Another thread should be created for the Christmas giveaway. Let those who have something to give post and those interested should quote the giver. This is not a thread for beggers but for givers

Saintmary:



So, because you have a wife with four kids makes you think you are smart?



They didn't tell you that stupid people also grow old?







You, in your egotistical little mind, you expect the entire Yoruba race to find and cook your type of food because you are who?


An entire culture dating back to prehistoric times should pander to your whims because you want food?


To top it all, I was trying to point out the foolishness in your post to you but in your great elderly stupidity, you can't even detect it.



The distaster in growing old without wisdom is that you will not only be the one affected but the innocent children who did nothing wrong to deserve the kind of foolish guidance they are inevitably going to be saddled with for most of their adult lives.


So, don't bite me in your anger, for the sake of those innocent little ones, get sense.


Summary:


Age is not what makes you wise, it's the application of what you have learnt over time that makes you wise.


How do we detect wisdom: the content of your words.



I'm done with you.

You are so unwise ! And the fact that you kept going back and forth means you are Indeed very slow of understanding . And your use of many words even confirm my first four words.
There was no where he said yoruba women can't cook, he said he had to cook his own food because buying the type of food he loved to eat would have been too expensive and rare to find.


He even honour your stupidity and explained his perspective to you, you still insulted him and assumed his kids to be under poor guidance .

Can you hold conversation with people who have different opinions from you and never result to insulting them ?

Gosh! You are a typical Nigerian lady who only knows about wigs, phone and hair , but can't detect meanings from words.

Borrowing is not the problem, but this money is not accounted for...

Merry Christmas Nairalanders...

Let wizkid answer for his actions... Having selling tickets you owe fans the responsibility of showing up

vickydevoka:

What about virgin

A virgin can only be above this trap if she is God fearing... And morally upright.

Some women, no matter their virginity status, once the price is right they will fall

Only two types of women will not fall for this trap... A morally upright woman or one who fears the Lord... If she is not in any of these classes, forget it, she will go even if she has never done it before...

Some virgin women can even fall for this if they are not morally right or have a close relationship with Jesus

As others have advised you, do well to stay put with your parents. Get a job or learn a skill or do both at the same time... The best thing you have as a young lad is now..use it wisely. Time lost in frivolities and unproductive decisions may never be regained.

Are your parents sending you away? If no remain, if they are, plead with them and become more responsible.

Going to live with your friend will quickly snatch your youth and innocence away. It may introduce you to a world that will be the beginning of your end.

Be conscious, be wise and be skilful and get understanding in all you get. Read books about people and things you inspire to become and get an education let no man or circumstances tell you otherwise...

Stay home unashamedly... they might laugh at you, but that might just be the best decision you would have taken in your lifetime

Blessedmercy8:
Go and listen to this song. "Adulthood na scam", then make your decision from there.

For the first time, I find your post light-hearted and funny

You are confused as your home... You guys are scattered and only patching things up...marriage.is not supposed to be endured...if the room is getting too hot, please leave...

In Nigeria I don't think you can sue her to court based on this faaa

If you want your home scattered patapata just report her to your mother... My brother this fire will never quench

MufasaLion:


Are you serious?

Damn serious... He was calling for a week and kept on saying he will refund her.. then later stopped... Mama now keeps her money at home. She never reported

mediclife1987:


You got time cooking yourself in this crazy state called Lagos?

You must literally be living next to where you work, unlike some of us that spend almost 2hrs to work everyday...

Sorry, you had to spend two hours on your way to work, that's stressful, too. I don't live next to my work and I don't have to spend two hours neither... I just don't get comfy with food bought out especially mama put

I literally crawl out of my skin if I had to eat out... I try as much as I can to make my food... I almost puke at the sight of this

MufasaLion:


Dude, you're off point. You're extremely off the road.

Her mother knew she was in safe hands and her mother's first words to her was "Look at you,' she said. 'You've been brought up by a lovely family."

So, her mother bolting away the second time was because she was never interested in being in her life. Everything was going well for the daughter and coming into her life would make it bad. The daughter was not vulnerable or hanging out with unserious people. She was raised in a respected family and she was more focused on her ambitions.

Also, the daughter's action when they met was enough for her to disappear again! You seem to underrate how issues like this could affect an individual, and the mother understood it and that was the reason she left finally!

And her mother not being in her life made her found closure.

Although all aren't well, it was of a better choice even though it wasn't the best, that her incestuous parents leave her life. That allowed her to have a somewhat normal life until she started digging into her past.
Everyone in that meeting was fvcked already. Do you think the siblings don't regret their actions?
Sometimes, we don't go looking for what is not looking for us

I can only imagine the pain she went through all these years keeping this a secret and being abandoned twice by her birth mother.

But then I won't blame her parents, they did what they have to do. It was indeed a thing of shame to be born out of incest.

If she had spoken up, but then again is not as easy, she would have known that she had a 50% chance of birthing a normal healthy child. Her sorry will encourage many like her to heal and find a new path.

Incest still happens even in our present day, people just don't speak up because of shame

I made this food with #300... Haaa what a good life!



Good radiant !

It is well, if you have money running into millions, please operate multiple bank accounts...

These scammers are now bankers... My landlady's account was wiped by het account officer knowing mama is too old and her children are overseas nobody to press the case... The scanner banker even have the gut to call her telling her not to report to the bank that he borrowed the money he will return it...

For your mum, let her take up the case with the bank.. They should start with her history of actions that day

I think they are too young for this social media fanfare... She is even openly accepting that they have done 'it' do we have parents these days ?

Maternal depression is real... When women say they are tired, please listen to them...

The husband is even foolish! Men are not as strong as they want us to believe. A woman is subtle yet strong.

How can you go ahead to marry a woman who confessed to cheating on you?

Sex has become the cheapest thing to get these days but what I don't understand is why get married if you know you still want to cheat?

Before now, once you are married then you are responsible, but these days, married people seem to be more irresponsible, dragging the game with singles

Blessedmercy8:


Why did you take down your pics? You're not even proud of your looks. Inferiority complex is dealing with you big time.

I'm off your case before you begin cry.

You have succeeded in creating attention for me and now I keep getting unsolicited emails. I have gotten up to 50 in the last hour and you asked why I removed it?

Blessedmercy8:


Oh... You seem to be in the category of those who think marriage is a do or die affair? Lol...

Look, I chose when I'll marry because I have all it take by the grave of God whenever I'm ready and not out of pressure but as for you, pressure is naturally mounting on you because you really have nothing going for you. Even with your queen mother wig at your "young" age , you still look trashy. Lol....

I've been letting all your snide remarks pass because you no reach but you now want to make it a habit of mentioning me for rubbish at will. You miss road?

You belong to the gutter, no need exchanging words with you... Your use of language is a turn off! Won't reply you again...

the fact that you keep attacking my looks shows you are threatened!

Hhhh

Blessedmercy8:


Where did I say couples should not have sex at all? Are you as dumb as you look? My guess is right.

If this is the only response you could give to a simple question, then your mind is as ugly as your ugly looking self.

Bittered bitch! You are so beautiful that you remained unmarried even in your late 40's?
Cry yourself a river!
You are so bittered that you think attacking my looks we scare me? You so crave attention even at your age that you practically live on naira land and seek validation for your own opinion.

No, Christian couples should not have sex... Hypocrite

When your sister is truly truly ready as a mother who wants her son, she will get him. This I know...she can't keep this to phone conversations and expect them to release her son.

First, she has to come down...

Wait, did the family kill their son her husband? That line where they threaten to do to her what they did to her husband got me

Blessedmercy, you have refused to marry yet you won't leave men and woman matter alone

What are the price range ?

This is definitely an old picture, her baby is not even up to 6 months. There's no way she can recover her body within a short period. She is still breastfeeding and eating like a cow to make more milk. Even Rihanna had not recovered and she gave birth before her not to talk of a two-time -mother.... Lies!
Men don't go out and pressure their lovely wives to go back to their pre-body... It takes time and good dieting even though it is possible

With the way this op creates threads with different monikers and replies himself with his alternate handles, he surely must be a pest. How on earth will you be visiting your uncle 4 times a week and eating their food every time you were served?
For a very long time, stay away from his home, the economy now does not allow families to even pretend to love one another.....


I find your uncle hilarious and I have been laughing. I like his bluntness

Dgamezzz:


Thank you so much. I know she doesn't want to have a baby before marriage too , am not sure if she's on birth control or not but I think we should both conduct the fertility test now incase any of us has a problem we can treat before the wedding and we will make babies when we are married

You are sharp - mouthed you have a reply for everything.
Know this, even if you run a fertility test and she is okay, she might not be compatible with your blood type so she won't conceive. Ask her if she is on any pills, if she is not, for 2 years you have. Even having sex no pregnancy, she isn't compatible with you or she is infertile