Politics › Re: Obasanjo Turns Keke Rider, Picks Passengers by Elock1: 6:55am On Jul 03, 2022 |
 Nigerians will always hail their oppressors...Tufiakwa!
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Sports › Re: "I Want To Play In The Champions League": Ronaldo Asks To Leave Man United by Elock1: 12:33am On Jul 03, 2022 |
femifezzy: This your comment show the hatred you have towards him, was he the only player man-u sign last season?, then why condemning him alone?, you must be a joker
let's be realistic sometimes bro the topic is about about him, Did you expect me to call someone else in a thread that's about him? And why will I hate a guy that doesn't even know I exist.. I'm just angry at the fact that people tend not to see the bad energy he brings to a team.. It's not about goals alone. |
Sports › Re: "I Want To Play In The Champions League": Ronaldo Asks To Leave Man United by Elock1: 7:18pm On Jul 02, 2022 |
femifezzy: Anyone blaming Ronaldo for man-u performance last season know next to nothing,, that squad last season eh, tufia but na the Same man utd squad carry 2nd b4 he come na.. So what's your point? |
Sports › Re: "I Want To Play In The Champions League": Ronaldo Asks To Leave Man United by Elock1: 6:09pm On Jul 02, 2022 |
 Mr. NEW CHALLENGE Don see new challenge run... Messi is the goat... I've been right all along. |
Fashion › Re: What Does The "G" In G-strings Stand For? by Elock1: 8:05am On Jun 29, 2022 |
NotKnown: Honestly, what does it really stand for?
Is it guiter, or Guy or what ? Girdle string |
Travel › Re: Windhoek, Namibia Is Africa's Second Cleanest City by Elock1: 10:54pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
God1000: yeah, but some cities like Abuja, Calabar, uyo and port Harcourt are still clean which calabar and uyo? The uyo I stay in or the calabar I just left? You guys be yabbing Aba and all but trust me Nigeria generally is a dirty country... Nowhere is neat. |
Nairaland General › Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by Elock1: 10:51pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Travicon: Hello Nairalanders, I will try as much as possible to make the write-up short.
I am a 21years old guy at a Russian university with two Nigerian roommates (In the hostel though). We averagely get the same amount of money as an allowance monthly, but mine always finishes first.
I don't spend unnecessarily on myself, and we cook together. I discovered after two months of staying together that they care less about buying things that we generally use in the room. For instance, I always buy food season, detergents, and cooking oil (quite expensive).
I cook most of the time. Anytime I decide not to cook, we always go hungry and I can't cope with that. This has made my cash always run out faster and I can't stop them from eating my food or using the things I buy.
There was a time also I lend the last money with me (100k in naira) to my best friend then in Nigeria because he claimed his dad was sick and promised to repay by month-end. I didn't have anything to take me through the remaining days of the month but I gave it out because he was a close friend. Month-end, I couldn't get money from my sponsor because of some issues. I contacted my guy but he stopped replying to me on WhatsApp. I managed to get 20k but the rest is probably history now.
Whenever people talk about their problems, I always feel for them to the extent of giving out my money even if it's the last cash on me. I have never had a girlfriend, but I don't always have the strength to reject if a girl asks for airtime or money from me (including my mum and sisters though)
I always try to go to any length to see people happy even if it means borrowing money from another person for them. I'm that foolish. Generally, I'm too soft-hearted and nice but I don't know how to solve this problem. Someone advised me I should get a girlfriend who should always be angry with me if I'm being too nice to people and that will help me solve the problem to some extent but I think it won't.
I'm not from a rich family, not even from an average family. I'm even from a polygamous home so I know what it means to have suffered as a Nigerian. I was on the street and I guess that's what is making me this weak emotionally. I'm a simp all-around in my life and relationship with people. People are always cheating on me, taking advantage of who I am.
I NEED genuine HELP, please. OP I feel your pain honestly.. I'm nice too like to the core, and I feel everyone should just be reasonable and be nice as well (come on, it shouldn't be that hard) But the truth is, we all can't be nice, we all came from different backgrounds.. Currently I've lost a lot and going through depression because of my niceness and I feel so empty.. the so called people I was nice to are nowhere to be found.. I'm currently developing wickedness in my immune system because I know what I'm facing currently.. For sure I will bounce back and when I do there will be no room for niceness because it will be only you that will bare the brunt. My advice to you is this.. Don't let it escalate to the extent where you get depressed.. because I'm even loosing weight cause of it now.. You have to develop a tough will, don't wait until it gets worse just like my situation.. Not everybody can bear it... Think about yourself and love YOU more..coz you alone will be with your self althrough the joy and pain.. Ciao |
Politics › Re: Photos Of Wike And Ikpeazu On Vacation In Turkey by Elock1: 7:02pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
shortIGBOman: It's well Bro. The Next Governor might fix the State. That is, if Abia People vote wisely. make I hear... GOD fatherism too much abeg... And the masses don't care, as long as they are getting their daily bread from ariaria... Nothing concern dem. |
Politics › Re: Photos Of Wike And Ikpeazu On Vacation In Turkey by Elock1: 6:56pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu's Dedication To Calabar Sea Port Dredging (Video) by Elock1: 5:41pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
seunmsg: He promised 2nd Niger bridge and he delivered. Exactly... Boko haram has been defeated  |
Politics › Re: Tinubu's Dedication To Calabar Sea Port Dredging (Video) by Elock1: 5:09pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
seunmsg: One thing calabar people can take to the bank is that Tinubu will do as promised. This project is as good as done once Tinubu becomes the president. Buhari talk pass like this yet no show.. Make una dey calm down. |
Christianity Etc › Re: About The High Rate Of Immoral Sex Amongst Young People Today by Elock1: 12:04am On Jun 27, 2022 |
Ebymyk: Beware, conji na bastard... Raw knacking makes sense but very risky... Get tested... You be yoruba bah? wetin concern where I from with my kna.Cking? Plus I had CD but e get as e just tek happen  |
TV/Movies › Re: 8 Nollywood Actors & What They Will Say When Their Wives Catch Them Cheating by Elock1: 9:36pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
Abfinest007: Francis odega own version is the best aswear down.... And very accurate that guy na one underrated comedian sha. |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Did You Learn In Church Today by Elock1: 2:50pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
 That I should always give a seed that will provoke the Lord.
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Christianity Etc › Re: A Church Inside An Hotel!!! by Elock1: 2:48pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
 What's your own...? Make pastor no convert the Ashawo dem there or the intended ashawo patronizers? Allow a brodaman hustle in peace |
Christianity Etc › Re: About The High Rate Of Immoral Sex Amongst Young People Today by Elock1: 10:36am On Jun 26, 2022 |
 I go kna.ck raw, now my body is feeling somehow To do test dey fear me sef.. If I pass this test God know say anything way wear skirt na Aurevoir for now Make 5 mins fun no put me for life long wahala  GOD ABEG! |
Health › Re: Sebastine Oiwoh: Bleaching Creams Can Cause Cancer, Kidney Disease, Cataracts by Elock1: 8:26am On Jun 25, 2022 |
helinues: Inferiority complex is what is making them to bleach
Some blacks want to look like white e.g Michael Jackson but I am yet to see or read about a while bleaching to black Oga don't just jump and talk nonsense because you want to feel like you are informed... Who told you MJ wantrd to be like the whites? Have you ever heard of the disease called vitiligo? |
Sports › Re: Violence & Disallowed Goal From Kano Pillars VS Dakkada (The Full Details, Video by Elock1: 11:48am On Jun 24, 2022 |
 This Kano pillars and misconduct It's just a football match and not a do or die affair. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Says He Will Praying For Ekweremadu's Daughter by Elock1: 10:54am On Jun 24, 2022 |
Sergio101: Po the man.
if you fight him, your must surely collect (both physical and spiritual).
Ask mbaka, Wike and recently Ekweremmadu  And Segalink |
Fashion › Re: 24-year-old Ajoke Tony Lawal Emerges Queen Of Nigeria Universe, Gets New Car by Elock1: 9:02am On Jun 24, 2022 |
 How many Beauty Pageantry dey this Nigeria sef and always for women Abi men no fine or wetin? |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Vs Oleksandr Usyk Rematch: 'i'm The Comeback King,' Says AJ by Elock1: 1:35pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
 This one Don already begin talk. I know it's part of the match hype but no go talk d one way go big pass your mouth. Anyways... I wish you well Anthony Chukwunonyerem Joshua |
Politics › Re: The Nation Confirms Senator Ekweremadu, Wife's Arrest, Arraignment In The UK by Elock1: 1:35pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
Niftish: I still find it hard to believe this story for now. I'm telling you.. If it's really true, then e bad 4 Nigerians.. Upon all the money? HABA! |
Sports › Re: Chelsea Targets Osimhen As Replacement For Lukaku by Elock1: 12:00pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
OKOATA: He had the same goals with Tammy Abraham last season, don't know why Chelsea sold Tammy. honestly Tammy wasn't doing badly in my opinion.. He was young and could improve I really didn't know why he didnt click with the Chelsea fans and board. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Murder of Iniobong Umoren: Court To Deliver Judgement August 4 by Elock1: 3:58pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Omo since that time? |
Family › Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Wear Same Attire To Her Niece traditional marriage by Elock1: 9:32am On Jun 21, 2022 |
shantti: Something is fishy. Hmmmmmmmm
O.p, what if that so called ceremony is your igbankwu secretly mapped out without your knowledge.
What if, when you get there, the village youths will beat you into paying her dowry, then you will sit down, her father will give her wine and she will dance with her ashebi and bring it to you. You go dey drink the wine dey shed tears. Then the village youth will beat you again into dropping some currency into the wine tumbler. Then they will beat you again into dancing with her. U go dey dance buga with her dey cry. Then they will finally beat you into taking you newly wedded wife home This can only be oshogbo weed talking |
Family › Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Wear Same Attire To Her Niece traditional marriage by Elock1: 9:30am On Jun 21, 2022 |
 MrMcJay: She is trying to mark her territory.
That girl is marking her territory, staking ownership on the guy and showing off her prize before her family members. The guy will now get there, her family members will be telling the guy to do quick and pick date.
Pick which date? Guy wey just pay for IELTS. |
Politics › Re: Has Tinubu Demystified The "Shaki Shaki Daddy Tag"? by Elock1: 2:33am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Siwel25: And anyone supporting your candidate loves Nigeria? When will you people learn that U do not have the right to tag people with contrary opinions as enemies of Nigeria? It's poor orientation. To make it worse, you are supporting a candidate without a Landmark Infrastructure to show after 8 years as Governor. Your candidate could not increase revenue nor uplift his people from poverty after 8 years and U believe you are the one who loves Nigeria?
I am supporting a First class holder in Accounting who built a career in the biggest multinationals in the world and whose legacies in Lagos are obvious to the blind. Unlike some, U don't need to google to know the achievements of Asiwaju. I am proud to be supporting a Proven performer with verifiable legacies. why the fxxk do you guys think that anyone who is against tinubu is now a Peter Obi supporter ( coz I know thats who you are talking about). For fxck's sake I don't care about Asiwaju's achievements and I don't take it from him either. But let us all be sincere to ourselves, that man Don old and he doesn't look strong, mek he rest. He now looks so desperate.. . Him saying it's his turn {EMI lokan} makes it even worse, like Nigeria is a tennis ball that you pass around. He may have done well, kudos to him. But bros you sef reason am na.. That guy look fit for your eyes? there are other well grounded politicians in APC and if it must be a yoruba man then there are other younger well grounded politicians from that region as well. Atlast it's all for the good of Nigeria, let's not play sentimental/tribal politics. I'm just being sincere with you. No hate to him whatsoever. |
Politics › Re: Has Tinubu Demystified The "Shaki Shaki Daddy Tag"? by Elock1: 2:14pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
 Anybody supporting Tinubu doesn't Love Nigeria at all. The man done old make he go rest abeg Nigeria no be anybody personal property abeg. |
Politics › Re: Hoodlums Attack Press Crew Bus In Tinubu’s Convoy, Two Injured (Pictures, Video) by Elock1: 9:16am On Jun 20, 2022 |
alsudan: Tinubu’s humiliation will start from the home front.
Can’t wait to see his Urchins blame ipob for this. forget politicians Sha.. My mind is telling me that he could also stage that to draw sympathy or to pin it on thugs of other aspirant. Fear who no fear politicians. |
Politics › Re: Who Will Be The Next First Lady Of Nigeria? by Elock1: 12:41am On Jun 20, 2022 |
Honor10: The first person you listed.
Her Excellency senator Oluremi Tinubu
But first lady no fit this Atiku wife at all
On BAT mandate I Stand at all, at all |
Celebrities › Re: Being a Nigerian Is A Full Time Job — Singer Mr Eazi Insists (Video) by Elock1: 12:10am On Jun 20, 2022 |
Rastaramsey: Its fuckin true jare bro...
Being a Nigerian isn't easy...
To survive Buhari and his calamities no be small thing.... sometimes I go wake up.. Remember the country I dey and the challenges wey dey front to cry go just dey hungry me [no jokes] I just wish I can go back to my parent and tell dem I'm sorry for all the times Ive been ungrateful of their help. Mehn.. E really no easy oh  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Elock1: 12:53pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
 comrade try to calm down in a Sunday morning Fahdiga: Kwankwaso should submit to Obi. It is not weakness |