₦airaland Forum

tomi87014:
Help, Trouble In My Marriage

Hello Nairalanders.

I have been married for a year and half. I thought hubby and i have been living happily and i would've swore he was faithful. A few days ago i saw that a random lady messaged him on Facebook and they got talking. I was shocked at first to see that he was chatting her up. Fast forward to yesterday I checked his phone and saw that himself and the lady had more conversation and what started as facebook chat had progressed from phone calls to whatsapp chat. The content of their chat seems they were eventually planning to hook up.

I confronted hubby but he wasn't remorseful and told me he doesn't owe me faithfulness and went on to sleep in the other room. Hubby and I pray together and are looking towards a very bright future together, this is not something i really saw coming from him. I am very troubled in my heart and pregnant for our first baby. He dozent feel any atom of pity that the whole issue might cause me problems and I have been wondering what has come over him. I am 100 percent faithful to my hubby and want the union to work out. I am at work typing and holding back tears. Please i need advise from mature people in the house, how do i deal with the situation. I am in my late 20s, he is in his late 30s.

sankky:
We knew already.
Some of us voiced it out but were hushed.
At a point it appeared more like a smear campaign targeting his tribe even when within the 3weeks of conjuring different news about Evans, we merely saw flashed news of more than 15 kidnappers from the south west......the Ikorodu students kidnap, the Ibadan kidnapping, the single lady that kidnapped little kids in Ikorodu, etc. But Evans was the only focus. The law has same sentence for Kidnapping irrespective of how smart or how much ransom a crook is paid.
It was also obvious when they said his wife was involved and that he confessed so. It conflicted with the High IQ tag being placed on Evans , because even the devil to some extent protects his own.
Let justice prevail.
He who does the crime must do the time....or get hanged. Shikena !

TheUmbra:
Please say that again! Only this time shout it out loud!

What makes anyone think Anioma will remain in Nigeria when the rest of our kin across the Niger leaves?

joteee:
Op should edit that thrash

Aniomas are igbos and will never be minorities

That is why we have Wikipedia but op will not use it

SUNDICOS:
Pls friends, I' ve being looking looking for a way to stop this unfunny harbit of my life, but couldn't, meanwhile if you have any positives comments that will help me out, pls don't waste time to do so through this media

GrandFinale2017:
lol you've also been hurt by Naija girls bah?
I rarely have time for those Silly set of creatures

taylor88:
OGA SIR NO FEAR


U AINT GOING ANYWHERE


THE HARDER THEY COME THE HARDER THEY FALL

V's UNDERSTAND

NwaObinkita:

Things women do to get husbands.

I can bet this was an instruction from an Alfa, herbalist, prophetess or it is a ritual

Either way, I pity the destiny of the people who ate this food.

donsteady:
Flaka in action... that drug is worst than cocaine

darbeelicous:
nepa take light them no go on Gen? Hehehehe make Una dey there dey wait!


#i_love_naija

sarrki:
Madam let me educate you
Agriculture is the main source of national income for most developing countries. However, for the developed countries, agriculture contributes a smaller per cent age to their national income. Agricultural sector provides fodder for domestic animals .Cow provides people with milk which is a form of protective food.

three:
Dino this Dino that

Many have opinions on 'Dino Melaye', his tendencies and competence, Question is how come Dino Melaye is a Senator and you are simply left to make comments on Nairaland?

Unless you're one of those who plan to do the same thing or worse don't you think you could do better than Dino Melaye?

We need to redefine our actions on Social Media, Join A Political Party and Raise Competent Candidates for 2019 and get these misfits out.

The problems can't be solved overnight but they can be solved nonetheless .
A chief criteria of Politics is foresight and patience, we tend to forget the little seeds and look for big revolutions then get frustrated cos it seems this 'revolution' won't come.

Political revolutions begin with as little as a mosquito bite and swirl into a whirlwind.

2 Years from now most people will wish they had started today.

When do you think Tinubu started plotting the demise of the PDP with his grand mega party plan, do you realise he was scoffed at?

You reading this, do you not think you're more intelligent than some of these leaders? so how come you're reading this and not vying for political office?

Get UP!

WAKE UP!!!

...or you think you can't be governor, senator or president? then don't complain when misfits lord it over you

#NigeriaElections2019DoItYourself
#NigeriaElections2019StartNow

saintandsinnerz:
So the issue now is about the number of states the Igbos should secede with ? Hmm, that's in interesting! By the way, which region are you from and what's your contribution to national purse?

Thorhammer:
Some Nigerians talk about BBN daily just so we can be aware of the qualities of a particular contender in show. They invest their money to vote just to keep their candidate on the show, then also run a free campaign online just to make sure their candidate wins. I have no problem with BBN, but if only such devotion could be given to a good candidate that runs on a platform of a small party (eg KOWA), it would have been worth it. Everyone is going on a limb for a BBN candidate, but when the one that affects their lives comes (Election), they will be demanding money and Kongo of rice from APC and PDP