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Donchukz:
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All the responses concerning this topic,showed how mean guys are towards women,just take a look at the likes and shares,it goes to show that women are not treating the male folks well. Babes,you guys can see the raw data here,which indicates that ; women are emotionally tormenting guys,from what girls have done to me,I so therefore,second every bodies opinions,I so second,gbaaaaaam! Gavel has done it's job

Women have so emotionally used guys since ages.

9jaRealist:
Nigerian men and the usual misogynistic culture of entitlement...
So declining to date someone means “without any respect for his person”?

Anyway, read my post again - it’s his money and he is NOT obligated to help (no issues with that)...
Nonetheless, if the ONLY reason is because the person did not agree to date him, then he’s a REAL LOSER!
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Lol. Op said she never gave him any reasons for rejecting his advance. If that is not disrespect, then I don't know what will make for it. And again what ever reasons that made her reject him is justified and like wise him declining her request.

Favor99:
Yes you should give her some money. It’s the godly and Christian thing to do. You should show love and generosity to your neighbor even when they’ve offended or insulted you.

It’s good to help those in need. Do onto others as you would like them to do unto you. If your in her situation, you would want someone to help you to.
Show her love and kindness and God will be very much pleased and bless you

na so. Which part of d Bible did she live by when she snubbed him? Even Jesus asked those who rejected him to go to the left.

Nteogwuija:
Lol. I can relate.

I sat down one day and I went through my bank records of all cash I had sent to my ex. After doing all the summation, I discovered that the money if kept together would have bought me a piece of land in a not so developed area.

Na so my brain reset.

The relationship didn't last up to 2 weeks after I had this discovery.

Now, I no want do any relationship again.

Forget any girl wey say she no dey come for your money. It's a trap.

na so. I can bet you she will still ask op money after this one succeeds. Or d chatting will decrease after he declines this one.

9jaRealist:
Sorry Bros, to be brutally honest and with all due respect...
If you have to ask this question, you are probably a BIG LOSER!

First, for the avoidance of any doubt, you do not have give or lend anyone your money. But if the ONLY (or even the primary) reason that you are reluctant to help out someone is because the person refused to date you in the past, then sorry you are a LOSER with a warped mentality.
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hag hag hag yen yen yen. Cheap blackmails. It was okay for her to reject him without any respect for his person, but he is a loser to decline her request based on her past action.

Trutherme:
I disagree. There's nothing like being emotional about anything. An eye for an eye is not the way to go, except if you are an atheist ok.

Have you wondered why it is only when such people need help they come around? Why done they ask for forgiveness when they have nothing to gain,just pure acknowledgement of wrong and even restitution.

Trutherme:
Please don't listen to those who want you to retaliate. Help her if you're able to do so. Doing so will convince her that you are indeed a good and kind person. The lady who 'dumped' me many years ago lost her younger sister and asked me to assist her financially for her burial and I did.

You are not proving anything with your kindness. Look,we live in a society where a good number of us is looking for every means to leech on the next person. And being emotional about issues easy gives predators access.

It is only Nigerians that will hurt you very well when you are nothing, and then turn around to ask for forgiveness when they see you making. And the next minute to forgive them,they expect you start giving them money. Why not take your repentance to start doing good to others?

King44:
what if her intention is pure

Let it be her regret na. And why must it be money? Why didn't she ask of an advice on how to make money?

King44:
give her without expecting anything, her mind and conscience would go to war, n moreover, no be must say make she gree for you, na her palava now not yours

No conscience will go to any war. Babe just sees a guy she knows have soft spot for her and that she could easily swindle.

tyup:
You dont knw why she turned you down but i'll advise you give her to prove you're over her already it'll make her humble

Plus it boost your maturity sense

He doesn't have to give her anything to prove Nada. Every action deserves an opposite reactions,if not we will no know that there are consequences every action.

Charmingrascal:
Not every Lady you ask out will agree to date u, if u have the money give her


I would rather give a Lady that turned down my advances money than giving an ex who cheated on me

Not every lady will not date us,but having that good manners while turning down advances is key.

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Don't ever give her! Don't! Take this advice. Look, I have learnt these things the hard way. Nobody has the right to treat you badly and still expect your forgiveness easily with emotional blackmail when they are not remorseful. Look,she is not genuine here,and even if she is,let this be a consequence of her actions. Truth is,when she turned you down, she had a standard she felt you weren't, and prolly now, you are her standard while some other guy is not. For the sake of that guy somewhere she will maltreat cos of you—don't give her. But if you will give her,don't ask her amount, give her what you can freely give. Don't let her call amount o,these girls no get joy o.

sugacoatedmouth:
Never mind about that lemme subscribe data for you

Father xmas

gypsey:
Yes, it is their fetish, they both enjoy it. well... i didn't care as long as they paid me.


Man is 51, his wife 37 year old. i don't know how they met.

Na wa o. characters dey this life o. how done gets to tell there partners such fetish without knowing how he or she would react.

gypsey:
what an Ignorant conclusion, Alot of people have fetish, he is no different. here in Miami it is no big deal.

You probarbly would not believe the Kinda Rubbish that turns some humans on sexually. like one White guy offering me his wife to fu ck while he watches.

d wife cum gree?

am4truth:
Friend, nothing at all should make you think of committing suicide. It is a crime against God and humanity.

God would ever be committed to you. Don't ever give up on God and yourself.

Now,that is silly! who then holds your god n humanity for all their crimes?

this house don pass one year since.na.

Nelsonmande41:
See below

Germany m vs Spain was NG. 1-0. u no even sabi scam.

Mysticluv:
If you can't, then why making the vow of for better for worse; in sickness and in health? Abi you guys don't understand the meaning of such vow. The bible says... and the TWO shall become ONE!!!

fine lady.

Obi1kenobi:
The overwhelming majority of criminals, terrorists, mass shooters, serial killers, rapists and pedophiles, etc (basically most of the threats to civilized, safe, harmonious society) are men. But it's women that are "incapable of handling freedom". What a drooling mooron.

We no dey fight na,haba.

cococandy:
Watch jobless mofos come dancing on this thread.
The word. The F word that they can’t resist. The word that scares them so much they can’t pass up any opportunity to tear it down.



Lady if feminism is a scam to you, kindly go back to the era where no one would have even bothered to seek your opinion let alone give you TV time.

Some ladies be living the emancipated life yet crying about the system that made it possible for them. Wonder who she’s trying to impress now.

No system made it possible, men did. And the truth is,like colonialism, men simply got tired of the old ways and therefore gave them education. And like independence from colonialism using most African countries as a case study—most women have seemed incapable of handling freedom.

Na wayas. R.I.P bro. You tried your own quota in making life what it is, and all of that lessons. I pray I get to that position I could help others with whatever I get to make their lives a little meaningful(if only it will). Whenever I think of what have been happening to me,I just drink some water,and then listen to my favourite songs and thereafter sleep off. Truth is,I have come to realise the meaninglessness of life—which is that whatever meanings we attribute to life is part of a meaningless meaninglessness. Poverty has no meanings,affluence has no meanings; health has no meanings and likewise sickness,and every other essences of life. Enjoying or enduring the meaningless things of life while they last,is the true essence of—which still in itself meaningless.

TheLogicalMind:
Political correctness gone rogue again. They're confusing "black" as a colour with "black" as a racial classification.

Let them attribute those offensive words to white color. White-= evil, white= dirty,e.t.c.

r.i.p. fr. Biafra shall recognise u and others who sacrificed for her in due time.

JasonScoolari:
I don't know why I feel pity for Owelle Rochas Anayo Okorocha and God's will Akpabio... They've has been used and dump by the Lifeless party... No ministerial slot for them.

Chai!!!

I pity Rochas the most.

The same way you would want to do anything to take away those stubborn pimples or eczema on your face because it gives you a bad outlook; or wear that expensive cologne to mask your body odour(which may not be pleasant),is the same way some feel about other issues concerning their bodies and they if they they have the money to correct it,good! There is no big deal in that in enjoying the technology that helps solve their problems— who won't if given a chance,if the process if safe. Who won't try out the technology that will help elongate one's life span if there is any? Would that be out of inferiority and fear of dying? Whether it be hip enlargement or nose modifications, nothing is wrong,unless we want to go theologically.

JasonScoolari:
Go on sir.

OK. I need a help with some cash( around 8k; even if I would pay back) to sort a very unique issue( medical: pains due to an impact on the lumbar bones from a fall 14yrs ago). I have just booked an appointment with a traditional bonesetter who charged me quite high. I have spent money on this issue through orthodox means to no avail. This pain has cost me a lot of stress,money and opportunities already. And it will happen again if not sorted: I should have been working in Shell if not for it. Please help a bro! I would have gone public with my plea but I am too introverted.

JasonScoolari:
God's mercies has kept me, I might not be the richest person in the
world or the world’s president but I have
happiness, peace of mind, and most
importantly the gift of life. Thank you,
God, for blessing me with such priceless
gifts. On my birthday, I celebrate these
little but priceless things. I will put a smile on my face and won’t
let the troubles of life get me down
because it’s my birthday, Happy birthday
to me.

Please Friends, Join me and celebrate.

bro,how far! Abeg,I fit ask you for a favour?

IvarTheTerrible:
oilPUSSY, MorufuAtanda....

You guys can come out of hiding, i have pleaded on your behalf, Asari has gone.

I no see una for front page, una don vamoose

I can bet you guys defecated on yourselves. Ijaw nation is now Number 3 in Nigeria.

It would soon be the turn of Efik to capture you. Effiong that Ojukwu handed over to, no be Akwa Ibom?

I am shocked to see yeebows on the FP claiming "divide & rule" and begging for Southern unity

God knows how many of una don run reach Abidjan

Take it from me,Dokubo is an idiot.

Toks2008:
This is a very strong area of argument but logical speaking I believe the rapture is before the tribulation and the tribulation will be a strong test and second chance for those who miss the rapture.

There is no second test! Only a few people on earth will not be tested,or you do you expect dead people to come partake in the tribulation since they missed the rapture? The great tribulations is on already.