₦airaland Forum

mkpologwu:
Kids are not supposed to commend on this kinda thread. People are actually going through a lot. Of a truth, I think I'm one of the most mentally stable Nigerian but I must confess I do get suicide thoughts when I see the things happening these days. Let's find them out and reach out to them while they live and before they leave.

Be humble! You are not mentally stable; you haven't just reached your breaking point.

peepydelano:
Please if anyone here is contemplating suicide,stop it.Dont bow to pressure from anyone,your parents inclusive,fight back with all you've got to maintain your sanity.Go with life at your own speed with a positive energy and be consistent with whatever you are doing.Dont allow anyone talk you down,fight back and build a strong wall around you,be focused and in no distant time things will start falling in place.Enough of all these rampant suicide case.

Nothing falls in place with mean but religiously hypocrites as Nigerians.

Iyajelili:
Please if you are suffering or depressed and considering suicide, DM me. I am a talkative and ready to listen to you and help in whatever way I can in my capacity.
SUICIDE IS NOT YOUR LAST SOLUTION!!!

It is okay to say these words when the did is done to feel good,but you don't care.

R.I.P bro. No one understood your pains.

midolian:
Too bad!

To me, when you comit suicide, you are saying your maker doesn't know what He is doing.

F&&k your statement! There is no maker anywhere.

Raysleek:
Don't be intrigued. it's Logical deduction. There was some kind of motion on the bus. The probability of this occurrence is very high.

It is still an assumption but unless you were there. The danfo bus is a raised platform,therefore a misstep when alighting could be fatal,especially when one lands on dangerous surface. It could happen when your clothe or anything one is carrying gets hooked on rough hedges or protruding metals. Death no hard if na ur time.

A country the armed forces value their lives more than the vow they made to die for the country,can never progress. Every small protest you go about shooting people down.

eazzzy1:
The me too movement has emboldened a lot of people to start saying lies and half truths. They call it saying ‘my truth’. They have also found a way to compel people to accept these lies even before they are proven.

My advise to guys, always make sure you have something of your own, one accusation can ruin your life. Imagine if pastor Biodun had a 9-5 job or was a pastor in someone else’s church, they would have suspended or let him go just so they don’t deal with the bad publicity.

Brothers hustle o. Your tenants won’t stop paying rent because you were accused of rape, your stocks wouldn’t stop paying dividends because of accusations, your land won’t stop appreciating because someone is telling what her mind has made up as the truth or rather ‘her truth’

This does not mean that there are no true rapists. And also,it does not mean Ronaldo didn't rape her;it only means the victim could not prove beyond reasonable doubts. And this right here is why victims don't wanna come out,because even the law does not trust them and thus expects a traumatised person to still have the mental capacity to have all details and evidence,as if they hashed and acted their own rape. It is absurd! Really,that we can never be like "God" who sees the heart, therefore evil men can get away with it by simply deleting evidences,or fallaciously derailing justice. Men and women,please say no to rape.

GrabHisBalls:
I hope after now, Timi won't have any other reason to complain as the case has been transferred to Lagos as he requested? That said, I decided to watch his conference yesterday, but opt out after he said he knew last year that his wife suffered rape. I mean, a woman who claimed to have been raped on multiple occasions by her pastor tells her husband about her ordeal after say 5yrs in marriage. That woman is a fraud!

It is not your biz to dictate how a victim should act.

How many people tell their next of kin that they are their next of kin in the legal transactions. My elder sister doesn't know that I put her in all my legal deals. So,how would she press for any inheritance?

oyin44:
Eastern Nigerians had spoiled their own cases.So the next saddle of power belongs to the western Nigerians.this is what we want and that is where we are going.Apc (owned by the yorubas) has become a formidable party and also strengthen its hold on the nation.

If that will stop your dungeon from being a shithole country.

NwaAmaikpe:



It's so sad to see that this boy is already being exploited..

They'd wear him nice clothes, take him to the salon and he'd sing for free.
And at the end of the day, he'd be back on the streets with a bigger tray of oranges.

I know just how these things go.

This new version of you no follow at all. Or you were just overrated.

After all these,they will grow up and still need connection to get job las las,and still not perform better than the bright ones from poorly funded public schools.

Will it be equally administered on females too?

xty50:
But she's right.even that word hakuna matata is in swahili. They could have atleast mix the artist.

Yea! she should have. This is an African experience and thus should show that diversity she has.

BerryAnny:
Africans and our sense of entitlement or should I say this Kimani is simply being stupid?
You're questioning someone on who and who she selects to work with on her project,her f*cking project not yours.
What happened to you selecting other artistes you feel were 'neglected' and record your album too?
That's how Bonang or what's she called ranting Beyonce didn't feature any South African artiste,forming Pan-African on top another man's work.
Idiats!!!

When you realise that there is a need to create harmony even in a diverse groups,then the better things flow. Today,we complain about the fulani taking every important positions,and likewise some complain about the Igbo domination in the soccer scene. It is a problem so long some are marginalised.

gypsey:
So sad, do you not have Family members who can also help?

I do o. But this is how far they could go. Big problem is,they are too religious and thus believe I could pray it away. And most don't even care. Truth is I look fit outside,but I am hurting. But they don't understand that,and that has severed my relationship with some. It is not easy.

Oluwasaeon:
If the head had money, our girls would fall for it

bro,u wickedt o.

gypsey:
So sorry for your predicaments,

What kinda help do you need?

From research, I guess the affected discs need replaced. But I don't know how to go about it cos I don't have the finance(have spent a lot already and don't have anymore). I was recommended to try traditional medicine and massage therapy, and that is the point I am,but I don't have enough money to cover the bill.

gypsey:
So sorry for your predicaments,

What kinda help do you need?

I need both medical and financial help boss. I was diagnosed of Lumbar spondylosis; though I still don't fully understand the term but I was told my lumbar disc 1n2 are in distress. What I know is that I had a fall from ladder and again a bike accident some 14 n 12 years ago. Never suspected any harm until later years when I started having lower back pains,numbness on my left leg and constant bloating and migraines. It has been a battle ever since, affecting almost every aspect of my life now.

gypsey:
So for your unfortunate predicaments.


What made you think i can help?

It is really my unfortunate predicament, really. Never envisaged I would ask you or anyone for help,but life happens. Life happened to me that's why I asked for help.

gypsey:
Ask. Go ahead!

I am in need of financial favor. I have a challenge that is eating me up and I am exhausted. I am on therapy currently,but I don't have enough cash to continue. I am tired already.

lefulefu:
hm bros i am broke now oo.spare cash no dey with me for d moment.srry about ur predicament.

ok. thanks.

gypsey:
The Big question should be, who is their father? If it was a case of Pastor raped a celebrity, Nigerians would he reacting and protesting.

most people on here are Thanking and praising the Useless God, rather than asking the most important Question like WHO PREGNANTED HER?!!!

Nigerians are complexed Hyporcrites

Really complex! Baba,abeg I fit ask you something?

lefulefu:
What do you think of this?

Good morning sir! I am in dire need of help. Please,can I ask you a favour? I will appreciate some help.

themonk:
Can you stop making noise please, beating doesn’t solve anything! Abroad they don’t beat kids at all and they grow up to be less violent and more empathetic than people here. The reason you didn’t become all those things wasn’t because you were beat but because you grew up and recognized they are wrong.

If you beat a child for smoking or any other bad thing, the child in his brain would think you are maltreating him/her and not that what he did is wrong. If that child grows up and finds that that thing is still right in his/her eyes he/her will continue doing it. Can you beat them when they are grown?

The best you can do for a child is talk to the him/her and forbid them easy access to things that would lead them to the negative aspects of life. Beating just delays it nothing more, I knew a guy his father is a soldier and he beats him all the time the guy still grew up to be a cultist. Beating does nothing bro.

You make it sound like life is a one way thing. The abroad you are talking about,the US and the UK's ,with constant gang and drug related knife deaths and gun deaths,I guess it was beating of wards that instill such barbarism? I can't count how many wayward guys I know that chose that line of life cos they lacked disciplinary parents and guardians. It wasn't lack of counselling but lack of discipline! I am telling you what worked for me,and also some people I know. It wasn't my dads efforts but purely my mom. Though parents can't dictate grown ups but at a very tender age,beating and counselling in pure love can mould a child;but unless that child's village people are involved.

Daisy17:
I disagree with you. Beating does not solve the problem. The dad has to create a safe space for the boy to feel comfortable enough to express himself and have an honest conversation. Beating will cause the child to close up. This is the reason why a lot of parents do not have close, open relationships with their kids. What will make a child be open when they know that it will lead to beating?

I don't know the part of Africa that you come from, but right her I am beating does. I would have been a cultist or prolly dead if not of the beating I received from mom.

You see that tiny feeling you usually have when your bf / gf is touching you,that's your sense leaving your body. #copied.

I love disciplinary trainings. Everybody needs undergo some sort of training like this.

I blame Nnamdi KANU for wasting his prophetic gifts to talk and warn us about future events,instead of using it to predict bet9ja and nairabet games. He would have become very rich. Chai, why God no give me this kind gift?!
P.s. Guys,today is my birthday; please say a word or two. And also, you can ask for my account in order to bless my day. Thank you!
Please,let us not also give up on us, their situation we are now will one day go.

I blame Nnamdi KANU for wasting his prophetic gifts to talk and warn us about future events,instead of using it to predict bet9ja and nairabet games. He would have become very rich. Chai, why God no give me this kind gift?!
P.s. Guys,today is my birthday; please say a word or two. And also, you can ask for my account in order to bless my day. Thank you!
Please,let us not also give up on us, their situation we are now will one day go.

Image123:
It's now confusing. Everyone is castigating Tinubu because he did not blame herdsmen for the killing? This is very confusing. He should blame herdsmen when witnesses saw masked men without cows?

Did herdsmen attack Benue n co with cows?