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“Before you go on a journey of revenge, dig two graves” – Confucius Fellow Nigerians, please, let me start this epistle with a tale I’m not sure I have ever told. On Sunday, November 9, 2008, I was at the Lagos Marina with some friends when my phone rang. And who was on the line? No other than the one and only Comrade Adams Oshiomhole, a man I call Uncle Adams for various reasons. He is about eight years older than me. We both come from the same Afenmai tribe of Edo State, though I’m much more affiliated and associated with the Yoruba people because of my birth in Ile-Ife, the cradle of civilisation, and the fact that my Mum is from Gbongan, a dozy town just a few kilometres from Ile-Ife. I have told the story of my Dad’s migration from Ihievbe, now in Owan East Local GovGovernment of Edo State, to finally settle in Ile-Ife, Osun State, possibly around 1944, like many restless men of his time. His decision to make his sojourn in Ile-Ife permanent, probably en route the greener pastures of alluring Lagos, was because he met the naturally beautiful, slim and elegant Gladys who swept him off his feet and they married after a period of courtship. I am the only child of their union. Comrade Adams had risen to become one of the more prominent sons of Afenmailand and I had tremendous respect for him as a scion of the society and a big Brother. I had followed his amazing trajectory, especially as a Labour leader, with very keen interest. I believe he had a meteoric rise to become Labour leader based on his fantastic managerial, organisational and persuasive skills. I always admire, and appreciate, those with humble beginnings, who struggle hard and manage to break free from the shackles of oppression and manacles of poverty. Comrade is a veritable example of such a person. He has done so with agilagility and tenacity. I must add that he also possesses not only nerves of steel but a steely and unbending resolve which for me has lately been harmful and injurious to him. More on this later. I think we first met physically on a flight to South Africa about 16 years ago, when he had already become head of the Nigerian Labour Congress. We both recognised each other and exchanged pleasantries and contacts. We struck an instant acquaintance and friendship which has since blossomed into Brotherliness. He became an avuncular figure to me, and he had my blessings when he threw his hat in the ring of politics. His pedigree as President of the Nigeria Labour Congress clearly, and readily, endeared him to many people. Theoretically, he was expected to be a friend of the masses, and the workers of Edo State were considered lucky to have such a man coming to liberate them from capitalists and oppressors. Anyway, back to the call, prior to which, both of us had met in Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s home where we had lunch with the former Governor of Lagos State. I knew Chief Tinubu was supporting him heavily and staked a lot on Comrade Oshiomole becoming the Governor of Edo State which has always been considered one of the crown jewels of the Yoruba nation and was indeed a part of Western Nigeria before it became Mid-Western Region of Nigeria in 1963 following a vote by the people of the region. Mid-Western Region became Mid-West State in 1967, Bendel State in 1976 and finally Edo State in 1991 when Bendel State was divided into Edo and Delta States. During this auspicious call in November 2008, Comrade sounded worried and I asked what the matter was. He said he was anxious about the Court of Appeal judgment regarding his governorship election, which was slated for November 11, 2008, in two days time. I told him not to panic, that all shall be well, and I prayed for him. Tuesday, November 11, 2008, came, in a jiffy, and Comrade was declared winner of the Edo State Gubernatorial elections. Prayer answered and I was greatly elated. He was sworn in as Governor immediately afterwards on 12 November 2008 and would later govern the State for two terms of eight years in total. As usual with me, I never visited the Edo State Government House during that period, although Comrade and I remained close and regularly called each other and met at various functions. I watched his inimitable style of governance from afar and prayed fervently for his success. He would call me sometimes, usually on Saturdays, after reading my column. On one such occasions, I recall, I was in Orlando, Florida, and he said he would want me to come to commission some projects in Edo State as a true son of the State. I said no problem. He promised to send me the dates, but he probably forgot or was too busy, whatever the reason, the call never came, the trip to Edo State as guest of the Governor never happened and the planned commissioning of projects by me never occurred. On another occasion, we met at The World Afenmai Congress in America and had a good tie together catching up on various issues. The truth is that we always bonded well. I must confess that there were times I was troubled by the many controversies that trailed him during his governance of Edo State. Those who knew him as my big Brother would call me to complain about his garrulousness and dictatorial proclivity. He also did not seem to be grateful on occasions. For example, I recall that he constantly attacked and insulted the Igbinedions who I knew had supported him and I felt that this was not proper or right. Some of his media attacks went overboard. However, I premised some of his intractable opposition to major Edo chieftains to his promise to dismantle all the vestiges of godfatherism in Edo State and end the rent seeking system that it engenders. I felt that if he could achieve this, he would have done the State and the country a great favour by creating a super example for others to emulate. Please, fast forward again. Close to the end of Comrade’s final tenure as Governor, Alhaji Aliko Dangote, his good friend, invited some of us to the launch of his $1 Billion investment in Okpella, Edo State. It was at that launch that I noticed the ubiquitous presence of Mr Godwin Obaseki who was extremely busy running around to make the ceremony a huge success. Obaseki informed me of his gubernatorial ambition for the first time that day. He and Comrade were like Siamese twins and their camaraderie was palpable. It was apparent that he had the support of the Comrade and he intimated me as much. I was therefore not surprised when Obaseki announced his aspiration and the rest, as the cliché goes, is history. Obaseki became Governor with the unalloyed support of Comrade who placed all the appurtenances of Government at his disposal to ensure his famous victory. Comrade and Obaseki were inseparable and were seen regularly together at public functions from the inception of the new Government. One was the Governor Emeritus while the other was the tyro Baby Governor. I witnessed their cordiality, first-hand, at a Tinubu Colloquium about two years ago at the Eko Convention Centre in Victoria Island, Lagos. It was there Comrade “instructed” Obaseki to hold me tight. “Dele is one of our icons stolen by the Yoruba people. Please, you must bring him back home. I failed in achieving that in eight years, but you must not fail.” Obaseki gave me his direct line instantly. We chatted a few times and that was it really. The plan was to invite me to a reception and celebrate me amongst my father’s people. Perhaps, he got distracted, but I understand perfectly given where we are today. Interestingly, this was what then Governor Olagunsoye Oyinlola did, as Governor of Osun State, when he invited me to Osogbo and gave me a special recognition award as a distinguished son of Osun State. Given the genesis of their relationship, Obaseki had been brought by Comrade into the politics, from the relative obscurity of investment banking, to head the Edo State Economic and Strategy Team. The way they had carried on for seven years whilst Comrade was Governor, and for a while after Obaseki became Governor, I never thought for a moment that Comrade and Obaseki would ever quarrel like other godfathers and their godchildren have been wont to do in this peculiar Nigerian clime. However, the ways of Nigerian politicians can never be understood by mere mortals like us, and things unravelled very quickly indeed once both men decided to part ways. Amidst allegations of betrayal, subterfuge and unbecoming insults, I am not in a position to determine who betrayed the other. For me it doesn’t really matter. The important thing is that this should never have happened to two seemingly good people who were practically in a tight relationship with each other. I have had the opportunity of speaking at different times to both of them, especially Comrade who I met at breakfast in Eko Hotel Signature in Lagos last yea. Comrade never said anything concrete enough to warrant the war of attrition that is now likely to consume at least one, or indeed both of them, if care is not taken. My own plea that day was for Comrade to forgive whatever iniquity or sin Obaseki might have committed. I’m one Christian who holds the Biblical injunction on forgiveness very close to my heart. There is nothing too big to forgive even if I can’t forget, and I do desperately try to forget as well. I have learnt that life is too short and there are always regrets all round afterwards. In short, I continue to believe that Comrade should have treated Obaseki like a recalcitrant baby and leave him to his conscience because he is the older man and the benefactor. By playing dirty and wrestling in the mud with Obaseki, Comrade has diminished his status and importance in the eyes of onlookers nationally and internationally. In fact, Comrade has provided some lethal ammunition for his many vociferous critics and rabid enemies who have now, apparently, finally, gunned him down. How fatally he has been dealt with remains to be seen. I do hope that he heals quickly and bounces back His firebrand style of politics is still something that I look forward to. Exactly two Sundays ago, I predicted what has happened to some mutual friends, Senator Tokunbo Afikuyomi and Hon. Oye Ojo when we discussed the raging imbroglio. As I also said to them that evening, what shall it profit a man who kills his own child in a pique and fit of anger? Especially when in the process the man himself appears to have sung his own nunc dimitis! I believe that if Oshiomole had left Obaseki alone, he would not have been suspended by his ward and there would therefore have been no basis for his removal as Chairman. Instead he went further to disqualify Obaseki as APC Governorship aspirant APC Party Chairman. Comrade would have done well to listen to Confucius who wrote, “Before you go on a journey of revenge, dig two graves”! It seems now virtually late to make amends. Comrade and Obaseki have stripped themselves naked in the marketplace. Their underbelly and nudity have been harshly exposed. It is such a monumental tragedy. The battle is no longer a localized affair but a national struggle for the control of the ruling party ahead of the 2023 Presidential election. Beyond Obaseki, I feel that Comrade was fighting, like a poor General, on too many fronts. He should have read the handwriting correctly to see that Obaseki was now a pawn in the game but he didn’t. This is unlike a man with his maturity in politics. I thought he was a master tactician and strategist but his performance as Chairman of APC totally belied this. The APC he presided over had become nothing but a “Fuji House of Commotion”, a place where, apologies to Chinua Achebe, the falcon could no longer hear the falconer. And so, things fell apart, and the centre could no longer hold. For Comrade, that is not a sign of political craftsmanship but brinkmanship. It is called political harakiri! |
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Hello everyone, We are looking at commencing a new transportation/ logistics outfit. The proposed transportation outfit is intended for Lagos- Abuja route, and a few parts of the east. We are also strongly considering purchases of Innoson buses. We kindly solicit advise on the use of Innoson buses as it concerns easy to source spare parts, durability, fuel consumption, functionality and other details. Thanks my people
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OyinO:This great development, contributions to GDP and jobs would be eroded if it does not perfect its product and processes. There are countless bigger organizations that died because they did not improve on their product. Feel free to ask for a list |
Dedetwo:Oga, no consumer cares about how a product is perfected. The technology and complications of a perfected product are the exclusive burdens of a manufacturer. Innoson should perfect its product by every means necessary and square up against other brands. There is no logic in saying the Nigerian factor is reason for its poor painting. No buyer who has spent millions on such product will understand your lame logic |
@All criticizing Kingreign's honest assessment, Why are we like this in this country? Someone point's out a major flaw in a product, and we declare an all out war? True, every product goes through a major trial and stability phase. But to say, it's observed flaw should be hushed up in the name of patriotism or any other factor is a huge disservice to Innoson itself. The purchasing audience won't buy on sentiments. In businesses, brand recommendations are huge sustaining factors. What many don't understand is that its only the paint flaw that has been observed. If other flaws come to notice, and hushed up (as many here would have) its only a matter of time before the sales of Innoson suffers a decline. No public will cough out huge funds to do purchase on sentiments simply because its a local brand. All of you condemning Kingreign wont spend hard earned resources to purchase an an Innoson brand if it does not improve on its product defects. With the Toyota's and Honda's of this world ever modifying their brands to perfection, the only way for Innoson to gain and sustain a firm foothold is product/brand perfection. No organization or product thrive on local sentiments to end. As a matter of fact, in sanner climes, those vehicles with such defects would have been recalled. The only way to prove the validity or strength of any idea, is subject it to tests and criticisms. Its proven to strengthen products and organizations. Saying such things like how much is a person worth, or what has achieved simply because he talks about a flaw speaks to the kind of country we live and the individuals that populate it |
lifestyle1:Is otp to phone or emails? Some of is don't just understand these things |
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Una no share money? Hola make mobilize people in Amac |
Pls post the figures if you this is true |
Karatum:Catch them on tape. Once it hits YouTube, its job done!! |
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We seek to host a Musical concert using Mr. Real or Slimcase as main attraction in Lagos and any part of Nigeria in musical concerts in early December. Consequently, we seek professional services of Music Entrepreneurs, Show promoters to provide consultancy services. Basically, we seek services of Music Entrepreneurs or Show promoters to provide consultancy services. The professional service will advise on: 1) Good Location that will en-mass respond to previously mentioned artist. 2) A brief (in no more than 10 lines) SWOT- “Strengths, Weakness, Opportunities and Strengths” of the location. 3) Favourable and affordable ticketing price. 4) Event venue that can host at least 1800-3000 people in proposed region. 5) Itemize the regional strength in populace (specifically young demographic) and entertainment outreach. 6) Publicity and other means of attracting attendees to the concert. Please note we DO NOT intend to entrust monetary resources to anyone to organize the event. Chosen advisor will only be paid a negotiated fee and may participate in putting up the event. Kindly send proposal to (wanikojnr@yahoo.com) with contact details. |
We seek to host a Musical concert using Mr. Real or Slimcase as main attraction in Lagos and any part of Nigeria in musical concerts in early December. Consequently, we seek professional services of Music Entrepreneurs, Show promoters to provide consultancy services. Basically, we seek services of Music Entrepreneurs or Show promoters to provide consultancy services. The professional service will advise on: 1) Good Location that will en-mass respond to previously mentioned artist. 2) A brief (in no more than 10 lines) SWOT- “Strengths, Weakness, Opportunities and Strengths” of the location. 3) Favourable and affordable ticketing price. 4) Event venue that can host at least 1800-3000 people in proposed region. 5) Itemize the regional strength in populace (specifically young demographic) and entertainment outreach. 6) Publicity and other means of attracting attendees to the concert. Please note we DO NOT intend to entrust monetary resources to anyone to organize the event. Chosen advisor will only be paid a negotiated fee and may participate in putting up the event. Kindly send proposal to (wanikojnr@yahoo.com) with contact details. |
Bright ran 3 Companies before TSTV. They are GWB( GOD with Bright) Bricke and Anthens and AHTV (Africa Health Television). All 3 collapsed due to personal management style. Bright was notorious for borrowing money from staff while he ran AHTV in Gwarimpa. He most times never paid back. His personal style that reeks ego and incompetence brought down his outfits. Its sad when entrepreneurs lay the blame of failure squarely at the foot of government or Nigerians. True, the attitude of Nigerians may negatively affect business, yet MTN, Dangote, Globacom and numerous other business owned, ran and operated by Nigerians in Nigeria has continue to thrive inspite of climate. The business model of TSTV was faulty from beginning. That factor, coupled with a personality like bright was a predictable disaster. |
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Sokodobo, Ku be itu. Soko a yai Nosara. Ooooun |
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FarahAideed:I don't know what or who you serve, but the almighty God is certainly no author of confusion. Apostle Suleiman and his likes have continually subjected the body of Christ to ridicule. Its time we rise against these so called 'Men of God' who subject pulpit to politics. When God makes a declaration, it's manifestation is usually undisputed. The second you find your self having to explain a prophecy, then its certainly not God. Defending such folks irks me. |
Let's please use our objective minds when sending posts. True, the present Buhari regime is appalling and has fallen short of expectations. But as far as DAAR and Dokpesi is concerned, non payment of salaries long proceed the present Buhari era. I knew AIT Abuja actively in 2007/08 when I was dating a staff in the advert department. Even then, the issue of non payment of salaries proceeded that time. It was a regular discussion amongst staff. Dokpesi has a over a decade history of poor staff welfare. Safe to conclude that this latest disengagement of staff has little to do with Buhari. What I fail to understand is how he blew up all he amassed under the 'friendly' GEJ regime. It's truly truly sad. God help the affected people |
They started laying off staff is what I heard recently. And that I did from a reliable source |
I have been prospecting Led/Zinc sites in Niger and Plateau States respectively. I am however still not clear as regards the market and to source such. Can someone plz give me a n idea on how to get market for led/zinc |
Should the newspaper have rejected the adverts? |
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osemoses1234:He doesn't need to even tell one soul at all, talk less of carrying cameraman all because he donated a paltry sum as it appears.Nigerians and publicized philanthropy sha |
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doctokwus:This is the first real analysis I have seen on the Tinubu- APC face off. Most people are sending in posts without thinking |