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Events / Re: Investiture Of Nigerian Institution Of Safety Engineers Akwa Ibom State by ekwerendi(m): 9:24am On Mar 30
This is laudable development
Congratulations

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Politics / Re: NNPC Says Processes For Public Ownership Of Its Shares To Begin Soon by ekwerendi(m): 3:18pm On Mar 21
God give me money to buy this shares

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Family / Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by ekwerendi(m): 5:31pm On Mar 15
Una dey portray bad marriages everywhere to scare people,I must say good marriages exist, I am a beneficiary..

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Family / Re: Who Gave Our Mothers This Idea? Photo by ekwerendi(m): 4:13pm On Nov 14, 2023
Whatever a man believes, it works for him.

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Properties / Re: Guys' Apartment That Girls Died For In Those Days by ekwerendi(m): 6:33pm On Aug 25, 2023
We were rich if so
Our parlour was so beautiful
Nairaland / General / Re: What Is That Thing You Want To Stop But Always See Yourself Doing It Again by ekwerendi(m): 10:01am On Jul 22, 2023
Spending money
Culture / Re: How Many Nigerian Languages Can You Speak? by ekwerendi(m): 1:03pm On Jul 08, 2023
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Education / Re: Solve This Easy And Yet Tricky Question by ekwerendi(m): 7:52am On Jun 24, 2023
Obinoscopy:
https://twitter.com/instablog9ja/status/1671948761990397976?t=JJ3HQWr_LmCWboU4O06iKQ&s=19

Seems easy but it's not. The answer is not what you might think it is.

11.55pm
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Not All Job Offers Are Destined To Be Your Next Big Move! by ekwerendi(m): 8:43pm On May 24, 2023
Oyindamolah:
Case 4 was exactly my cousin's case. These are very true, not all job offers are big moves.

A colleague of mine left our organization with a Leave allowance (but you don't go on leave)
13th month with a bag of rice
Housing once every 2 years
Productivity allowance
Pension
HMO
Salary 100k
Mondays - Fridays

To another organization that will pay 350k with HMO, NHF & leave allowance( you go for leave) Monday to Saturday. After the first 8 months of paying him 350k, they dropped the offer to 60k reason being that the company is not making money.

Shine your eyes


Jehovah lord

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Education / Re: UI, UNN, UNILAG Shine In Centre For World University Rankings by ekwerendi(m): 9:47pm On May 15, 2023
EmptyGarden:
You call this shine?

I wanted asking same

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Politics / Re: Gov Oyebanji: We Have Paid Over N31bn As Salaries, Gratuities, Pensions by ekwerendi(m): 11:24am On May 13, 2023
When I read news like this,I wonder whose responsibility is it to pay salaries and benefits of workers... Paying salary is now an achievement
Events / Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by ekwerendi(m): 2:27pm On Apr 17, 2023
BmAe:
During an introduction or let me say bride price negotiation and payment, the man will bring drinks, bring gift then carry his people down to his woman's house and then pay money for the wedding.

The question now is will he be the one to also pay for the food that the woman and her parents will cook when he and his people visit?

Will the man pay for the food or support since he is coming as a visitor with his people.


I paid for mine...
Though they did entertain us beyond what i gave
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by ekwerendi(m): 10:02pm On Apr 10, 2023
tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance:
I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

Report her to the pastor, her parents and God..
If she doesn't change, try and change by cheating, coming bk late at night etc, she will then know you are not a simp.
Politics / Re: Ayodele Fayose Asks Atiku To Accept Defeat, Return To Dubai by ekwerendi(m): 10:55pm On Feb 27, 2023
I can't stop laughing
Celebrities / Re: Duncan Mighty’s New Look Sparks Reactions (Photos) by ekwerendi(m): 12:14pm On Jan 24, 2023
superCleanworks:
drugs, diet or age?

Poison
Food / Re: 20 Of The World's Best, Mouthwatering Soups. Banga Soup Is No 1 (Photos) by ekwerendi(m): 12:08pm On Jan 24, 2023
Where is the almighty afang soup

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Travel / Re: My Life As A 29-Year-Old Nigerian In Accra, Ghana by ekwerendi(m): 10:08am On Oct 14, 2022
HRprof:

Your story is not complete, @ bolded what were You doing then to get the millions and what's the cause of your challenges that brought you back to ZERO.
Meanwhile, your Destiny is already in your hand. you can raise money by selling your iPhone 12 pro max then buy Nokia touch, then use the money to relocate back to Nigeria and start afresh, is good to learn in a hard way sometimes.


Yahoo nah,nah Wetin dey trend there
Crime / Re: NDLEA Sets Ablaze The N194 Billion Cocaine Seized From Ikorodu Warehouse (Photo) by ekwerendi(m): 6:46am On Sep 28, 2022
Romance / Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by ekwerendi(m): 7:02am On Sep 26, 2022
Ignatiusprince:
Never a good idea to let Ur woman know how much u earn.....



You're very right brother.....
Nairaland / General / Re: Whats That One Thing(s) You Wish You Knew Earlier. by ekwerendi(m): 2:40pm On Sep 20, 2022
Career path
Politics / Re: President Buhari Arrives New York Ahead Of UN General Assembly (Photos) by ekwerendi(m): 8:42am On Sep 19, 2022
Please let him not grant anyone interview please....we all know the disgrace we will have as a country if that happens
Politics / Re: ICPC Uncovers ₦49.9 Billion ‘Ghost’ Workers’ Salaries by ekwerendi(m): 6:52am On Sep 16, 2022
Use it and pay ASUU
Politics / Re: Atiku Names Udom DG Of Campaign Council by ekwerendi(m): 6:51am On Sep 16, 2022
vicdom:
Ex-President Jonathan’s name missing

…Wike, Makinde, Ekwerenmadu, others make final list



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/09/atiku-names-udom-dg-of-campaign-council/

He wants to use Akwa Ibom State money to fund his campaign since Wike is giving him tough time....
Nairaland / General / Re: "I'm Alive To Tell The Story" : Share Your Close Shave With Death Moments by ekwerendi(m): 1:10pm On Aug 18, 2022
Glory be to God

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Travel / Re: Where Can I Relocate To Abroad With 2million Naira? by ekwerendi(m): 6:21pm On Aug 06, 2022
Nigeria
Politics / Re: El-Rufai, Oshiomole, Mattawale & Lalong Meets With Tinubu In Abuja by ekwerendi(m): 6:11pm On Jul 26, 2022
Politics / Re: Buhari To Deliver Lecture On Security In Liberia by ekwerendi(m): 8:42am On Jul 26, 2022
Why does this man wants to ridicule us nah.... it's unfair
Celebrities / Re: Apostle Chibuzor Makes Offer To Two Ladies Fighting Over Kenneth Aguba by ekwerendi(m): 4:48pm On Jul 20, 2022
But where this man dey get all these money from....God bless him
Politics / Re: APC Unveils Shettima As Tinubu Running Mate by ekwerendi(m): 1:45pm On Jul 20, 2022
I get popularity pass this shetimma
Had it been he wanted winning election,he should have picked me as his running mate

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Romance / Re: My Soon To Be Wife by ekwerendi(m): 12:03pm On Jul 16, 2022
This is what has happened to a guy I know,with a good pay salary but he has borrowed from loan apps more than federal government....I guess the girl has a spiritual problem that must be sorted out soon...
Travel / Re: How Can Dispatch Riders Avoid Accidents In Lagos? by ekwerendi(m): 6:27am On Feb 20, 2022
babasolution:
How can Dispatch Riders manage their experience in the roads in Lagos to be free from accidents



The way they ride their bike, sometimes I use to think they don't like their lives.
Politics / Re: Maduka Calls For Cancellation Of Anambra Governorship Election by ekwerendi(m): 5:17am On Nov 09, 2021
Personally, I use to beg this man not to contest , because Nigeria isn't America, but people thought he stood a better chance than other candidates

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