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sisisioge:
Tell her brother to leave so they could get her alone? That babe should cut ties with the man and his folks without looking back.....it doesnt smell right! May God not let us marry evil people!

My sister, it is true ooo! Maybe they have evil plans. Why will they insist that the brother should leave?

Your husband is fetish and will run you down spiritually whether you leave or not. What will you do? Save your head and your kids. Don't go back to him just yet. See what he thinks about salvaging the marriage, if he is becoming too hard to deal with or live with, leave while you are still alive.

That man is one wicked flesh! Thank goodness you are financially well off!



For peace sake, tell your brother to leave and come back

She might not be cheating as you assumed. Perhaps she is one of those women who like to beg even when they are provided for. Don't leave that type of woman here while you are away, sooner or later she will get laid by another cock. She acts sneaky already.

It seem to me like they are trying hard to paint a picture perfect!

KiNg0G:
ok thanks for the input.
I guess I hold on then

Don't hold on! Chat it off now! She us crushing on you and you will get ' bemoose' with lust if you go close to her. Don't mind anyone telling you to be friends. Go and make friends with girls your age where you won't have to watch your back always

Responses I'm this thread show how the average Nigerian youth thinks.
If it is sex related, hmmmmm

DukeNija:
He will die earlier if his wife who’s sleeping with other people leaves? Do you still have a working brain?

You couldn't make your point without using derogatory words? Really , the one with a working brain couldn't figure this out ?

Lastborn0074:
Hmmm

Everybody is shouting that you should let her go. Who will take care if your kids, girls when she leaves? I think you should use therapy. You can still work in your marriage. You will even die earlier if hmshe leaves.

It makes children cough, especially in this cold weather .

Tinubu has no plan or structure for Nigerians . He just want to die as a former president, and out his lineage up for lifetime progress using the family name -Tinubu -nothing more.

Mindlog:
Yeah, I got the job and she did say even if there was no more vacancy that she must get an opening for me ......I felt touched.

I'm smiling like I got the job. Good to know. What a genuine friendship is borne out of coincidence.

One word, you are selfish!
Two words: confused and in serious.
How on earth would you think a 22 ambitious girl with 4 marketable skills who aims to travel out wants to be with you resolute knowing you have a live in single mother lover? Guy you are cruise to her. She has better options. The fact that you think you can make a woman run your business well by sleeping with her means you are shallow

She is not tactful! Why wait until the funeral service?

The husband is pathetic if he deceived his wife to buy those properties in a non-existent child's name only to give that same name to a child borne out of adultery and tell the outside woman that he has a property they can claim if anything happens to him. If this story is true, I'm certain even the devil himself will bow to worship this man. This level of deceit is more than the one that happened in Eden

Mindlog:
It reminds me of my own incident though not related but the feelings it generated. I showed up at a recruitment agency for a part time job, filled up the forms and waited to be called in for an interview by one of the consultants.

The consultant who interviewed me àsked me to repeat my home address, which I did and she was just starring at me then whispered "this can't be". She went on to tell me that when she and her husband relocated to the UK from Italy 17 years ago, they lived in my building and stayed in Flat 3.......and I was living in Flat 3 when I went for the job interview!

Did you get the job? Just curious and did you form any relationship or friendship from that incident?

Both men and women cheat in today's world of social media and technology making it even easier. Being faithful in your marriage or any other relationship is a choice we make every day. Trust me, the opportunities are there every day. But we choose not to bow.

I am still wrapping my head around the rationale for cheating. It is baseless.

She is so shallow! In ashamed that she is a woman like me. No wonder, guys use them up without remorse. She probably does nothing for a living except go around. The guy works legit

May affliction not befall Nigerians twice. Someone who gave us Bihari, yet for the past 7 years nothing to show for it. Now you want us to sell another 8 years? I want obi to win, and if he can't, let pDP win but not tinubu, .never

H0711:
I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.

The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.

I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.

I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.

I just want to say I love you already. We need more women like you who knows what they can take and what they can't. Please leave! Find a job and take care of your baby. What nonsense. Don't let anyone guilt trip you into staying. If the mother can't , then who are you to do it? And the man lied about it from the start? Where do you stay ? Do you need someone to come help you pack your load?

FromZeroToHero:
I didn't say it for you to believe.
People easily believe bad report than good report.

Had it been I said that marrying my wife is the greatest mistake of my life I guess you would have believed me without any iota of doubt.

Don't be a bitter soul my dear.

Misery loves company. Don't mind gin if you had said you regretted it, he wouldn't have doubted you.

See a dermatologist. You will always find one at a teaching hospital .How many of these suggestions will you try before you find a solution or cause more trouble?

This must be hard for you and. your family. May the Lord see you through. They are just waiting for the day he won't appear in court then they will turn the case around. May God send you a permanent solution .

Sincerely, it will be difficult to Make her undo her actions. She is a grown-up and can decide for herself. Let her know how you feel about this and the consequences of her actions on the marriage. If she has a soft spot for the marriage, she will turn around. But if she doesn't, it means she values her relationship with that guy more than she values her marriage with you. Then make your decision the one you can defend.

Alexgman1:
Have visited her parent they explained everytin to me. They told me not to break their daughter'r heart, said i wont like the outcome.

This alone should make you leave. The relationship has all shades of wrong

She is living well above her finance. Check her friends in school. I bet you she spent that money on acquiring fashion items. As for getting married, make sure she understands what finance, budgeting and living within or below your finances means. I can't ask you to dump her for this. As a lady too, wouldn't want someone dumping me for my flaws. But don't get involved in paging the money, at least not so soon. You have been coming through that's why she had the gut to take a loan up to 350k as an undergraduate. Let her and her parents do the settings. If you come through now, be ready to come through again

Are there food to avoid to lose weight? Do I have to avoid certain food? These are the questions this blog will answer shortly.

Food has a large impact on how quickly we gain or lose weight. If you seriously want to lose some pounds and want to do it as fast as possible, there are the foods you ought to add to your diet to lose weight. Likewise, there are foods to avoid to lose weight promptly.

11 Food to Avoid for Weight loss

1. Carbonated Drinks
Soft drinks, soda,

Carbonated drink food to avoid for weight loss
Sodas are high in sugar and calories. An average soda bottle contains up to 7 cubes of sugar. They are one of the leading causes of obesity, type 2diabetes and weight gain. Replace soda drinks with healthy liquid choices such as plain water, green tea and whole-fruit juices.

2. Avoid Flavoured Drinks to Lose Weight

Flavoured fruit drinks are what you have to cut out completely if you want to loose weight. They have little nutritional value. High in calories, packed with sugar and are highly processed. A sachet of favoured drink mixed in 100ml water has up to 7 cubes of sugar.

3. Fries
Chips, beef, steak,

Food to avoid to lose weight -fries
Fried foods should top your list of food to avoid to lose weight. Fries are not always better choices if you want to lose weight very quickly. They contain high contents of fat and oil no matter how much you drained them.
Their high oil content makes them high in calories. You should opt to boil, steam or bake your food because you are likely to use a smaller amount of oil when you boil or steam.

4. Avoid Fast food to Lose Weight Quickly
French fries, burger, sandwich, ham sandwich, meat-pie sausage rolls


Adding fast food to your list of food to avoid to lose weight can be all the change you need and the only decision stopping you from achieving your weight loss goal.

An average adult eats 836 calories per fast food.
If you have to eat more than one serving or a mixture of servings, you will be eating extra calories than the required daily calories for an average adult. (Women need up to 2,000 daily calories while men need up to 2,500 to 3,000 calories) This figure is dependent on some other factors such as age, body mass index, metabolism and level of physical activities)

If you have a sedentary lifestyle, or your body takes time to digest food, it would be outrageous to eat more than your daily calories requirement. These extra calories add up to how quickly you gain weight.

5. [b]Red Meat
Beef, lamb pork]


Red meat is high in saturated fat. A lean cut of red meat contains up to 4.5 grams of saturated fat which increases weight gain. Instead, you should go for white meat, such as fish, chicken, turkey, and other fowl. They contain polyunsaturated fat which is a healthy type of fat that does not make you gain weight.

6. Pastries are Food to avoid to Lose Weight

https://mybodycare.com.ng/food-to-avoid-to-lose-weight-very-quickly/lifestyle/weight-loss/

Looking for effective ways to loss weight fast without feeling burned out while also eating Nigerian meals? You have to read this.

Many believed you can’t eat Nigerian food while trying to loss weight. Is this so?
You will agree with me that Nigeria is blessed with loads of healthy food; you will also agree that despite that, we have both women and men with growing waistlines and deteriorating health issues ranging from being overweight. Why the inconsistency? The answer lies in how we cook and eat our food.
The article will show you how to cook your food and tips on how to loss weight fast while eating Nigerian foods.

How to Loss Weight Fast with how you eat Your Food

1. Start your day with a Cup

Drink a cup once out of bed in the morning. It filters and detoxifies your system and also kick-starts your metabolism. Drinking water helps to keep you full and stops you from overeating.

https://mybodycare.com.ng/how-to-loss-weight-fast-eating-nigerian-food/lifestyle/weight-loss/