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BrighterThanDay:
Why is it that even when it is so clear from all indications that your daughter is married to an irresponsible man who is toxic. Nigerian parents will still say endure and stay there.

A lot of married young ladies are down with depression and even high BP because of marital stress. But they have to remain there. It's just so sad

After all, we know the differences between a daughter and the daughters...that would be slaughtered... "We know your thoughts on the way home alone with the kids and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST..." We know your thoughts and prayers, plans, etc;for the weekend to get more sense or to the house... We knows what MATTERS, your matters and OUR ALMAMATER... GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST; ETC is/are OUR ALMAMATER... Not paternal grandfathers,grand mothers and maternal grandmother, forefathers fathers and mothers-fore, afore, dore adore...,etc; that enjoys laughters... Who is your daughter or who is even your daughters, a daughter or their daughters...?... Laughter... Mufu gbogbo...

BrighterThanDay:
Why is it that even when it is so clear from all indications that your daughter is married to an irresponsible man who is toxic. Nigerian parents will still say endure and stay there.

A lot of married young ladies are down with depression and even high BP because of marital stress. But they have to remain there. It's just so sad

Die or let them die,etc; if they wants to die... There are many ways to die or to death/that leads to deaths...,etc; on Earth or in Earth...?( There are many ways that leads to HEAVEN and Hell, or to HEAVEN and Earth? Which one...?) In HEAVEN and Earth...?... Of course, you must have first dies or must have been the first to dies in your heart/with your heart...? To dies lays where...elsewhere or somewhere else in the elsewhere...? For where...? Death is wealth..., deaths brings wealth or death is the end of wealth...? End of someones wealth and health...? Of course, deaths brings health and wealth...? Hmmm?... So die...if you wants to die...? Die in GOD and in THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC; name...? If that's your aim...

BrighterThanDay:
Why is it that even when it is so clear from all indications that your daughter is married to an irresponsible man who is toxic. Nigerian parents will still say endure and stay there.

A lot of married young ladies are down with depression and even high BP because of marital stress. But they have to remain there. It's just so sad

"They refuses to marrying millions and millions of dollars for the..."? They refuses to marrying us or people like us...? WHO is US...? JESUS...? Check or read The Book of Exodus (& Genesis...), Leviticus (& Number...or plumber,...?), Titus, Ephesus...,etc?... I don't know where you would see JESUS CHRIST and sexual intercourse, or with sexual,etc; in The Book of Exodus, Leviticus, Ephesus,Titus,etc...?... I guess they don't know GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST-let alone leaves GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST ETC; because of Lexus...or because they want to be driving Lexus...? Because of sexual intercourse..., sexual intercourse, etc; for Lexus or because of Lexus...? Fear GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC; or fear sexual intercourse...? Fear sexual intercourse of Lexus, in Lexus/in a Lexus or because of Lexus,etc; or FEAR GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST ETC; which is THE BEGINNING of WISDOM...? Why are they anxious...? Because of Lexus or sexual intercourse...? Anxious to buy Lexus...or for,by&to buy sexual intercourse...? I doubt "if"/don't think they reads or learns anything from/about GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST/Lazarus or and Lazarus...,etc? Did they reads &or learns anything about GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC... JESUS CHRIST and Lazarus, JESUS CHRIST and Zacchaeus...,etc...?...

rightopdeep:
Thanks

Okay... I await your response when you are done selling...

Chinny024:
Wahala...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

So, what...? Or what now...?

Foodqueen:
Never knew adult have holes in their heart too, thought that's just for babies.

I wish you well in whatever you decide to do.

Now you know... There is or there are more holes,etc; in/for shortcomings or for & to your shortcomings... Like I am humming...?...

rightopdeep:
. Thanks So Much..

Mumu...can you really save a life...? How...? You may probably help a "life"...? What of probably helping a life/the life of husband and wife, or the life of husbands and wives... A husband and wives...? Help their lifes...to do what or not to do what/to stop doing what...?...

rightopdeep:
Hello Everyone, I need your Advise Pls..My mother is Having Hole in her heart ,It all started with swollen Legs , Shortness of Breath ,Her Heart Beat was Quite Irregular,She Had Palpitations of the Heart ,Sometimes I Noticed she would just Use her hand to Hold her left Chest in a bid to hold a heart that is about to Stop Working . She is as well Hypertensive though.

She was Later Diagnosed of Having

"ATRIAL SEPTAL DEFECTS "ASD" ( SIMPLY HAVING HOLE IN HER HEART).

She is such a Caring Mother Who is always willing to make her Children Happy,She Would go to any length ,Deprive herself to pay My School bills ,Feeding while I was in School.
She is so Dear to me .

She needs to go for " OPEN HEART SURGERY "

The cost of the Surgery is High ,I want to do my best to Save her , My Father is Late , I'm the first Born with one Sibling ,A Female who is still in the Secondary School.

I don't have the Complete Huge Cash for her Surgery for now ,I do have two Houses and intend Selling my first House ,I rented the Flats out to Tenants .After sale I will use the funds to save her life .

I belief ,I can still Build another one ,After all like i said I already have another House .

I don't want to take Chances ,I don't want to Sound Pessimistic ..I have the strong faith she would be Fine .

Please Kindly Advise me.She has been in Pains for sometimes now.

Though I already Created a Thread to sell the Property ,I hope a Buyer comes Quick . Here
https://www.nairaland.com/7806453/house-sale-owner-4-m

There are no other Avenues to get money .
Someone I shared with was Trying to Sound Weird ,He said What if after Selling and the Inevitable Happened ..Well I Said that won't happen and moreso ,I Won't Sleep on the street as I have another House I live in .After all Her Efforts Towards my Life Made me to Work to Get the Funds to Build the House .

Kindly Advise me Pls.

Give me the money or some money/some of the money...when you are done selling...; so I can gives you a counselling or the counselling... My counselling session,etc; comes after "your selling"& giving to me...

dre11:
https://dailytrust.com/abuja-housewife-bursts-into-tears-as-barrow-pusher-escapes-with-her-food-stuffs/

inpe...

klimkid:
Men can you allow another man do this to your woman?

I had this conversations with my colleagues yesterday at the office, both men and women and I heard funny replies.

I would like to get your own opinion too, both male and female.

Mufu...

Kobojunkie:
If there is even an ounce of Truth to this tale of yours, why haven't you, at this point in time, matched this gal straight to the police station the moment she told you this story so the police can investigate and sort it all out?

You means...?...

Hezzyluv:
U wicked

Wicked ko, crooked ni... Maybe you want to say that, love is wicked...? Did you want to say love is wicked or "life" is wicked...? Love and life is crooked...?...Of course, very much for your help today and tomorrow...? Of course, very many of you people; don't know what is called LOVE..., how can you/would you know LIFE and LOVE LIFE...?...

UnfairLife7:
read it again, but this time around read without bias then you'd get the message. Very straightforward.

Now I get it...or, I now get it... Get what...?...

LARRYOBRAIN:
You are a nitwi.t, in the first place are you married.

Did you have a sister..., let me see her..."I can/may marry her...?" A beautiful daughter or sister... Of course, I don't know... won't talk about your wife... Oni le koro...emi ko bokanje... Ola mi yoo dara... Ola mi tie ti dara...

Hezzyluv:
Good day NLs, I will like to be brief couple with the fact that I'm not a good writer. Now for those of us here who most times believe any story on NL is fiction or takes, it's not cock-n-bull. But if you insist, den suit yourself or take it with a pinch of salt.

I have this teenage girl Sarah 17 (not her real name) who is so fond of me same as the mother and her siblings. Infact, I got to know these girls 2ru dia mum because she (the mum) do patronize me (I have business center close to their house). Each time her mum is looking for her and didn't see her around the compound, she will call my line and say "Hello Gab, is Faith with u"? When I affirmed to her question, she feels relaxed I.e, her mother believes I will NEVER make funny moves towards her little daughter (tho not advisable to parents). "And me no even fit do so, Because I see her as my daughter. Plus, my integrity and pedigree matters and I have this believe watch words ringing in my head day by day which is, Gab, let your head do the thinking and not your pen!s.

I have not been seeing their father around which made me became curious and had no option den to ask his whereabout from the woman. She told me he left her with the children I didn't even bother to ask further because, I hate to dey pok-norse. Now to ease the burden, she had no option then to leave the children with their Uncle (her elder brother), that the children came back to start staying with her about four months ago since she has gotten her apartment.

"Na where the problem start be this". For the first time this their Uncle saw me, l saw this feeling of extreme hate towards me from him. I greeted him, "good evening sir! he didn't respond. "As gentle man wey I be, I just buy wetin I go to buy and left that place." Since that day, I reduced my way of going that side even when I have business to do around there some times, I shaply get it done and leave afterwards. The following day, Faith came to my shop as usual. I asked her "da Fu!k is wrong with your uncle"? She said they have been talking about Gabriel (me) and there was a day he came around, sounded them working naver to mention my name again that I shouldn't mind him that he just want to protect dem from bad boys bla, bla, bla... and all of that. But deep down, l believe it's more then that but I just let it slide since the mum had already called me to apologise for her brother's behavior towards me.

Now the koko
She was sent to my shop to come collect money POS, and few minutes latter, the Uncle came visiting. He asked where is Faith? Afraid of him and not wanting to tell him she has went to Gabriel's shop. Because, he will flog her for coming to my place (flog 17years old girl oo..), they now lied to him that she went to aboki's shop to buy something. He went there and didn't see her that was when the Aunt Called me that I should tell Faith to come home immediately that her uncle is around. U need to see how this girl jumped and left my place with the speed of light. (I don't want to go to details of how it ended that day because, if I start narrating what that man did, to her, her siblings and his younger sister, "this place go full with writing"

Now, down to the real koko
After the drama in paragraph above, the following evening, she came to my shop.
I was like Faith, you again
But then I latter noticed this traumatized look on her face on looking at her for the third time, she rest her head on my shoulder and started crying profusely. I allowed her to cry for like one minutes (was meant to understand u allow someone to cry first before asking dem what's up) den I calmed her down and ask what the matter is?
That was how this girl started telling me how her said Uncle (The over protective uncle) had been molestation her sexually.

-How he fingered her (by for)
-How he kissed her (by force)
-How he force her to watch porn (by force)
-How he had tried to rape her
-How He vowed to be the first person that would enter her with his ghola
-How he would be the one to marry her
-How he had threatened to kill anyone who will stop him, kill her and kill himself.

Asked her if she has told her mum, she said how will she start this? That they will never believe her! The annoying thing is that her mum is scared of the brother (extremely) and this man I'm talking about should be around his 50something years old oo.. and not married.

As I'm typing this so, I'm yet to set my eyes on the girl since the day this this happed (Day before yesterday). Her WhatsApp dey off, she no dey even pick my calls.

Do I go 2ru the mother??
Do I go with police??
Do I go with human Right
Dose the woman want it trash out in family way?

Even me, I dey confused.

Pls admin,move this to front page!

Kokanwa...

LARRYOBRAIN:
Three times a week is not much, some women don't like sex much like my wife and I am like you; just let her understand, you cannot go outside and she has to adapt.
Same happened to me, keep pushing and let her understand and let her enjoy it and carry her along too.

Mugu you are doing...

[quote author=lavylilly post=125149170][/quote]Bastard...!...

fyzaila:
My dear and highly esteemed Nairalanders, please pick one and pass. There is love in sharing

Mufu Mumu mugu imun gun...

Lawricast:
The day you got married is not the day you became a man. The day you became a man was the day you put away childish things. It takes a lot to be a man, gender only helps to distinguish the reproductive organs in the body with reference to the social and cultural role that is considered appropriate for both sex, that is why God sees both gender as men or sons as often seen in the scriptures. To be a man means taking responsibilities, it’s not about wearing trousers or the physical muscular appearance. when a woman works very hard to sustain the family, she is term “the man of the house”. The man of the house is the one people look up to for answers, the bread winner of the family and the one that can shield the family from harms and danger. The moments you begin to give excuses without meeting needs and blaming others for your misfortune, you begin to lose grip in your sphere of influence as you won’t be taken seriously. Money does not make a man; it is a tool that makes you a fulfilled man. This is where most men miss it, they think when they get more money it will solve all their problems. Money cannot take the place of a father in the lives of your children; money cannot represent you during their graduation ceremonies and money cannot be a companion to your wife. So, you see, as important as money, it has limitations, and it cannot make you a man. To be a man is really not a day’s job, it requires bravery, initiative, tactics, strategy, and responsibility. no woman wants to marry a baby man (i.e., the one that is not bold enough to take responsibility) or mama’s boy (the one that frames his decision base on his mother’s opinion), they want to be sure they are marrying a real man.

I don't know or don't get it... So, who and or what is a man...? Who and or what is a real man...? What is the difference between a man, a real man, a woman and a shaman,etc...? What does or did a woman has to do with a man, a real man and a shaman,etc...?...

Hopefulmycin:
I'm a registered nurse from delta state presently living and working in a private establishment in ogun state.
I never wanted to travel out of the country for work purpose but what I was working on failed and certain factors that was motivating me to stay back are majorly no longer there.

Now, I'm beginning to consider leaving the country but some family members and friends are discouraging me mainly because they feel I should get married first before going.

I'm 31, single and total money in my account now is 620k.
Monthly salary is 105k.

What should I do please? Start processing and working on traveling or I should stay back and still be managing my 105k?

Come unto "ME" or come and be "staying home alone with me"...

Versitee:
Good evening all.

Please my husband wants to covert some of the rooms in our hose to self con and rent it out.

We have just 1 tank of 3k litres. Bringing in tenants means we have to buy another tank but we don't have enough money for the renovations and the extra tank.

We either renovate, and rent out without connecting water. Tenants will have to fetch using the backyard tap. In that case rent will be 120.

Or we get a loan and buy a tank and connect. Then rent will be 180k.


What do we do?

N/B. my husband wants to collect the rent monthly and not yearly.

Am I mad...?...

GeorgkuduE:
Good evening all,I am a father of four lovely kids, and a nice wife.Challenges of life these days are just endless,know it's not new these days hearing of financial issues especially for parents but in this case the psychological stress is just too much and becoming unbearable.I cannot sleep well nor on the bed because it feels like heat is coming out from underneath of it.I know we all need help in one way or the other but please any kind hearted person should please assist me, God bless.
Gtbank 0046070608

Okay Musu... I neither know your wife nor your children... I don't know if you have a fruitful, faithful, truthful, useful or beautiful,etc;...wife&children, who are not dutiful... So pitiful...? Is that pitiful, too pitiful or too pitifully...?... Musiliu...Aliyu...Ayu... How are you or how is you...? Seems you wants me to tell you that, I loves you... Did you want me to say that I love you..., or you want me to say I loves you&I need you,etc; to your wife and children...? To your beautiful wife and children...?( Are they "beautiful"...?) Or, is it/are they wives and girlfriends-with children...? You are not a brethren..., you are doing well and your family are doing well...? I remember that, you are going to have to do it round/rounds of stimulus; and responses... I remember the children in the Garden of Eden...,or of/with the Garden of Eden... Garden of Eden or Garden with Eden...? There are now many gardens like...,the garden of Osama Bin Laden, Abedeen/Abideen, Muhideen, Nurudeen...Tajudeen...,etc; in Sweden or in Aberdeen..., who didn't/doesn't know THE DEAN and what...? And THE WARDENS..? What is the difference or the differences between a Dean and THE DEAN...,the Dean and the Warden...,a Dean and a Warden...? What is your burden,etc; that is hidden...or that you are hiding/have hidden...? From GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST,ETC...? Seems you don't have a burden or seems you are not burdened/not under A/ANY burdens..., that's why you can't becomes a Dean and a Warden,etc; for GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST ETC; that created Sweden, Aberdeen, and Muhideen, Nurudeen/Tajudeen...etc; who claims they have no burdens...and or that, their burdens and wardens, burdens like "wardens"..., their burdens of not having or not being able to bring/eat sardines and margarines?,etc; are hidden from GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST...? Muhideen, Nurudeen, Tajudeen,etc; are hidden from GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST,ETC...?...Don't be a/like Muhideen Nurudeen, Tajudeen,etc... GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST said in THE HOLY BIBLE that: "Come unto ME...all ye that labours and are heavy laden... I would gives you rest..." You are not burdened or don't have any burdens,etc; let alone be heavy laden..., that is why you can't come or go to GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST,ETC...? Who asks you to do wedding,etc; when you don't have sardines and margarines,etc; to carry the burdens or your burdens..."called wedding"...? Where are you heading or where & what are your headings...? Where am I heading to...or what are my headings...? Listen, you won't and or don't listens... Are you listening or would you "listening to"/be listening...the news and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST ETC...? You would rather be listening to: O my ladies or all my ladies kukere2×... If Mohammed or Mohammed O'Shaughnessy, Van Persie, Lionel Messi etc; doesn't go/doesn't goes to THE MOUNTAIN..., "THE MOUNTAINS" wouldn't go or come to them... THE MOUNTAIN and THE FOUNTAIN of LIFE,ETC; is THE RIVER of LIFE, THE GIVER of LIFE&THE ROCK of AGES...ETC... By the way, I was expecting a father of 34 or 24 children... brethren children or kindred and red kindred children... Red kindred children...or red&ren brethren children,etc; like hen/the hens...? They are called men and women... with semen, hymen, abdomen or abdomen specimen,etc... They are bad watermelon, melon and bad omen,etc... There is no need to say Amen... There is no amount of Amen,etc; that can make men becomes women...,or that can make semen becomes an abdomen...? What of the one, that can make semen becomes men and women...? Semen and hymen abdomen specimen,etc; becomes what...? Can Seamans becomes Siemens...? Can layman becomes what...? What can layman or laymen,etc; becomes...as a result of Amen or through&via Amen... AMEN means what...? Did or does Amen,etc; belongs to Men or Women...? How many men and women...? Men and women with abdomen or abdomen specimen..., men and women,etc; that are drinking Seamen or Seaman Lager...? Men and women,etc; that are using Siemens...or that are using Siemens and have becomes a fisherman or like the fishermen...? It is only GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC; that can make you or one/someone...a fisherman or- makes one fishers and dishers/dashers/slashers and smashers of men and women...or to men and women...? Without Amen or without saying AMEN...?...

wittywriter:
Nice



Wittyness

Hi baby babe or babby...?...

DEXTROVERT:
Coping

By
Having
More
Times
To
Make
More
Babies
At
Home

We
Are
Told
To
Be
Fruitful multiply and full everywhere

Cos
Children
Brings
Wealth and blessings
Especially
Twins and triplets

The more the number
The more the voting power too

Hissed... hisses...

Chinny024:
Why only men... women no dey struggle too?..Some women are struggling daily to meet ends..

Would you struggling/struggles for me or because of me..., or with me...? Are you struggling with me, for me or because of me...?... Check google or maybe I should use/hold goggles...etc; to check on google... Hissed... giggles and wiggles...

Saintdan0421:
Lmao, how comes over 70% of your posts are violence related? If no be mumu, na didirin, or other vulgar terms.


Are you a Jihadist?


Work on yaself bro, take things less personal.

Mufu... okay/alright sir... All right now... all right o...

Saintdan0421:
LoL, you know geh faith?
A colleague of mine who earns below 50k is planning his wedding October this year.
Except you want an elaborate or exquisite wedding.

Mumu...

yrhuhfy113:
So you are PAINED

I should describe myself unto you because you are YAHWEH, you that you have missed the way long ago


oga rest.

SEX IS SPIRITUAL, period.


ARGUE WITH YOUR OFFSPRING WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO STOP THEM FROM SEX AS TEENAGERS. Generational Hypocrite

Dindinrin nio... It's now that you are VERY SPIRITUAL...right...?...

staga:
You are selfish.

I was earning N3m a month before I left Naija. Dollar was 460 - 520 then. The calls I get daily are gut wrenching.

Try and assist whoever you can please.

Like...?...

TrustNone:
adulthood na scam boss

Okay/alright sir... ... Like now, I don't even understands or don't seems to understand what adulthood is again... Please tell me you are doing well and your family are doing well... Please tells or enlightens me on what you meant by adulthood, or on what is mean/what they mean or meant...when talking about adulthood... Of course now, I may want to be talking or discussing about foods, woods, good foods, plywoods, firewoods,neighborhood,kanyewood,hollywood, bollywood, nollywood,motherhood, fatherhood,etc... Oliver Wood...?...