₦airaland Forum

chiboyo:
Acidosis,
I completely share your opinion on this issue and it really baffles me that people would spend so much to put up shanties just to be called "landlords"
Your example using mutual funds is also apt..

Even if it's just 1m she gave her husband to add up to their personal project, 350k (or even less) can serve for an apartment and the rest goes into a form of business to sustain the family..

We really need to change this narrative that makes people believe that once you build a house, almost all your problems are solved..

U n acidosis don't know anything here. This Lady and her husband are not the standard middle class Nigerians who can afford rents. Owning a property is the wisest decision.

noisy45:
She is giving him anal

Abi,tubara?

Mary Jane and Like To Party my faves

Tomorrow,u gather all em corrupt leaders and kill them all nw,na this same poor children parents go vex come fight u. Shey na wetin happen for d first coup.

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Hizzy:
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sinceraconcept:
Thats a big lie, don't mislead people,some people started from scratch and are very rich now. You should rather say people that get rich over night are into illegal stuffs, this is the same mindset that's pushing people into yahoo. I know a guy that quitted his regular job and started doing yahoo, what you said is what he said too, he said you have to do something illegal to get rich today in this Nigeria. his words "Illegal lo laye bayii o, too bad she nnkan illegal,oo le lowo". That's a totally awkward way of thinking when we have the likes of Dangote and Zuckerberg that didn't do illegal businesses to get rich and they're richer than your illegal folks

And you think your supposedly legally rich guys don't do illegal stuffs? Lol.

Bahddo:
How do you immature people even even convince yourselves that you are ready for marriage? You can't even look at issues objectively and reach an independent decision.

So if you marry a lady whose parents aren't separated, it guarantees that your own marriage wouldn't end in divorce?

A sensible man will still ask how the parents managed to stay together,in order to see her orientation. Na una go still blame the op if tomorrow wahala happen,why him no ask questions before marrying. Tueh! Na follow follow dey worry una for this nairaland. Cos once the first comment drop, una don run with am.

AryaSand:
Yen, Yen, Yen, Yen, Yen. Jargons!
FYI, children from broken homes makes the best spouses because they never want to put their kids through what they went through. They put in Double Extra effort to make their Marriage WORK!

Rubbish talk.

LilMissFavvy:
You do not love her, simple.

Love is not foolishness,my dear. Bleep love sef! At op,make sure you are convinced before u go another step. Blind love will not save your relationship when it hits the rock. Only the truth can.

No 11 is the bomb. My kinda crush..

No 11 is the bomb

ForkDragnet:
Go and treat typhoid and malaria, that's the problem, the sickness is in ur system and not being treated aggressively

These are malaria, fever and typhoid symptoms
*wounds around the lips, nose or inside the mouth, dehydration

*The body pains* are symptoms of having sex while nursing an injury, no matter how little the injury is, you'll start feeling pains after few hours, especially on the groin part

Others are basic symptoms of malaria, typhoid and fever.

And also take your mind off it, you think too much about the possibility of you infected with HIV, let your mind be at peace and have yourself treated for those things I mentioned above.

you have said it all. I had similar symptoms and had panic attacks for years after my affair with my ex. Later,I was fine after treating malaria and typhoid

Pearl1996:
I have been to several general hospital. TB is ruled out. I am not coughing. Just feeling cold inside. Like I shiver sometimes

Babe, u r okay. Just treat malaria n remove your mind from those symptoms and they will go away.

Pearl1996:
Nairaland famiy I need help.

Somethings been eating me up. I had sex with my boyfriend some weeks later i started falling so sick I will try to point out all I can remember
*Came down with what I felt was fever was burning hot so hot you just need to come close to feel the heat

*at night I sweat. Not just the usual sweat but one I have to change my clothes two times a nigbt(this happened for like a week)

* I started feeling so cold especially in the morning. Doctor said it was pneumonia + a cough that lasted for three weeks plus.

*and the rashes I ve never have in my whole life spreaded all over my arms and back as well as my breast region.

* I also had serious muscle ache. Serious that my mom had to help me massage it. My neck did hurt too it felt like someone hit me with a blank on my neck

* nodes on my neck, groin, as well as ear.
* I started having blurred vision and sores on my lips like fever blisters

* and then injuries in my mouth, weird ones
* I have oral trush at least thats what I thought them to be. White tongue I have had this before but this onr is different. With slimy white things in my mouth every time

*I also experienced dehydration and dry mouth.
* also had a delayed flow

The symptoms are so much I can't even mention it all. Most of these lasted for about a month +. I still have cold till this day. I shiver most times and its my major fear. And the rashes are still there.

This Is the major problem. The nurse who was handling me said it might be an STD maybe HIV I took plethora of test including HIV after 3 months all came back negative, I was told to wait 6montgs to check for HIv again it was still negativr. During this month I have seen so many doctors, private and government all they do is givr me drugs but I still experience the pneumonia cold( no cough) and occasional mouth sores as well as the rash. My boyfriend now my ex took HIV too it was negative.
Please doctors in the house what can this be. I have read so many threads here on naira land of people who had same experience but some later turned + they might be lying though.

I heard after 6 months and test is still negative then its not it. My question now is. What is wrong with me. I have spent so much on drugs and test. And no doctor is able to say what my problem is. Its making me crazy as I am even scared to shower because of the cold and I can't let people see my body due to rash.

I need help.

If the doctors have said that you are okay, then you are okay. I have had all those symptoms and battled anxiety for years despite all med results saying I was fine. Truly, I became fine when I finally removed my mind from the symptoms. Just treat malaria and relax your mind and you will be just fine.

goodo20:
please, if you are done with school, go look for what to do and work out your own money as to take care of your own family too.
your elder brother has his own responsibilities and challenges too. so leave hime in peace, he is working hard to make his money.

Working hard my foot! Do you know the number of hardworking people who will never make it in life cos no one cared?

Same thing with my siblings. This days I live my life like I am the only one in the world.

Gabson001:
Act like he's dead bro
I have elder bro that ask me
"what do you want" whenever I call him
Family is just a name
I've learnt to live like am the only person on earth

#peace

Brother! I have an elder bro like that too.

madridguy:
You welcome bro, i don't know where people get the orientation of " leave your brother alone "

Seriously! Individualism is the bane of family unity

Therealism:
I am on Nairaland to save Nigeria by saving a select few

OK

Ogbenisoft28:
This happened to me for 3 years in my university days in LAUTECH ! I kept writing this single course for 3 years! It was a sad experience!! You should know what a carryover is at the second semester ! That’s an automatic 1yr

Same thing happened to me...that I kept writing this single course for three years with same results—15%. Someone hinted that maybe it was because the lecturer thought I didn't buy his textbook.

Na wa! I remember vividly the beating of life my elder brother gave his now wife when they were newly dating. Babe was very aggressive and always maltreating my nephew and myself. He had warned her several times not to hit us but she didn't listen,so on that day she threw something at my nephew and he was injured badly,simply because he brought a different stuff she had asked him to bring for her. She humbled after that incidence,so humbled that she even asked for our permission before sending us errands.
Most times people do shits to us because we overlooked them when they did to others. You should have stood behind those innocent children called maids. Their cases gave you good excuses to deal with your wife's attitude.

You did nothing wrong! In fact,you did good. Look! Most time relationships fail because of those crazy fantasies we created in our head like it was some manuals for romantic life. There is no manuals! Often times,I have left my girl in the house while I went playing ball or doing other things that caught my attention. I have the whole of my life to spend with you,just spare me some time for other things.

It was even romantic considering that she had the whole backseat to herself. You failed to tell her that that you wanted her to feel special at the back. Guys,always tell her lies!

DTC2:

To be honest, Women are really trying. Thank God I was born Male
Oh, I forgot... We guys also have sperm pains

Blue balls?

Geminita1:
Lol I've never had a lace wig on. If this is how easy it is to fall off, i'm better of not trying.

Abeg no put am,u too fine as u dey. My kinda crush dem. Black,beauriful and natural.

NoGender:
I want to bless three people with 3k. It's Sunday and just because I feel like.

Please. Don't expect me to change your phone!

3k. Randomly selecting.

Brotherly! May your days be long and blessed!

helinues:
Congrats buddy

No marginalization with the names.. David Ifeanyi Adeleke

We are very satisfied,even as the Ifeanyi came before Adekele. One Nigeria amaka!

funmisticqueen:
Answer the question she asked na, list 10 men that stick to their wives in all these situations. Rubbish

Samson stuck with Delilah despite being aware of her intentions to have him killed; also,King Rehab stuck with Jezebel despite her wickedness. All that befell those men were due to the manipulations of their women. Men stick to bad women and tolerate them all the time. They do incredibly foolish things for them. But,you all can't.

Ladycewhy:
this where you get it wrong ,its not feminisim to refuse to be put through heart ache. I tire for you o,so domestic violence and phillandering is a character flaw that women have to put up with? Lol . i have heard you ,but you see as i dey so, i wasn't built like that.Make we rest for the matter,i am sure there are men out there that are the complete opposite of Gucci like Russell and ciara , Cassie and her man, well those are the people i choose to look at. I am not cut out for the bonnie and clyde life. Those who are good luck to them ,and goodluck to me too.

Lol. Those who are opposite of Gucci are only so until one or two or repeated ermm...silly mistake(s)— or mental breakdown! And the lamentations of "all men are scum" continues. Look,nobody can fall in love with another for all the good reasons in the world. Some just do so for that funny joke that made them laugh;for that white teeth,for that dimple in the face;for that timely help rendered to them; even for that imperfections that scare others. These peculiar reasons are enough for some to tolerate every other acts that irritates them. Those who stay and persevere with the ones they love despite their flaws are those who practise "true love".

Magnoliaa:
Do you know history? Through all civilizations? How women have been treated?

If women had 'unshakable' power --- why aren't they allowed to put in to use? Why were they not at helm of institutions and things in the society?

I mean, it only makes sense for someone with supposed power, intuition, an ability to build and fix things, and all special characteristics to be at the front, be the first and driving change.

Nobody has been maltreated throughout history cos of their gender,but because of their weaknesses. Men equally as women, had suffered due to the weakness of mind and body. Blacks became slaves due to weakness of mind and body;women were looked down due to the weakness of the mind and body. It is same for everything. Any man who has the soundness of body and mind can and will control the weak. Victim mentally and blame games will solve nothing.

muzically:
Itunes, Spotify etc

Cool cash

At $0.007 per stream, my song of 2 wks generated 54,000 streams. That's about $378
I no be popular musician o!

I write songs for a fee bro