₦airaland Forum

franchasng:
Ema bi nu sir, you are very correct sir, even when Bola Tinubu was in USA, he and his cousins Agbele were working with the Whitehouse then as Accountants, even Hushpuppi too was working with UAE Royal Family in Dubai, ejoor sir, my initial comment was a typo, I am just realizing my mistake as an IPOB Terrorist sir

EndsarsReloaded:
When people are extremely ethnocentric, common sense tend to take flight.

First question, did you see Anambra in that list? No! Yet how many states in Nigeria travel more than them? Is there any state in Nigeria that do business more than them? Also, is there any region that is more business inclined than SE?

I have a sister and a brother in the United States but they have NEVER sent dollars to Nigeria, not even once! Only my aunt in US who traveled many years ago do send dollars using SendWave. My sister and brother both maintain their Nigerian bank accounts which they use to send naira. She supplies all manner of consumer goods like cloths, shoes, food stuff, electronics etc to Nigeria and they sell and remit the money to her local bank account. Likewise, my brother supplies vehicle engines and other used/knocked down car parts to Ladipo. Everyone knows that Yorubas are never as business inclined as Igbos and that's a fact! So, I just gave you an example using my siblings.

That list is based on remmittances that entered Nigeria through trackable channels and it's mostly going to Yahoo scammers. Look at that list again and you will understand why states like Edo, Imo, Oyo, Delta and Ekiti topped it. These states have the highest number of Yahoo boys per square killometer!

Did you watch the video that went viral last week where a huge Igbo Anglican Cathedral in New Jersey protested against a White gay Bishop? Are you aware you must have the numbers before you can even think of building your own native church in a far away land?

Only an ignorant mind will believe that Yorubas travel more than Igbos.

franchasng:
Most Southeast guys don't send money directly to their parents or relatives in Nigeria, they sell the hard currencies to their Igbo friends and relatives into importation and they use it to pay for goods abroad instead of sending directly, so most Igbo Diaspora remittances return back to Nigeria as goods...while the importers send naira to their relatives. This is one major reason FOREX outflow restriction by CBN under Buhari govt. didn't affect Igbo importers and other Nigerian importers who know how to connect to Igbos abroad.


Lastly, a lot of Igbo guys abroad are dissatisfied with Nigeria's current situation under APC/Buhari and many have stopped investing back home, another reason for low remittance from Igbos abroad.



The whole world know that Igbos make up the highest population of Nigerians living abroad, even in strange countries you have never heard before except maybe online lol, you too know this.

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me,
make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

CoronaVirusRelo:
Coming from a greedy and power drunk Atiku, who feels his money will get him anything and also deprive people of their right for his own personal gains!

I never knew he had soothing words like this even though he is bereft of fairness and equality!

Someone who had a life time opportunity to engrave his name into the good books of history by opening the floor for the South in PDP, but rather choose to align with the opposite!

Atiku should know history will never forget his callousness, betrayal, greed, and unseen appetite for public funds.

Atiku, who after being in the corridors of power for “EIGHT YEAR” and still finding it difficult to campaign with achievements and track records.

If Atiku had a conscience, he should be ashamed of his candidacy.

Bimbilla:
The reason why some men don't bother to look for their children's is that they believe that no matter what you can not call somebody your father, so they don't care either you look for them or not

Prechgold1180:
Good evening house

Sorry to bore you with my issues


My mum and dad separated 24 years ago

Reason for separation
My only biological bro died from malaria
My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment

My mum moved out took me with her
She remarried 2 years after
Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling
Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad

I am a graduate now

So comfortable in life
Got lands houses and cars to my name

My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad
More like I don’t know my root

I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas
The problem is she hates my dad so much
any thing about that topic gets her angry

I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house

I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus

Don’t even know if my dad is good
Don’t even know his family
Don’t even know my village
Everything I call family is just from my mother side

Zero from my dad side
I wish I can know them

Bahamas95:
"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Don't mind the writer. Just writing something.

Who told you pornographers introduced sex style? Where do the pornographers learn their styles from?

How do crippled couples sex? How do people with other bodily abnormalities sex? What of various animals like dogs lions birds etc? Please open up your mind to see the variety nature offers and their applications to mankind.

The good book even tell you to learn from other animals for good living.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.

lhordspy:
I condemn any form of election malpractice, pre or post election violence and other vices..

BUT
The US should shut the fvck up and focus on their own issues.

Always quick to poke-nose into the affairs of other nations. Just imagine them using the word 'Warning'. Like a Papa warning his kid.

Na our leader cause this nonsense, always running to seek validations and endorsements from them like god.

The other day too, they were issuing security warning about, like world police. Where we over 345+cases of mass shooting in their country this year alone and still counting.
Rapper Takeoff was allegedly killed few weeks back because of a dice game . A fvcking dice game .

*Russia was alleged to have influenced the Last election that brought in Trump.

*The followup of their last election was marred with Violence. Which people lost their lives in the capitol.
But all they do about is doing chochocho around.

Watch how some people will be celebrating this news. Slaves that fell inlove with the slave-master's chain.

Rahkman:
They will never name any black mam due to racism

Shybeauty:
Thanks for your response. I really appreciate it. I needed someone to show me another perspective. It's not that i'm blind. If a guy likes a girl, he should talk and everything. I think i made excuses for him and now, i have to reset my brain. Thanks.

slivertongue:
funny!
like democrats like APC.


Modified:
Stop quoting me, I read the news on a daily yesterday and read it here before those quoting me. I understood the message but Dems did 'SAK' like APC.

Socratiz:
You need to forgive your dad, not for his own sake but for your own sake.

You should not be carrying a load of bitterness against your dad as this may seep into your marriage.

You have reached the age to eliminate a sense of entitlement, and manage your expectations it only from your dad, but lao from everyone.

If your anger and frustration at your dad would change him, I would have advised you to nurture it, but you know that not possible.

I advise you face your life. Thank God you have completed schooling. Plan to leave the house as soon as you get a job. Then you can have a whole apartment to yourself rather than changing your dresses in the bathroom.

You can also take your mum along if that would be possible.

It is not healthy for your mental health to hold any form of grudges.

By the way, do you have other siblings? How does your dad relate with them?

Maaverick:
In developed countries, Good system of government, social amenities, low unemployment rate, good minimum wage/earnings yet most people have 1, 2, 3 children while few have 5+... Or some want no children.

Why do people in African e.g in Nigeria with very bad system of government, no social amenities, high unemployment rate, low pay rate yet people have or give birth to more number of children Or any number yet go ahead to complain how difficult it is to take care of them? Like they don't know it requires money to do things in life

Can't comfortably pay the school fees of the 2 children you have yet adding more children So that you can have 3 or 4 children that you can't pay school fees for?

Your salary is 250k, you finish some of the months with borrowing yet adding more children hence lability

The current living condition your salary is giving, you are finding it difficult to push through yet adding more children Hence making life more difficult or what could be the motive?

A single guy/girl finding it difficult to survive on his/her 100k salary but would go ahead and marry, pour children

Is it a crime to have no children or the number of children your salary can afford?

In my opinion, here we don't value children, human life and the basic wellbeing of the children we give birth to. Hence you see people even in their state of abject poverty adding more children or those that are doing a little better adding more children just to fulfill their desire of having X number of children even when the ones they already have is difficult to maintain.

Another reason is that people don't think or reason for themselves. They just follow the societal norms like zombies and do what everyone is doing.

These things always makes me wonder.

Karlovych:
So women can actually allow themselves to be made second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth wives and so on as long as the man is rich, influential and famous.

For all the so much talk of ending the patriarchy look at what the so-called well educated ladies are subjecting themselves to, spits.

Involved:

Mynd44:
This is distressing to those who have stashed up large amounts in cash as they will be faced with the trouble of replacing the cash.

CBN and thieves playing chess