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Oovi5

Nice gesture, as them no fit go orphanage go take picture and make video again. Man must be innovative

longetivity:
I love saggy boobs

seriously

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willingheart:
I'm trying all I can. It gets difficult as he has no support from even his family members. I've given his CV to quite number of people to help, but no positive outcome till now.
He had OND, I don't know about getting a well paying job with that result, but so long as he has something to manage, it's fine. But right now, nothing. I feel responsible for every one of his things. In marriage, I'm not sure I can handle that all alone and I want to settle down.

You are his strongest support as it stands. However, in all brutal honesty I don't think OND is good enough in my opinion except he wants to go into business.

It's very complex for you I must admit. Why not pressure him a little by threatening to leave him if he doesn't up his game (you make him way too comfortable by tending to all his needs, cut some of your supplies) give him some few months, if you see no change in his eagerness to be successful albeit legitimately, I am scared to say this but you could then look elsewhere.

willingheart:
I'm truly in love with this guy. We are happy together, We understand each other perfectly. With him I'm � myself, No pretence. Same with him. He's everything I want in a man, but the problem is that: he doesn't have money. He keeps trying, but things are not working. no job and he's from a family where everyone are on their own facing their challenges, no support.


He's 35yrs this yr and I'm 30 already. He wants to get married, but he can't afford it.

Lately, I buy almost everything for him, to support him.

Age is not on my side, yet the only man I love and that loves me can't afford to marry me. If we're married, it will be easy for me to share everything with him without my family members putting eyes.

My Aunt called me stu.pid that i should accept a financially stable man instead of being with a man who can not afford to take care of me.
I have little money I saved to support my wedding as well, but he have nothing.

Married people in the house please help.
I want to have direction plan for my life coming year.

Marrying the one you love or the one that's financially stable. What's your advice and opinion?

How long has he been out of job, is there any likelihood of him landing a job, does he have the basic requirement to be successful in life(certificate, drive, plans, willingness to get dirty if need be). Don't let anyone deceive you love is very important in marriage, maybe not as important as money.

My fear for you is that should that guy become well to do tomorrow and your rich husband doesn't treat you half as good as this one did, mehn it will be so much regret. If you can help him strategize in order for him to be successful please do, ensure you tell friends and family, church members or mosque members as the case may be to help him land a job. I think his financial stability is the only missing jigsaw to marrying the man you truly love and it is one very important jigsaw.

Please help him, I am certain he will be eternally grateful for having you as a wife.

Heartbrokengirl:
Lolzzz. I have to agree with you. My friend wanted to follow me that day oh. If she did, I am sure she would have badmouthed him before he says hi

Lols, thank God there are still some smiles left on your face. With this experience hope you don't engage in the stereotype of 'All men are same', cause there are still some few good ones left.

Heartbrokengirl:
We never had penetrative sex, I have never had penetrative sex. The messages are from our past chat, I only cleared the chat after creating this thread. I have not set my eyes on him since then. He has called with other numbers, but that has been it.

Plz, you can reserve the “hoe” tag for your loved ones if it is such a pleasant name. Using it randomly on people you do not know is a not a sign of good upbringing.

You guys here are all about the dick, dick is everywhere, but I have lived 25yrs of my life without it and I didn’t die. I was only hurt he lied to me and led me on. Some of us are trusting. I know people that would have ransacked his house and social media pages, but I didn’t do that. I am not even on Facebook and Instagram. He preyed on the fact that I am quite private and trusting, direct your misgivings to him!!

You seem to be one good girl that stepped in a grocery store at a wrong time. His undoing was telling you he is single. Don't dwell on it, just pick yourself up and move on. Cheers to more beautiful life ahead

Na wa o

LucyB24:
I'm a 24 year old lady living and working in Abuja. My job is very time demanding. I'm usually very busy on weekdays, and sometimes on weekends I can get called to work if something important comes up.

There is a guy I've known for months now. We met in Abuja at an event and we've been friends since. He lives in lagos but visits Abuja occasionally. He's also a very busy guy and he hardly has time on his hands. We have spent sometime together talking and getting to know each other but we haven't been on an official date. Most of our interaction has been over phone calls and WhatsApp text messages due to the distance barrier.

I fell in love with him during the course of our friendship. He is everything I want in a man. He's financially stable, very good looking and smart. The few times I've spent talking to him have been a pleasure, both for my eyes and for my mind. I never thought I could ever meet someone who checks all those boxes perfectly.

Men like him usually get a lot of female attention and I've tried to tread carefully. I didnt want him to see me as cheap but I also don't want him to think I am not interested in him. The day he told me he loved me was very memorable for me because I felt the same way. Few days later I told him I loved him too. Due to the distance barrier we could only talk on phone. I'm a very decent lady with good upbringing but because of what I felt for him, I did things I thought I'd never do. One night we had a sex chat that ended in me sending nudes to him. I've never done this before. This made me feel vulnerable and cheap because even though he said he loved me, I never believed him because he didn't really act like someone who was in love with me. He wasn't the type to call everyday and there were periods where he would dissapear for days and ignore my calls and texts and then return like nothing happened.

Last week we planned a special meeting. I was to travel to Lagos to see him at his place on Saturday morning. He had planned to refund me the money I'd use for my airline ticket and even hire a taxi that would bring me straight to his place from the airport. The way he sounded I knew he took it as a big deal. I agreed to come see him in lagos. On Friday morning he called and I assured him I was going to come. He called me again in the afternoon and I assured him I was going to come.

Towards the end of work on Friday my boss informed me that I had to be at work on Saturday to complete a very important project. Immediately I got the information I sent him a text. I was too tired when I left for home and I planned on calling him later that evening. I was so tired that I took a quick nap and woke up to missed calls from him. I called him back and asked if he got my message and he said he didn't. I informed him of the change in plans and he got very furious. He accused me of being indecisive and playing games. He said he had cancelled lots of meetings and spent money preparing for my visit and was disappointed that I didn't take him as seriously as he took me. He ended the call in annoyance and I've not heard from him since. He isn't picking my calls or replying my texts. I've sent him voice messages on WhatsApp apologizing and explaining myself but he hasn't replied..

I really love this guy and I don't want to lose him. He probably thinks I'm lying to him or that I have someone else I'm seeing but that's not the case.

Have you heard about the infamous "Yoruba Demon"

nkemdi89:
Still in the pipeline.

I pray it flows just the way you wish...cheers

nkemdi89:
Paid his house rent twice .

Hope it paid off

vicdom:

Vicdom even dey NL sef ...wahala no too much

ThreadOwner:
tailor ke?

Abi na, watin you say make I talk, Freedom from watin?

Freedom na yeye name, the boy no go forgive e mother if e grow up with that name. By the way Mr OP that your aunty na Tailor?

He is a sick man, I bet he will beat her up again, these kind of men are better alone as little things irritates them.

Jogunomi1:
Before our first child, her belly was naturally not flat and she's not obese. After first child, her belly became bigger. I just want her belly to stop getting bigger.

What can I do please?

Baba manage am like that, you want big bress, big yansh and flat tummy. Oga you be tif

Carchoice:
I bashed an SUV yesterday, I thought the driver was taking off and I charged up to follow him just to beat the messy traffic, he braked immediately and it happened. His bumper was a bit disjointed on the right side, and almost pulled off one of the mini brake lights on the bumper. Nothing happened to my car.

We parked by the road side and Mr got out of control. I kept telling to calm down that I acknowledged it was my fault and mistake. I started hearing things like, who are you? How old are you? You small boy, go and ask of me in so so and so autos store”

I kept telling him to calm down but he wasn’t having it. Cost of damage running into hundred and some thousands was given to me. I was working on making a transfer while he was still fuming in anger and saying a lot. All of a sudden he entered his car and told his friend to hop in, I tried pleading with him to wait, he refused and even told me he will do worse should he get down from his car. I told his friend to tell him to calm down but he shouted at his friend to close his door and zoomed off.

On my way home I realized a lot from the incident, ALOT. The man was not interested in taking money from me. He was that angry because he knows he was not going to take money from me and he knows he was going to bear the cost of fixing the car. He was angry because he did not leave his house to go and bear cost for another person and the incident will likely ruin the rest of his day. I felt bad. I felt his pain. A Lexus SUV for the men.

But why was he feeling intimidated by asking my age and social status? Maybe it was my body composure, because I wasn’t looking fazed, I knew I already made a mistake which I have to pay for. I accept my mistakes easily, it helps me beat and teach myself for correction.

Then he also asked me this question;

“Where are you rushing to?”

this question will be my motto for 2021.


The incident also reminded me of my Ma, back then when it was time to pay school fees and we ask her for money, she starts acting as if they are stinging her needles. Woe betide you should you forget to do chores or refused to run errands for her, she’ll kill you in peace and keep the school fees money instead.

Most humans expresses pains with anger and rage

You're such a fluid writer

From the word "go" Nigeria was not meant to be, I detest the name "Nigga Area" but our fathers had always danced to the drum beats of the whites.

Now look out how far we've come, I'm no prophet of doom, Nigeria wasn't meant to work.

Philipponzaghi:
It’s now a norm for intelligent people to always use spectacles.

Or maybe it’s just a psychological illusion on my own part.

they spend long hours looking at a particular thing (a computer or a book)

Winnerrrr:
oh boy,

Loop o.

It kept me in a loop for a long time before I finally break free, lol.

abeg explain the thing gimme an, I don tire

ebenhazard:
I doubt if this lady is truly hausa woman..bcoz they are always incorcated with that almajiris brain

she is from Edo state, Auchi precisely, same with her husband

doggedfighter:
Being in money all your life and growing up to start making your money without stress can be tiring


Sorry , Davido

True, the chase of money keeps us all going, once that chase becomes worthless we get very bored. lady, you wise small

beauty7:
One prick is wasted for nothing.

Instead of killing self why not just live anyhow and if you die in the process so be it.

At least there are people who might have need of your prick.

mumu talk, you fine for face but ugly for brain. They make live any how go join arm robbery make go eventually come rob and rape for your papa house. Stupid opinions everywhere

lastchild:
he's a fool, and anybody that pitied a suicide victim is equally a fool

committing suicide is the biggest gut any human can have, since you have such gut to take your life, that gut is enough to fight your battle

any day it come across my mind to take my life, first of all, all my enemies are dying that day because I'll go on a shooting bonanza

Why would you have thoughts of dragging people to a dark place with you, you be Osama bin Laden reincarnate, you worse pass who commit suicide

When the essence of living are long gone, suicide becomes an option.

I sorry for crocodile wey dem born for Nigeria

Can I have it as my pet, if no let it pass

With that genetic disorder, he has a very short lifespan

And the soldiers wished us safe journey. So sad of what Nigeria has become

The best time to have your Biafra is here, don't jeopardize it. Northerners always look out for themselves, Igbos should do likewise. All mallam with e kettle so they say. ✌️

Do some research on SLE