What caught my attention in all is how she posed for the camera touching the car... It is not hard to know that the car isn't hers

You were not supposed to go in the car with them. The car was already overloaded.

Money yab man

Things will turn out messy for both of you once you have sex with her. Let her go. How on earth would she moved in with a guy and hope to stay till January if sex was never in her mind?

As an undergraduate you need to stay focus not some pussy banging spree that will rub you of your future.

She may never move out again if you sleep with her. And the longer she stays, the more you are likely to sleep with her. Tell her to do d somewhere else to out up with base on the gender difference

Back off!
A good game is better than the sexual pleasure of some minutes

Blessedmercy you didn't have to put this up. You should be bigger than things like this. You are smarter not to know this is an old video.

The way you use naira is unhealthy for a woman of your age. Now see how someone up there is insulting you as though he knows you personally and that's because you put your life history on the platform.

You run here to seek validation on everything about you. Please calm down.

Sorry to say, this food looks terrible! And you say it was meant for. your hubby? Please hide am

I don't want to believe a man who was born and fed with breastmilk reasons this way. Check him welll, he is sick and needs help

Yes children are dying of malnutrition, but this figure is high

You haff all contracted HIV

Believing

As a working class, when was the last time you bought something nice for yourself? What was it and how much was it?


For me, I haven't bought anything new or nice for myself this year. Due to some family challenges... ( mum )

But I'm optimistic

Was it not this guy we saw his sex tape.with his girlfriend?

I hope this is not to case clout, the family Are in pains, please refrain from such act

If you love your space so much that you feel irritated when others come into it, then don't have kids, I repeat, don't have kids. Kids can change your life dreams., goals, energy and just about everything about you. You won't even have that space you so desire. you may never have it until they are teenagers when they will begin to find you irritated when you crawl into their space. So they will be the one creating the space .

You think you love kids because they are not dependent on you since you are not their parents.
Enjoy your space and forget both marriage and kids.

But I tho k you will cha he your mind later, you will get married but you will always have to deal with being depressed because your kids and husband will take over your life

You are even confused, please check your title
It should be" what would you do?"

lereinter:


Don't rush to divorce

Sleep with one eye open henceforth

Which kind of devilish advice is this

Do you think divorce is as easy as ABC? You can't just wake up one morning and chase tears away, it take time. I didn't say don't divorce, I only say don't rush it considering something

goodman41:
She even told me that if not my kids she would have poison me.

Jesus! Please report her to your ummuna, your brothers and her family in case she carry out her threats.... What rubbish, but Goodman hope you have been good to her? Because what on earth will make a woman say such to her husband?

She is tired of the marriage...

Your wife, obviously does not love you. She could not even defend you before an ex,,, acting like she is proud to have you.... The Ex even accused her of not having changed.... That line means a lot as the ex obviously knows her more... He even called you a small boy and your wife is laughing? Guy you are a jew man, your wife don see you finish... You have cast and she has little respect or admiration for you....

Don't rush to divorce ooo, as you will likely end up with another retired woman.. Just know your worth before your wife and treat her accordingly.... Show her the messages and sleep with one eye open henceforth.


Nigerians don't have good women again... The poor and average women have so much body count, the rich and independent ones could come off as being rude and bossy... This is a hard one for men... Which will you go for?

Olubi15:
Hi

Hi

Why have you been denying him sex?

Forcing his way through you is wrong, but your lack of sex brought out the hidden beast in him. Well, I don't think Nigerian police will take this matter seriously.

Do you feel raped and violated like a real rape victim or you feel pained based on the issues on ground before?
I doubt you do, that because you know he is your husband.

Rape is more traumatizing when a stranger or someone you have never laid with forced his way into you...

Do you really feel raped ?

Babe, it is going to be hard. But go back you can still work things out. Only that you might not trust him with finances again.

He is just being greedy

Babe, this from woman to woman. If you can't stay with the present man because the relationship is u healthy nit because your pastor said so, I advise you remain unmarried. You have been with three men with three kids, one for each and you think it's no big deal to go for the fourth?

If you have no shame, I'm sure your family members does.

Don't allow no pastor ruin your life for you.

Emma1Oj:
You were not born when Fela was alive. So how u take kn say him be movement

I was already born when he was alive. Don't be deceive with my looks, only that I was a child.

Beside, if I wasn't born, have you ever heard of reading history and biographies?
You don't have to be be there to know somethings

Fela is a movement, unfortunately died before fully achieving his course.

Respect legend!/

Your sister left her marriage and come home to eat like a glutton leaving her 5 kids? I'm certain she has toddlers among these kids.
If the husband is not beating her, please send her back. If you don't, she will start sleeping around. Her type full street

Do you do payment on installments ?

How on earth can a woman throw all of what she has just because another dude from outside started bankrolling her? Surely she will regret it, especially if you have been good to her.


Let the kids see their mother, don't deprive them. As for the marriage, it has gone south I doubt if it is redeemable. But if you are willing, give it a shot, start afresh, and see if you can still pick up the patches to build a home for the kids.

Wishing well, wheew it must have been one hell of a battle .

LawMan44:
I pray God answer my own prayers o because I am just existing and hanging on to a little thread . I'm continually having scare, fear and anxiety. Sometimes I have contemplated suicide.


My head is full. Everywhere messed up...

Seek professional help and.stop seeking validation to depression online

Send the boy back to the hell he came from.

If.your heart will let you, get him arrested and escalate it...


Take your son to see a doctor for treatment and run several tests on him to rule out infection...


Keep talking and. reorientate your son. Don't.ever.send him to a boarding or all-boys school.

You will have to tell your husband, he has the right to know and be allowed to take whatever decision he wishes to take.

Never. be too hard or too protective of your son, it might break him. But don't stop watching for signs of gay.

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Talk to the lord, he knows how to heal our broken hearts.

I pray that this won't be the beginning of a road not taken for your son, now and in his future.

Peskid147:
she has been disrespectful to him before she had kids

That woman is broken and can't keep a good man.

Amumaigwe:


It is also not easy providing for the entire family alone. Abi?

None is easy, I tell you