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I love that you are finally serving her the same dishes she has been serving you for 8 years.


If the kitchen is becoming too hot for her, she should leave. Instead of frustrating you.

I get it, is not easy to rise kids alone but she has to learn to adjust and be mindful of the union.

I love that man. He is a trophy. I am so raising my boys this way. I will scream it to their hearing you my boys are the prizes. So because he wants to marry you he should crawl before your parents and worship them? You called off the wedding expecting him to drool over you and your family? No way! That guy knows his worth

Welcome to the world baby.
Can't take my eyes off her necklaces. Dammmn money is everything let no one tell you otherwise

All I can say is that your dad does not have good plans for you even if he meant well. He knows you haven't being said for three months and immediately he knows you have been paid he suddenly has an imaginary emergency and gunning to take half of the money after you have gifted him sonetbibg from the said money. Did he discuss with you how you should have or invest ibsonethibg no matter how little. Sorry to say your dad is an entitled leeche that wont pay you back and you won't be able to drag him.

Parents should allow children grow

Your wife is the one playing this prank on you. When you are both tired of this game, it will stop.

Abizz and lucrativeress I like both of you already and I see ending well for both of you...love in the air

Take her to the airforce. It is cheaper in the long run plus it is more prestigious than your regular private secondary school. Yes, you will get a quality education and your daughter is most likely to mingle with people who are intelligent as the airforce mostly take brilliant pupils especially if you are a civilian

This is just for the internet...homeless and smiling? I was homeless for two days and the last thing on my mind was a camera...i just needed a home

bruno10000:
I hope you know banky is a politician ??

Yes, I know. The weddings he and his wife have been attending are not mostly politically affiliated, rather, they are more from friendship stance.

Banky W and his wife are very supportive. May the Lord bless them richly as they are always there for others. Surely, they won't have to think of who to call when they need help, people they call people have gathered for them also.

Super story popoopo

At this age, babe, focus on your life and career you will be glad you did. Shun relationship for now, you will always meet someone better. Don't my d those asking you to stay and play mother.role, babe, you Are heading to grave if you do

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why must you force the lil boy to join y'all in your prayers to an imaginary creature?

Post like this makes you feel valuable all of a sudden.

yemmit90:
Those that keep saying he should not sell the house are only afraid of the future, they forgot he can build more better houses if he put his life in order. A huge debt with no hope of paying back can put one in a serious depression and eventually life threatening sickness.

@op, if you are very sure of 10m, you can pay off your debts with 3m, find 1 million land and build a mini flat with 3m. Use the rest to find something doing.

Go with this advice. It's realistic. Offset your debts so you can sleep well at night and have clear my d to start afresh. If your wife's is not going through risky pregnancy, suggest she pick a job also

demoBaba:
What are you saying? So, if your husband is beating wotowoto all the time, you will stay with him because of year of being together.

How many women left their marriage after the first beating? Even after the 5th beating? This is her first time to be caught, let her be forgiven

odinson1:
So you truly believe she will worship him if he takes her back for cheating?
So you are telling me you'll respect your husband for taking you back if you cheated on him. Lol women and lies

So the guy should throw her away because she chatted with a guy and flirted? If you know how hard marriage is and how difficult it is to just throw year's of been together away, you won't just ask him to chase her out

Boss you F up big time sending those messages to her pastor. Maybe with her parents but not to. her pastor who will use her to preach every semorn and embarrass your family. Your wife might not have slept with the guy, nevertheless, she is still a cheat and will cheat once.in physical contact with the guy.


You claim to render all financial needs in the home, did you also render all emotional needs of her? Think deep and mend your home. Chasing her away might be the easy thing to do, but forgiveness is gracious for love covers multitude of sin. Forgive that woman and she will worship you

Not many ladies can boast of having not slept with up to 4 men before their marriage. Leave her alone it's none of your business! Even the woman you will marry or already married to probably have more body count. Many girls don't stand by the way to look for clients, but they have slept with more men...

Except you are marrying a virgin, you can never know with women.

It.is because you know her story that's why you judge her. Imagine the many stories about our spouses that we may never know. Ignorance is sometimes bliss... Let your friend enjoy this bliss

newcommer:
Hi. Please I'll like to send you something. Please can you help me with your account number?

I need a little something for food, too. If you don't mind?

Zonefree:
Not bad business, it's lust for a vagina.

You can't be sure, he didn't mention that he was lusting after her. He said they are next-door neighbours

You might never get your money back, count your losses and grow wiser.

Never mix business with pleasure. Someone offered 13k you decided to go for 11k because she is next door? Bad business

On a second d thought, show her madness, seize her things and shout let neighbours gather.
If you can't do that, just move on. Babe is wiser

You might never get your money back, count your losses and grow wiser.


On a second d thought, show her madness, seize her things and shout let neighbours gather.
If you can't do that, just move on. Babe is wiser

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

I sometimes wonder if you are intelligent at all. a long as it is not about sex, women and party, you usually don't have anything to say. Damnn niggar

Your husband is narcissistic and probably bipolar. You just have to learn to manage him.

Do you say he works during the week and have one day off yet you except him to use that one day to clean the house for you who only goes to work once or twice a week? Since he gives you access to his money buy every gadget that will make work easy for you. Hire in-house cleaners to clean your home, anything, just cut the guy some slack. He already has enough health and psychological issues to deal with. Don't add cleaning to it.

Have you ever wondered that the reason why he sleeps all through is probably that he is tired and he believes you are capable? Is not like you can't do those things, you just want to hear him say thank you and praise you. Gently ask him to do that when he is in good mood.

If he uses the visitor's toilet and refuses to flush, leave that place for him to use. Leave his mess after him. You go to clean it that's why he messes it up again and again.


For your mental health sake, go out often to a nice place alone or with friends, get out of the house and make friends. Life is boring, you and your husband feel stuck and drown from doing the same shit for 16 years. Plan a couple of vacation times.

The many houses you buy are still out of boredom. You feel excited about getting it, but soon you lose it and plan another one. Your husband is hurting deep down and needs healing. He will always blame you for everything but will never divorce you... You are like his muse, the reason he wakes every morning. He is scared so he blames you for his fears just to feel better about himself


Your husband us like a nagging housewife who says the maid is bad but yet won't let her go because she is scared

OyeofIkoTuN:
I meant..talk your own

Oh, please stop being petty. Remove yourself from the platform if my on behalf disturbs you

Kobojunkie:
Toilet sink na yamayama ke? You no dey use one at least 10 times a day?

Seeing another's toilet is yamayama

OyeofIkoTuN:
on behalf

What's your correction? On behalf is correct, check your dictionary

Kobojunkie:
A picture of the toilet sink and the stain would help us better help you.

You like yamayama things. How can you ask for pictures? Geeez!

Itsokayo:
sorry for the loss bro.


but to me posting her here is not necessary......

We all have different ways of mourning. That's his own, let him be

On behalf of nairalanders, accept my condolences. So painful...but remain steadfast