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kellorah:
"never leave me" bit sounds  

'never leave me' means . . . even when I lose my job, or I become the President's contractor, it's still the same.

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=339506.msg4759127#msg4759127 date=1255910955]Now why are u guys making it sound as if we are they only ones who have got cuckoo in the head. Some men get craze wey pass our own o

And i feel you are a guy . . . . .no?[/quote]In Chris Rock's words, men are very simple to take care of . . . 'feed me, Bleep me, never leave me and we're aiite'

No2Atheism:
Actually Nikola Tesla is the most intelligent man of the modern era . . .

Nikola Tesla = Albert Einstein + Isaac Newton + Faraday + Supercomputer . . . .

Noted . . .  

kellorah:
Some women even believe they don't understand themselves, let alone for men to understand them hehe. Men so wish they did!!   Understandably though, life would be so much better if they did, or at least tried to understand women. I don't think they are THAT patient. Eldee is an example. See the way he ruled that all women that act irrationally are immature, without regard to the circumstance, and how often the woman reacts in that way.

All men/women that act irrationally are immature at that exact moment.
It's just like the poplar saying: 'Anger is a version of madness'

kellorah:
First and only result. Not good enough. There should have been more spicemens, and more than one positive result.

And she shouldn't really count cos she was family. . . .she had his genes, and he was more likely to understand and tolerate her.

He tried other women . . . they were too difficult to understand.
This is the same guys that's being called the most intelligent man of our generation.

kellorah:
Same Einstein I read about that married his cousin, or something like that? Lol. Don't think it wud have been advisable to take relationship advice from him.

He only married her because she was the only woman he understood.
She was the first result of his analysis

kellorah:
Hahaha, stop generalising!
I just want to know right there and then what the problem is, so I know how to react to u the next morning.

And I like to go to bed in peace, instead of worrying my wee head. And I wouldn't like him to go to bed mad @ me, and vice versa. That Neyo song is like an eye-opener. You might die in your sleep sef. . .lol [ok, I'm taking it too far but, just trying to put my point across]

Personally, I've learnt that the moment just before I fall asleep is the time my mind is totally settled.
It's the time when I reflect on things I've shoved aside . . . believe me, it helps to take time to think.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=339506.msg4758947#msg4758947 date=1255908683]If i have a choice, i will not marry at all.
Today's women are more complex than solving equations with the Jacobi method.[/quote]Hmmn . . . it's hard maynne.
I wonder why Albert Einstein didn't just spend his time solving the complex task of understanding the modern women.
But no . . . the lazy bloke spent all his life studying freakin e=mc²

kellorah:
Lol, we can only try but I doubt we end up thinking bout every single thing before saying/reacting to it. It's only natural.

Yeah . . . but when you doit enough times till it becomes part of you, then you have something over 70% of the world population.

kellorah:
Na, I prefer to sort things out right there and then.

I wont want to go to sleep, for example, without knowing what's really on your mind-if, for example, uve just said something to me, that obviously demands an explanation. I really don't care if your too annoyed to talk about it, lol.

That's what women always say, till they turn a simple thing into a massive argument.
We sometimes make life more difficult than it should be.

kellorah:
Are u tryna say u think b4 u do/say ANYTHNG AND EVERYTHING?

The Bible says it, 'A wise man is swift to hear, but slow to speak, slow to get angry, and slow to make a decision that requires contemplation'
That's what every man should try to do.

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=339506.msg4758889#msg4758889 date=1255907868]Thats another one, Run away wen conversation gets heated.
And u guys say we are immature? Abeggggggggggggi[/quote]Believe me, that's simple anger management.
Anger brings out more bullshit from a man's mouth than vodka.

If everyone walks away when things get tough and approach the problem with a settled mind after some time, the world will be a better place.

@kellorah
She didn't think before they react . . . and what's that called??

I don't know what the whole relationship is like, but this exact decision is totally immature. . . and that's my problem.

kellorah:
How bout u say your too annoyed to speak to her? Wot's wrong in telling the truth? lol. Are u scared she will become more annoying by asking u why you're annoyed, etc? hehe.   Run away. . .pretend your busy

What's wrong with telling the truth??
Because some things are better left unsaid. . . especially when you're not in the right state of mind to handle the problem at the moment.

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=339506.msg4758848#msg4758848 date=1255907403]No its not, Most men use that i am BUSY bullshit, and most the time u aint doing shyte [/quote]Yeah . . . 'I am busy' is what I use when I'm too annoyed to talk to you right now.
It saves me from saying things I will need to apologise for.

davidylan:
nah its not . . . i think we all have an unbalanced view of what maturity really is. Being mature is not the same as not being bothered when your bf wont call for 2 weeks at a stretch, assuming he loves you because you are too "mature" to ask him to tell you, not expressing your God-given emotions because to cry or nag is to be "immature".

Different strokes for different folks . . . we have emotions for a reason. Maturity does not remove the need to express it one way or the other.

Maturity in this case is about choosing the right way to express your emotions.
That's where wisdom comes in. . . afterall, women are 'more mature than men'

kellorah:
Is Eldee saying it is immature to act like you're bothered when your bf doesn't call u for a while?! LOL.
I'm confused.

I'm saying it's immature to go into a Kanye West rant just because your boyfriend (with whom you chatted on IM) says he's to busy to call.
It's as bad as immature goes.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=339506.msg4758786#msg4758786 date=1255906589]She is here LIVE n DIRECT!!!

Kellorah is Keisha and she carries a Luger. [/quote]Are you serious??
Isn't she the same girl that rejected Sly 23 times??
Whoa . . . I'm not suprised man

davidylan:
that is not true. We make too much of the word "maturity". It doesnt mean a robot who behaves exactly as we want.

Thing is, you've let women define what maturity is . . . this is the one place where it's clear-cut.

davidylan:
that is not true. We make too much of the word "maturity". It doesnt mean a robot who behaves exactly as we want.

You called them babies, the difference between a toddler and a teenager is the ability to break away from the mother's attention.
That is maturity right there, it applies to chics too.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=339506.msg4758736#msg4758736 date=1255906155]She's a babe, abeg.
I know her across the street. . . . .Her real name is Keisha. [/quote]Tell me Keisha's not on Nairaland!!!

stillwater:
There's tendency for a woman to be very emotional when in love. In a sort of way all women are the same when it comes to emotions, most will deny it though.

Yeah, there's that tendency, but the ability to overcome it is maturity, and that's rare.

Nuffin wrong with being emotional . . . but leaving a little space sometimes is essential for the relationship.

stillwater:
Those you reckon? They would soon show you their true colors.

Then it'll be time to move on . . . dating is about sampling till you meet your match, isn't it??

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=339506.msg4758494#msg4758494 date=1255903437]lolz
Some girls just love hearing it all the time but honestly i cant be with a man that show me his emotions anymore o [/quote]I think I wanna spend the rest of my life with you


[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=339506.msg4758498#msg4758498 date=1255903479]U better start chasing LadyT or Ennyluv. [/quote]Hehehe . . . me i no dey there ooh.
Na you talk am.

davidylan:
na wa o . . . i dont think its as bad as you guys portray this. A grown, mature woman can and shld ask her man to affirm his love for her . . . yes!

they are babies, even the ones you think are emotionally competent. The level of grey matter is what differentiates the good from the retarded.

It's not that bad?? She's making a thread on NL to call her man immature.
If that's not the height of immaturity, then what is??

I'll just stick with those that I reckon are emotionally mature enough to handle some situations.

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=339506.msg4758418#msg4758418 date=1255902629]i dnt demand i love u oo, if he loves me, he will tell me and he never disappoint [/quote]It's sickening, last time I had a chic like that, I was in high school.
All dem , high cell phone bill kinda chics are teenagers in grown women's bodies.

davidylan:
Depends on the man. A woman is nothing but a big teddy bear . . . they will whine, cry, nag, annoy you . . . but after a while you'll learn just how to manage her and get the best out of her.

You're portraying women as these brainless overgrown babies that need a flipping pacifier every now and then.
I prefer my women emotionally competent and mentally mature.

davidylan:
Here's my take on that . . . create time for her if she means anything to you.

My honest opinion . . . an immature woman like this poster is a man's biggest turnoff.
'I want him to tell me he loves me, he didn't' . . . boo hoo

dayokanu:
^^ This was evident when Germany raped Arshavins team home and away in qualifiers.

Yeah it was . . . especially when Zenith St Petersburg without their best players raped Germany's best.

davidylan:
eldee, i think this depends on what type of "maturity" we are talking about here. That a woman constantly seeks reassurance and attention from her man does not mean she is not mature enough to handle other issues. You're the man here . . . emotionally you should be the leader. The bond built by you too will be far far stronger than with a woman who can deal with not speaking to you for 2 weeks in a row. It may initially sound more appealing since you are relatively freer but eventually u'll always wonder if she truly cares about you.

I see where you're coming from . . . but you need to understand it from the man's perspective.
He's probably annoyed and extremely busy at the same time . . . that's when her maturity comes in.

davidylan:
hmmm i would have agreed with you a yr ago. Not anymore . . . some women are just emotionally not as strong as we want them to be.

I believe emotional independence comes with maturity.
If you're not mature enough to know the kind of man you have, then you're better off dating teenagers that'll call you every minute.
Come on . . . the best relationships are built by breaking even.

And to think she had the guts to call me immature.

dayokanu:
@eldee,

How many seasons has Van Persie been playing football vs how many he was injured.

Van persie has had almost 10 seasons in first team football but averaged about 12 goals a season

He's averaged 1 goal in 3 league games for 9 seasons. . .1 assist in every 4 league games at Arsenal.
How's that bad for an injury prone supporting striker??
This is the same player that was kept in jail for a crime he didn't commit for half a season.

Asharvin's better than every player in Germany . . . Bleep that, Giggs is better than every German player.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=339396.msg4758017#msg4758017 date=1255898681]Phillip Lahm woulda made it but Nani raped him all night @ the Audi cup. [/quote]Nani?? What of the Russian demons??
Lahm has been raped repeatedly for about three seasons now . . . it's disgraceful.

davidylan:
I find this is largely true. These days there really is no room for passive guys who expect a woman to fall into their laps. you like a woman . . . ya better be prepared to fight and get some bruises to your ego on the way.

Hehehe . . .well it depends on the kind of man you are.
And the kind of woman too . . . personally, I think any woman that comes to cry on NL cos her man refused to say 'I love you' is not worth it.

dayokanu:
This is shameful. Ballack had almost a season out with injury.

Like saying Oshea is better than Hargreaves. Is there a common strain of delusion in all Gayyners?

Oh shit so you know about injuries??
Then why've you been spewing fuckery about Van Persie??
Or is it not the same thing here?? Or are we using a different yardstick for this now??

dayokanu:
Is this an error or evidence of insanity?? Give us the number of games played by Ballack and those by Mikel.

I would assist you to diagnose your own insanity

Stop being a bleeping plonker Dayo . . . aren't you supposed to be an elder or sumn??
They both came in 2006 . . . Who's had more caps since then??

Germany's best player has had fewer matches than Nigerian fans' reject. . . it's a shame.
Germany cannot boast of a player on a list of the world's best players, Arsenal has two.

It's so simple.
Germany's best player is on Chelsea's bench.
Mikel plays more matches than Germany's best

Two players from the whole Bundesliga?? Arsenal produced two players in that list.

[quote author=~Gooner~ link=topic=324131.msg4756141#msg4756141 date=1255869051]In other news, Cesc Fabregas and Andrei Arshavin have been nominated for the 2009 European Player of the Year award although I expect either Lionel Messi or (senitmentally) Ryan Giggs to win it.[/quote]That's a classic