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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 8:31pm On Feb 27, 2021
DEMZEE:
Blame men for women's innate nature of hypergamy lolzzz

Wat a weakling

Of u can't compete for dominance and status as a man then u deserve death!!!
Another preposterous counter. Keep struggling for your dominance to avoid death. grin tongue
Romance › Re: Why Being Nice Is Actually Bad For You by Ekakamba(op): 12:20pm On Feb 27, 2021
Extra ordinary summary:




YOU FIRST! grin tongue


Romance › Why Being Nice Is Actually Bad For You by Ekakamba(op): 12:19pm On Feb 27, 2021
SUMMARY:

- Each person is responsible for their own emotions, and it's not your job to make everyone happy.

- It’s no secret that we like to be liked. But some people can be seriously dependent on this and forget about their own thoughts, beliefs, and wishes.

- Confrontations are just a part of life because it’s how we really get to know each other, expand our views, and learn to understand other people’s points of view. If you’re afraid of it, then it means you don’t know how to stand up for yourself or how to defend your beliefs.

- People who like to please others tend to end up in unhealthy relationships. They don’t cut off communication with a friend who always asks them for a favor but never ever returns it.

- There are people who apologize even when they’re guilty of nothing. They keep blaming themselves for basically everything that goes wrong, even if it’s absolutely not in their power to control or change it.

- You can’t form deep relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up when need be and say that your feelings are hurt. Denying that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed keeps a relationship superficial.

- You don’t really wanna do this favor for someone – you’re simply doing it out of obligation. It’s a fear that if you say no, then it’ll upset the person who’s asked you for help.

- You should take care of yourself too! It doesn't mean that you have to be selfish. It simply means knowing when to put your needs first to avoid feeling emotional and even sometimes physically drained.

- Never forget that people treat us the way we let them. Having healthy boundaries means that no one will take advantage of you anymore.

- People usually look for approval from others when their sense of self-worth is low when they think that they have to go out of their way to be worthy of attention and love.

- You can be generous without letting others use you. You can be kind without coming across as a pushover. You can be well-liked without having to do something for someone first.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dStIOv2moM&t=159s
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 10:00pm On Feb 26, 2021
PrinxArthur1:
you re not different from Mrcoldsweat.
Whatever that is! Who again I ain't different from? undecided

Next time, counter me with your own perspective not just a nebulous phrase. grin tongue
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 9:57pm On Feb 26, 2021
PrinxArthur1:
you re not different from Mrcoldsweat.
Whatever that is! Who again I ain't different from? undecided
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 7:09pm On Feb 26, 2021
Beirut01:
Guy, come plain. You're a feminist. What you're saying is out of point. Women are hypergamous. Ain't way a woman better than me will marry me
Can't we stop talking about the bolded?

We 'MEN' are the reason why women are hypergamous.

The last time I checked, it is men like you who is worth $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$, with at least a 1st degree will woo a JSS drop-out and marry her. Why? Because you are darn scared of a well-to-do lady? Then why cry wolf (the bolded) when you can also be?

It is full-leash for a man to assume that any woman who does better than him won't accept to date or marry him, that man needs to work on himself ASAP.

Any man wey never date and tame woman who does better (or equal to him) than him to the extent of full submission should STFU and stop complaining about women HYPERGAMY!

Damn! undecided
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Smashes Cheating Boyfriend's New Iphone 12, Plasma TV (photos) by Ekakamba: 8:04pm On Feb 24, 2021
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Nairaland General › Re: What Does You Nairaland Moniker Says About You? by Ekakamba(op): 1:19pm On Feb 24, 2021
lol...
Took a glance at your moniker and remember a track kondo from 'The CEO'.

Excerpts................
Koma si oro fronting
Mummy mi o si nile
Daddy mi o si nile
Egbon mi o si nile
Emi nika mo wa nile
Wa gba kondo, kondo, kondo
Wa wo Commando, mando, mando
Kondomatic:
Some things are better left unsaid
Politics › Re: Zulum Visits Hospitals, Confirms 10 Deaths, 47 Injuries After Boko Haram Attack by Ekakamba: 1:16pm On Feb 24, 2021







So unfortunate! undecided
Nairaland General › Re: What Does You Nairaland Moniker Says About You? by Ekakamba(op): 1:10pm On Feb 24, 2021
grin tongue
Nairaland General › Re: What Does You Nairaland Moniker Says About You? by Ekakamba(op):
Mine was coined in error. grin
Had this friend from AI who teaches me basic Ibibio; this same person introduced me to Nairaland. After being a guest for months, I decided to register. Instead of me using Etekamba (BIG DADDY/FATHER), I erroneously used the opposite of etekamba. grin tongue
Nairaland General › What Does You Nairaland Moniker Says About You? by Ekakamba(op): 12:59pm On Feb 24, 2021
Politics › Re: Ortom: If Anything Happens To Me, Hold Gov Bala Mohammed Responsible by Ekakamba: 7:12am On Feb 23, 2021
So unfortunate.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 10:48am On Feb 21, 2021





Don't brag about your morals until you have the money to fund your temptations. There are many things hidden in poverty.





Source: Ctrl+Ced

We can look at this from various perspectives. Have a blissful day fellas!
Romance › Re: An ugly Girl With A Big Booty Or Preety Face And Dry Booty ? by Ekakamba: 8:58pm On Feb 20, 2021
An ugly girl with a LCD screen type of ass, groundnut breasts size, hunch back and a papa Ajasco's pot belly is the stand-that. grin tongue
Politics › Re: Miyetti Allah Nominated New Ohaneze President, Wrote Letter To Nwodo by Ekakamba: 8:54pm On Feb 20, 2021
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Travel › Re: Jabi Lake Park: Where ABUJA Residents Spend Their Weekends (pics, Video) by Ekakamba: 9:41am On Feb 20, 2021
Duru9:
Apart from Abuja people spending weekends there


That's where Runs girls catch client every morning all in the name of exercise

Today is Saturday go there this morning and see them wearing transparent leggings without panties and what I considered to be bra with their nipples pointing at you

They get their married clients there too
You too observe am abi? grin
Travel › Re: Jabi Lake Park: Where ABUJA Residents Spend Their Weekends (pics, Video) by Ekakamba: 9:39am On Feb 20, 2021






Hoodlums full there.


Why not just enter Jabi boat club and enjoy yourself? grin tongue
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 9:40am On Feb 18, 2021
Dapcity247:
Dating strong independent ladies as a weak financial struggling man is a recipe for disaster, you will be dealt with by her natural hypergamy even if you genuinely love her and have no insecurities at all
Not for me! You called yourself a REDPILLER and you can't even dare to date such ladies? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

You rather go for a more financially weaker lady than you? If you're a degree holder, I guess you can't date an Msc. holder. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I agree with all that you said. Bye. grin tongue
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 9:17am On Feb 18, 2021
Dapcity247:
It can't happen , and even if it happens,no matter her job I'm an entrepreneur whose going to work with loans bigger than her salary of ten years smiley
It can't happen... Yet even if it does? You are a funny man. grin

You said all these with certainty and confidence because you know the kind/type of girls you approach/date. I assure you that a person like you who approached a walking lady with the intention to date her will be in shock (and abort mission) the moment she told you she works in an 'A' class firm/organisation like Shell, NIMASA etc.

Peace! Whatever gives us joy, we should stick to it. Cheerssssssssssssssssssss!
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 11:27pm On Feb 17, 2021
Dapcity247:
I'm going into full business
I'm not learning a trade,skill or profession
I'm not making use of my degree

I'm creating a business system with partners that will affect transport logistics and import cars from overseas ,I have the plans but need to finish my education to implement

I'm working with loans , entering huge debt to raise Capitals and yield cashflow
I will never depend on women as a Patriach
Don't get me wrong I ain't saying men should depend on women. Even women should not depend on men entirely.

What if with all your efforts, your wife still surpasses you in wealth?

Are you gonna divorce her? This is my take home question.

Night bro. God bless our hustle. cool
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 11:18pm On Feb 17, 2021
Dapcity247:
Women's sexual,social, economical independence from men is always at the expense of men

One gender must always dominate the other as a collective, if it's men it's civilization order,if it's women it's civilization chaos
I understand, just get a secondary school dropout as a girlfriend then maybe a wife if you decide to marry because you never can tell if you'll continue being richer/wealthier than your wife till death.

Tell me what you'll do in this scenario: You work with X coy earning maybe 1000 naira monthly, got married to a lady (got 1st degree) who is a NPower scheme teacher earning 10 naira monthly. Her brother who works in XYZ Commission pushed buttons and your wife received an appointment letter in TRP Commission with a monthly net of 10,000 naira.

What will you do the say she broke this news to you?

Night bro.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 11:05pm On Feb 17, 2021
Dapcity247:
I'm not preaching the redpill to you since it's not a sermon

Study western societies , progressive countries and see evidence why what you call hatred is reality and truth of the opposite gender

They don't marry again
Divorce is now a cultural norm
Single motherhood is a cultural norm
Fatherless children abound leading to suicide, criminal activities,drug abuse of these children
Their family court legal system favors women during child custody
Alimony given during divorce
False rape culture
How does this correlate to the question about supporting your ambitious girlfriend/wife to achieve success?

See ehn, make wuna dey use wuna head for here ooo... No be everything wey wuna read online wuna go apply am waaaaaaaa in reality.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 11:03pm On Feb 17, 2021
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 10:49pm On Feb 17, 2021
Dapcity247:
You are ignorant and know nothing about redpill history and philosophies
It's dangerous thinking like these that destroyed family values western societies, cultivate feminity in your female family members and prepare them for the future
Strengthen female masculinity at your peril,
Mr. Philosopher I give no fork about RedPill history if it's about hating the OPPOSITE gender.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 10:36pm On Feb 17, 2021
QuadrilAyinde:
Now, I will like to ask A question coz I'm Sincerely interested in Learning more about this RedPill philosophy coz me I be FreeThinker, I No dey Follow ManMade Ideology, I create my own Principles and It has been Working PERFECTLY for me..

As a RedPiller, What are ur Plans for Supporting ur Wife per chance She is a Career Woman and Not Ready to Let go for whatsoever reason??
Never do away with those words in bold. Is your wife or girlfriend a career woman/lady? Help her achieve success at your own discretion.

It seems this thread is now filled with sadists who hate girls/ladies/women for reason best known to them. Just look at the shit some folks are saying when you asked this simple question.
Autos › Re: TOTAL COSTS OF CLEARING TOKUNBO VEHICLES. by Ekakamba: 10:09am On Feb 15, 2021
johnseno:
3 .8m and 4 .2m
How much to clear 2013 Ford Edge?
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ekakamba: 7:46pm On Feb 13, 2021
luminouz:
That Facebook is something else.

I remembered one girl I met there in 2019. I asked for her number, she said she doesn't give out numbers till she feels like. I said ok. Fast forward to 2020. I just saw a Hi from her and when I replied, she said she is broke. I straight up asked her why she now remembered me, a guy she never gave attention, for her money problems. She quickly retracted and said she was joking about the money but if I give she will collect. I was like WTF is the joke? You still dey ask me for money either ways. Sh now said she would gimme her number for 4k. I almost had a stroke with the anger in my chest. I said, so you wan sell me your number. Told her I wasn't interested and that women and urgent 2k issues are boring. She said, she was playing and even if I give her the money, she wasn't obligated to give me her number. I never bothered to reply.

I just imagine the guts a broke geh has to still feel like some queen on top her begging spree.Only God knows how many other FB guys must have given her that 4k.

The day I pay for a geh's number, make my dick disappear. Amen
I can't stop laughing. grin grin grin grin You did well.
Autos › Re: N1,200,000 or Less Tokunbo Cars by Ekakamba: 10:29pm On Feb 12, 2021
How much will it cost me to get Camry XLE 2013?

amdman:
2006 Honda Civic

270k miles

No faults reported

N1.7m
Business › Re: CBN Ban On Cryptocurrencies: Luno Disable All Naira Withdrawals And Deposits by Ekakamba(op): 5:56pm On Feb 11, 2021
Stick to the bolded folks! It's temporary.
Business › CBN Ban On Cryptocurrencies: Luno Disable All Naira Withdrawals And Deposits by Ekakamba(op): 5:54pm On Feb 11, 2021
Hi Mr. XYZ,

In light of the recent circular from the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) advising financial institutions to close bank accounts held by cryptocurrency service providers, Luno has been forced to disable all Naira withdrawals and deposits.

We’re very sorry that we weren’t able to inform you of this in advance, but we did not receive the prior warning that we needed from our payment partners. If you’ve already requested a withdrawal, we unfortunately cannot guarantee that it will be processed. If it is not processed, it will be returned to your wallet.

Please be assured that your funds are completely safe and we are working hard to resolve this issue as quickly as possible. This is an ongoing situation, so please check the status page for updates. We’ll keep you informed of all incoming developments as soon as we receive further information.

There are two options you can take at this point:

1. Store and trade your cryptocurrency with Luno until the situation is resolved. You can continue to use all your account features as normal, with the exception of depositing and withdrawing Naira. If you’re concerned about the volatility of your cryptocurrency, you can move your cryptocurrency into USDC.
2. Send your cryptocurrency to a different wallet address. You can still send your cryptocurrency to wallets on other platforms. However, we would strongly recommend that you do not send your cryptocurrency to strangers offering to withdraw your cryptocurrency for you, as they may be trying to scam you.

Luno has always worked closely with regulators in Africa and all regions in which we operate, and will continue working with the CBN and others to find a solution. Nigeria’s regulators have taken a pragmatic and forward-looking approach to cryptocurrency in the past and we’re confident that this issue can be resolved quickly, so that Nigeria can continue to play a central role in the growth of cryptocurrency.

Team Luno

We go survive am. grin tongue

Politics › Re: Nude: IGP To Arraign Ohakim Over ‘Threat To Circulate Nude Photos’ Of A Lady by Ekakamba: 5:16pm On Feb 11, 2021
Omihanifa:
This man is finished
A Seasoned Nigerian politician finished? grin tongue

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