₦airaland Forum

jagorinho:
correct bro!!!even most wont be able to read this your write up till the end, shouting it is too long, the thing is most youths believe hard work is physical work but no!!! we are lazy in developing our mental strength, we are not putting our brain to work, an average nigerian hates tasking his brain, they are are just too comfortable in their comfort zone, i think our sensitivity to religion can partly be held responsible because a brain that is too religious has already been partitioned and can not work optimally

It is the same almight prophet buhari whose cows never increase in numbers is the creative one? Is it the Buhari who never acquired any known knowledge or business after leaving power,that is the creative one? just tell me.

rusher14:
Some of us know you simply choose to be mischievious.

Did he say ALL youth of Nigeria are lazy?

Besides semantics, I put it to you, the Nigerian youth do not display enough creativity.

How much research, patents, world class artistic work would you find in our institutions?
Let me guess..that's government's fault.

Ok let's go to the number of our young people who have access to the internet. How many are involved in programming, animation, international research syndicates?

Let me guess...that's the government's fault.

Here on Nairaland, start a topic with a misleading headline and wait to find how many would spot the disconnect between the headline and the body of the message.

Let me guess... it's the government's fault.

The youth of Nigeria are lacking in creativity and please don't give me Nollywood and Afro music. It can take only a few entrants.

We need people who want to create and constantly think of solutions.

We need people who channel their energy positively and not in cult activities, Yahoo or drug use.

Talking about drugs, this poor nation is experiencing a new wave of drug abuse...tramadol, codeine, skunk etc.
That's what the nation is about.

Many Nigerians are of the misconception that the country is rich but the reality is that we aren't.

Yes we have the potential to be wealthy, but we are a poor nation in every way, shape or form.

It is your choice to accept the criticism.

You can go renegade and discount it.
It is your life, your future. Play it as you wish.

Send that lazy youth outside the country,and watch him do wonders! Your almighty prophet buhari just have a way of blaming everyone and everything else,except himself. Do you know the difference between "most" and "some"? your almighty prophet buhari used " most", implying that over half of its youth populate is jobless? do you think that allegation just stops at semantics? If what is said is the truth,don't you think Nigeria would have gone in blazes? Even if it is a fact that the average nigerian is lazy,he does not necessarily wait on the govt except the few touts they employ to do their dirty work,e.g, sarrki, omenkalive,madriguy, e.t.c. so how do you rationalise a country that a single minister uses over 100million naira to cut mere grass? that 100 million naira would empower 100 youths with if share among(with a share of 1million naira, sarrki will not be enticed to do BMC work). do you know the wonders some youths can with 1million naira? Almighty prophet Buhari allegedly did not account for a whopping 2billion naira ptf monies in his care; do you know that 2 thousand Nigerian youths could have been empowered with one million naira each? Should we talk about the $16 billion OBJ allegedly misused that was meant for power? do you know the impact that money could have had on the youths if it were judiciously used? What about Jonathan,the Ekweremandus,the dasukis,the patience,and all the corrupt criminals we have had-do u know what those monies could have done for the populace? #Bleep almighty prophet Buhari for insulting my intelligence! And Bleep you for being the useful illiterate!

SlimBrawnie:
I believe Buhari meant Northern youths and I don't blame him sha, I blame the youths he deceived with a promise 5k every month, so why wont he say trash now. What about him that is uneducated and had no tangible source of income besides rearing cow and waiting to enter Aso Rock.

even if he were referring to northeners, are they not Nigerians? Is it not the same leaders who put them in the situation?

Quality20:
nice one. I think d president doesn't wanna mention names, but he is indirectly referring to criminal minded youths waiting for oil money with d claim that they need not work cos d oil flows in their backyard( Niger delta militants) and other youths from area boys in Lagos to ipob minded youths in d east and Fulani kidnappers in d north etc

what the Bleep are u saying? If a minister in his cabinet can use over a hundred million naira to cut mere grass,why won't the youths demand their cut? If the ministers in his cabinet can acquire expensive properties in a space of three years,why won't the youths ask for same?

Shedrack777:
9 years old girl wey never heavy na him you dey surprise. jackie chan did same consciously and survive. she no try. next time make she jump from 5 storey building and survive.
but on a more serious issue, na which kind power abi na strength wey she use push and break the building protector off? op tell us true about this issue

The journey of a thousand mile starts with just one step-likewise, the journey of a lifetime st*pidity,starts with one statement.

STENON:
I am not here for argumentative essay. Please pray for divine wisdom and understanding, after which you can now read my post for proper interpretation

u guys like moving the goal post, always! u said freeze will have a destructive end even though u r not God; however the other poster asked u a question whether those believers who hard a rather painful exit from earth were punish by God. You did not answer that! Then how can u have a decent conversation with people in this manner?

It is a welcomed action. Whether he is innocent or not,I pray he serve more punishment in order to serve as deterrent to other randy lecturers who are abusing the trust placed on them. A lot of students' lives have been shattered by such people. As a people,we don't realise the consequences of this kind of exploitation: most bad girls who don't respect the society any longer that we abuse everyday,were all destroyed by the very people who were entrusted to guide them in the right way.

If omenkalive, madriguy,sarrki, ipobsarecriminals and co, are the only remaining youths who are educated according to Buhari standard, then i don't want to be educated! In fact, i want to be taught how to be uneducated.

For some short people,everyone else is looking down on them; but actually they are the ones forcing themselves to see all the hairs on the head of others.

Dis one too will be shouting Buhari is wicked?

Oreofepeters:
There are girls like that, I can relate they are only good at sex.

In my own case she wan spoil me with sex, atimes she go come 3times during the week for sex.

One day I just sit down think, why' she cum like sex like this?.
I wasn't just comfortable, knowing fully we are not legally married. But still my heart filled with doubts, after sometimes I let go of the limp in my heart. I planned to settle down with her.

Na later I cum discover no be only me dey bang her. Her bangers full streets, only that my own joystick tastes different.

Bro since then girls just tire me.

na same tin happen to me. Na when the bobo call me for phone dey warn me sey make i leave him babe. dem plenty wey dey bang her. Niggas gat learn sey plenty girls wey dem dey take as gfs na oloshos in gf attire. So he better u go for d confirmed oloshos n spend less,cos if na sickness u dey avoid,just know sey no one dey safe including d oloshos in gf attires. just ask any potential gf to run health test,plenty go rather run.

Oreofepeters:
There are girls like that, I can relate they are only good at sex.

In my own case she wan spoil me with sex, atimes she go come 3times during the week for sex.

One day I just sit down think, why' she cum like sex like this?.
I wasn't just comfortable, knowing fully we are not legally married. But still my heart filled with doubts, after sometimes I let go of the limp in my heart. I planned to settle down with her.

Na later I cum discover no be only me dey bang her. Her bangers full streets, only that my own joystick tastes different.

Bro since then girls just tire me.

na same tin happen to me. Na when the bobo call me for phone dey warn me sey make i leave him babe. dem plenty wey dey bang her.

OvaSabi1:
Umm if she should respect him it should not be because of the money he has spent on her. It should be because of the agreement and mutual love they both share. So just because she's using the phone a lot now it means she's a love LovePeddler? Just listen to yourself as you're writing. Is the phone not meant to be used? Let him collect the phone and end the relationship asap. She will not enjoy this relationship and he's not mature enough to be in a committed relationships.

So buying her a phone is not a mutual love? what is love if not every action that one does to make the other better n happy? I only pity guys who spend on women; i learnt in the painful way! truth is,guys don't understand that there is nothing u will give to a girl that another nigga can not give her; but that other nigga may not have the same intention of love u have for her which is beyond the gifts,so it is does not make sense to allow emotions of love drive u to invest in a girl who will not appreciate ur intentions,but judge u by the momentary value of ur sacrifice. There is no excuse on her part as to why a device he bought for her in good will will consume more of her time than what she spends on the relationship! That is cheating,and it just a matter of time before she does it with other guys and that is if she hasn't started already.

Oreofepeters:
Over sabi dey worry you. Abi you no dey notice am?

bro, every guy wey don fall mugu for girl hand go tell u sey dem see d signs even though its subtle. Buh na love(lust) n sex dey cover their eyes. I no go lie u, dis particular girl give me sex wey blow ma mind,d girl good! and na de only tin she sabi.

OvaSabi1:
You will lose her because you're treating her like a child. This is financial abuse. Seize the phone na. How naive for you to say that you're investing in a human being and then think you have control over them. You are not different from madames that sponsor prostitutes to Italy and expect a return for their investment. You are very insecure. How much is this so called internet phone that you think she can't afford without you? If she does housegirl work and save for 5 months she will buy it. Even labourer work. If she's the open eye type that you're making us believe, she would have left you since. Men these days don't even require a woman to be fine before they sleep with them and spend on her. Go and work on your self-esteem.

what is bad,is bad. he was not some charity organisation to take care of her needs without some respect. This is not about self esteem on his part,but the LovePeddler of a girlfriend who has no self worth.

Guys should learn not invest in girls with their emotions,time and money unless the girls do same (no matter how small it is). I learnt this in the most painful way. It was when i had a fight with bae and she asked me "what have you done for me?", i realised how foolish i had been. This was a girl that that i sacrificed the little i had even as a student depending on handout from home, in order to make her happy: i bought a new her a new phone without her asking,paid for her jamb after persuading her to take it; took her shopping and cinema. I was always there for her in anyway i can, but i never received same except the sex! At the end,it became clear that their are oloshos in gf attires. #our fight was as a result of my suspicion that she was cheating on me,which denied until i caught her red hand. #Sandra

wonlasewonimi:
I like the fact that they created something... What I don't like is when people major in minor.

Create something that will solve significant problems... I don't even eat bitter leaf and those that do will not necessarily buy the machine.

Please go back to the drawing board boys!

u did not read where ut is stated that the waste water could be used for medicine and others?

mzhorlah:
He used me to get over his depression. it took me a while to forgive but am glad i did already

u for take style resemble person wey i know o.

Hybridz:
I will do far worst if I find myself very seriously attached to someone like that. The unknown faces of different fvckers will most times be my point of imagination, but I know I have a good mind and penchant for helping people,that's why I suggested you help her even if you ain't gonna end up with her.
By so doing,she will never forget you for playing such an angelic role at a very crucial period in her life and you on the other hand will derive satisfaction each time you remember you made someone special happier.

Truer words have not been said! I will do exactly as u opined- already have similarly thoughts. Gracia,i appreciate.

Hybridz:
Now! This is really touching. Take heart bro and try to make her stop those addictions even if you wouldn't walk her down the aisle

ok. I am working on that,and she is willing. My mimi is a good girl,naturally. The problem is me now,i can't seem to handle her graphic confessions; i keep thinking and imagining things.

If on a scale of "bad and worst",or "best and worst",Sowore can not find any reason to apologise to Gej ,after looking at the performances of his supposed messiah and Gej ; then he does not deserve any sane persons attentions in national issues! Sowore should know that Nigerians are not looking for people who think that they are some angelic messiahs sent from heaven,and that they can do no wrongs. But actually, Nigerians are looking for a mere mortal who will follow the set constitution,listens and obeys the wishes of the people. Would Sowore also say he has no reason to apologise to Nigerians for selling a failure to them as president in 2015? Nigerians will only pay attention to a sowore who can can eat his pride and say " gej,i am sorry- between my supposed messiah n you...both of you are devils,and the both of u are two deep blue seas.

My heartbreak story could make a good movie. I fell in love with once brilliant and beautiful melanin classmate in jss2. But,since i was naive then,i couldn't tell her my feelings. so along the line,we got into a fight. but at the end,she sent me an apology letter and some apple(Those were the best apples i have eaten,ever). So i was happy to make it up with her the following day,but when i got to class i was informed that she had relocated with her family. I was heartbroken. From then,i couldn't stop thinking about her,she was my missing rib and kidney. After several years of searching for my missing Mimi...my first search on facebook when i registered,was her name. Every time i logged in on any social media,i would put her name on the search engine...but all to no avail. I was depressed,i couldn't stop thinking about her. Because of her,i kept my virginity all through to 300l in the university; i was obsessed with the thought of my mimi,she was the perfect woman in my dream world. Even at a point,i was told through a proxy that she was already late(however,iy was her twin sister who died). Even at that,i didn't stop looking for her:even if it was her grave,all i wanted was to express my love for her on it. So,after ten(10) good years of searching,i finally found her on facebook(all the while,she was already friend with someone I knew!). thereafter,i told her about all my feelings for her and all the stress i passed through to find her. But,i was given the shocker of my life: she confessed to me that she is no longer the good girl i knew her for,that now she drinks,smokes,and that she is also a sex maniac,too. She said that the death of her twin sister got to her,that she felt guilt for the circumstances that led to her twin's death;so she became depressed as a result,and therefore started abusing substances to alleviate her pains. At this point,i became too weak to absolve the shock: all my dream of a perfect girl by my side making a perfect relationship, is gone. I couldn't imagine all that she could have done in those past years in the university,messing herself up with all the alcohol,drugs and bad niggas inching her! while i was keeping chaste! It is terrible for me,even as she confessed that she is still battling to stop those addictions...
Long story shortened...we are dating now,but sincerely i am not serious about it. i can't tell her that;in fact,i don't want to loose her even as i find it difficult to accept the realities. A part of me will feel void if i should loose her: i am thinking, will i ever find that perfect girl who got my fancy as i did back then? The heartbreak is really messing me up!

CAPSLOCKED:

I CAN ACTUALLY SPOT ONE OR TWO PEOPLE IN THE PICTURE.
LOOKING FOR FOCS TO HARVEST

they will be disappointed! For just like the fig tree and Jesus,no Bleep bored any fruits.

If you are a fine lady and u are fornicating with a broke married man or guy,then you are just wasting your sin.#be wise!

ennysuccess:
Then there was division in the army....each region where on there own..... Do you understand now

and you think there is no division now? when the highest positions are occupied by a section of the country?

ennysuccess:
The Nigerian Army has every tribe as its officers..... Its therefore logical to know that the allegations are false..... How will Igbo man or the Benue people among the troop's agree with herdsmen to kill people?..... Some people will be splitting rubbish thinking everyone is as stupid as they are..... Believe me all this Benue this n that is politics..... Election is just around the corner.... More also army camouflage are in the market.... We have seen bokoharam, armed robber, militants used it severally...... Now if NA decide to back off now when there is attack next they will say they didn't respond..... When their hardwork isn't appreciated..... The Benue people are very wicked set of people in Nigeria..... Biafra says it all..... Even those living in other States are full of crimes like robbery, jealousy, black magic, prostitution etc...... Let's wise up Nigeria..... God bless the NA...... God bless Nigeria

How come the 1966 coup was tied to the igbos even though the military was multi ethnic?

walexy100:
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it is not our portion!

If all nigerians can tackle the excesses of the northen cabals as a collective national problem - without any colourisation of ethnic or religious sentiments -then our problems could be over. It is applicable to every region: militancy in the south,biafra in the east,skull mining in the west,e.t.c.

This is what makes us humans - the essence of humanity! Take these(tolerance and love) away,then we become savage animals. Any belief that does not uphold and protect humanity,must not be upheld.

Everybody can now see a tip of the iceberg, what the igbo victims of 1966 went through. At this point,any one nigeria proponent who admonishes self defence is a hypocrite; self preservation was what Biafrans did in the face of savage attack to cause their extinction. #only truth and justice can save us!

One reason why i hate the igbos who comment on these happenings is that,they cannot shut up and watch one nigerians enjoy themselves! is it that difficult for them to watch God vindicate them?

AnonyNymous:
I don't think Nigeria owes any specific ethnic group an apology per se, because if things were working nobody would be complaining. I'm only unhappy with the fact that the Biafran war became a topic that people were scared to talk about. Because to be honest, Nugerua doesn't seem to have ever completely recovered from the civil war. If these things were talked about. . .taught in schools. . .people like Nnamdi Kanu would've never gotten famous in the first place. Fraudsters like him wouldn't have been able to market their own version of history and propagating hate against other ethnicities. It irks me when I see Yoruba's and Igbo's fighting especially, considering we are 99% genetically alike.

It is like saying Benue people should not be sympathized with by the fg simply because they are the architect of their misfortune for not allowing savage herders to graze on their farmlands. Ndiara!