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Politics / Re: LP’s Logo Missing On Ondo Ballots by ema2020: 9:03pm On Feb 24, 2023
Religion / Re: The Scriptures Say Eat Your Tithe - Daddy Freeze by ema2020: 8:15pm On Feb 12, 2023
ebukajay184:
Nigerian on-air personality, Daddy Freeze has said that the Scriptures tell christians to eat their tithes, IGBERETV reports.

Taking to his Instagram handle, the media personality who had always described paying of tithes to pastors as unbiblical wrote;who go listen to this agent of devil



https://www.instagram.com/p/Coft4_kNmhP/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Family / Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by ema2020: 3:01pm On Jan 18, 2023
EBMedia:
A Kenyan man, James Jkorir, has said that he regrets marrying his wife because she always pretends to be sick whenever he wants to have sex with her, IGBERETV reports.


https://m./2443977612304623/permalink/5840170002685350/

See his post and replies below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1437005/wife-pretends-sick-whenever-ask-s3x-man-laments/
bros don't stress yourself brothel is still #500
Romance / Re: I Don’t Want To Die Unmarried – Single Woman Cries Out by ema2020: 3:15pm On Jan 01, 2023
awosejo1955:
Marriage is not a do or die affair ooooooo. If u see wife or husband, fine, and if u don't, it's still fine. But in all, make sure U're not responsible 4 ur not getting married.no man can marry hookup lady any lady that man should stop hookup that's my advice


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEDaAp62ywo



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6vf5_J6MOY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1UXCpc-njk


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbAXGDQQ9UM


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5at1mYKr2yM


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WmlnyFUgFFQ
Travel / Re: What Exactly Does One Enjoy In Nigeria As A Rich Person? by ema2020: 9:32pm On Dec 26, 2022
Gerrard59:
While discussing with some buddies yesterday, we touched on the topic “moving back to Nigeria”. I argued that Nigeria is not safe. Sure, there are places that are pretty “safe”. However, my notion of safety is when other people elsewhere can go about their normal activities without fear. For instance, I don’t consider a place safe if one part of the area keeps suffering repeated attacks from Fulani herdsmen (like Southern Kaduna and Plateau). I don’t have to be the affected party, but others who go about their normal activities should feel safe doing them. The other guy countered that, with money, one could enjoy Nigeria. “Live in Maitama, run Lister generator and live quietly.” Also, you get to be in a place where almost everyone looks like you.

Upon hearing “…with money, one can enjoy Nigeria”, I asked him to list five things/ways one can enjoy Nigeria as long as the person has money. Surprisingly, he could not mention one thing/way. I thought it wise to throw it to the house, especially for those who are anti-Japa or those who have stayed abroad for a long time and currently reside in Nigeria.

As someone with money, what exactly does the person enjoy in Nigeria? What are the differences compared to his/her counterpart in say, Namibia or Canada/UK that also has money? How do you enjoy Nigeria provided the money is available?

P.S. I understand that the notion of “enjoyment” is largely subjective. Some enjoy going to parties, while others enjoy travelling around or even reading a book while in a park. But I believe there are some universal notions of enjoyment.
Politics / Re: Fuel Scarcity: SSS Begins Raiding Of Filling Stations, To Clear Queues In 48hrs by ema2020: 2:47am On Dec 10, 2022
Islie:


https://dailynigerian.com/fuel-scarcity-sss-raiding/
Enemyofpeace:
Those are my boys. As a matter of fact Nigeria needs the military back in power. We are not yet ready for democracy
this is not matter of military black man are selfish
Romance / Re: Man Depressed After Being Dumped By A Lady He Sponsored Through School (video) by ema2020: 4:08pm On Dec 06, 2022
Malcolmprinzx:
A Twitter user identified as SirFreshSemi has taken to his page to announce that his girlfriend whom he sponsored through school has ditched him for another man.

According to him, he even bought a car for her last year. He added that he has been crying since he found out and doesn't think he can live anymore.

SirFreshSemi wrote:



https://twitter.com/Sirfreshsemi/status/1599655788309463045?s=20&t=o9qDzYpzCYZT9BHAe0gjgA
the lady go for high offer
Celebrities / Re: Southern Men Who Refuse Polygamy Are Contributing To Prostitution - Ned Nwoko by ema2020: 1:53am On Dec 06, 2022
jaybenugo:
IGBERETV report

Southern Men Who Refuse Polygamy Are Contributing To Prostitution - Ned Nwoko



https://www.instagram.com/p/ClwUrZ7NqXX/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
polygamous is not the problem southern lady are very very greedy if u like marry ten and invest one billion on each they will still go for prostitution
Family / Re: Cheating Wife by ema2020: 10:05pm On Dec 03, 2022
Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.
bros DAT is how women behave don't think it 2much they are ungrateful soul's
Family / Re: Zambian Woman Seeks Divorce After Her Husband Shaved His Pubic Hair by ema2020: 7:18pm On Dec 02, 2022
FullBlastLight:
Woman Seeks For Divorce After Her Husband Shaved His Private Parts Without Informing Her

A court in Zambia was stunned after a woman explained to the court how she found out her husband of 22 years had another woman behind her back.

In that surprising statement that was published by the media in the country, the woman said that she wanted a divorce because she found out that her husband had a second wife and she could not tolerate the marriage of two wives.

When asked how she knew that her husband had a second wife, the woman by the name of Karen Chungu said that one day she wanted to make love with her husband but was stunned after realizing that he had shaved his pubic hair.

She wanted to know why her husband decided to shave his pubic hair without informing her and this is when her husband silenced her.

“One day I wanted to make love with my husband, but I was shocked to find him shaved. I wanted to have a meeting about why his private parts are clean, but he told me to shut up about it.

The problems in our marriage continued to the point of kicking me out of the house and when the elders got involved, he ran away,” Karen told the court in Ndola, Zambia.

She said that since that incident, she and her husband never shared love with her husband for more than a year.

Defending himself, the man named Andrew Kapembwa said that he had no intention of marrying a second wife until his wife refused to wash his clothes and that’s why he decided to get her a co-wife.

“I had no intention of marrying another woman, but my wife stopped doing laundry for me and performed her duties. I married another woman because of my wife’s behavior. I haven’t been out of our house in two years. I made a mistake and I admit it. I respect my wife. She is the mother of my children,” he said.

He also told the court that he did not have sex with his wife because she rejected him.

See the full story here:
SOURCE:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0eqebtbO0yw
we should eradicate marriage of a things upon struggle for family to live u will still be facing many issues
Romance / Re: Dating A Nigerian Woman Is Like Taking Care Of Orphans - Breggle Acha Derrick by ema2020: 6:36pm On Dec 02, 2022
Gores:
The Ghanaian has also felt what most Nigerian men feel everyday. Dating a Nigerian lady is now like footing bills of orphans. Some our women have lost their pride!

Ghanaian Music Producer, Breggle Acha Derrick writes:



https://twitter.com/Breggle/status/1598215951312379906?t=O7-QYzqCkCDSKc3ZCMRUzg&s=19
dating Nigeria girls is like swimming in an ocean
Health / Re: After Treating STD, This Is How I See Women Now by ema2020: 9:31pm On Nov 30, 2022
DeJoeee:
My 96k down the drain
Biafraaa:


Olosho don drop quote. grin
brothel ladies dey trade person sperm
Health / Re: Man Commits Suicide On Bayelsa Flyover by ema2020: 12:19pm On Nov 29, 2022
ema2020:
our environment is not laugh at all upon the hardship u will still be pressurize for many things but me I no dey mind anybody I wan live long
Health / Re: Man Commits Suicide On Bayelsa Flyover by ema2020: 5:48am On Nov 29, 2022
post=118743361:
Is So Tired Of Publishing Bad News
our environment is laugh at all up hardship u will still be pressurize for many things but me I no dey mind anybody I wan live long

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Politics / Re: ‘Japa’: If You Think Migrating Legally Is Good For You, Go - Femi Adesina by ema2020: 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2022
Health / Re: 400level Student Commits Suicide Over Girlfriend, Misery while parent are rich by ema2020: 10:11pm On Nov 25, 2022
dre11:
Varsity Student Commits Suicide Over Girlfriend, Smart Phone




https://leadership.ng/varsity-student-commits-suicide-over-girlfriend-smart-phone/






DAILY TRUST
him papa don show am shege
Religion / Re: Women Were Not Created To Take Care Of Themselves - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo by ema2020: 10:04pm On Nov 25, 2022
TMSMedia:
Nigerian pastor and relationship coach, Kingsley Okonkwo, has stated that women were not created to take care of themselves, IGBERETV reports.

He made the statement on his Twitter handle.

His tweets read;



https://twitter.com/kingsleypst/status/1595747211216048130?t=66JDJnwbCzRhVrqvIeTQpw&s=19
they should not work I will take Care of them bunch of ungrateful things
Fashion / Re: Latest Trend. Our Girls Now Wear Only Pants In Public. Pics by ema2020: 10:21pm On Nov 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
I won't stop louding it until our girls turn away from their immoral ways.

Hear this elder complaining bitterly.

What you fail to correct now will come back to haunt you. Please let's speak against all this rottenness and put a stop to it any ways we can.what annoyed me most our society are forcing men to engage this olosho's na bad society we dey

https://fb.watch/gPGCtzkrk4/

Romance / Re: Is It Okay To Date An Ex-girlfriend’s Friend? by ema2020: 2:29am On Nov 23, 2022
DoMeGood09:
I broke up with my girlfriend three months ago. The major reasons were

1. She’s lazy.
2. She doesn’t know her to cook.
3. She isn’t romantic.
4. She likes clubbing.
5. She’s moody.

Yesterday, her friend chatted me up online and asked me if I was still interested in the relationship. I replied no. Then, she asked if I liked her, I responded no. But we can be friends. Ever since then, she’s been calling me. Hope she’s not trying to fall in love?
na olosho era we dey god should men no real wife again
Health / Re: Final Year Student In Okopoly Commits Suicide After Girlfriend Dumped Him by ema2020: 1:57am On Nov 20, 2022
ijustdey:


https://dailypost.ng/2022/11/19/final-year-student-in-okopoly-commits-suicide-over-failed-relationship/
the guy must be selfish man he should have considered his parents struggling on him rather than kill himself because of ordinary woman
Family / Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement by ema2020: 8:19pm On Nov 17, 2022
Abi1985:
Na marry you marry, don't come and be disturbing those who are not married. Just because you marry today does not mean you are better than those who are not married.

Please do not let your friend wedding oppress you, some married people are suffering and smiling. They will not tell you that the wife they marry na Jezebel associate or a runs girl or the husband they marry is a womanizer or an abusive man. They will do one big wedding today, then 9 months or 3 years later they divorce.

Personally I enjoy weddings because I can eat some correct food.

If your people are asking when are you getting married? Tell them when you do not want marry a Jezebel or a wicked or selfish man. Because after the wedding, you are on your own.

Na so they arrange one woman from village for me to marry, I just dey laugh and ignore. I enjoyed my bachelorhood, please let me enjoy my life. I do not want problem.

Marry when you want marry, do not let anyone pressure you to marry or who you will marry.
I still wondering why African preferred struggling in the name of marriage
Politics / Re: 133 million Nigerians are living In Poverty - FG by ema2020: 8:11pm On Nov 17, 2022
illicit:
God bless PD-APC
upon the population go creek and see how they breed na only coming of Jesus Christ can stop poverty in Africa
Politics / Re: Marketers Say Tough Times As Petrol Hits N200/litre by ema2020: 1:18pm On Nov 08, 2022
PlayMaker14:
angry
Evolutionlove:
Too Cheap.

I was expecting nothing less than N400.

Let the poor gullible suffer very well most especially the married ones who keeps on breeding like PIGS.

If them no suffer, Wetin dem gain..
grin
if fuel like b 1000 dem go still continue breeding they and sufferness are 5&6 shocked

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Family / Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ema2020: 12:19pm On Nov 08, 2022
Mide70:
Please I need your opinion on this issue.

Though before I got married I discovered my mother inlaw calls all her daughters both married and unmarried everyday (only 3 ladies no boys) and they fear her to the bone.

At times every morning and night just to talk to them but I believe when they get married they need privacy and respect but this is not the case for my mother-in-law and I detest such act.

Mind you I'm not against call or trying to break the bond but I believe this is marriage. I'm looking for a way to stop all that

I'm I wrong or right to take that step ?
allow us to hear word all this married people Una wahala no dey limited grin

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Politics / Re: Naira Redesign: Emefiele Confirmed Arabic Inscription Won’t Be Removed – Sanusi by ema2020: 9:55pm On Oct 31, 2022
Family / Re: Groom Abandons Bride On Wedding Day After Discovering She Already Has 4 Kids by ema2020: 9:14pm On Oct 19, 2022
Latestnewsline:
According to reports, the groom abandoned the wife after discovering on their wedding day that she already has four kids.d lady is a wicked woman

https://www.instagram.com/tv/Cj26hXBOJm5/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1_mQLHMa88
Politics / Re: 2023: Northerners Need Someone From North, Not Igbo Or Yoruba – Atiku by ema2020: 10:03pm On Oct 16, 2022
SteveDGreat:
Behold your Unifier. A desperate man.
Atiku Abubakar has two voice .
One for the North and the other for the South .
Different promises and campaign for different region.
Such a character cannot be trusted with power.

No owner no one takes him serious .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8actP5DHwTk




https://www.channelstv.com/2022/10/16/2023-northerners-need-someone-from-north-not-igbo-or-yoruba-atiku/amp/
god who will offend we have tired of all this tribalistic old men
Family / Re: My Wife Suddenly Stopped Having Sex With Me by ema2020: 8:35pm On Oct 09, 2022
efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.
upon hardship in the country men still carry scamm called married for head Una go soon die for hypertension
Culture / Re: Ooni Of Ife Set To Marry Two More Wives This October, Meet His New Brides by ema2020: 9:01pm On Oct 07, 2022
Family / Re: Mothers Please Advice A Frustrated Married Man. by ema2020: 8:45pm On Sep 14, 2022
Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful
all this married men just dey suffer for nothing grin
Religion / Re: Faith Oyedepo Tells Ladies Not To Dress Like Grandmas While Looking For Husband by ema2020: 9:21pm On Sep 11, 2022
StagethemTVee:
Faith Oyedepo advises young women who are believing God for a husband to stop dressing like old women. She further questioned how they would look several years after marriage, if they are presently dressing like Grandmothers while young and single.generation of olosho with men will take risk



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRNhFbEk_sY

Religion / Re: Pastor Lines Up Bachelors In Church, Asks Single Ladies To Select For Marriage by ema2020: 9:16pm On Sep 11, 2022

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