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DrFunmisticGlow:
1. carrying those babies to term instead of aborting them.
2. breast feeding them
3. changing thier diapers
4. waiting on thier every want and need.

That's accepting responsibility on her part. Ok?!

OK, plus nagging! I have taken care of babies myself and I know the stress involved. In my school of thought, taking responsibility means avoiding the act that leads to this.

pozehnani:
Even if they had advised each other to abstain from sex pending when they are ready for marriage, all these would have been avoided. But no. They must do the do.

You are so right. U need to see the extra carefulness and vigilance I put into lovemaking with the girls I bang. But there has never been a day any of them have asked that I use protection even though I sometimes try to test them if they would allow raw. There is no resistance; rather I see happiness in their eyes. And I wonder if they don't fear pregnancy or diseases.

pozehnani:
I like the way you live to face the consequences of your actions. ( fornicating). If someone tried to preach to you then to stop fornicating you'll have called him names and bullshit him. Now you're crying foul and asking what to do.

Did you seek advice when your body was scratching you and losing control? Mr, man carry your cross. In your next world, you'll learn to control your manhood.

I wish those who are still engaging in fornication and premarital sex don't stop. They will always meet it in front.

If women would take little responsibility for themselves, then this could have been avoided. Simply asking your man to wear rain coat, or taking other preventive measures would have averted this mess op is going through. But no, they won't.

SweetCunt97:
What you could have done is keep ur priq in ur pant since you broke and Staying with family.

But.. erm... he didn't rape her na? Fucking zip up but free indomie and egg and hollandia juice will not allow some of you girls to get sense.

jaszplus12:
The old saying "look before you leap" is always forgotten when lust overtakes humans!
Once I advices a total stranger: don't stay under your father's roof, eating your mother's soup and have a girlfriend. It's not proper. If you can kiss a girl, then, leave home, earn yourself some work and cash then you can get all you need from a woman....and when events become challenging...you will man up!
The guy thanked me, took my number and a year later called to thank me again...he had started a great life for himself.
Well, already you have stumbled...you now have to offer greater sacrifice to stabilize your family.
Why not diminish your mom's stipend by half for a while and add to your family expenses.
Get a small table for your wife to trade for now to augment the cash you give her then spread your tentacles into other things...it won't be easy, and that's why I said you're going to offer greater sacrifice.... when things stabilize, reward your Mom for her understanding....
Be brave... when the going gets tough...the tough get......

Stop making it look like only a man needs to sort himself before getting entangled with the opposite sex. How about women sorting themselves out before getting entangled? If the said wife did, then she wouldn't be stressing the poor man's life. Since she wasn't raped and got pregnant with those kids out of her own selfishness, she should equally bear the brunt of raising them. HTTP v

saphiere:
Can you pay her for all the time she has spent with you?
Though what she did was wrong sha
There's no free thing even in FreeTown.
Just take it has one of your loss and move on.

Mumu! So he should pay for a sex they both agreed and enjoyed as adults? She should enjoy the freedom that comes with being a woman and feminist until a nigga damns all consequences and deal with her theiving ass.

Dididrumz:
Shey You see your very evil mentality?

So anyone from Bayelsa who's community doesn't have oil does not have the right to speak on issues concerning Bayelsa right?

Grow up SON.....

In the scheme of things, no.

yeah not every female will be attracted to me, besides I hardly chase women.


Ive known this girl for a very very long time but you sit behind your keypad and argue like you know her more than me.
na wa o

her lack of desire for sexual relationship was the main reason her first boyfriend left her.
I fear she may never get married.

you may be right she wasn't into me but I doubt she's into anybody sef

If you like chew philosophy and swallow all the redpill,
not all women are the same.
the same goes for men too.
my desire for a sexual relationship is low too but this girl's own is worst than my own.
I know a guy that gives zero bleeps about women.


you're just looking at things from an ideal condition.
learn to look at life from real-time conditions, there are to many variables for only formula to fit everything.

I don't care about deviant women, they are too minute to challenge 'the all women are the same' statement. In fact these deviant women are even the greatest weapon for the women folks and they are the excuse that create a safe haven for the rest women to send their missiles from. They hide under the cover of 'I am different' to perpetuate evil while disguising as a sheep.

Firstnebo:
Thank you Bloody. I know that you are a young guy and may not have an answer to the following question, but let me ask you anyway incase you do.

What about a thirty something year old guy that is super intelligent, but has been decimated for 13 years in both learning ability, and industriousness, and confidence because of extreme porn addiction?

I have been there. My lack of sexual experience and low performance made me fall into the trap of porn addiction that resulted to a stunted growth in my life. I realized that my porn addiction was as a result of my low self esteem. However, I have gained back my self esteem when I discovered that I could last longer in bed more than the average. This sudden confidence have just set me in the path of greater things to achieve. Bro, gain back your game and self esteem and porn would leave you naturally.

purples25:
I was in a line at the ATM one day. I tried to look at all the people on the line. I saw a grown man playing with his own mucus dribbling very thick from his nose. He was making spit bubbles and smiling. And he was on the line. I think other people moved away from him. His clothes were a bit brown. But he had been dressed normally. I was horrified because it was in public. In private, it's a different issue.

Another time, I had to pay change to a taxi man. I told him sorry about not having change, I got out of his car and called hawkers, so I could get change. The taxi guy did not allow me to get the change. He kept insisting that i should give him the whole money, that i should bring it first. I gave him, thinking he had change and was only holding it because he was annoyed. He then attempted to speed off with me holding on for dear life to the outside of the car. People started screaming until he stopped with me holding on. He was not sorry at all.

Once saw a taxi driver beating a woman with a child, who he didn't know, to stupor. Nobody saved her until the driver of the car I was in stopped and moved the crowd away to get the man off her. She was unconscious when she was saved.

So, people outside are not normal. One has to be very careful. They do terrible things.

What if the man decided to carry that his hand, and rub it on her face? Force that hand into her mouth? Stab her? Bite her? Punch her? These are risks. She was right and brave, but next time, just move away asap. If you can report to a sane man or strong men around, report. Or move away first and raise alarm.

why not report it to a strong woman? You want an innocent man to get involved in a matter that does not concern him. Why would she record a man with her phone without his concern when his actions do not remotely affect her?

merits:

Forget freedom bro, stomach first. What if dem catch am as him take the key wan open the door? At least with the food, small strength go dey before him jakpa. Lol.

StacyO:
Women are not given the opportunity to explore more of their capabilities.

I think thats the point I'm trying to bring out.


If given that opportunity, imagine how it would turn out.


Football, WWE, sports are all evolving and you can equally agree that women are coming into the picture.
That is to tell you that no opportunities were offered them from the start.

You said women were not given the opportunity to explore more of their capabilities as if that opportunity was given to men on a platter of gold. The hunter gathering men of old did not stop women from taking the headship of the human race. Men beat the odds of survival to attain the headship. Whatever right women have now are being given on a platter of gold. The world live on our ideas. It is our idea that women should enjoy every right of a man, feminism is our idea of giving comfort to women just as the hunters-gatherers did. A little upset from men could have you all feminists become traditional women. It is that easy.

StacyO:
Back in school then, girls lead while the guys followed.


It was competitive but, the males were no where to be found.


MODIFIED:::

Women are far more intelligent than men, why they tend to be manipulative as well.

Men only channel all their energy on what goes into their pocket (that is, they concentrate on making money).
Though little knowledge is acquired during this process, men are quite slow when it comes to thinking outside the box.


Women on the other hand are logical thinkers who without concentrating more on a particular thing, focuses more on acquiring versatile knowledge.




WOMEN ARE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN MEN.

Though times have changed and you can agree with me that knowledge is no longer a gender thing.

Where a man thinks there is a prize to be won, his limits are not known. Most men are limited in intelligence due to distractions. I was in JSS1 when I first had a female crush whom we all saw as the best and indeed she was in the first two terms. But when my love for her became too strong and I wasn't getting her attention, I buckled up a little and the remaining terms and years I became the best. One thing I understand from my experience is that the females are good with pouring out crammed academic answers to questions. But the men are very good with questioning those questions or by providing their own elaborate answers to those questions.

Dididrumz:
Who are You to add Bayelsa on your list of Biafran states?

What is your bargaining chip in this discourse? Are there any resources you have that qualify you to have a voice? Do you have any oil in you community or family land?

stanluiz:
Yes! They love it! Have you see them complaining ? No! They love one Nigeria. They love there oppressors! You should not be crying more than the breaved!

That is why you IPOBs should leave the minorities alone. They don't want Biafra course. They have made their choice. And you have to respect.

Redraw your map and limit Biafra agitation to SE. Igbo nationalists like us have been saying this for many times but you IPOB have vowed to be deaf. It time you IPOB retragise.

" Leave Minorities alone "
" Limit Biafra course to SE "

I am from Bayelsa and also am a Biafran.

Dididrumz:
Anybody agitating for Biafra should leave Bayelsa out of it if dey don't want problem.

A word is enough for the wise.

Who are you to tell Bayelsans what to do with their lives?

StacyO:
In a nut shell, you're saying the other man can't offer me anything in that aspect??

Yes, if we would be very frank with ourselves...the other man has no obligation to offer you more than sex. The only responsibility he has is a joint one with the wife or gf towards the children resulting from their adult enjoyment.

StacyO:
In a relationship, you as the man have the right to define how it works.


If you aim sex, you get sex.


However, no one offers you sex in a relationship. That is one thing you guys fail to understand

Sex is consensual. No one offers it to you.


However, a higher percentage of Nigerian men can't boast of introducing anything meaningful into their partner's life.
It's not rocket science,you can't get what you don't offer.

You want men other than your father and brothers to introduce meaningful things into your because you are what na? An orphan or handicap? It is the sole responsibility of your parents to give you meaningful things into your life, that with education and care prepares you to become value in a man's eye, after you have attained maturity. You don't expect another man's son to do that which your parents failed to give you. You don't do a man a favour by fucking him, or any other stuffs dating stuffs.

I now believe that our corrupt politicians are behind the celebrities' fans buying them stuffs trend. They do this to distract our attention to them. There is no way a collective group of people could be mentally handicapped to lavish scarce resources on people who contribute no meaningful things to move our pathetic state of the country forward. Politicians are behind this!

bukatyne:
Good one Zaha

It makes me happy when I see people who think things through and not just regurgitate words/actions.

How does kneeling before a football match stop racism?

Are footballers the only victims/perpetrators of racism?

Refusing to go through the motions....rare in the world today.

Your statement shows how impatient blacks are to follow through processes that though may take time but bring successes. We are just too fucking lazy. We only live in the now. The essence of taking that knee was not to bring a miraculous end to racism, but to create an awareness that if sustained with such campaigns could become the respite we seek.

PROUDIGBO:
A Igbo President dare not display even 10% of the rudderless leadership Buhari is displaying, because he would long have been ’couped’ out of office by some young core-northern muslim soldiers!

True. That is why I will continue to support Biafra.

This is the one Nigeria you all sacrificed 3million igbos for. Enjoy!!!

MrPresident1:
Skunk

Really?!

MrPresident1:
Oh! I should have explained this earlier on this thread even though I have explained it elsewhere

The reason I was saying that all of them would visit Africa is that I thought that Africa is the place of the carcase so I assumed that all of them would come to Africa to have their meeting.

Matthew 24:28
For wheresoever the carcase is, there will the eagles be gathered together.

This prophecy is actually a time marker because it helps to show the point that we are in in the fulfillment and evolution of prophecy.

The prophecy that is the premise of this thread was fulfilled in December 2019 when the leaders of NATO gathered for the NATO at 70 summit in London. BoJo was there, Queen Liz, Donald Trump, Macron, Erdogan, etc they were all there.

https://www.nato.int/cps/en/natohq/news_171576.htm

NATO actually is an organization that consists of the countries of Old Rome, and America is the head. The place of the carcase is London. This prophecy is a time marker

And again, why do you some time describe Donald Trump as an Antichrist, and some other times as a prophet from God. I equally notice this from Righteousness dude posts too. Could you please explain?

MrPresident1:
Oh! I should have explained this earlier on this thread even though I have explained it elsewhere

The reason I was saying that all of them would visit Africa is that I thought that Africa is the place of the carcase so I assumed that all of them would come to Africa to have their meeting.

Matthew 24:28
For wheresoever the carcase is, there will the eagles be gathered together.

This prophecy is actually a time marker because it helps to show the point that we are in in the fulfillment and evolution of prophecy.

The prophecy that is the premise of this thread was fulfilled in December 2019 when the leaders of NATO gathered for the NATO at 70 summit in London. BoJo was there, Queen Liz, Donald Trump, Macron, Erdogan, etc they were all there.

https://www.nato.int/cps/en/natohq/news_171576.htm

NATO actually is an organization that consists of the countries of Old Rome, and America is the head. The place of the carcase is London. This prophecy is a time marker

Thank you for your explanation. Actually, I am a watcher of the end time. I have been trying to watch for the signs since over ten years ago after I had several endtime dreams. Please involve me in the knowledge of the end time as revealed to you so I can learn too. Thank you.

justosee:
That is the most expensive fish in my place.
I always buy it when I come across a big one. The size killed by the OP could cost as high as ₦2k

This the most expensive fish here in Bayelsa where I base. It has more taste when dried compared to the op's own.

MrPresident1:
President Trump, Queen Liz, Bojo, PM Netanyahu

They are all coming to Africa, you heard it here first

They are coming to Nigeria

How far, when are they coming?

pozehnani:
Really?

Is it the Bendel fish?

Where are you located?

Bayelsa State. This dry season is when we catch them. We have them, both the more tasty aba fish, untrained catfish and others.

pozehnani:
I think I have because on closer look I now discovered it looks like the one they call Bendel fish. Anytime I cook with that fish, my pot of soup doesnt last. So sweeeet?...
It's expensive though.

If you want supply, my mom sells them be it fresh or dried. There is one that is sweeter than this one and is quite more expensive.

justosee:
common but usually the most expensive out of all the local fishes

It is not the most expensive local fish. There is this fish called 'aba', it is the most expensive. We call this one caught by op 'iyoro'.

stanisbaratheon:
That fish is part of the mullet family.

So its big Mullet

it is not a mullet

Kynzee655:
That's a black Croaker fish. U have a natural pond in your compound. Make good use of it. That fish in the market is about N1,500-N2,000, depending on the size.

No be croakerbe that na