ebukajay184: Nigerian on-air personality, Daddy Freeze has said that the Scriptures tell christians to eat their tithes, IGBERETV reports.
Taking to his Instagram handle, the media personality who had always described paying of tithes to pastors as unbiblical wrote;who go listen to this agent of devil
EBMedia: A Kenyan man, James Jkorir, has said that he regrets marrying his wife because she always pretends to be sick whenever he wants to have sex with her, IGBERETV reports.
awosejo1955: Marriage is not a do or die affair ooooooo. If u see wife or husband, fine, and if u don't, it's still fine. But in all, make sure U're not responsible 4 ur not getting married.no man can marry hookup lady any lady that man should stop hookup that's my advice
Gerrard59: While discussing with some buddies yesterday, we touched on the topic “moving back to Nigeria”. I argued that Nigeria is not safe. Sure, there are places that are pretty “safe”. However, my notion of safety is when other people elsewhere can go about their normal activities without fear. For instance, I don’t consider a place safe if one part of the area keeps suffering repeated attacks from Fulani herdsmen (like Southern Kaduna and Plateau). I don’t have to be the affected party, but others who go about their normal activities should feel safe doing them. The other guy countered that, with money, one could enjoy Nigeria. “Live in Maitama, run Lister generator and live quietly.” Also, you get to be in a place where almost everyone looks like you.
Upon hearing “…with money, one can enjoy Nigeria”, I asked him to list five things/ways one can enjoy Nigeria as long as the person has money. Surprisingly, he could not mention one thing/way. I thought it wise to throw it to the house, especially for those who are anti-Japa or those who have stayed abroad for a long time and currently reside in Nigeria.
As someone with money, what exactly does the person enjoy in Nigeria? What are the differences compared to his/her counterpart in say, Namibia or Canada/UK that also has money? How do you enjoy Nigeria provided the money is available?
P.S. I understand that the notion of “enjoyment” is largely subjective. Some enjoy going to parties, while others enjoy travelling around or even reading a book while in a park. But I believe there are some universal notions of enjoyment.
Malcolmprinzx: A Twitter user identified as SirFreshSemi has taken to his page to announce that his girlfriend whom he sponsored through school has ditched him for another man.
According to him, he even bought a car for her last year. He added that he has been crying since he found out and doesn't think he can live anymore.
polygamous is not the problem southern lady are very very greedy if u like marry ten and invest one billion on each they will still go for prostitution
Nextlife1: Hi I never expected that this day will come in my life. I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men. Please I need advice on how to handle this.
bros DAT is how women behave don't think it 2much they are ungrateful soul's
FullBlastLight: Woman Seeks For Divorce After Her Husband Shaved His Private Parts Without Informing Her
A court in Zambia was stunned after a woman explained to the court how she found out her husband of 22 years had another woman behind her back.
In that surprising statement that was published by the media in the country, the woman said that she wanted a divorce because she found out that her husband had a second wife and she could not tolerate the marriage of two wives.
When asked how she knew that her husband had a second wife, the woman by the name of Karen Chungu said that one day she wanted to make love with her husband but was stunned after realizing that he had shaved his pubic hair.
She wanted to know why her husband decided to shave his pubic hair without informing her and this is when her husband silenced her.
“One day I wanted to make love with my husband, but I was shocked to find him shaved. I wanted to have a meeting about why his private parts are clean, but he told me to shut up about it.
The problems in our marriage continued to the point of kicking me out of the house and when the elders got involved, he ran away,” Karen told the court in Ndola, Zambia.
She said that since that incident, she and her husband never shared love with her husband for more than a year.
Defending himself, the man named Andrew Kapembwa said that he had no intention of marrying a second wife until his wife refused to wash his clothes and that’s why he decided to get her a co-wife.
“I had no intention of marrying another woman, but my wife stopped doing laundry for me and performed her duties. I married another woman because of my wife’s behavior. I haven’t been out of our house in two years. I made a mistake and I admit it. I respect my wife. She is the mother of my children,” he said.
He also told the court that he did not have sex with his wife because she rejected him.
Gores: The Ghanaian has also felt what most Nigerian men feel everyday. Dating a Nigerian lady is now like footing bills of orphans. Some our women have lost their pride!
Ghanaian Music Producer, Breggle Acha Derrick writes:
TMSMedia: Nigerian pastor and relationship coach, Kingsley Okonkwo, has stated that women were not created to take care of themselves, IGBERETV reports.
Blessedmercy8: I won't stop louding it until our girls turn away from their immoral ways.
Hear this elder complaining bitterly.
What you fail to correct now will come back to haunt you. Please let's speak against all this rottenness and put a stop to it any ways we can.what annoyed me most our society are forcing men to engage this olosho's na bad society we dey
DoMeGood09: I broke up with my girlfriend three months ago. The major reasons were
1. She’s lazy. 2. She doesn’t know her to cook. 3. She isn’t romantic. 4. She likes clubbing. 5. She’s moody.
Yesterday, her friend chatted me up online and asked me if I was still interested in the relationship. I replied no. Then, she asked if I liked her, I responded no. But we can be friends. Ever since then, she’s been calling me. Hope she’s not trying to fall in love?
na olosho era we dey god should men no real wife again
Abi1985: Na marry you marry, don't come and be disturbing those who are not married. Just because you marry today does not mean you are better than those who are not married.
Please do not let your friend wedding oppress you, some married people are suffering and smiling. They will not tell you that the wife they marry na Jezebel associate or a runs girl or the husband they marry is a womanizer or an abusive man. They will do one big wedding today, then 9 months or 3 years later they divorce.
Personally I enjoy weddings because I can eat some correct food.
If your people are asking when are you getting married? Tell them when you do not want marry a Jezebel or a wicked or selfish man. Because after the wedding, you are on your own.
Na so they arrange one woman from village for me to marry, I just dey laugh and ignore. I enjoyed my bachelorhood, please let me enjoy my life. I do not want problem.
Marry when you want marry, do not let anyone pressure you to marry or who you will marry.
I still wondering why African preferred struggling in the name of marriage
Though before I got married I discovered my mother inlaw calls all her daughters both married and unmarried everyday (only 3 ladies no boys) and they fear her to the bone.
At times every morning and night just to talk to them but I believe when they get married they need privacy and respect but this is not the case for my mother-in-law and I detest such act.
Mind you I'm not against call or trying to break the bond but I believe this is marriage. I'm looking for a way to stop all that
I'm I wrong or right to take that step ?
allow us to hear word all this married people Una wahala no dey limited
Latestnewsline: According to reports, the groom abandoned the wife after discovering on their wedding day that she already has four kids.d lady is a wicked woman
SteveDGreat: Behold your Unifier. A desperate man. Atiku Abubakar has two voice . One for the North and the other for the South . Different promises and campaign for different region. Such a character cannot be trusted with power.
efelicity: I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.
I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.
upon hardship in the country men still carry scamm called married for head Una go soon die for hypertension
Militant1: I will try to be brief and straight to the point.
My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.
We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.
We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.
She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.
When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.
I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.
Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.
I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.
I tried to create a schedule for her.
Wake up by 6am By 7 she suppose don clean finish By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids 9-10am bath herself and the kids 10-12 do any other stuff in the house 12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill 3-5pm... Do whatever she likes 5pm boil water and bath the kids 6pm she don bathe and bath kids 7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer 8pm we eat By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr
I throw the trash every day Na me dey go market buy foodstuff On weekends I clean the house I wash my all my clothes I provide all the finance in the house I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)
So what's the problem..
Mothers, are my demands too much? Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed? Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day. Am I crazy?
Please advice me.
I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.
Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful
StagethemTVee: Faith Oyedepo advises young women who are believing God for a husband to stop dressing like old women. She further questioned how they would look several years after marriage, if they are presently dressing like Grandmothers while young and single.generation of olosho with men will take risk