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victorian:
I took it this morning

Beautiful! You would pass for a doll baby easily as a child. Lovely eyes.

DaphneBr:
Happy new year and God bless you

Hi luv

DaphneBr:
Happy new year and God bless you

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Riele:
Yes I'm the one and I'm not done yet.
Merry Christmas

Smallie wey can worry. MC sha

luvlyoracle:
I look up to that sir.
Thank you.
Can i PM you?

Ok. Wlc.
Not necessary yet,just keep tab here. I will get any info across to u once it's set. The location is Bayelsa,hope u won't mind?

luvlyoracle:
Would be grateful if i could see someone to help me gain work experience in an oil firm or related field.....that would be my greatest xmas gift...


PS i studied Metallurgical and Material Engineering and currently awaiting NYSC.I am willing to relocate to any part of the country.

I'm not promising but I will help u before 2020 rounds off.

4Play:
The examples you cite - murder, theft, pedophilia - involve cases where the perpetrator is acting without the consent of a victim (a child is unable to consent in the case of pedophilia). This is why it makes logical sense to condemn murder or theft.

In the case of gay people, Africans are claiming that what consenting adults do with one another is wrong because its "abnormal." But within straight relationships, lots of couples engage in abnormal things. The question is what is the logic in being outraged about consented behavior that doesn't affect others?

This thing about "promoting" homosexuality makes no sense to me since if you are straight, no one is going to convert you to a homosexual and the overwhelming majority of people will remain straight no matter the society (see western countries with a permissive outlook to homosexuals where heterosexuals remain the overwhelming majority). I suspect a lot of people who pursue this line of argument about westerners turning Africans gay harbour some homosexual inclinations themselves.

Let the US accept polygamy first before we do gay.

Respect55:
She accepted o. She goes to my elder sis apartment at will and my guys know her. We have gone far. I'm not Dangote but I changed her outlook. Not bragging sha

If her name is Sandra, then sorry! Sandra is an heart breaker.

hadduni:
Well op, you are really silly. You knew quite well for the past 2 years that you don't want her has a life partner yet you kept on digging her... Her pregnancy is your cross. You can't eat your cake and have it.
You are more concerned that you discovered that she has gone past are first trimester... She probably hid the pregnancy because she tot you will ask her to abort it.

Must every digging lead to marriage?

k2money:
People who haven't been to Bayelsa were ranting that apc can't win Bayelsa. I was in Bayelsa last month and see how people really love Lyon

Not really love for Lyon but hate for Dick-son n pdp

strawberry211:
I'm juliana am in uyo, akwa ibom state 07089431433

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sallygal:
am Salome,in my twenties and need a friends that can lead to some thing more serious....

OK. Can I meet u?

Kapilta:
pele

OK. gimme her number

Kapilta:
my in-law

How g far? Be like my one of our girls do u strong thing o. Kpele!

Kapilta:
the only competition me and this my nyam..uri flat..head lost jew babe i having now is beards competition and i'm fed up. I don't want another person we'll be competing wh has more yam leg again and you my in-laws cannot stop disgracing me online with your chestbeating and propaganda. so i have made up my mind never to go to the red mud republic to pick a wife again hope you are satisfied?

Now that u av shown us that u r mad, can u now swerve to yabaleft?

izzou:
Oh bro, you're complicating issues by explaining too much

This girl has had flings with your circle in the past. She never denied it, your hommies didn't either.

If you love her, and you truly know she's changed,
wife her. If you know your don't trust her anymore, or you'll care so much about what your friends think or say, let the babe go. It's that simple

Maybe you never loved her that much initially.

bro, love is not enough! I can easily enter most of my exes even though I won't. It is never a good idea rolling with a babe your hommies(esp the randy ones) have had something

Today is a very sad one for me. I fear, more than ever,for the girl child and women. I pray God help u all gather enough evidences amidst the trauma of rape

tomdon:
Our overtly large size is the bane to the good life in Nigeria. This doesn't make the successive leaders nationalistic in thinking. If the yorubas for example were an independent people owning a country, I wonder if one omo ale leader will have the audacity of embezzlement, and not be eager to develop the country and better the people's lives of people for posterity sake. But the setting of Nigeria encourages parochialism
People just look at Nigeria with commercial eyes which benefits far less people. Even USA and other large countries devolve power

No be population o,cos look at China na?

Sterope:
With this mindset, you should be comfortable spending all your money on lottery hoping one day you will be set for life.

I will remind you of this statement.

showafrica:
I tell you, tie money down in one useless structure. When a good business can just return that money 100% in few days

Those good biz r piling up every day too.

kevoh:
You are mixing every thing up and do not see where I am going with this. Like I said what works for person A might not work for person B. You are still making the mistake of one size fits all.

Building on the outskirts and renting it out as long as you have the financial capability is fine by me. This means your only worry will just be when will your tenants pay to recoup your investment and also means that your financial power is not low.

But struggling to put up a house on a low income, for example, only to move your family to some far away community with no good roads, no good schools, no light, burglary attacks e.t.c just so that you can avoid rents of 50k or 100k and still struggle to feed your family makes no sense.

lol. I have seen people several times packing sands from the road sides after rain fall. They build their houses from those residues. Those ones cannot save money up to 100k for house rents. Every little 2k n 5k they get,they put to the project. It is not foolishness.

midnighter:
Politics is like music or acting, in fact all of them are forms of entertainment

For every person that "made it" there are a million failures still waiting for their "big break", and their families suffering needlessly behind them

That guy is not being realistic. In fact he is being vain and selfish by allowing his wife to shoulder the whole burden while he wastes time

Life itself na entertainment. it may sure for u,but not the other. Na God.

ehix89:
Bros you too sabi book, i have always been of same opinion with you, when i air my view, my friends always think i am dumb but i know i think smarter than them, building a house is very very good but building it with little or no stress (it doesn't have to completely affect your life balance i.e the quality of school your children goes to, the quality of food you eat and your quality of life in general) is best. My opinion is for the OP and the husband to sell the house if that is the investment she is talking about and set up a business or two that will yield steady cash inflow.

invest in a biz that may pack up? bro, life deep. If he sure for u,thank God.

Sambaby7640:
you should the able to stand your ground. I dont have money is I don't have money.Period,if you like nag till eternity it should not be enough to make you give in to his desires

My blood relation followed this line until he got an appointment in the state. If na me I go marry another wife.

pocohantas:
Na them o

U don't know this life. Someone I know too well was in Op husband's shoe. As far back as 2008 he had been serving politicians but got nothing. I saw how the wife nagged the man to death considering that she was the one footing the bills in the house. Just recently he got an appointment in Bayelsa State. Nigga has more money than all his mates now. Now the wife is humbled. If I were him I would get a second wife.
P.s. The wife is my blood relation. .

pocohantas:
Na them o

U don't know this life. Someone I know too well was in Op husband's shoe. As far back as 2008 he had been serving politicians but got nothing. I saw how the wife nagged the man to death considering that she was the one footing the bills in the house. Just recently he got an appointment in Bayelsa State. Nigga has more money than all his mates now. Now the wife is humbled. If I were him I would get a second wife.
P.s. The wife is my blood relation.

kevoh:
Owning a property is a good decision but not necessarily a wise decision. There are so many factors we are not considering and most of the comments, either for or against, have made the same mistake of applying a one size fits all to every person.

The average Nigerian can afford buying and building in outskirts, where sometimes development hasn't taken place and just a few houses. No light, no road, No good schools, No nearby clinic or hospital, easy target for burglaries e.t.c You have to consider if it's worth the pain of moving your wife and kids to such areas or pray that one day development will come to that area before moving. This could be years or it could not come at all. This is one of the reasons why it may be a good decision to own a property but not necessarily a wise one.

Lol,I dey laff! E better to build on the outskirt n give out for rent n use the proceed to rent wherever u want. I don't know what country you are chatting from,but not Nigeria. Bro, we are talking about a family that changing a bad window net is an issue. Lol. The average Nigerian don't start a building project with the complete money for it. So,waiting to be financially stable before owning a house means that you are going to work your whole life on rented houses.

J2381:
wrong!. Very wrong. One of the things that gives stability is having a steady flow of income.

And you don't know having rest of mind is key to getting a stable income. Have you been under pressure, esp from a landlord? God help you! You will think you are cursed. To see #2000 job that time na war; na that time promise n failure dey follow pass.

Acidosis:
Hehehe. Good luck bro. I didn't know rent is more expensive than buying/building a property. The middle class are not stup!d okay. They understand they need money to make more money.

We have seen how they toil the rest of their lives financing debts and rents. Just calculate the % of income one use to pay for rent based on one's status and what could have completed a building project of his status. People are not foolish to go into real estate if it wasn't lucrative. Tenants are sucked dry.

Acidosis:
Hehehe. Good luck bro. I didn't know rent is more expensive than buying/building a property. The middle class are not stup!d okay. They understand they need money to make more money.

We have seen how they toil the rest of their lives financing debts and rents. Just calculate the % of income one use to pay for rent based on one's status and what could have completed a building project of his status.

Acidosis:
Owing a house is not vanity but it shouldn't be placed above owing a viable income source or liquid investment. By liquid, I mean, investments you can easily turn to cash/withdraw.

Some Nigerians build their houses with one bag or two of cement per month,with sand picked from the road side which accumulate during rain(they cannot afford tippers of sand). Those are small changes that cannot solve real issues,so rather than waste it they put to the project. People are really poor in this country; so owning a house of their own is a wise decision.