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Romance › Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by efeski(m): 9:36pm On Sep 23, 2019
HBB1:
My mom was already plotting how to dabaru my eldest sister's relationship.

She 'dabarud' the first one, unto say the guy-- a Christian, had a Muslim dad. It was so painful.

When she started concocting her plans for the new one, naso the 2 of them go Court, go marry.
They didn't tell any of us.

We got to know after they had their first baby, a year after.

My mum almost had a heart attack! grin

It's been 14 years and those niggas are doing okay. Though I know my sister loved the first boyfriend more (and vice versa). But what-to-do?

The people that married based on others' people's opinions, are they happier today?

I can say for sure that my mom endured her marriage and didn't enjoy it.

Let me see the person that will tell me who to marry or not to.

Ogun kee you!
Lol similar thing almost happened in my family.
Tribe palaver.
Popsi been drumming it in our heads that none of his kids would marry from itsekiri tribe.

I sat my mom down when my elder brother and his itsekiri babe were about taking things to the next level. Told her straight up what if this is the lady that God has destined to bring happiness to your son?
If u force him to break up and he ends up with someone else & becomes miserable, do you think he'll forgive you?

Today they're happilly married.
Pops don calm down
The world hasn't stopped spinning
Crime › Re: Iphone 11 Thief Caught At Computer Village, Ikeja, Receives Multiple Slaps by efeski(m): 6:31pm On Sep 23, 2019
Bad market
Romance › Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by efeski(m): 5:54pm On Sep 23, 2019
Christopherrrr:
Bro, no one is deceiving me. I know of this tradition right from the day I was born till now. It's just so unfortunate I happen to be a victim of it. I know of a family in my community too that their father made the mistake from a far distance community with more than 20-25yrs gone before it was discovered. Him and his entire household was sidelined from all other family dealings to the extent it affected his daughters getting married to people around. They took succor from outside the state as the case was then. It's just the inter-marrying that's the case but can be involved in every other dealings.
Seems your mind's already made up so why bother asking dor advice

Your words... u know a man that made the mistake some years back bla bla bla

Bunch of hypocrites africans... i bet your folks are christian yet they still subscribe to such practices.

Bible say whom the son of man sets free is free indeed so man up and damn the consequences or lock up and move on already.

I remember uncle Eta who married his wife back then I was in JSS late 90s. Not Osu but somehow his family was against the union.
He damned the odds and went with few friends.
Today him and him wife & kids de canada.

It's your life man.
Own it
Christianity Etc › Re: The Secret Truth About Witchcraft That Everyone Should Know by efeski(m): 2:27pm On Sep 22, 2019
EternalBeing:
I rarely respond to detractors. But I'll respond to yours because I think you are sincere, you don't have ulterior motive of distracting real Christians here like some try.
I came about Rebecca Brown in 2004, and followed all her innumerable evidences and countless videos on YouTube then.
Every sensible person knows that Luciferians are already taking over the World in preparation for the AntiChrist's reign after our Rapture.
By 2016 when I had a reason to download those videos for Evangelism Purpose, I was utterly shocked. All the Videos have been deleted because they were doing too much damage to the Kingdom of darkness. Not only deleted, massive numbers of Satanists masquerading as Christians have started colossal uploading of YouTube videos in nefarious campaign of calumny against her person to discredit her deliverance Ministry. JESUS YAHSAH HaMashiach our Saviour told us that no single human being is perfect on Earth. So, she may make mistake in life because she's not perfect, neither you nor I is too. But we that knew her from way back know that she's very very real and her Ministry is God sent.

Read the Book: HE Came To Set The Captives Free, long written to reveal several satanic agenders. Including the satanic agender of secular music long before Jay Z, Beyonce, Taylor Swift, etc happened exactly as she exposed. It takes someone that knows Satan personally to expose his plans 20 years before it happened. Some luciferian gays are here to water down the Faith of some gullible Christians. They are saying witches/satan/demons don't exist when they KNOW that they are actually possed with demons themselves. They have been deceived by Satan to lose their eternal Soul for gain in this short Life. JESUS YAHSHA HaMashiach is coming back very very soon. You are meant to live forever, don't ever trade your eternal Soul.
I read that book like three times before internet gained ground in nigeria... late 90s to be precise.
Gave me the chills cos I was quite young.

Few years back I came across sites denigrating and bashing her work.

Nowadays I sieve info and make my conclusions. There's that.

John 8:32
Ye shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.

I never meant to derail the thread although my perception of witchcraft is way different from what you espoused above & I would rather keep mum on the issue but trust me when I say the African concept of witchcraft is way different from what the western world portrays it to be.

I grew up under an AMORC father and have read quite a lot of esoteric literature which informs my position.

Cheers
Christianity Etc › Re: The Secret Truth About Witchcraft That Everyone Should Know by efeski(m): 10:15am On Sep 22, 2019
EternalBeing:
What is witchcraft? A witch is a person that is in convent with a demon. A witchcraft coven is a group of people that are in covenant with a principal demon, they may individually have smaller demons assigned to each individually too. The principal demon in charge of the coven indwells in the current coven leader and leaves to live in a another member when the current leader dies. Witches erroneously think they are powerful by thinking they are the one(s) controlling the demon(s), when in actuality truth, it is the demon that owns them and use them to destroy other humans. Satan capitalize on ego of some humans to deceive them to become his properties. This principle is same for marine witchcraft, sapentaine witchcraft, wizardry, etc.

Blind witches are the ones initiated without their real consciousness being fully involved. Sex and covetousness are some of the most commonly used tools to subconsciously initiate people. The Word of God can not be broken, HE says 2 people become 1 during sex, which means the covenant over one gets activated on the other too during the bonding. "He/she that joins with an harlot (witch, wizard) is an harlot." 1 Corinthians 6:1. After such, the sin gives the demon and the coven the legal ground to takeover and use the soul as they like. For those that obviously could prayerfully wrestle ferociously out of the demon's control and coven membership if they realize their involvement in drinking blood and eating flesh, the demon would keep their involvements at subconscious level. Hence, the term blind witches.
Get the Book "HE Came To Set The Captives Free" by Rebecca Brown to learn more deep secrets from real top witches about how witches fly and go to meetings, etc.

What we all need to know is that our CREATOR originally wants us to live forever, and HE has placed the choice before us. HE gave us this short lives to see how we individually use it. Those that use it to do good, HE shall reward us with the immortality that HE originally plan for us. But devil is fighting this tooth and nail to prevent us from earning this reward. Always remember that this short life is a test of whether you deserve to be allowed to live forever or not.
https://www.womenofgrace.com/blog/?p=560

Rebecca Brown has been debunked on many fora
The above link is just one
Politics › Re: Full Details Of FG Charges Against Sowore And Mandate (Charge sheet) by efeski(m): 11:41am On Sep 21, 2019
Risingblue008:
Good for him,d Yoruba's r d really betrayal for our Nigerian democracy
Wrong bro
Ibos betrayed the federation initially when they tipped off Zik to conveniently travel for medical check up two weeks before they'd decided to do away with himself, Akintola, Okotie-Eboh & Sardauna.
Get your mind right
Politics › Re: Full Details Of FG Charges Against Sowore And Mandate (Charge sheet) by efeski(m): 11:36am On Sep 21, 2019
Ventura1:
No big deal, Sowore has been eating it since he was in his 20's
Yeah, yo check
I am Sugar Ray Robinson, Booker T. Washington
W. E. B. Du Bois, I'm the modern one
Yelling at Senators, Presidents, Congressmen
We got a problem that needs some acknowledgement
I am no prison commodity, not just a body you throw in a cell
For any reason, just to bother me
Just for your quota, so it's rest in peace to Sean Bell
Sleep in peace Eric Garner
Every street, every corner
Conspiracy, new world order
I spoke to Tamir Rice mom and she told me "be strong"
It won't be long 'til it's justice
They want our votes but refuse the discussion
On how certain cops they shoot us for nothing
Revolution is coming



#Chains
#FreeSowore
Celebrities › Re: Pretty Mike Rides On Horse To Armani BuzzBar’s Birthday Party (Photos) by efeski(m): 10:05am On Sep 18, 2019
Pretty & The Brain



Pretty Mike: "Gee Brain, what are we gonna do today?"


Brain: "The same thing we do every day, try to take over the show"

Celebrities › Re: "Isoko Girl & Igbo Man" - Janema Shares Adorable Pre-Wedding Photo by efeski(m): 4:41pm On Sep 17, 2019
Siralgebra04:
U don't seem to be inteligent. One who twerks to d public , teaching our growing sisters bad morals, is she not worse dan a Hoe?
Before the advent of twerkers
Didn't some folks also pick up bad morals?
Are all her followers morally depraved?
Again, grow yourself a brain
Celebrities › Re: "Isoko Girl & Igbo Man" - Janema Shares Adorable Pre-Wedding Photo by efeski(m): 7:44am On Sep 17, 2019
Siralgebra04:
The Hoes are d most celebrated in Nigeria.
In d meantime, I have a brief analysis here. If u burn #2,145 (15litres) fuel, say, every 3 days, then, in a year you would have expended # 260,975 fuel + #20,000 for maintenance. In 2 years u would av spent over 560k. That's too massive.
Embrace Solar Energy. At Medas Innovations, we will be willing to mount ur Solar System.
Check my signature for contact.
What makes her a ho?
Give urself brain my guy
Family › Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by efeski(m): 8:13am On Sep 15, 2019
Charles1888:
I had to create a new account for this

I don't know how to get through to my wife anymore, of which the fault is mine, when we were dating, she showed that she was committed to me and loved me wholeheartedly but I was reluctant to marry her cos she was of age, I wanted someone younger, say under 25, but something important that i have to acquire made me marry all of a sudden and she was the only one available, don't get me wrong, I loved her then, her peaceful and humble soul but for some reason I simply can't understand I felt she wasn't enough, but I was wrong, she was perfect, the best I can ever wish for and more, she is everything,

After we got married, you know newlyweds now, the quarrels about every little thing, it was much then, so this particular incident made me so worked up and angry I made a statement I shouldnt have said, during the heated argument I told her that she was never who I would have married, that she wasn't my specs, she was too old (31 lol) that if someone younger was available I wouldn't blink twice before I'll marry the person.

After saying all that, I wasn't sober about it, she held on to that statement, I knew she cried that night, since then we don't talk, play, gist anymore, we became distant, though I apologised the next morning but things isn't just the same anymore, communication isn't there, she only talks to me when she wants to ask or say necessary things, nothing more, though she still cooks, we still have sex, infact every other aspect is fine except for communication, anytime I come back from work and I'm in the sitting room, she doesn't stay there, she either goes to the room or dinning room, I have begged and begged and I don't want to involve third party cos I obviously caused this, when she got pregnant, she didn't tell me till I saw the strip, when I asked why she said she forgot, and we had plans to celebrate when she takes in, I was sad that day, I begged and asked to tell me anything she wants and I'll do it, I'll make it up to her,,she said she wants nothing that she is fine, I love her, she is my baby, we use to be gist buddies, I missed that and I want it back.

I don't know what to do anymore, it's my fault I know that and I'm sorry I ever said that cos it hurt her deeply, I told her to tell me more evil things so that we will be even, she said she can't that she loves me, we are drifting apart, I can feel it,

Pls help me folks, I came here becos I want anonymous advise, what else can I do to make the hurt go away?
Imho
No need involving a third party
Be creative
Be spontaneous
Eg
Pen a heartfelt apology
Organise a surprise romantic dinner for u both
Read the words to her
Reiterate your love for her again
Acknowledge that wat u did was stupid and will never happen again
Buy her a gift of what she likes to boot
All will be well
Thank me later
So help u God


If u say such things again

Na u use ur hand scatter ur marriage
Shikenah
Literature › Re: The Trials Of Chris Abani And The Power Of Empty Words By Ikhide R. Ikheloa by efeski(m): 12:28pm On Aug 18, 2019
9jaBloke:
I know Chris Abani. Masters of the Board was one of the books i grew up reading.

My favourite line:

" Be careful Knight, or you won't last the night. Forgive the pun."

I don't know about the lies but OPs narrative smacks of deep-seated bigotry and prejudice.

Another unverified write-up on FP..
This issue trended since 2011/12 if my memory serves me well.
Chris Abani is a good writer no doubt but what's the need for personalizing what could have been a good work of fiction?
That's the issue here and not any bigoted narrative as u claim
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Romance › Re: Groom Walks Out After Seeing Bride Kiss Another Man On Wedding Day (Video) by efeski(m): 7:32am On Aug 13, 2019
All i see is people bashing this woman.
What if its those pecks on the side of both cheeks as the brits & french do nko?
Local man will call that kissing too
& call off a marriage cos of that?
I really hope ia one of those ig comedy skits sha
Forum Games › Re: Lets Do Dis.::comment WITH D LAST Word...n Kil D Boredom by efeski(m): 5:01am On Aug 11, 2019
Thread the needle joor

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