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It is still substandard compared to countries that don't have up to half of our resources and GDP. I don't mean to talk trash about the new terminal wing

immortalcrown:
My pain is the murder of the innocent baby.

As for you, your girlfriend and her mother, you people are morally bankrupt. Talking to you is like flogging a dead horse because you won't take any preaching of mortality. You will only change when you personally decides to do so.

Only silly people get married because of pregnancy. You never wanted to marry her. The pregnancy is what put marriage in your mind. This means you will easily divorce because of any little issue. You indulge in premarital sex to an extent of impregnating a girl. You even waited for the pregnancy to be 4 months old before you made a move for marriage.

Easy bro. We know he did the wrong thing via pre-marital sex with his girlfriend but he is willing to own up and right his wrong. What the mother did by brainwashing her daughter to commit abortion is a more grievous and wicked act.

I hate when people are claiming righteous but their secret is worse.

AntiChristian:
You don old o!

Same as u baba

18 years and still counting..

MTN

What is SA really fighting for sef? Very confused set of hunan race, especially the blacks

Yet u went ahead to marry another wife and discarded your wife like thrash.

Suffering dey sha.. This is beyond wickedness

But why are ladies fun of doing this after being rejected? She should advise herself the right thing to do instead of setting unnecessary standards for choosing a life partner

JASONjnr:
Omo, I pray I receive this type of transfer.


I will disguised totally.


I will bribe my way to NIMc and create a new account with new name. Open a new BVN and change account details by force. Change phone number and use POS to withdraw the money and pay it into my new untraceable account.


Then travel out to Ghana or another African country with my new name and then from there to Europe. The spending go too make sense.


Like this, God go don do am for me.

Wrong move. Your existing record will still be stored in the DB. Do you think it will be deleted or not traceable?

OP, I don't mean to be disrespectful but does the fiance of your brother's have a job?

Even if she have, then it's either she is inconsiderate or something fishy she wants to do with your brother to visit her village.

pstemma1990:
Amen ma.

God will enrich and bless the work of your hands. Please don't three things once you are made.

1. Date a broke and hungry lady
2. Marry a broke, hungry and stingy wife
3. Avoid having friends like the lady you quoted this comment

Henry22:
May peace never depart from you aboard

Amen oo

Henry22:
Peace be unto you brother

Very funny GIF

Nigeria's image has been bastardised by political crooks, drugs dealers, financial fraudsters, terrorists etc.

South Arabia were being proactive and laud them for their outright rejection of their visas. Just that the innocents are paying for crimes they know nothing about.

I left the country some weeks ago and I can't but imagine how sanity has been stored to my sense of reasoning. NIGERIA is a terrible place and most of the citizens are wicked. Nigeria has the most demeaning human beings on earth except few blessed souls

Money and pali.

Congrats

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

Thank God you mention horsebands.

Leaving Nigeria made me realised that there is massive suffering in the country...

But why Nigeria keep dishing out bad people ruling the affairs of the country baffles me

Where is the future in Nigeria??

Even though the school is to be blamed let's not forget that students generally have poor maintenance culture

So kogi people wants to vote a transgender governor. See finish

Daniel7543:
By this time next 10 years, I see siofra, jennyclay, ahnie, pocochants crying out wanting to be someone’s 7th wife or even someone’s baby mama

This I have seen.

This is wrong. They are someone's sister and daughter. Those girls mentioned are opposite of what they portray offline.

Though happy for him but very soon he will join husbingo

Family especially parents conversations should not screenshot. The rationale behind your action is what I am trying to comprehend and this shows your level of weakness which needs to be worked on asap. It is wrong and demeaning to have exposed your mother in that vein to extended family members

On the other hand, you know the character of your mother and henceforth apply wisdom and keep decent level of secrecy to invite and choose not to invite to visit your home. Best bet now is not to invite any member of your extended family still the situation subside. Keep your home safe ma!

Is it by force to do omugwo?

Bankowner:
Candid advice.
You cannot fight fire with fire. Whenever your wife starts the quarrelsome attitude, I beg you, beat a retreat and break the trail of the conversation that leads to it. It doesn’t make you less a man if you decide to keep quiet and not say anything further since she may see walking out on her as an insult which may aggravate the situation.
I have tried it, and it worked for me. Once it starts, I stop talking and start listening to music.

Walking away or stop talking, women still see it as insult. They just want to control you and accept whatever they say whether right or wrong. Best thing is to agree with her argument and let life experience teach her a big lesson. I don off my mic

Always looking for ways to deceive gullible Nigerians

Shior!

This IDF no get chill mehn

Except Glazier family are out, the problem of the club will remain. Very selfish people who are stating difficult terms to sell the club

EtinosaDLaw:
What type of stage name is Monke?

Baboon

Fp ?? Really!!

Please leave. Our giving is to God, not man

What she said is the truth but still doesn't stop the criticism about her sudden riches which is questionable

Cruise777:




You loose Money chasing women,

But

You can never loose Women chasing Money...

Set your priorities right




.

See as advice dey burst brain 👏

otipoju:
Say less, do more.

Don't depend on them for your happiness

Stay focused on actualized your vision and don't let her whims deviate your from your purpose here on earth.

👏