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Gyum

Take the kids from her, thank God she agreed. Raising kids in hotel can do so much damaging to your kids. You both don't have time, hire a nanny or a live -in -maid to look after your kids. Your ex just needs freedom to LovePeddler around...soon she will realize....but I hope you were not beating her or maltreating her because I wonder why she will leave all you say you have and go live in one room with her mum

What you did shows you have principles. If she can't charge outsíde like others, that's her headache. Don't let anyone drag you into their pit, they are already dirty and definitely need company.

Remain on your stance, having an erection when you saw her naked body was normal for a healthy man, doing something to prevent it from happening again shows you are a wise man with healthy sexual life. Don't rush into marriage to have sex, trust me, sex is overrated and if that's the only reason you want to marry, you will get scammed oooo

Thank you for this knowledge. Killing for ritual purposes is as old as the black race. It was subsiding in Nigeria, until the raise of yahoo plus.... I do not believe that killing a human can make another rich...it is just a mentality that have been wrongly sold to the youth. And believe me, we are in trouble

A man who openly does DNA on his children and rubs it on his wife's face should henceforth sleep with one eye open. He has started a fire that he may never be able to quench... And no, the woman does not have to show you any fire before you realize that you have set your own house on fire.


If you doubt your child belongs to you, run a DNA test secretly.

A woman that has not been caught is the faithful one... Married women are dragging the cheating game with singles and with a smartphone, cheating just got easier! With women, you can never know except we want you to know

Is your apartment a flat? Please use the bathroom to run your changing clothes for now. And sleep in the sitting room with the godmother. Wednesday is almost here. Just one day in between. Don't make any of them feel unwelcome so you won't be the instigator. Guy man up, it will soon pass

Myopic! The internet has made people mad. No privacy anymore

Internet22:
Guy! Use another format

Can you unquote me, I want to bring the thread down.....

Sheeeeeeeeee

The increased level of stress amongst young people is the number cause. Plus poor eating habit

Coolbreeze1988:
Equalizer 1&2,
Extraction
Honest Thief
The Old guard

I love the old guard crazily, too. Have it on my flash though.

SWhat is that one movie you can never delete from your phone even if you needed to create more space for something else?

Mine is Titanic, it has been on my phone for A LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER OWING THE PHONE.

No, I never delete it even if I need space for something else.


what's yours?

It depends on what led to the madness. If it was drug abuse or some other physical factor, no problem. This means he has to stay away from his triggers to avoid reoccurrence. But, if it is a gene thing, like hereditary, I don't think I will want to toil that part. If I was in the same boat, and I know it is hereditary, I won't want to have kids suffer the same fate, so why marry? Except we both agree no kids

This one has dragged the father's name to the mud and washed down the university name. Shame!

The problem with Nigerians is not poverty, it is lack if morals and virtue even though we claim that we are lovers of education.

If a man ends up with an unsupportive partner, it speaks volumes of the things he places priority on. So don't come out crying when you end up with your 'choice'

Depression can be overwhelming. But he should have thought of his wife and daughter. The woman will move on

Adetayo41:
I planning to leave the house for her, I am still in much pain. I swear to God. But will be sending her money for my twin babies

I did t want to comment, but I think you need to hear this. That woman has been neglected by you and if you take this act, you will further drive her away. Please talk to her, tell her what you saw and discuss how to fill in the loses. You admitted that you have severally turned down her advances, that can alone can make any sane woman to feel dejected. Don't chase her outside because she will by the time the vibrator won't do because it isn't human. She will need a man to suck her boobs and touch her machine can't do that. Don't let nairlanders kids push you out of your marriage. Tell madam what you saw, she will open up. Please I beg you as I speak from experience. Denying a woman sex can be detrimental

uchaymart:
Please let's use this

I will like to know, is this picture real ?

Simply say you are olodo looking for company. Misery sure loves company

Ebonygeek:
Thank you for this thread Op. The responses to the previous thread were so appalling.

Just because a woman says she doesn't want kids, it means she has destroyed her womb.

Any Nigerian man reading this thread, please accept it into your thick skull that not all women want to bear kids and they have various reasons for this.

My only concern in that thread was that she was not in agreement with her spouse for not wanting kids from the onset if the marriage.

If a woman does not want kids, it is no crime, but let her inform her intending partner about it so they can make their own decision.

If any woman desires not to have kids let her be without being shamed likewise any man who does not want kids. Couples who do not want kids should stop being shamed. A man and a woman can sure live together in matrimony and not desire to have kids. If your career is a priority then face it squarely without letting anyone lure you into parenthood. It is not as fun as society makes it seem.


Kids are no longer means to show off wealth, rather they consume wealth.

Let those who don't want kids and marriage be left alone.

OKOATA:

My own 5 year old daughter na to dey touch armpit, funniest thing she does that only with me and not her mom or anyone else. She will start touching armpit and boom she don sleep. Kids sha.

My niece does that irritating stuff. Her own is that she touches any armpit. We were finally able to stop her when she enter jss 1 if you don't stop it she can continue like that

If you also earn something similar to what he earns, yes, you can pull it through. Just limit childbearing to one or two and enjoy yourself. Look for a side hustle to meet up with the family expenses. Do a very low-key wedding. Don't try to keep up with the Joneses

Ignore jennyclay she is still a teenager and will always say the opposite just so she can get popular on nairaland. With the way she hops on every thread, she is jobless. She is a broke girl probably begging one guy to marry her so she can be free of frustration. Yeye dey smell

The child is his nephew and his son!
No special name for such relation because it is not a norm. Call him son-nephew

They should not be paid for work not done. This will curb their excesses. The hope that they will be paid whether they work or not is why it takes them. nothing to strike not minding the academic progress of the students .

Ginaz:
why would i accuse God of stealing the money? what you wrote didn't cross my mind at all, geez. i was surpised the money couldn't be found when i wanted to used it get data instead of giving out as offering like the spirit said. it ony meant the money should truly be used as offering. i couldn't use it for anything and i haven't found it yet.

I'm just surprised. that's all.

You made it sound like because you refused to give offering the money disappear. And you saying the money should have been used truly as an offering collaborate what I think you are trying to say

God is no wicked God. He won't make you lose your money because you refused to give it as an offering! Whether you give it or not, God is God and he loves you whether you act or not. You can't remember where you kept the money, one day, you will find it if no human picks it before you find it. But clear your mind off any spirituality, angels don't steal money because you refused to give offering. God don't need your money in Heaven so why make it disappear?
Gosh!

Your girlfriend is baggage of load. She hasn't sorted herself from a previous relationship and she jumped into another one? And she is the same person her brother insists that she dates a yahoo guy? And you said she is fickle-minded and you are not financially buoyant? It will soon clear from your eyes that you are likely to be the loser in all of these.

Just so you know, whether you approve of her going over to her ex or not, she will go and they will have sex. The guy knows her more than you do.

Jees! Just get out of this mess already and focus on you becoming financially buoyant

udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

Bros, please answer is she menstruating? Have you seen her blood soaked pad before?
My best male friend married a woman who knows she isn't mesuatring yet allowed million dollar wedding done for her when she knows she can't have kids. Just like your wife she has been refusing medical diagnoses with flimsy excuse. Until my guy notice say come ooh, I never see this lady buy pad or blood stain anywhere. And when he told the mother, she got annoyed and accused him of telling outsiders about her. The guy is the only son and he can't leave the marriage for church reasons. Last I heard they have force her to start treatment. It is 6 years already

Her dress shows that a bride does not have to go naked on her wedding day to look good and trendy. All cover up, yet classy and beautiful. It is the dress for me, not the kiss. Because I can't say for sure that it is their first kiss ever !

You should have told the story when you were ready to tell it all.