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bukatyne:
Second husband unheard of ke?

You need to wake up sharp sharp and move from herbal to modern medicine

its not recognized In Africa, talk less Nigeria. Come see my mum so we can work out The modalities. You don't have to be shy bout things like this.

bukatyne:
If you will mind becoming husband no 2

my request is valid. Yours is unheard of. Come onboard dear.husband no2will never cross ur mind. Just become my second wife like play like play

GAZZUZZ:
Just read thru the thread

EHERBAL!!!!

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kandiikane:
Stop talking shyt!

stop faking shyt

EfemenaXY:
Really, what's the "sense" in an outrightly skewered sexist article as this?

Do you not think it ought to work both ways for both sexes? Or are you proposing that the man should keep several partners while the woman sticks to her cheating partner?

The cheek.

Another One bites the dust

jmoore:
Why didn't he make a case for polyandry, huh?

because like homosexuality, it's alien to us.

kandiikane:
What rubbish.


At this day and age, women can freeze their eggs in their prime and either carry it or get a surrogate. Are you a learner? If you did not know, male fertility also declines with age.

A 60 year old woman with money can still date a younger man. You be learner? I don't understand why men like to believe in falsehood. The same reason a young woman will be with an 80 year old man, is the same reason a young man will be with a 60 year old woman.

I am up for who ever wants to be with more than one partner as long as women aren't judged for wanting the same too. It is not only men that do not enjoy monogamy. Just remember that whilst you are there enjoying yourself between the thighs of a young woman, your wife is on top of one virile young man like that(and as luck would have it, no babies to worry about). Is it not on this same forum recently that we saw pictures of two young men marrying women probably old enough to be their grandmother? The writer should just shut up and continuing fucking his mistresses. Your marriage has been like "heaven" for 45 years yet you are preaching about the hypocrisy of monogamous marriage. The only link with hypocrisy and pretentious with regards to this whole writeup is the the writer himself. Why not write about how you and your wife managed to make heaven out of your marriage for 45 years for others to emulate. For una mind now, na only woman fit manage one preek for life. Mtchew!

another one gets it wrong. Polygamy in Marriage is what we're talking about not prostitution

EfemenaXY:
To each their own.

This article at best, can be described as a haphazard, directionless piece, ranting against everything and nothing in particular.

The question, @OP, is - what are your views on this?

kukuruku156:
My thoughts exactly Ma'am

Hope my views are convincing? Now be good ladies, tell me yours

TheMadame:
I find this piece utterly confusing. The author has been married for 45 years to one woman and has just discovered it is not natural. He has just discovered polygamy is better than monogamy,so men and hopefully women too should/will be allowed to go into multiple relationships. Or does it apply to men alone?

we're talking about polygamy in the marriage institution ,not prostitution

EfemenaXY:
To each their own.

This article at best, can be described as a haphazard, directionless piece, ranting against everything and nothing in particular.

The question, @OP, is - what are your views on this?

the article is the Truth on my view; polygamy is Safer,Fairer,Truthful ,and honest option. Far Better than Adultery.Thereare no penalties in the holy books against polygamy. Most of the prophets of God were polygamous. It was never abolished before, during and after the death of christ

bukatyne:
Funny thread

I would advice the OP's wife to be watchful

Her husband might have just passed a coded message

would you like to be wife no2? Never a dull mo with me. Ask wife no 1

This piece is not set out to condemn or criticise monogamy. Monogamy is perfect for those who believe in its concept and can genuinely keep to it. I too have been married to one lovely woman for almost 45 years and it has been like a marriage made in heaven. I happen also to be the promoter along with some friends the 35-year-old Family Club of Nigeria which is dedicated to the upliftment and celebration of marriage and family values.

The article is designed to expose the hypocrisy and pain associated with embracing false notions which are really not observed by any culture in the world, and to advise those who erroneously sentence themselves to a life of sadness and emptiness because they were deceived to believe that there is some utopia somewhere called monogamy.

I am very much aware that this article will generate a lot of controversy most especially from those who live holier-than-thou life and have continued to deceive the world that they are upholders of a doctrine that is not supported by true and enlightened interpretation of any religious doctrine.

The white men, I am yet to see any human being whose skin colour is like that of chalk, came and told the unfortunate lands they invaded that the cherished cultures, traditions and religions of such lands were rubbish, and instead indoctrinated them with values which they themselves never believed in or truly practiced. We know of King Henry Vlll, and several major historical figures in ‘Christian’ Europe who had more than one wife in addition of a string of wives who their ‘laws’ forbade them to address as wives but who nonetheless perform all the functions of wife minus name.

God bless President Mitterrand who openly confessed to having two women in his life, with the one in the other house with whom he fathered an 18-year-old daughter at the time he passed on.

I have schooled, worked and lived virtually in all the continents of the world and I make bold to say with all emphasis at my disposal that no culture on planet earth truly practices monogamy. My Greek, Italian, Russian, British, American and other Caucasians routinely visit their other wives [called by other names] with whom they have children. But back in the homes shared with the one carrying the ring, they are monogamists!

If God had wanted humanity to be monogamous, He or She would not have made the pigeon the only monogamous creature.

The cultures that practice polygamy had always known that at any given time, the number of available marriageable women far out number available men plus the fact that an 80-year-old man, if he has money, is still very much in the market whereas a 60-year-old woman may not be that lucky. The biological limitation to a woman’s productive age is also a factor. Why should a woman therefore remain on the shelf till age 45 when she could jolly well get married as second or sixth wife to a man who can afford to share life’s responsibilities with her? Why should a woman leave a man with whom she is No 1, simply because took a second wife and end up being numberless in the hands of several men with whom she naturally shares bed just because of some doctrine she hardly understands?

All the women who should go and marry but are saying they do not want to share their man with another woman in a polygamous setting, are sharing current boyfriends with several other women. Where is the logic?

The argument that children in a polygamous house are always at each other’s throat does not hold water. Many siblings of monogamous families are known to have had worse and irresolvable, irreconcilable squabble, with dirty bitterness over inheritance than children from different mothers.

The agony suffered by both men and women in the hand of unnatural laws and doctrines is too stifling for comfort. In 2002, 502 Reverend mothers were reported to have died while procuring abortion in Rome. Nigerian Tribune wrote an editorial on the unfortunate incident. And stories of Reverend fathers having children and sodomising young men in their care are legion! Why the hypocrisy? Why should the world continue to live the life of Ostrich?

A well known Nigerian journalist hid his other wives from his wife because his religion would not permit of it and his wife, living in monogamy should not hear of it. At his funeral service, other wives surfaced and the woman parading the ring collapsed. It was the grace of God that prevented double interment that day!

The Western world which had not learnt the art of living amicably with more than one partner under the same roof has indulged in multiple serial marriages, divorcing innocent wives under flimsy excuses so that another woman can move in should not be measure of standard for the world. Thank God Hillary Clinton in the US and Mrs Cook in England were very much wiser. They refused to allow some indiscretion on the part of their husbands to ruin their marriages.

There was a well known American actor who passed on about a decade ago and all his 11 ex-wives with their numerous children attended his funeral. To ridicule the lie of their hypocritical existence, all the women were recognised and addressed as wives. As far as records show, the man had 11 wives!

Society must rethink this issue of pretentious monogamy vis-à-vis polygamy so that in the not-too-distant future we do not end up with millions of unmarried women whose life style would be worse than prostitutes’ and millions of children whose fathers would be nowhere to be found.
Source:http://folasophical.com/?p=1965

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Legend of the overfield,Fist of the northstar, crying freeman

Op, did it ever occur to you that the silence of the lady must've been induced by shock of the discovery? Pls kindly modify your post for easy comprehension.

autocraft:
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Sholzbankz:
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no pics, no price,no way of contacting you? Are you a learner or a joke?

Congratulations bro. You really inspired me.

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.if women hate themselves that much, why do we have lesbians? Just saying.......

Anita Oyakhilome, estranged wife of Pastor Chris
Oyakhilome of Belivers' Love World Inc has finally spoken
on her divorce.
Anita, who now goes by her maiden name Ebhodaghe took
to her blog (www.pastoranita.org ) to discuss how her life
has been changing as of late making some serious
references to her marriage as she wrote.
She wrote; It is my desire to reach out and inspire you
especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I
hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the
circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going
forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through
this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as
realising one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is a precious
however, your life can go through different seasons: winter,
spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial
loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken
relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or
being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but
you can do something about it.
Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy
irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or
financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are,
you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you
are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life.
Let nothing stop you from growing every day. My story is
not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to
either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so
long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the
best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others
realise that their situation does not define them.
In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that
nothing is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you
can do something to change it by ensuring you do not allow
the situation or the person make your life miserable. Pain is
a fact of life, it is inevitable but suffering is optional. You
can do something to change the pain by over looking every
obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and
expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has
given you to unleash your purpose.
My message to all is simple: you have value therefore
discover your potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you
or rob you of living a joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you
have just started a different phase of life. God will show you
how to use your testimony to help others and restore their
lives to exuberance. Please join me to encourage and inspire
others. You have a story to tell, you can contribute and
participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from one
another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love
and kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or
making a comment. Celebrate your uniqueness because
there is only one of you.
Source :
http://www.nigerianbulletin.com/threads/i-tolerated-abuse-for-so-long-anita-oyakhilome-speaks-of-divorce.116141/

Your Take

MrPristine:
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debsty:
Hello nissparts,
Kindly send the pictoral procedure to debsty2001@yahoo.co.uk.
Thanks

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Yeah. Access bank, ikorodu. Returned the difference.i'll advice all to do same. Someone might lose his /her job

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GAZZUZZ:
Eherbal!!!

This is lovely

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How Far!

Now Can You Beat That!

Ok

What Would You Do?

What Would You Do?

Marriage is an institution that is full of challenges, according to popular opinion. Many times, there are lots of temptations that come along, which often determine its survival. To this end, Saturday PUNCH asked some people what they would do if they found out that their siblings were having illicit affairs with their spouses

http://www.punchng.com/feature/adam-eve/what-will-you-do-if-you-find-out-your-spouse-is-having-sex-with-your-sibling/

Drain your engine oil!
Take out your car sound system including your woofer if you have one
Empty fuel tank
Take out your battery
Take out all four tyres
Take out spark plugs
These measures are to prevent problems for the vehicle and to guard against car vandals