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This question is very relevant and the answer here is meant for couples that have just sma concern for their spirituality and future business developments.

It is not good at all for you to be sleeping with your wife everyday on the same bed in the same room. Common, you need some spaces for other things that matters to life, living and your future development.

Your wife sleeping with you every blessed day is a spying action on you spiritually and monitoring agent which can turn evil or good depending on the nature of the woman.

Women will not tell you young man, they don't sleep at night and I don't really know what they do Ooooh. Check it out, you recall that you sleep before them at night and if you wake up to weee you will still find them partially awake ie if you do a little spying on her too.

When men go out to look for household chop money during the day time that is when women now sleep.

Men and women are negative and positive spiritualities and if one uses the night more than the other you should expect certain results.

In the 1970 and beyond, all men maintain a room and only calls in the wife at wanted hours. Such men also possess great spirituality and economic powers to maintain their cultural heritage.

It is also said that spiritual visitation and support hardly come to men that sleep every night with a woman either wife or concubine.

Therefore, if you have the means to provide a room for your wife encourage her to stay in her room and come to your room only when needed. This could put the man in control of his household. Contact mature men for further discussion.

There is no law that says INEC cannot make mistake and can not reverse itself.

If a person should have any reason to disagree with INEC decisions it will be good for the individual to proceed to the court of competent jurisdiction and obtain redress.

Sister, kindly be aware that it is not good of you to be complaining about anybody living while you are pregnant.

It is not good at all.

About your mother, just develop a better way to manage her and her nuisance value the same way your father has managed her till today. She is your mother and she is entitled to some naughtiness of her own.

I wish you can stomach her nuisance and subtily query her so that you can find out her delibrateness or ignorance of her actions. I think she is the lazy type of woman right from her childhood.

We should thank God Almighty for her to have produced good natured woman like you. There is some rewards from God for you if you handle your mother kindly without being bothered by her nuisances. We are all not made same way.

Firstorderwizard:
Now I understand the consistent attacks on OBi and LP.
If you have legal eyes, you will see that both APC and INEC are seeking for technicalities in this case simply because they have no evidence to counter OBI's petition.

OBi played a fast one on them by making noise about BVAS, they prepared their defense on BVAS in collusion with INEC only for PO to hit them below the belt



The game plan is
Hijack LP and install stooges that will withdraw the case
Push for technicalities instead of defending the petition (cos no evidence for defense)
Instigate a riot or civil disturbance to scatter the whole tribunal thing

So Tinubu is a drug Lord true true , they couldn't defend the allegation nawaoo

Continue deceiving yourself and the like.

It is shame on you to see road for ground put head for bush.

Obi supporters are jokers when it comes to speaking the truth and obvious. They have perfected the art of telling lies till they enter graves.

Nobody should take them serious again because it is pretty obvious that at best they are just being petty on the pages of nairaland.

Lorddominic:
....and this nonsense made it to the front page when a globally acclaimed hoodlum is about to be sworn in as the President of this country...mods, may God have mercy on your souls!

You are directly agreeing that come 29th May Tinubu will be sworn in as president federal Republic of Nigeria irrespective of your anger.

Good sense, you need to be commended.

RighChannel:
We are watching

See nonsense APC and Tinubu filed against Obi, I pity them

You will soon realise that Tinubu lawyers are playing right. Obi and his headless mob were too late joining the Nigerian presidential elections campaign.

Obi joined LP and under three days he became their presidential candidate. All what Obi did was zero before the Nigerian constitution. Lawyers are truly learned people.

With this manouver any hope for the headless mob.

US government and people can not, repeat can not be the guardians of elections matters world over again as they were caught rigging in the current occupants of the White house in the USA.

With several mobile ballots boxes, dead people voting in millions, illegal and undocumented immigrants voting at elections they are not familiar with contestants. USA is the capital of corrupted electoral process and processes. Voters registration and registers are deliberately corrupted. Voters machines failed on election day too and had to resort to manual voting so that certain winners can emerge.

I think one or two states in the USA still have their election results unratified ie Pennsylvania State and Georgia State from the last presidential elections.

Their published intelligence reports are often rigged with determined outcomes and selfish desires of the writers.

So, in clear conscience, USA should not be called in to remark on Nigerian presidential elections. Nigerian courts should be considered competent enough to make pronouncements. This is not and will not be the last presidential elections in Nigeria.

This banditry matter is not good and it is never going to be.

I hope and pray for the young man to recover quickly and be restored to good health.

I think a change in the Nigerian federal government is required to tackle the banditry challenge. Can Tinubu provide the necessary efforts and thus succour Nigerians.

Buhari as a president is a sham and fraudulent acts on Nigerians. Complete loss of time and deaths to Nigerians. Buhari was never competent to rule Nigeria.

DeJoeee:
My gf just developed this recent habit of going to the kitchen with only her panties and shower cap leaving her breast bare.

Sometimes she will wear my polo(which is long on her cos I'm much taller) with no panties
This is a girl who is naked shy as recent as december last year.

I'm not supposed to suspect her cos she's from a very responsible home and possibly my wife to be but the experience of others have thought me to suspect any new move of the other gender no matter how innocent.

Do I need to worry about this?

Please mods help push to front page for more mature advise . This issue is of big concern to me

What else do you expect ?

If say six months ago she was shy as the fear lack of familiarities was hindering her rapport with you, she thus behaved reservedly. But now she has been observing you and sleeping with you and she is no longer having any serious fear concerning you, most women will do just what you are seeing.

You are also caught up too because you called her your wife to be already. Then enjoy the freedom and welcome to adulthood.

Adulthood has great responsibilities including taking good care of the lady and her happiness is maintained. Don't over maintain sha and always get engaged in discussions over daily activities as you see in the big brother shows. Encourage her to talk to you more than her going to gosip with her friends. Further, always enjoy her company and if you have any irritation let her know asap.

Odin13:
Observe .. I’ve been more steady with norther
States ..

I support Obi.. simply because Apc southwest is trying to tribalise the whole election..

OBi is not in court to claim mandate as he said .. he said he’s after the process ..and illegally of the process ..
he has his point ..

Atiku is in court to claim his mandate ..

Atiku won kastina with deep margin..
sokoto
Kebbi
Bauchi
Zamfara..
Kaduna

And all evidence is there .. votes were heavily suppressed

You don't have the understanding of elections and strategies for winning elections.

Before you dabble further into your giving unnecessary support to your imagine winner at the court of competent jurisdiction just think small.

It not all the contestants at the last election have equal understanding and possess good winning strategy

Despite the fact that Atiku has been participating at the elections since 1999 he doesn't know how elections were lost and won. He may be very good at deploying financial inducements for election but it appears no serious effort he made to coalesce the PDP into a formidable political fighting force and hence get a victory at the elections.

A situation where PDP presented three candidates at three notable political party for the same election it is a guarantee for election failure.

Also, the financial firepower was splintered into three too. How can Atiku win under that situations. He really shot himself at the foot and has himself to blame. Simplicita.

Peter Obi was living and campaigning without adequate knowledge of politicking, adequate financial firepower, lacking people with requisite experience in Nigeria political campaigns, using Nigerian Nollywood movie actors and actresses as focal point and lacking physical presence in several states in the southern and northern states of Nigeria landscape. He was literarily campaigning in the cloud of the Nigerian landscape.

Bola Ahmed Tinubu on the other side has been participating in the Nigerian political landscape ever since and was always involved in the gubernatorial election of several states across Nigeria. He was always involved in strategic planning and execution always recruiting people to get victory at the polls. He has been winning some and losing depending on fortune. He was living in USA for several years and I am sure he has been watching the US elections with keen interest dreaming to use lessons learnt one day.

No one should begrudge Tinubu because he has laboured well for his political career and victory at the elections. Other people should go and learn how to play their roles well at future Nigeria elections. It is Tinubus time to shine in the sun and I hope he will do well for the country.

Otherwise, he will have himself to blame for a failure.

I have realised that most people that don't believe in religion are people that have not actually read and meditate over the Bible, Koran, the apocryphal odu ifa of Yoruba people and other benefitial religions of the world.

When you read the Bible verses try think of the possibilities of the stories and position yourself as the character you are reading about. you could have been a Joseph, David, Moses etc. And if you think well too there is someone near you today that resembles the character you have just read.

Has Nigeria ever been ruled by a Saul of Israel, or any of the Kings of Israel as found in the Bible. Examples King Herod of Judea was reported to have paid bribes to get to the throne and be a ruler in the days of birth of Jesus Christ. is it not the same all over the world today. Politicians pay bribe to anyone that can help their ambitions.

The stories of the Bible are true and are just true of our times today.

The problems that many people have with Christianity and Jesus Christ was inserted by our colonial masters by removing actual and efficacious practices from the Bible and classified them as apocryphal books, all because they don't want people under their rulership to be powerful through resorting to Christian practices.

The Catholic church uses so called apocryphal books without going mad or loose their senses. Please fear politically correct white people. They have hated God Almighty for a long time.

The people that started a different church because of refusals to bless divorced Kings from getting married in the church created the evils of God hatred. They will have their rewards.

Greenfusion:
There are spiritual rules, celestial beings follow and obey such.
A blood sacrifice had to be done on earth not in heaven. The disconnect between humans and God as a result of Sin was existent, hence God been merciful had to bridge that gap.
We don't get instant judgement because of things like this.

Wangwan and kobogunje are looking at the Bible from one dimension of human understanding which is very limited in interpreting matters of life and creations of God Almighty.

Most of human beings on earth today live one dimension also leaving out all other aspects of Gods creations. Where do you classified the mightiness of the God Almighty.

I the fellow that published the abundance of stars of Gods creations shown in this thread earlier.

The two guys kobogunje and wangwan are arguing like Job friends as we see in the book of Job in the Bible, arguing without adequate knowledge of God.

The Lord Jesus Christ said he did not come to cancel any of the old laws and their corollaries as found in books of Exodus, Leviticus and Deuteronomy.

When someone keep on quoting only one portion of the Bible to buttress his selfish reasonings and imaginations to justify his current confusion and lack of will to seek the truth and pursue it for the good of the society. Such a person is not helpful to himself and not benefitial to the society.

Is it only the earth the God Almighty created? Is it only humans and animals and trees that He created? Do we have anjonu, iwin, sons of God, watchers? There is a report of Jesus Christ encountering the unseeing spirits that Jesus Christ pursued into the swines on the path to a graveyard. Who were the giants mentioned in the old Bible testaments and who were their fathers? How did they became great or greater than the human beings of their times? How did the giants acquired the skills and powers they have then, who taught them those powers? What is the roles of sacrifices among the spirits and powerful centres in the God Almighty creations?

What are the roles of sacrifices in Africa and Yoruba people in particular? Are sacrifices evils? What are called sacrifices? Do I do sacrifices unconsciously or I am on a free rollar of complete foolishness?

If there are other beings apart from humans in the schemes of God Almighty, what is their role in the requests for blood sacrifices leading to birth and death of the Lord Jesus Christ. Is God Almighty alone in the ruling over the affairs of the world and inter planets.

The Psalmist said in his writing that only the foolish, unlearned, unconscious people that are saying there is no God. Don't be found among the fools it is too expensive.

Happy Easter to all of you on nairaland. I pray for another year of good living and continued hope in the power of resurrection of Jesus Christ.

MikeofAfrica:
Comparing Achebe and Soyinka is like comparing Okocha and Mikel Obi.

Achebe is a naturally talented writer like Okocha is a naturally talented midfielder.
Even with Okocha talents, he did not win major trophies particularly at club level.

Soyinka is not as talented as Achebe just as Mikel Obi is not as talented as Okocha. However Mikel win several trophies that Okocha never won. These include UEFA champions league, UEFA Cup and EPL.

These trophies can be compare to Soyinka's Nobel prize. However even with these trophies , Okocha is still rated above Mikel because of masterclass talents.

Similarly, even with the Nobel prize trophy, Achebe is still rated above Soyinka because of his masterclass talent.

None of Soyinka's book can compete with Things fall Apart in the literally world.

Just deceiving yourself. You now have wisdom to originate thought and evaluation standards unknown to mankind yet. If you are happy doing this cut and paste work please continue as someone will find you useful shortly.

LegendHero:
You are very correct. Lot of them are like that and that’s why some of them behave that way.

When I found out about Bola Shagaya too I was surprised.

Most of their lady are very good at morphing into whatever shape, sizes, names and conditions that will better their economic situation and they are shameless doing it.

Asari Dokubo, you have done great exploits in Nigeria and particularly among the South South people, you are doing well kindly accept that fact first.

Your wifes and children are watching you and are most likely waiting on your for father's direction for living. You don't need to be confused but if it true then you will need to go away from home and family to somewhere nearby where you can pick up issues of life and communicate with your God and maker.

If you were a Christian I would have suggested you look for a prayer mountain where you will stay for say three to seven days prayers and spiritual support for you to receive directives from God Almighty. Many people from Rivers State are already familiar with the various prayer mountains in Nigeria SW.

Your observations concerning your children about religion selection should not surprise you as it is found in many his of type. ie Christian Muslim marriage. Many kalabari people are Christians too and you can tap ideas from them on your way forward.

You fears about the children are well founded. Kindly do the needful asap.

JOemmy:
There's no way the US police will claim that they don't know or haven't heard that something like this have been going on in the US for long.

Truly, this arrest is surprising happening in USA of gay and lesbian kingdom. It is a very good police action and welcome development sha. With Donald Trump knocking some senses back to the USA landscape through political campaigns and policies maybe some souls could be recovered from lusts and hatred of godliness.

The girl should languish in a jail or correctional facility to rewind her brain set. At 19 she is very dangerous personality in her neighbourhood.

Excellent actions from the police of Mississippi State.

Some girls and women are very wicked at heart. How can you leave mankind and go to mate with a dog? Probably for pride amongst fellow friends.

Therefore I suggest to the police investigating this matter to check amongst her circle of friends there are other dogs loving people. Don't be surprised if there are other animals that these wicked souls are contemplating having sex with.

She will receive help from other depraved people in her trial.

Shame on her.

haybhi1:
I used to think this woman was intelligent unhingedly. I was wrong. She's another emotional bigot who thinks everything must go the way her interests want, and nothing exists outside her microcosmic sphere of interest.

She probably isn't aware Igbo mainly has five states, South only has seventeen states. The North has 19 states. Obi is only popular in the South, and only guaranteed success in the Southeast subsection of this south. Tinubu is popular all over, guaranteed success in a subsection of South, and a good section of the North. It's no brainer Tinubu won 1st, Obi 3rd. Why is this so hard for her microscopic political and prejudicative view to chuck in and accept?

I and most my friends are youths, and wee rooted for Tinubu, so it surprises me always with where this narrative of "Nigerian youths are angry because Obi lost" is coming from, as there are countless similar lots out there. Not all of us are Obi-denses.

It is not everyone that is given the ability to reason out a course independently. Adichie has exhibited her brain power to the best of her given ability with all respect.

She is surely not a good mathematics students but given to reading novels and painting of faces.

She was too emotional in her write up earlier today. The write up did not give room for other types of election results apart from Obi wining election. does she know that Muhammed Buhari contested the federal elections four times like Richard Nixon of USA before winning the Nigerian presidency? Does she know that Bola Ahmed Tinubu has been participating in Nigerian elections since 1990 thereabouts and has been winning and losing. Bola Ahmed has always had a person from him contesting election since 1999.

Obi was a minor in both campaigning and the actual election in terms of preparation and strategic planning for the elections of 2023.

Can someone hope to win a nationwide election without a political structure and election strategy?

Donald Trump defeated Hillary simply because the man had a better strategic approach to the elections of that year despite latter day theorists would like us to believe.

Elections is the same everywhere but the strategy that best fits winning the elections will be specific to the elections at hand.

Peter Obi has very few or none wing men. His reach out to nooks and crannies of the Nigerian landscape is very very limited. I don't know if he has a radio, TV or newspaper exclusively his own to megaphone his messages. Obi is a good starter viewing from the results he has got this time.

He should therefore go ahead with the tribunal resolution for knowledge purposes and hence prepare his ways for future elections. He is not in position to forment trouble and rabourose all over the world thereby becomes a nuisance in the world political stage.

Adichie should calm down too and concentrate on her best areas of interest and money making. Writing to Biden would amount to nothing because other Nigerian tribes are equally well placed for noise making in the USA streets and corner stages for political grandstanding.

Nigerians at home need local and international peace for positive economic development and needed growth. Anybody or group coming up with efforts to forment trouble will have themselves to blame.

Nigeria currently has millions of educated individuals that has families to feed and support for good living.

edetic:
America is not the last hope of Nigerians, God is the last hope, if God will allow APC and INEC's criminality to stand, so be it, if criminals like Tinubu will emerge as president, the youths who wanted a sincere straight forward honest leader have no choice but to follow the example of criminality.

You can believe whatever you want to believe. But it will be better that you don't let Tinubu fake criminal records live rent-free in your medulla oblongata. That is surely more shameful.

Originalsly:
I hear you ... but the letter can be used as an invitation for the US to put foot in Nigeria on the pretext of defending democracy if the US decides a military base is needed in its strategy to confront China and Russia. No doubt... they can care less about democracy in Nigeria .... or what happens to Nigerians .... as we can see in Ukraine.

Be aware too, Joe Biden is not a man with true American respect and love. The American army currently can not fill full quotas for military recruitment because many whites people are just not feeling well with the Biden and his democratic party initiatives.

American army can not take on Nigerian people because we are not Libya or Ukraine. Nigerian people eyes are sharp and will discover the truth soonest and pursue consequences far greater than invading forces can comprehend. Adichie and the likes are just imagining vain things.

Everything must not resolve to war and use of weapons of war. Nigeria can not be wished away but worked upon to get to desired heaven.

Jamesbiodun:
Make she kukuma join politics

She is a just a talkshop she has no liver for practical politicking. She is at best Obama handbag woman.

Promismike:
Why do we honour and immotalize people only after they are dead.

It doesn't make sense. It should be done when one is alive.

Excellent decision from Seyi makinde government.

It is good to do good at all times and at appropriately.

Wealthoptulent:
Tooh ire o.. who ever digs hole not to dig deep.
He must have been Confused with the puzzle below who the trap was for ...

Answer. A

Jlow2:
If he broke the law? What really you still investigating ,he threatened igbos in 2019 and 2023 general elections it's on public notice and video is on social media space, what really you investigating, rubbish.

Are you still afraid of MC oluomo or what your problem. Iya chukwuka rest at home if you don't want to vote us.

The raskals have a way that the idiots can not understand or but can not get out of their brains. Rascals, Rascals, Rascals. The wild wild west are made of the strong things. Iya Chukwudi should stay at home because of the Rascals Rascals Rascals on the prowl.

Good riddance, he was never reconciliatory.

A political party chairman that doesn't know how to take care of diverse opinions and people. He is a disgrace to experience as we know it

Atiku that failed to discuss political science and strategies with his party members but led splintered PDP to election loss coming to talk when Nigeria future is already decided

Atiku is surely not ready to lead Nigeria.

He should respect himself by closing his court challenges and go to Dubai for the rest of his life.

Nigeria and Nigerians awaits a much more serious politically sagacious person to change the course of the country

CXLVII:
Unopposed!


It would be the greatest country in Africa

Tribes literacy, dynamics, exposure, versatility and unity, is next to none!

It is time we Yoruba people seek out the formation of a Yoruba country.
The. Nigerian experiment is not going well.

Very many tribes and tounges with accompanying differences. The Nigerian landscape will prosper when three four five countries are created out of it. Economic development will blossom and competitive activities in the new countries will encourage business expansion.