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Health / Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Elmander1983(m): 7:40pm On Jun 09, 2022
Congratulations!!! You'll be a father
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.
Celebrities / Re: Tonto Dikeh Blasts Reno Omokri For Comparing Her And Nkechi Blessing To Tinubu by Elmander1983(m): 7:25am On Jun 04, 2022
Fact! Even though it hurts
marsman:

She is never going to give reno a reply. The only major winning peter will get during the process of these political activities, is the one he had at the labour party convention.
GCFR is a crown that can not fit Peter Obi's head in 8 years to come.
Health / Re: My Wound Is Taking Forever To Heal (Graphic) by Elmander1983(m): 8:43pm On May 25, 2022
Water delays the healing process. Stop allowing water touch it while bathing.
Cakkie:
Good day, all. I'll be brief.

The first thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7063080/ampicillin-capsule-dry-heal-open


Pls my wound have refused to heal despite applying various medications on it (chloramphenicol, ampicillin, penicillin ointment, injection powder).

It's getting to two months now. I'm really tired nairalanders. Pls help me out, I have spent all the money on me trying to get it healed but all to no avail.

Doctors, Pharmacists, Nurses and experienced health personels in the house pls I really need your sincere advice.


Pls help me get to the front page. I believe there are a lot of experienced folks in this forum. Pls help me out guys.

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Travel / Re: People Push A Loaded Truck Up A Sloppy Road In Anambra (Photos, Video) by Elmander1983(m): 1:29am On May 21, 2022
Where's the load?
DamnnNiggarr:
the moment some Nigerians were seen pushing a fully loaded truck up a sloppy Road


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHpyaWK5ro8

So on Saturday, I went to mgbuka Obosi spare parts market to purchase some parts for my Toyota Yaris, something caught my attention,
About 12 men pushing a fully loaded truck up a sloppy Road under the scorching sun.

I felt nothing but pity,
This gave rise to several questions running through my mind,
Why do most Nigerians like suffering?
Don't they have any idea that all these have after effects toward old age?
Was it lack of money or they didn't see a vehicle they can just ask for help?
May God help us in this country.
Romance / Re: Reactions As Man Takes His Male Bestie On An All-expense Paid Trip To Dubai by Elmander1983(m): 12:53pm On May 18, 2022
Shocking reaction everywhere. The world has pushed a lot of people to accept lies as truth and truth as lies. Believe it or not, there are best friends who can do much more than just sponsoring Dubai trips. Maybe it's time you ask how many friends can give you 50k when in need instead of judging their relationship
ExAngel007:
Social media users are reacting after a man disclosed that his male bestfriend took him on an all-expense paid trip to Dubai, United Arab Emirates.

His friend, Toluwase Opara, had taken to his Twitter account to announce that his bestfriend surprised him with a trip to Dubai.

He also shared some photos from the vacation which captured their fun and adventurous moments in the Arab state.

Toluwase captioned the photos on twitter,



However, his tweet sparked reactions online as some people questioned the kind of friendship they truly share with each other.

See Reactions Below;

https://www.tori.ng/news/202151/reactions-as-man-takes-his-male-bestie-on-an-allex.html
Politics / Re: Protesters Vandalise Non-muslims' Shops In Sokoto Over Arrest Of Deborah Killers by Elmander1983(m): 7:07am On May 15, 2022
It's sad. And the kids they drag along to commit these crimes grow up with a negative mindset and see their actions as right. God save and heal our land
lalasticlala:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4k2laedf3mo
Angry Youths Protest, Vandalise Non-Muslims' Shops In Sokoto Over Arrest Of Deborah Yakubu's Killers
Celebrities / Re: DJ Cuppy Shows Otedola's Monaco Mansion (Photos) by Elmander1983(m): 12:22pm On May 13, 2022
@femiotedola, wehdon sir
LuQuLuQu:
Go and get married. So you will show off your husband's mansion in outer space
Politics / Re: National Assembly Begs Chinese Govt To Rescue 62 Kidnapped Train Passengers by Elmander1983(m): 11:47pm On May 11, 2022
Shame shame shame, SHAME! A big slap on our govt as they would have to resort to begging a different govt for something they can do. God help us get it right in 2023
Islie:


National Assembly Begs Chinese Govt To Rescue 62 Kidnapped Abuja-Kaduna Train Passengers




https://tribuneonlineng.com/national-assembly-begs-chinese-govt-to-rescue-62-kidnapped-abuja-kaduna-train-passengers/
Family / Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Elmander1983(m): 10:03pm On May 11, 2022
That depends on your laid down principles and the impression you gave from start. Play your cards well and win. There's nothing wrong in that. Many of them are youthful mistakes. Some even get pregnant as teenagers. Stop stigmatizing them pls ..
Puskas:
Any attempt from you to discipline the child will not always go down well with her. She will be seeing it as a hatred for the child because the child is not yours

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Politics / Re: Entertainer 'youngest Old Man' Picks APC N10m House Of Reps Expression Of Intere by Elmander1983(m): 10:08pm On May 10, 2022
Mustn't be. What they have there isn't befitting
Candidlady:


You want the table to be gold plated ko undecided
Politics / Re: Entertainer 'youngest Old Man' Picks APC N10m House Of Reps Expression Of Intere by Elmander1983(m): 9:53pm On May 10, 2022
With the huge sum APC is taking, they can do better rather than show us old tables
StoriesUpdate:
Entertainer 'Youngest Old Man' Picks APC N10m House of Reps Expression Of Interest Form

A popular comedian and Entertainment Practitioner Roland Igbadumhe, better known as Youngest Old Man has picked his N10m expression of interest and nomination forms to contest for House of Representatives on the platform of All Progressives Congress APC.

He is in the race to represent the good people of Etsako Federal Constituency of Edo state.

He was accompanied by loyalists and supporters to the International Conference Centre Abuja, venue of the sale of forms.

Youngest Old Man who is said to be the youngest aspirant in Edo State APC is a popular face in the entertainment industry.

He was a senior special adviser on Entertainment to the Edo State Governor, Adams Oshiomhole, a position he capitalised on to attract development projects to his Ward 9, comprising Imiegba, Itsukwi and Imiakebu communities.

He is anchoring his campaign on accessibility, fair representation, health care & education, women and youth empowerment, care and welfare for the aged.

Though this is not the first time he is making attempts to represent his people, he insists he is more determined now.

In 2019, he was the candidate of the Social Democratic Party, SDP, but lost his bid to represent the Etsako East constituency following the declaration of Kingsley Ugabi of the All Progressives Congress, APC winner of the election.

Born to the late James Ebui Igbadume, a school principal and an alumnus of the University of Ibadan, Roland started off as a comedian at the Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma, Edo State, providing top-notch entertainment on campus and neighbouring communities...

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/05/entertainer-youngest-old-man-picks-apc-n10m-house-of-reps-expression-of-interest-form/
Celebrities / Re: Chiwetalu Agu Survives Spiritual Attack, Mysterious Items Brought Out Of Chest by Elmander1983(m): 2:12am On May 07, 2022
Scam! As a child, I remember a man doing house deliverance. Nobody noticed but I did that, he was constantly biting on something he was holding and after a while, he'd spit and walla... An object is on the ground and he'd simply say, " Dem plant dis one to kill you, I don commot am." My naive parents kept heaping praise on him and thanked him endlessly... Even went on to borrow and give him my school fees cos an uncle had given it to me days before. Scammers everywhere
Afrogist247:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MUoPWC_xBn4

Arrows, Bullets, Other Mysterious Items Brought Out of Chiwetalu Agu’s Chest As He Survives Spiritual Attack.

Veteran movie star Chiwetalu Agu has revealed that his enemies plotted and sent many agents to kill him.

The actor shared a video where he showed and described various items such as arrows, bullets, stones and mirror all removed from his chest, neck, and shoulder region. Chiwetalu however gave glory to God for foiling the plans of the enemy and keeping him alive despite the attacks.

The Popular Nollywood veteran Chiwetalu Agu recently revealed that he defeated his enemies and the plot to end his life in a shocking video.

In the video shared below, the actor sat behind a table with different items like nails, cowries, stones, bullets, and other mysterious items.

Chiwetalu Agu bares it all, He then proceeded to disclose that the items were removed from his shoulder, neck, and chest region by a prophet and described the various types of uncountable arrows on the table.

The actor however attributed his saving grace to the fact that he is one with God and he can't be harmed by any enemy. "At a point I was seeing myself 5 feet under the ground in my sleep" - he said.

Sources: @chiwetaluagu|@instablog9ja|LegitNG

https://www.instagram.com/p/CdNj5JaLU0W/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

https://www.legit.ng/entertainment/celebrities/1468790-arrows-bullets-mysterious-items-brought-chiwetalu-agus-chest-survives-spiritual-attack/
Car Talk / Re: 2005 Odyssey & 2005 Sienna: Which Is Better? by Elmander1983(m): 8:50am On May 04, 2022
Sienna brother man
rexlims:
Good evening house.
Pls I am asking for a friend who is contemplating getting either a honda odyssey or a sienna.
Apart from d difference in prices, what about cost of maintenance, fuel consumption and durability?
Thanks car enthusiast as I await ur response.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia Has Weapons No Other Nation Has. Will Swiftly Use Them If Needed - Putin by Elmander1983(m): 11:19pm On Apr 27, 2022
This Putin man had better sut the f up! Nigeria has better weapons and even weapons no other nation has. Ask Well ooo. Who Sabi, Sabi!
WriterNig:
Putin promises 'lightning' response to strategic threats to Russia.




Credit: RT
Celebrities / Re: Seyi Shay Welcomes Her First Child (Photo) by Elmander1983(m): 10:29pm On Apr 25, 2022
Ever since I saw raunchy video and pics of her in her bedroom taking crazy and inviting poses, it just hit me that she go soon collect from her bobo. Congratulations
onthehill:
Popular Nigerian singer, Seyi Shay has welcomed her first child, IGBERETV reports.

The singer took to Twitter to share the good news, describing her newborn child as her "greatest hit".

Seyi wrote;



https://twitter.com/iamseyishay/status/1518476063038451712?s=20

Culture / Re: Alaafin of Oyo, Lamidi Adeyemi Joins His Ancestors At 83 by Elmander1983(m): 2:44pm On Apr 23, 2022
And the beautiful young bride he took recently? A young widow! Chai! Rest in Peace sir..
LarryBeryl:
https://www.airwavesreport.com/news/alaafin-of-oyo-lamidi-adeyemi-joins-his-ancestors-at-83
Business / Re: CAN Calls For Sack Of Sterling Bank CEO, Suleiman For 'Insulting' Christ by Elmander1983(m): 6:04pm On Apr 20, 2022
Childishness at it's peak! Sterling bank carry craze for head. Immaturity! I have since moved my funds from the dirty minded bank and have vowed to not use their services again. They've got no right to do that even to idol worshippers.. Yet the fo*l will claim Islam believes in Christ. Sh*t full butt-brained fellas
aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM



https://politicsnigeria.com/can-calls-for-removal-of-sterling-bank-ceo/
Politics / Re: Governor Uzodinma’s Daughter, Oprah Marries Her Henry Ohaeri (Photos) by Elmander1983(m): 10:52am On Apr 16, 2022
Isn't that the same girl whom they said was fighting her husband's side chick the other day?
NwekeUG:
Oprah Chioma Uzodimma, daughter of Imo State governor, Hope Uzodinma, has married her heartthrob, Henry Ohaeri, at the Federal Marriage Registry, Abuja on Thursday, 14th April, 2022, IGBERETV reports.

The mother of the bride and First Lady of Imo State, Mrs Chioma D. Uzodimma, shared photos from the event on her Instagram handle, on Friday.

She captioned the photos;



https://www.instagram.com/p/CcXlSiDNXrB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Science/Technology / Re: Largest Bat In Africa by Elmander1983(m): 10:48pm On Apr 08, 2022
My brother, people dey chop am well.
Mariangeles:


Tufiakwa!

Person wey go chop dis one fit turn vampire, start to bite people for night.
Politics / Re: Troops Kill Several Iswap/Boko Haram Terrorists In Borno, Recover Weapons (Pics) by Elmander1983(m): 10:41pm On Apr 08, 2022
3 na. Isn't it obvious? grin
Coregists:
How many were killed?
Politics / Re: Adamu Adamu: APC Will Win In 2023 Because I Have Never Lost In My Life by Elmander1983(m): 1:04pm On Apr 04, 2022
Sports / Re: Members Of 1994 Super Eagles Receive Houses In Owerri (Photos) by Elmander1983(m): 5:46pm On Apr 03, 2022
What kinda structure is this? The architect needs to be detained and slapped severally for brain reset. Shame on @naijagov
naptu2:
Martin Okorowu �� �� @mr_okokobioko



https://twitter.com/mr_okokobioko/status/1509913223520301059


tolu ogunlesi @toluogunlesi



https://twitter.com/toluogunlesi/status/1510617748522610689
Politics / Re: NAF Jets Kill 33 Terrorists In Coordinated Airstrikes In Borno, Zamfara, Kaduna by Elmander1983(m): 9:32am On Apr 03, 2022
Only 33 and in 3 states yet u claim u know where they @? That figure is annoying cos it's less than 5 percent, the evil these terrorists carry out on daily basis. Weeping for my country
BeeBeeOoh:


https://leadership.ng/naf-jets-kill-33-terrorists-in-borno-zamfara-kaduna-forests/
Romance / Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Elmander1983(m): 8:19pm On Mar 30, 2022
Nna meen! Got me here too.. guess God has answers to everything.. will pass before tears drop
rickpat:
this got me emotional..I will pass
Romance / Re: Any Man That Thinks He Wont Pay Bills Is A Joker by Elmander1983(m): 8:14pm On Mar 30, 2022
Any woman that sees a man as an ATM machine is still fast asleep. Boys don wake up early..
thebosstrevor1:
Whether you are dating a white, black or Asian woman, as a man you must must pay bills, this has nothing to do with being a Simp, paying bills gives you more confidence.

Lets's imagine, you and your girlfriend go on a date to a nice restaurant and the waiter brings the bill to you, are you telling me that you will allow your girlfriend to pay the bills in the presence of the waiter, as a man in that situation, paying the bills gives you more respect in the eyes of the waiter and also gives you more confidence.

We shouldn't be deceived by all those people who want to change societal roles, men who don,t pay bills naturally feel distressed,afraid,depressed and aggressive, it is just something that comes with nature.

If you like go outside and have baby mamas, if you can not afford to pay for the bills that comes with taking care of the child and the mother, as a man, you will feel helpless seeing your child in distressed and not being able to support that child, no wonder, when a man that can not pay bills impregnate a woman, he tells her to abort the child or he runs away.

Go check men who are married without jobs and can not afford to pay bills,many of them are depressed, suicidal and aggressive, they lash out easily on everyone that is as a result of not fulfilling the responsibility of being a man.

Lets be realistic, as a man, we can not avoid paying bills, it is just one of the responsibility that comes with the yoke of being the creators of civilizations.

if you can not pay bills, avoid getting married, avoid having a girlfriend, avoid society, that is the only way, but as long you want to live and participate in every sphere of society, move up the ladder in society, you must pay bills as a man. that is your yoke.

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Politics / Re: Shina Oludare Flogged, Slapped By Soldiers At MKO Abiola Stadium Stampede Scene by Elmander1983(m): 6:16pm On Mar 30, 2022
That's not cool grin
You're such a bad child grin
etokhana:
Well, twitter VAR spotted something....

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Celebrities / Re: Davido's Mother Bought Mr Macaroni His First Phone (Video) by Elmander1983(m): 6:13am On Mar 24, 2022
Truly becoming boring
LemmyCreationz:
Eweeeeeeey!

It's good to be good.. Davido's mother seemed like a nice person before her demise... God bless her soul

Mr Macaroni should do us a favor and be funny.. Others like
Mark Angel
Mc Lively
Lasisi Elenu
Woli Arole
Brain Jotter
Taooma should up their game to... They're beginning to run out of contents

By the way, I'm available for your writing and graphics design jobs, see my signature below, thanks
Sports / Re: Pogba Offers Reward After His House Was Robbed During Atletico Match by Elmander1983(m): 8:06am On Mar 17, 2022
Pls carry your Maguire reasoning commit for here! Taaaah!
ArchiLimited:
I am 100% sure those burglars were Mancity fans. That's the only way someone will be heartless enough to rob someone on the same night he was knocked out of the champions league. Heartless people everywhere grin
Thank God the kids were safe though.

Boys currently scanning this post now to find out how much the reward is

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Politics / Re: Yahaya Ibrahim, Soldier Shoots Colleague Abubakar Mohammed In Borno by Elmander1983(m): 10:23pm On Mar 07, 2022
Travel / Re: Abuja Photographer Thanks God For Surviving Fatal Accident That Killed 3 Persons by Elmander1983(m): 10:57pm On Mar 05, 2022
Oga blogger, where dey Sienna?
GLeesMODEL:
Abuja Photographer Survives Ghastly Accident That Killed 3 Persons Along Benin-Auchi Expressway

An Abuja-based photographer, Mr. Ernest Ukam is full of thanksgiving to God for sparing his life in a ghastly auto crash that killed no fewer than three persons.

He had gone on a surprise birthday shooting assignment in Auchi when the incident happened.

Narrating his ordeal, Mr. Ukam said following the unfortunate incident which occurred along Benin-Auchi, the three dead victims were evacuated to the nearest mortuary while the surviving victims were rushed for medical attention.

He said trouble started when an articulated vehicle, popularly known as trailer lost control and rammed into a Sienna bus he was travelling with.

All efforts to reach the Edo State sector commander of the Federal Road Safety Commission, FRSC proved abortive.

https://www.abujapress.com/2022/03/abuja-photographer-survives-ghastly.html
Politics / Re: President Buhari To Attend UNEP In Kenya, Jets Out For UK For 2-Weeks by Elmander1983(m): 3:41pm On Mar 01, 2022
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 1.5M Monthly In Nigeria Vs 4k Pounds Monthly In The UK by Elmander1983(m): 7:45pm On Feb 24, 2022
U no fit do the maths and weigh your options? No use your head if u like
engrrichie92:
I'm a tech bro, I currently do 1.5M Monthly in Nigeria and I just got a job offer last month in the UK for 4K pounds monthly(after tax)

My guys there be complaining about bills and how hard it is to save and all over there

So, If you were me, which would you pick and why?

Modified: will also like to hear from those in the UK; what do you think guys?...Now that you know how it is over there, what would you advice?

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