Romance › Re: "I'm Going Crazy" - Fans Scream Over Oyinyechi Hair Extensions Studio by Dshocker(m): 8:56pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Stretch mark is her identity |
Politics › Re: Buhari’s Independent Speech Shows Fixated Hatred For Igbos – Ozekhome by Dshocker(m): 7:46am On Oct 02, 2017 |
Daniel2060: This man should stop talking... I really don't think he knows how to talk... Always dividing the nation With his unprofessional speeches  You lack common sense |
Politics › Re: Buhari’s Independent Speech Shows Fixated Hatred For Igbos – Ozekhome by Dshocker(m): 7:45am On Oct 02, 2017 |
Oladimejjy: Go nd sit down.. I think you should be the one sitting down |
Romance › Re: How Can I Know That A Guy Loves Me? by Dshocker(m): 7:38am On Oct 01, 2017 |
L3G3ND: first point about sex
so i should have sex with both of them to know who is real and who's fake abi Yes ma'am,with jara sef! |
Romance › Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Dshocker(m): 10:18am On Sep 30, 2017 |
Bblackq: I have bin dating dis gal for abt 5 months now. We never have sex bcus i'm Hiv positive and i tried to keep it from her cos i dnt want to lose her. Last night, she drugged me and had sex with me. When i woke up, i asked her what she has done but she said she wanted to knw maybe i'm impotent. I asked her if she used condom but she said NO. Apparently, she must ve contracted d virus from me. I've ruined someone else's life.. How do i tell her she's HIV positive. A friend directed me here. I nid a matured advice pls. How were you able to get an erection if you were asleep? |
Pets › Re: A Mean Looking Muscular Dog (Photo) by Dshocker(m): 9:23am On Sep 30, 2017 |
Dog has been gymin |
Romance › Re: Ladies Rate My Pic. No Guys Allowed Here! by Dshocker(m): 9:01am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Lalas247: Haha guys too you know .. so are u saying we like op's pic but pretending  Exactly... |
Romance › Re: Ladies Rate My Pic. No Guys Allowed Here! by Dshocker(m): 8:56am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Lalas247: Hope u know the comments was jut when topic was created lol Let me even see this pic seff
Lol just seen it  U know women are naturally pretentious |
Romance › Re: Ladies Rate My Pic. No Guys Allowed Here! by Dshocker(m): 8:47am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Lalas247: Drooling ke Lol u know the type of guys I see here lol mtcheew But how come you ladies are the ones commenting,commenting and commenting,but wouldn't get off the topic¿ |
Romance › Re: Ladies Rate My Pic. No Guys Allowed Here! by Dshocker(m): 8:44am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Lalas247: Drooling ke Lol u know the type of guys I see here lol mtcheew Don't worry,i understand,i really do understand... |
Romance › Re: Ladies Rate My Pic. No Guys Allowed Here! by Dshocker(m): 8:24am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Lalas247: Wetin remain to see again He might aswell call it nude pic Very graphic content .. d pic is giving me headache seff make I dey waka . Before I disvirgin my virgin eyes  Funny enough,d ladies on here are drooling over the pic and can't get enough of it,including you...Although thats not the OP. |
Romance › Re: Ladies Rate My Pic. No Guys Allowed Here! by Dshocker(m): 8:15am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Divay22: I no even get time take look the pic twice... A full grown man will just be exhibiting his stupidity... Can you please stop lying |
Celebrities › Re: Akon And One Of His Wives Step Out Together (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 12:57am On Sep 29, 2017 |
GloriaNinja: MONEY TALKS... HE GOT THE DOUGH ....HE IS RICH AND LIVING THE LIFE. It seems you are really moved by money? |
Romance › Re: 1.5 Million Naira Wasted! by Dshocker(m): 12:06am On Sep 29, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: Olakunle Churchill's Father Was Obasanjo's Gardener - Tonto Dikeh by Dshocker(m): 9:22am On Sep 28, 2017 |
I don't mind for Tonto to bear me a child... |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Young Ladies Find Married Men More Attractive? by Dshocker(m): 9:17am On Sep 28, 2017 |
lefulefu: the rumour is going round but then its no big deal....or u think she's living as a secondary virgin? U wan tell me say she no dey kpansh? Rumor? Have you or your friend laid with her? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Young Ladies Find Married Men More Attractive? by Dshocker(m): 5:34am On Sep 28, 2017 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: I don't do find them attractive. I've always wondered how it would feel like to know my husband has found girls outside our marriage that he take care of. So I don't get close to them that I won't see it has pay back if my future husband does the same. So that if I want to ask God for help that time, he will ask boldly because I never did it to someone's husband. I hope you are saying this from a true point of view and come to equity with clean hands |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Young Ladies Find Married Men More Attractive? by Dshocker(m): 5:27am On Sep 28, 2017 |
lefulefu: ok look at Genevieve for example..since dating Atiku she has remained single...but then we dey hear na small small boys dey hammer her and she spends on dem.so dats how it is.most single ladies who go about dating married men sometimes end up being single for life.d lucky ones among dem if dey happen to have dated a very rich married man use the money to establish and they become sugar mummies.the few who get married hardly have a calm marriage life cos the circle then continues. What proof do you have that younger boys are sleeping with her? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Young Ladies Find Married Men More Attractive? by Dshocker(m): 5:24am On Sep 28, 2017 |
makydebbie: Let Tonto Dike lecture you. Do you have any proof she slept with someone else's man,before she got married? |
Romance › Re: 1.5 Million Naira Wasted! by Dshocker(m): 4:52am On Sep 28, 2017 |
elantraceey:
You needed to see the look on my dad's face when I told him I'll be starting a fashion designing training immediately after I graduate from a professional course, then he was like ' why did you allow me waste my for five years since you want to be a tailor? '
But the thing is its not actually a waste though because at my workplace there's a big difference between those of us that are graduates and those that are not, that's why going to school is not just about getting a certificate but acquiring knowledge, wisdom and experience that will help you in the course of life. So you are an obioma? |
Romance › Re: Check Out This Cute Family Photo by Dshocker(m): 4:35am On Sep 28, 2017 |
Looks like they all in a denim jeans |
Romance › Re: Check Out This Cute Family Photo by Dshocker(m): 4:34am On Sep 28, 2017 |
All the children looks like their mum,except the one by the mother's left,whom is the second born and took over dad |
Entertainment › Re: Curvy Contortionist Shows Her Flexibility In Hot Photos by Dshocker(m): 10:47pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
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Entertainment › Re: Curvy Contortionist Shows Her Flexibility In Hot Photos by Dshocker(m): 10:40pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
sexybbstar: Always do something similar to this before but now,only God knows what happened to my joints. Because you are no longer a virgin  .... You can achieve those flexibility, " if" only you can stay celibate for one week! |
Family › Re: Can You Trust A Wife Like This? by Dshocker(m): 10:22pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
aiyele200: Bro, when it comes to wahala, na me. If it comes to scattering things and making a show of doing public stunt na me. At that moment, I just had a second though tto do otherwise, it would have been worse if i reacted otherwise than asking them to go back home. What would have been worst?  .... If i was the one,i would have ordered her back home. You don't sound like a man(am sorry saying this)... |
Family › Re: Can You Trust A Wife Like This? by Dshocker(m): 9:52pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
aiyele200: Hi Nlanders,
Good morning and happy weekend. I am posting this due to the fact that my patience and understanding is being taken for granted by my wife. 6 years already into this marriage, disobedience and unfaithfulness in terms of not being straightforward with me has been the order of the marriage, though a times, the woman changes for good, then later she starts again.
One sunday afternoon after returning back from church, she quickly rushed to me saying she wanted to go and drop her sister at the hospital since the first malaria treatment she had didnt work. I asked where the hospital is, said somewhere in gbagada, knowing fully well that my wife does not know gbagada well, and knowing well also that she was going with the kids, I volunteered to drop them off, but she kept mute, and her body language showed that she didnt want me to drop them off. So I said, plz be careful, gave her money to branch at the filling station to top up the fuel in the car.
On their way going, I got hungry cos lunch was not prepared b4 they left, I decided to rush down to the nearest eatery to get sumtin to eat, on entering my own car, figured out my fuel was low, so I decided to go to the filling station. On getting there, I was packed at my wife's car, she was actually standing beside the passenger side which is weird, cos she was the one that drove off, I looked at the drivers side, and I could see a man's head. So my wife came to meet me, said she just paid for fuel, they are leaving now, at that time, I was expecting her to at least explain who the person at the drivers seat was, with my kids in the car oooo!!! She just went straight to the passenger side and closed the door. I was really stunned and surprised.
I pressed the horn for her to come down, soon as she came down, she immediately said, oh i forgot to ask you if it was ok for Segun to drop us at the hospital, I was like why, she said because he seems to know the place. Funny thing is, this guy I have never met before, but she has told me about him b4 and I know him as the guy that loans she and her sister money when urgent funds are needed. So she called the dude down from the car, introduced him proper and I asked them to leave. A lot of people will sure blame me for allowing someone I dont really know to drive my family to a location, but at that moment I was still stunned because to me it was the highest level of mistrust and disappointment, so I could not take a drastic move @ that moment. They left, and the same guy dropped them off.
That night, I called my wife and sat her down, that I need an explanation on how the whole scene played out, cos I volunteered to go and drop you guys, u didnt answer me, and all of a sudden, I am seeing another man whether known or unknown person in the car with my kids without u telling me b4 u left the house that someone was going to drive u guys. She responded saying, to be sincere, they had plans seeing the guy at the bus stop to discuss loan, but she decided to have the guy drive them since he knows the hospital and since he is a man. I was like fine, but when u came to meet me, I thought u were supposed to tell me who was in the car, instead u walked off, she said actually I forgot, that it was the moment that u pressed the horn that I realized I was suppose to ask u if it was ok for segun to drive us. Oh well, they say communication is key in marriages, I will not say she was lying, thought I know something dont add up, so I moved on.
But the damn thing that really got me worried was that, few days to that very day, I noticed her being worried and soliloquizing, asked her what the problem is, claimed that its the money she lent last from the segun guy which she has not been able to pay is what is worrying her, that the dude has been askeing her for the money since it has elapsed the paying time. With that alone, it gave me a worrying thought that, it was the same guy that I ended up seeing on code @ d filling station driving my family off.
Nlanders, sorry for the long epistle, if I dont explain well, you guys wont understand in details, for the married guys and ladies, whats your take on this issue? Does something really isnt adding up?
Thanks! Am not married yet. But i broke up with the woman i was courting,because she keeps a lot of male friends around her, even her ex..... I don't,cannot and would never take rubbish from women,they are so terrible and annoying. Am already angry over what your wife did,by allowing another man not known to you to be driving them around,when you offered to do so. I will also advise you check the paternity of your children. |
Politics › Re: IPOB: Don’t Believe The Lies About Me, Atiku Tells Nigerians by Dshocker(m): 8:48pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Atiku shouldn't just waste his money campaigning for the position of being the president... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Dshocker(m): 5:50pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Aeker: No money for business, sir. You just would have to come up with a way. Travel to the north and import foods like yam,cucumber, onions, beans or something else and sell in Lagos. |
Romance › Re: How Come Most Igbo Men Dont Date Yoruba Girls by Dshocker(m): 5:21pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
MyNewJackeT: Yoruba men love igbo girls but I'm yet to see an igbo guy date a Yoruba girl, I'm not talking about celebrity weddings I mean for real.
how come igbo guys don't love Yoruba girls. First of all;most yoruba girls have no regard for men guys. They refer to them as " Omo igbo" |
Crime › Re: Man Driving SUV Dropping Unconscious Lady By Road Side At Night In Kenya (pics) by Dshocker(m): 5:16pm On Sep 27, 2017*. Modified: 2:01am On Sep 28, 2017 |
Am not saying she is,but this is the kind of fate that awaits every runz girl in Nigeria. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Dshocker(m): 5:13pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Aeker: Life as an unemployed graduate isn't always easy. Sometimes, things get so tough that you begin to wonder if you wronged the gods, somehow.
Most times, your life can be summed up in one word: frustrating.
Your ability to achieve a mental balance gets challenged each day.
As soon as you get a moment to forget the struggles of life, that friend with whom it seemed like you had become partners in the labour market calls in to tell you how he's managed to secure a well-paying job.
"Ahhh. So my own case is the handiwork of my village people, as feared ?!"
"But I thought my destiny and EMX's are tied together nah!"
Then you remember, that other members of your clique like Emeka, Roland, Wale, Aliyu, Emike, and Daniella have all secured jobs since the turn of the year.
Immediately, you look up to the sky (or ceiling in most cases; sometimes stepping outside the house may seem like a privilege) and question God in a Balotelli-esque fashion: "why always me?!"
You begin to feel alienated by success. Emotions begin to pour. But regardless of your reaction, that's not an easy question to answer.
Life gets you to suffer humiliation and hardships of being considered not good enough for any job at all. All the questions that went unanswered, the advances that were met with a stern, unwelcoming attitude at different offices... or is it the people debating issues of whether to turn you to an errand boy so you could earn some 200 bucks for recharge card or just leave you be (to suffer in silence). "Imagine! People wey no reach to even lace my shoes before."
On the home front, some of your siblings' chores become your duty. Why? Because you are not much use in the house. For every meal you eat, every time you go to bed, each time you sit idly, parents want you tasked.
Your value continues to drop on a per-second basis. It feels like nobody cares about you for anything. You grow anxious and frustrated with life. Your happiness is about to be taken away from you by unseen forces.
"But this no be the plan we been plan from the start!" Soon after that thought, you see an advert on TV reminding you that life doesn't always go according to plan. Or is it the pastor in Church reminding you that everything in life is God's design? How then am I supposed to relate to God not wanting me to succeed? You begin to question your belief in God. "Is there even a god?!"
But all of that is not you. It's frustration playing out. So many times, you feel like a lost soul in a human body. Trapped and without help. You're not sure when redemption will come, or if it will come at all.
Carefully redesigning a CV that never gets more than a glance. Your life is no longer filled with fun an excitement. Grief, self-pity, and anger are gradually taking over.
"What a sorry soul!" No money for business, no means to learn a skill or two, and no jobs to keep you busy. Life can't get any worse.
But what can you do in all of these?
You continue to reinvent, hoping that someday, your salvation will come. All that 2.1 from a reputable university doesn't feel so important anymore. Set all of that aside, believing that only grace can rescue you now.
This is my life. I am Aeker.
Things are HARD!
Please help a broke soul. Must you work for someone else?........ Why not start up your own business. |
Celebrities › Re: Doris Simeon: ''Single Motherhood Is Not Our Fault'' by Dshocker(m): 4:49pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Totally rubbish |