If only i was close to you, you wouldn't believed what i would have done to you  And the male folks are the saint abi... No lemme vex this night o  What will you do,you this chicken bone? |
Romance › Re: Kenyan Man Parades All The Ladies He Has Slept With (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 7:49pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Kenyan Man Parades All The Ladies He Has Slept With (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 7:40pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: How Does A Rich Guy Ascertain That A Girl's Love For Him Is Not Due To His Wealt by Dshocker(m): 7:36pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
IAMSASHY:
d easiest way is to lie abt ur identity , hide ur true identity and go 4 her d first time, tell her u ar stl squatting wt a frnd bt wl soon get ur own place. U cn play "lie" for like 3months, if she stl stay den she is k Like you yourself as a lady would agree to date a guy telling you about not having an accommodation... |
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Romance › Re: Ladies!!! Come In...ya'll Don't Fall For This(photo) by Dshocker(m): 7:00am On Oct 19, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Woman Lifts Her Skirt, Sprays Perfume All Over Her Thighs After Entering A Shop by Dshocker(m): 6:36am On Oct 19, 2017 |
izaray: If that spray mistakenly enter inside her local govt, her name go be sorry  Like,whats gonna happen? |
Romance › Re: Sijibomi Ogundele Sujimoto Needs True Love, To Give Her House & Rolls Royce by Dshocker(m): 11:53pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
sexybbstar: I don't need it.. Others can apply. How are we sure that you haven't applied¿ |
Romance › Re: Broke Guys Will Rot In Hell Fire For All Eternity!!! by Dshocker(m): 5:22am On Oct 18, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva: Yes I've said it... comman slap me in my house!!!
*Awaiting replies like* Olosho Ashawo Gold digger Etc etc etc
Just know that the shoes fit really well if you get pissed by this 
Excuse you, I'm entitled to my opinion. I have nothing against y'all but you all possess similar characteristics that just makes you so unbearable.
You are usually angry You are usually hungry You have esteem issues You get easily intimidated You are children of anger You never appreciate anything good Every pretty slaying chick is an olosho You usually have mouth odour 
You don't know you're supposed to be humble and hardworking so things can go well for you. Well a few of you are actually humble and industrious but it's really rare.
My prayer for you is that Oluwa would truly bless your hustle if it's legit and if you've got a clean heart.
#DrunkenTalk #FridayNightMadness #ThisIsStrictlyToRileYouUp #DontTakeItTooSerious Instead of waiting for a guy to sought all your life bills,while not work " hard" to get the kind of comfortable life you wish to have....Besides;women in Nigeria and around the world are breaking barriers and even becoming billionaires. |
Romance › Re: I Lost Him! What Do I DO Now Heartbroken by Dshocker(m): 7:02am On Oct 17, 2017 |
BigSarah: Beautiful Creatures get rejected too BigSarah,are you really big,asin fat? |
Romance › Re: I Lost Him! What Do I DO Now Heartbroken by Dshocker(m): 7:00am On Oct 17, 2017 |
BigSarah: Beautiful Creatures get rejected too You right |
Romance › Re: I Lost Him! What Do I DO Now Heartbroken by Dshocker(m): 6:51am On Oct 17, 2017 |
MaritzaNL: If only you followed my advice.
Its obvious the guy is not into you and you were really rushing him, you see some men get scared when women are running after them, they find it abnormal cos they love to chase after women which makes it worth it. I told you to be his friend first but you wanted more, Had it been you were his friend, he would have been close to you, start liking you and maybe if he breaks up with his supposed gf, he will end up dating you, you need to be smart in playing this kind of game, stop being buggy and childish.
That guy might not even have a girlfriend sef, he might just tell you that for you to bugger off. You are really funny dear.... So,you are willing to wait till your crush breaks up with his girlfriend.what of,if they don't break up? |
Romance › Re: I Lost Him! What Do I DO Now Heartbroken by Dshocker(m): 6:35am On Oct 17, 2017 |
biacan: Why would a guy in his right sense reject a beautiful lady like you......... who does that........ NO man tries that shit with me....... reasons why I don't love make sure a man loves you more than how you love him before giving him a listening ear....... sis don't love Nigerian guys ain't worth it  sorry grandma |
Romance › Re: I Lost Him! What Do I DO Now Heartbroken by Dshocker(m): 6:27am On Oct 17, 2017 |
BigSarah: A Sequel To my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/4115465/me-im-love-him
So I went with the advice of the majority, who commented I told him who I am, he replied okay and then hanged up, I was startled I expected some sort of ranting but I got none, so I offered we hang out but I got no reply,then called and he said he has a GF that I should quit disturbing his Life... Life Was Better as An Homosexual, I think I deserve such happiness . Romancelanders Your Advice Sucked..
When he didn't know who I was, he replied to my texts(not all but he does reply ) , he rushes to pick my call... But after going with your horrible advice, no text backs, I call twice, and even if he picks at the first buzz he waits a lot before speaking..
I have given up, yes that easily, I've never been rejected,it stinks it's awful, guys try alot... I hope this doesn't ruin what's left of my self esteem.. Are you the one on your DP... Cos you look beautiful |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't eat it? by Dshocker(m): 10:21pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: experienced girls dont swallow. How are you ? Am just so fine,and you |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't eat it? by Dshocker(m): 4:56am On Oct 16, 2017 |
Nobodys: Hmmm nl babes are soo raw...*runs outta thread** anyways u guys shud limit d way u insult ur parents please...calling mothers slut and how u people bring in parent into abusive conversations is soooo childish...pls enuff..thank u. Why running away?... Just answer the question.Hope your boyfriend is eating your below to your satisfaction?  |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't eat it? by Dshocker(m): 4:49am On Oct 16, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: like what? The cheesy discharge that comes with yeast infection, who knows it may be a good alternative to yorghurt Experienced guys don't swallow the fluids.... Thank you. |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't eat it? by Dshocker(m): 4:46am On Oct 16, 2017 |
DeadRat: Please What Are They Eating Here?  White soup and pounded yam |
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Romance › Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let It Be by Dshocker(m): 4:30am On Oct 16, 2017 |
QueenSekxy:
 Why are you laughing...Something tells me you are the Op's girlfriend. So am using this medium to ask you;Why are you cheating on him¿¿¿  |
Romance › Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let It Be by Dshocker(m): 4:22am On Oct 16, 2017 |
Hyfer: I saw my girlfriend coming out from a man's car this night. and the so called guy didn't drop her in front of their street instead he dropped her a little bit after their street and reversed. is he a relative or is he what am thinking Who told you that you are her boi friend  |