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CelebritiesRe: May Sues Yul Edochie And His Second Wife For Adultery, Demands N100M by Emmanuel30a: 8:06pm On Aug 02, 2023
SweetDipBenny:
Is it now a crime to marry more than one woman in Nigeria huh
Ask Nigeria or ask from Nigeria...,if not from Nigerians...
CelebritiesRe: May Sues Yul Edochie And His Second Wife For Adultery, Demands N100M by Emmanuel30a: 7:55pm On Aug 02, 2023
linearity:
I corrected my earlier post, I met to have said, May can’t sue Yul for Adultery, adultery is not a crime in Nigeria.

She can only sue him for divorce with a cause, citing adultery.

She does not really need to sue him to reveal that Yul and May are not married, since their marriage is statutory, it means Yul is not legally married.

Even if they were married under customary law, May still had to ask for a divorce for her to be able to marry.
What is adultery in THE BIBLE or according to THE BIBLE, & is adultery a crime; in or according to THE BIBLE...? What of fornication...?... GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST,ETC; are for all nations, relations and "functions correlations",etc; that needs SALVATION or wants SALVATION...?...
CelebritiesRe: May Sues Yul Edochie And His Second Wife For Adultery, Demands N100M by Emmanuel30a:
Kobojunkie:
You don't love your sister then.

By suing this woman in this way, May has revealed that there is no legality to the supposed marriage between Yul and the Judy. That is what this announcement has served to reveal to the social media world. Yul is not a polygamist but an adulterer by law. Judy is just a sidechick and a baby mama for Yul. . She is not a second wife and anyone who regards her as such does so against the law that governs that first marriage. undecided
I thought you were going to be expository... not imposing on the way... or not being "sorry"/for not being sorry... Expository or"inquinsitory/inquisitive" and "impository/pository"...? Who would pay the inventory or for the inventory...? Poultry inventory or "poultry, sultry and watery eatery inventory, watery and sultry poultry,etc; inventory"...? I hope you won't want to write or say some story like super story three story or super story and three story/super story like three story...? What is your story...? Story story... Who "is you/are you" or Yul Edochie/Yul Enochie...or what have you?...
FamilyRe: . by Emmanuel30a: 6:11pm On Aug 02, 2023
SoulmateSearch:
I am looking for my soulmate, the man God created for me.

You
-are between 34 to 40 in age, loving, kind, mature, honest, faithful, understanding, ready to settle down, easy to talk to, enjoys interesting conversations

-will be both my best friend and lover

-have never been married and don't have kids

-bonus points if you reside abroad like me but open to a man from Nigeria or any part of the world

-Handsome and calm Yoruba man preferred. No Yoruba demons, abeg.

-An Igbo man meeting the above criteria welcome.
What of your pictures...?...
FamilyRe: . by Emmanuel30a: 6:10pm On Aug 02, 2023
ahnie:
Liabilities steer clear cheesy cheesy cheesy
Ahnie..., you mean...?...
CelebritiesRe: May Sues Yul Edochie And His Second Wife For Adultery, Demands N100M by Emmanuel30a:
MrsTwrite:
He has caused so much pain for that innocent woman.
Iru kan-un... Iru kan-un kan-un... Innocent ko, decent ati 50cent... I don't know when and where you have seen or are seeing 50cent and or the wife of 50cent,etc; to be decent... let alone innocent... Everyone or everybody,etc; would be looking for/to cent or 💯... They would now be looking like an adolescent, like an adolescent florescent or like an adjacent adolescent, adolescent that is living at adjacent...,etc; that is using florescent or holding florescent with scent... What is their scent and florescent...? I mean,of course there is an adolescent or there are some adolescents,etc; at my adjacent(at my disposal...?) or at the adjacent... With what scent..., and from/for how many cent and 50percent...? How many percent,etc; is or are your scent and florescent,etc; o ye adolescent...? Is it now,etc; that, you begin/would begin to learn silent instead of violent...? I guess your violet is violent..., or is it silent...? Your violent and silent is violet...? You don't know what is salient... and you are not lenient...(GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST ETC are THE MAGNIFICENT...) You would begin to do bend over and or bend down select,etc; inside a toilet or inside the toilet... What is the color of your violet..., violent or silent...? What is the color of your toilet or in/inside your toilet...? What is the color of your maleficent...,that is insufficient or not sufficient..? What of convalescent or the color of/in your convalescent...? No wonder, it's difficult for you to observe "violet"...; let alone Lent and Advent... At what length or to what length and extents, etc; did you know or observes Lent and Advent,etc...? Abi you want to collect.../abi you won collect,etc; doesn't likes you/doesn't want you to observes Lent and Advent/let alone Advent...or , don't want you to observes your Lent and your "violet Collect",etc; at length...? What is the length and width or length and breadth...? What is your Collect or what are in your Collects... Violet Lent or Violent Advent...? Where is silent and where is violent...in your Collects? Bend down select...abi you want to collect,etc; won't makes you to becomes an Elect,THE ELECT of GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST...or "one of the Elects of GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST"...
FamilyRe: . by Emmanuel30a: 1:57pm On Aug 02, 2023
SoulmateSearch:
I am looking for my soulmate, the man God created for me.

You
-are between 34 to 40 in age, loving, kind, mature, honest, faithful, understanding, ready to settle down, easy to talk to, enjoys interesting conversations

-will be both my best friend and lover

-have never been married and don't have kids

-bonus points if you reside abroad like me but open to a man from Nigeria or any part of the world

-Handsome and calm Yoruba man preferred. No Yoruba demons, abeg.

-An Igbo man meeting the above criteria welcome.
Really...? What are you waiting for...?...
FamilyRe: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by Emmanuel30a: 6:43pm On Jul 30, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to her abeg! undecided

The same Gospel also requires she abandon her husband, her children, her job/business, wealth, everything she owns, her family, etc., in order to become worthy of Jesus Christ. Is that what you are really trying to tell her to do here? Is that what she tells you that she is ready for? undecided
Now tells me, what are you ready for...?...
FamilyRe: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by Emmanuel30a: 6:37pm On Jul 30, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to her abeg! undecided

The same Gospel also requires she abandon her husband, her children, her job/business, wealth, everything she owns, her family, etc., in order to become worthy of Jesus Christ. Is that what you are really trying to tell her to do here? Is that what she tells you that she is ready for? undecided
Kobojunkie, let her do it...or do as she wishes... You meant, whoever is born of GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST... You meant, whoever wants to follows GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST... must be...ready to neglects/rejects...and let the dead bury the dead...? Whatever it's and or whatever it means, takes or that you mean...,let the dead bury the dead...;or the deads buries the deads... You and they or them, aren't just hearing all of these or all of those,etc; for the first time... You likes to take dose, doses and overdoses of glucose, lactose,etc... Did you wants to give me rose/a rose, roses..., you would become a/my Rose or aunty Rose...; and I would become your Efe Ambrose...?... Rose and Efe Ambrose won't feel arouse or get arouse,etc; when writing prose or a prose...,or during "prose compose or prose composes"...? Have you arose from... dose, doses and overdoses of glucose, lactose etc...? So, proposes...if you have the rose or roses..., instead of trying to opposes, imposes, reposes and deposes... So close..., If I can't become your Klose...; I would becomes your/a Efe Ambrose...? Come to me...,or come unto me... Kobojunkie &or Kobojunkies... What of the Kobodonkeys and Kobomonkeys...,etc...? How is junkies and "kiboroki/kiborocky",etc; for rubies, pupils, "puppy" or for cookies and...? Like monkeys and donkeys playing hockey... because of what...? Junkies or cookies...? Cookies for the rookies or with the rookies...? How is key and hanky-panky,or how about keys and "monkeys" moneys you hanky-panky...? Keys, hanky-panky... Meanwhile, try to capitalizes the "B" at the beginning...,when you are trying
to write BIBLE, A BIBLE or THE BIBLE... This is applicable to or pertaining to one of your comments...
FamilyRe: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by Emmanuel30a: 5:01pm On Jul 30, 2023
beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?
"Scam"...
FamilyRe: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by Emmanuel30a: 4:56pm On Jul 30, 2023
beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?
You are asking where to run to...? To me of course..., haven't you read it in THE BIBLE that:" Come unto me all ye that labours and are heavy laden...I would gives you rest...) I would gives you attention... rejection, retention, detention or damnation...? GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC; are for all nations, relations and functions-correlations; that wants or need SALVATION...?... Maybe "I" should or would gives you ETERNAL DAMNATION...?...
FamilyRe: Advice Please by Emmanuel30a: 11:46am On Jul 28, 2023
Daisy101:
People dey marry sha!!! Chaiii. Virtuous women has seen a lot.

This is urgent. Post immediately you see this. Please pardon any mistakes. I’m not coordinated. I’m a married woman of 3 kids. 8years, 5years and 1 year old baby. I’m a market woman. My husband drives keke. I have seen shege in this marriage but I’m not here to lament. I just want to talk about what happened now and the best way I can pvnish this stupeed man I called husband. You know the situation of country affected all businesses. We’ve not been able to pay our children’s school fees. My husband lamented bitterly about not having money. I break my safe and I brought out 120,000 I’ve been saving since January. And gave him to complete and pay our children school. The fee is 140,000. It’s with abeg that the school allowed them take exam. I leave for market 4,30 am to be able to buy food stuffs cheap before it enters resellers hands and I told hubby to go and pay the fees before going to work. This night, I asked him how far. He said his keke jam person and he used the money to repair the persons motor. I waited till after he slept and I went through his phone. He didn’t know I know his password. Nurse chi, I found out that my husband’s side chick is pregnant. I suspected he’s che@ting but I don’t know with whom. That is not even my only problem. My husband gave his side chick my hard earned money to comot belle. I want a planned deal after I’ve recovered my money. I want to pay that side chick a visit. I’ve gotten her name through true caller and I’ve seen her social media handle. I’m trying to get her house address. Please advise me. My head is full. How do I pvnish my husband and his side chick. I want them to feel the same pain they caused me in this marriage . The id£i0t is sleeping like zo_mb_ie right now. I feel like st@#b£ing him to de#@#th He is a d&£m!on in human form.
So, what did you expect me to do...or wants me to do for you/to you...;
or to go and do you,do for you or get for you and for me/ to you...?... Haba! Hahaha!!! By the way, how old are you please...?... You can respond to me personally... direct message...
FamilyRe: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Emmanuel30a: 3:33pm On Jul 27, 2023
H0711:
I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.

The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.

I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.

I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.
Lie lie bobo...eni tobawu kobe 10×...
FamilyRe: My To Be In-laws Are Frustrating Me by Emmanuel30a:
Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?
Mumu! Sepe iwo naa laiki/feran omu...,ati idi...? Ebaun ja idi re..., enje un wo omu re/oyan re...? Se oma funmi ni ounje je...? Se ofe funmi ni ounje je...? Oti fe funmi ni ounje je o...! Iru ounje wo lofe funmi je...? Ounje ijekuje ni o...!.. Ounje awon aje ni o...!... Abolohunje je, maje ki olohunje ri nkankan je... Abolohunje je...maje ki olohunje ri ounje je... Eye jenu wujewuje...,eyin alajebanu...ati eyin alatenuje... Mowiire abi nko wii re...? Konilo/kose pataki/ko pondandan, atibeebeeloo; funyin lati sofunmi wipe, mowiire abi nko wii re...
RomanceRe: Help!! My Fiance Always Makes Me Do Things In Bed That I Don't Enjoy. by Emmanuel30a:
DaisyMellow:
Hi guys. I usually don't bring relationship issues to Nairaland, but this one is very serious as it concerns the man I am engaged to and scheduled to marry before the end of the year.

I have known him for a year and few months and we are in love. When we started having sex, it was all vanilla and although he was a bit rough; as in throwing me around and putting me in different positions, I was okay with it, and honestly, it was kinda exciting because some of those styles were new to me

However recently things have gotten really weird whenever we are having sex. He requests me to do certain stuff that honestly creeps me out. Sometimes he would tie my hands behind my back so tight and stuff the pillowcase in my mouth, then have his way with me. Sometimes he would blindfold me with my scarf and ask me to beg him to free me, while choking me with his two hands. There was even a time he got a knife and pretended to want to stab me and asked me to play along and act scared. Sometimes he would ask me to forge tears so he would watch me cry while we had sex.

It's gotten real bad that a week ago, I almost passed out when he was doing one of his weird choking sex-plays. In the past I have talked to him about how I didn't enjoy some of these things and how we should do it sparingly or not at all. He sounded like he understood, but after a few weeks he seemed bored and uninterested in normal sex, and begged me to go back to the rough stuff because that's the only thing he likes.

I know he loves me because he takes good care of me and is even friendly with my parents and siblings. But this extreme sex thing is really making me uncomfortable.

I can't imagine going through this sort of sex every day when we eventually get married and live under the same roof.

I need serious advice on the next steps to take.
You are unreasonable & not sensible/sensitive..., how can you be seasonable...? You are irresponsible, an irritable bowel or "have an irritable bowel and towels"...? Get out and get lost... After all, you have gone out ... or are&can be getting out or going out to eat lunch...? Fool... good cool fool... looking for food or looking for cotton candy/cotton wool... What a cool fool looking for good food!..., or are you looking for good news...?...
HealthRe: What Can Be The Cause Of My Friend's Childlessness by Emmanuel30a: 6:04pm On Jul 11, 2023
adekunletosin:
Please Teeteee..

I sent you a mail..


Can we discuss on this via mail please : aadekunletosin1@gmail.com

Thank you
Taa get out...
HealthRe: What Can Be The Cause Of My Friend's Childlessness by Emmanuel30a: 6:00pm On Jul 11, 2023
makanma:
Please doctors in the house.

I have a good friend who got married at 22, she took in immediately .

After five months, she had a miscarriage after that she went for evacuation and this is the fifth year of that miscarriage.

Since then she hasn't gotten pregnant.

She has gone to so many hospital but nothing.

She even went to mother and child hospital, still nothing.

please is there anyway you guys can say what the problem might be....we are looking for solutions
Solution ko, circumlocution ni... Oolo mu tabi je concoction,etc; tee mooje.../tee moun je...
BusinessRe: I Want To Arrest My Father For Selling My Palm Oil by Emmanuel30a: 5:48pm On Jul 11, 2023
DeTribalisedCit:
I think I finally have to agree wholeheartedly with the decision of NDLEA on ballons 🤔
Dirty dainty deity... See your head like that of Olamide/Olamide song..."...I Carry you for head like Afro"?... Or I carry you for head, like Mariah Carey...?...
BusinessRe: I Want To Arrest My Father For Selling My Palm Oil by Emmanuel30a:
ItisWell22:
Ahhh 😯

I’m sure op came here thinking NLers would approve of his thought 💯

You have to seriously wrestle against an impoverished mindset.

You should be glad you could be of help to your family, not being this bitter against your own father.

I pray you be a father soon, so you realize that “the nothings” your father did for you were sacrifices in his own nothingness.

Remember to recite Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s line, “I will never be broke!”
You may simply rephrase it, “I refuse to be poor for long”; 50 recitations 3x daily.
Didinrin... Get out and or get lost... Na by force to be a father...,when you don't have a feather-let alone some feathers or many feathers..., clothings& shelters...? Like Martin Luther...or like that of Martin Luther,etc; that is or that are wearing and "tearing" leather jacket or leather what...? What of May Weather...,or like that of May Weather...? They would be running/going helter skelter, hither and thither,etc; until they either withers or withers either&neithers... like they are not brother/no brother or have no "brother(s)"...? Of course, I know MY "BROTHER(S)" & OR "ELDER BROTHER(S)"... They/those "sinister/adulterer/murderer sisters and wanderers/slanderers/Gadarene brothers",etc; would be shouting THE LION OF THE TRIBE of JUDAH...,etc; as if they have imbibed/imbibes or wants to imbibes THE SPIRIT-THE PRESCRIBES, DESCRIBES and ASCRIBES, etc; of THE LION OF THE TRIBE of JUDAH... They are like those Scribes,etc; that do takes, gives or collects bribe... Who told them to imbibes THE Spirit of the Scribes...? That is why you would see many manly arrant ignorants,etc; that doesn't know what it warrants...,let alone have the warrant for opening/the opening...or for&to be opening pants... They are like an/the/some infants ants that are rampant... looking for where, what and who to devour,vour,pour/fall...or detour...?... Now, they would be talking about or bringing up water vapor...as if they don't look up and or can't looks up... They should looks up and devour, vour, pour, etc; the water vapor... Let them stop doing hook up... because of lollipop...top up... chop chop or "chop up",etc... Did you wants to drink 7up or licks lollipop...?... Come to my shop or "OUR SHOP"... Hop on or hop and chop in... If you haven't do hook up..., let me see your hands up... You are full of Bleep up and Bleep off... until your time is up...?...
FamilyRe: Married Civil Servants In Today's Economy, How are you coping? by Emmanuel30a: 7:07pm On Jul 10, 2023
IamAtAnger:
Are u sure you're mentally ok?... did u even understand what u juz typed?
Funny you... Just ask...,if you don't underestimates and or don't understands... It is amusing rather than amazing, this old fashioned way, etc; that you are using to or trying to get me talking/speaking or get the Words of GOD/THE WORD from me... By the way, introduce and reintroduce yourself... First of all, introduction... Your gender reveal...?...
FamilyRe: Married Civil Servants In Today's Economy, How are you coping? by Emmanuel30a:
Sirchiboy:
.
Stop this.
If you want to help.
Help
How can I be of help...? By the way, isn't there a theory-according to some people that; "HEAVEN helps those who helps themselves..."? Clap for yourself...? Seems you don't know yourself...let alone knows and abide by HIMSELF... If I were a chef, I would looks up at.../to my self and my Shelf...; I won't be deceiving myself-doing like Wyclef or like a Wyclef...,that is in "AYF" (Anglican Youth Whatever...),NCCF,etc... EFCC or DSS...? SSS, SS, AS or ASS?... As a chef, I would love/haves/halves &armed myself,etc; with or by putting "books".../THE BOOK...,etc; inside a Shelf or my Shelf... Now, you would be singing-"ROCK of AGES clefts for me...let me hide myself in THEE..." In THEE or with THEE...? Both...? What of..., let THE WATER and THE BLOOD... from the...?...
FamilyRe: Married Civil Servants In Today's Economy, How are you coping? by Emmanuel30a: 5:05pm On Jul 10, 2023
Sirchiboy:
I earn 35k working as a security man with 5 kids
Damnit... Damn nigga...nigga raw...music/musician...
FamilyRe: Married Civil Servants In Today's Economy, How are you coping? by Emmanuel30a: 4:57pm On Jul 10, 2023
Dimaya:
I am writing this post in response to my initial post that made front page yesterday in which a lady said she won't get pregnant until her husband starts earning over 200K

See here:
https://www.nairaland.com/7729988/girl-wont-get-pregnant-husband/

People's reactions got me thinking heavily because nobody addressed the obvious elephant in the room:

unreasonable civil service salaries



In the original post's video, it was established that Nigerian civil servants starting out with a degree ( level 8 ) earn an average of 75K monthly.

And it takes as much as 15-20 years before they can earn close to 200K monthly.

With the current high cost of living (particularly food, transportation and housing), it seems the government doesn't expect civil servants to be able to support their families on their salaries.

This begs the question: does the Nigerian government pay enough for civil servants to get married?

And also, if you're a married civil servant earning less than 100K, how on earth are you able to meet your obligations today?

How?




the video referenced in the previous post:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t66DkQl0j50
Bull shit... Idiot... Bull shit idiot and idiotic bigots...
RomanceRe: I Told My Naija Parents I Don't Want To Get Married And This Was Their Response by Emmanuel30a: 6:28pm On Jun 27, 2023
[quote author=siofra post=123367554]So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married
RomanceRe: Nigerian Lesbian Couple, Dr. Elizabeth And Krystle Ekpo Wed In US (Photos) by Emmanuel30a: 11:02am On Jun 27, 2023
BloomingDale:
Beautiful lesbian couple. God bless your marriage.
Oloriibu...somebody...?...
FamilyRe: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Emmanuel30a:
THE FUTURE&THE FUTURE OF/IN THE SCRIPTURE,ETC; IS THE RAPTURE... As if I already don't knows/already don't captures your pictures...? Forget The SCRIPTURE&THE FUTURE WHICH IS OR WHICH ARE THE RAPTURE...? Hell no or hade no/hey no!? You should better or you had better forget about the caricature&miniature, etc; like furniture, agriculture, horticulture, sculpture,etc... What is the culture&nature of RAPTURE OR OF THE RAPTURE, ETC; THAT WAS STATED, SLATED, MENTIONED&HIGHLIGHTED IN THE SCRIPTURE...? What should be the nature of the stature or of those statures, textures,"vultures", ventures,etc; that wants to be captured, during THE RAPTURE...? Have you been ruptured...? Won't you have/suffer fractures or suffer from fractures,etc; as a result of ventures&debentures, or ventures debentures...?...
FamilyRe: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Emmanuel30a: 6:03pm On Jun 22, 2023
momsloved:
https://www.nairaland.com/7735286/husband-wants-us-relocate-village#123920640


I'm sorry that I have to create this post. From my previous post, some people have adviced me to edit my post to indicate my state of residence Incase of an assistant, but I tried to edit, and I'm not giving the access maybe because it was pushed to front page. That's why I created this.
After much thought and advice, I have decided not to relocate to the village with my husband and it's not a violence situation.

This is not an act of disrespect either, but I want to be strong for my children. The only issue I have now, is how to secure a cheaper accommodation and I'm sure between now and new year, I will work harder to meet up with next rent.
Pls, should you have any way you can be of help, pls Help us.
I'm in Abuja. Thank you
@KOMBE, @valentineuwakwe, @eminikansoso
Scripture is future&future is RAPTURE...D SCRIPTURE&FUTURE/PLUS FUTURE;ETC=RAPTURE-RAPTURE IS D FUTURE.
FamilyRe: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Emmanuel30a: 5:57pm On Jun 22, 2023
momsloved:
https://www.nairaland.com/7735286/husband-wants-us-relocate-village#123920640


I'm sorry that I have to create this post. From my previous post, some people have adviced me to edit my post to indicate my state of residence Incase of an assistant, but I tried to edit, and I'm not giving the access maybe because it was pushed to front page. That's why I created this.
After much thought and advice, I have decided not to relocate to the village with my husband and it's not a violence situation.

This is not an act of disrespect either, but I want to be strong for my children. The only issue I have now, is how to secure a cheaper accommodation and I'm sure between now and new year, I will work harder to meet up with next rent.
Pls, should you have any way you can be of help, pls Help us.
I'm in Abuja. Thank you
@KOMBE, @valentineuwakwe, @eminikansoso
Let me see ur picture,I want 2 picture ur future from THE SCRIPTURE;which is or talked about&of RAPTURE
RomanceRe: People With Disability, How Did You Find Love? by Emmanuel30a: 2:52pm On Jun 19, 2023
Yevabi:
I was born deaf and dumb. I communicate through sign language and lips reading.

Unfortunately, very few people outside the deaf and dumb community understand sign language. This has been a huge hindrance to my dating and social life.

A lot of men back off when they find out about my disability. It is really depressing.

Share your experience.
We don't even know or see your face, & or "her face"...
FamilyRe: I Want To Run Away From Home by Emmanuel30a: 1:26pm On Jun 10, 2023
Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an upcoming writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an account here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?

Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain admission?

Continuation...
But if u asks me,"who I go ask"? U don't,may not&don't wanna kno...Seems u are...blessed...?
FamilyRe: I Want To Run Away From Home by Emmanuel30a: 1:21pm On Jun 10, 2023
Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an upcoming writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an account here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?

Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain admission?

Continuation...
Are u asking me...? I mean, wud u be asking me; if&wen u don't know me&don't wanna know me??

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