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gameova:
What's really funny or should i say not funny is I actually considered opening my own ministry but abandoned it cos i felt I was called for something greater. Silly me. Cos I knew when Pastor Iren started. maybe i would have been swimming in billions now. Yes I still did evangelism. Latest was March this year. But I've sincerely lost focus honestly. Fasting now is easier but not honest cos I hardly see food to eat sef.

gameova:
Good afternoon Nairalanders. Challenges in my life right now is making me Lose faith in God ( that's if he even exist) I've served since 2017. Ever since I've been jobless. Can't even afford basic feeding or necessities. 32 years , no wife, job , business, nothing. Still depending on my aged mum's pension. I remember when i was afire for "God" . Spoke in tongues, did evangelism, a prayer warrior, always bible reading. But what did I get in reward, shame and disappointment. Honestly I'm tired and can't continue living like this. I think I'm better off dead. Let me go and protest to God himself.

Kobojunkie:
Instead of purchasing insurance, people dey give away free money to churches, mosques and temples filling the pockets pockets their gods of men who will not benefit them when disaster strikes, na WA ooo.

Absuchat:
I have similar issue... Though not after having sexual intercourse... It started after i visited a friend and used his toilet... So i think it's a toilet infection. I haven't taken it serious though. It's been appearing and disappearing in my genital region for more than 2 years now

Absuchat:
Oparí

Absuchat:
How will you now have a cure?

Absuchat:
Which programming language is this?
Similar to C#

nomolos92:
You also need to see a doctor

AdiNike:
PLEASE YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED.

I have experienced outbreaks of this kind the third time in the space of 5months. At first, it was like 3 appearing on my penis cap, the next day after a rough sex but i don't even know when it burst open and dried up because they were smaller in size compared to the outbreak in the picture and then later, a single one pops out twice which i burst open myself and they dried up leaving a tiny scar.

I thought it was all over until this recent outbreak. It doesn't itch or cause any pain and most times, I don't even remember it till i have to urinate.

I had unprotected sex 2 days before the last outbreak and noticed i urinated a reddish color urine and i used antibiotics and did not feel it again until the outbreak showed up.

NB: I haven't met the last person i had the unprotected sex with when i first experienced the first outbreak and both times were unprotected sex.

Could this be Herpes?

If this is Herpes, what are the medications I can start using?

I just got married and my Wife is pregnant.

Saintmary:
If Eve were to be the first one created, there would have been nothing like marriage!


Men, from the very first moment the marriage starts, till the end of the marriage, are the major beneficiaries!


They can't live, literally, can't live without women.

Jennyclay:
You’re broke and you still want to rush into another marriage . Why not send the little money you have to your family so they would take good care of your children

With the way you’re rushing into another marriage, how are we sure you aren’t the person who killed your late wife You know you men can’t be trusted .

Why not wait atleast 4 years before you move on. Abi your late wife doesn’t mean anything to you that you can’t mourn her for atleast 4 years You’re a suspect and you need to be investigated.

May your late wife soul rest in peace.

Jennyclay:

dlawsamesq:
So I am very confused right now because of all this red flag I am seeing.

I lost my wife early last year when she was birthing my third child and only son, I have had my family taking care of the boy since then and now there is need to move on.

There is this lady I am currently seeing, we are both serious with the relationship, infact I have met her family to disclose my intentions and we are planning to get married this December.

Now, this is the issue, this lady is very stingy to herself. She is an entrepreneur, she runs her own business and is doing averagely well, she can afford to cater for need without anyone's support. She has been complaining of body pains and body weakness for almost 2 months but she refused to take herself to the hospital and when I complaint she told me that I should give her money, I am not trying to say it is bad if I give her money to do that but she is quite aware that things are not very rosy for me now.

I am really confused now because I don't plan to wife a liability, I think I will opt out of this relationship.

jaybee345:
Why? because i posted the link to where i bought my stuffs from? So of you are triggered because i want to show off where i boughy something from? wahala too much

jaybee345:
I don't think this problem has anything to do with hygiene because my girl is so clean. When i mean clean i mean really clean. She takes care of my place, washes, cooks and cleans my place. So I'm always grateful i have her each time she comes over. Now the problem was each time we want to yunno get down to business that place down there used to smell. I love her so I'd just take it like that because she has always been very sweet towards me. The truth is if you claim to love someone you shouldn't find it hard telling them the truth. So i did and mannnn she was crying like a baby and it actually broke my heart. Deep down i knew that i had to step up for her and then i started doing some research of how to help her situation. I did that because i know for sure she's not dirty at all. Takes her bathe twice a day and it prompted me to even start doing the same. God that made some of us men knew what he was doing cos omo i can't imagine been a woman and I'm not all that super clean . Anyways back to it, i got searching then i found one vendor that sells all these female wash and somethings i can't explain cos i don't know too much about those. I bought them then i gave it to her with style, make e no feel like say i dey shame her. To be very honest since then it's been all good, infact our sex has been far way better and she's now more comfortable in herself. I asked her if anything changed cos she told me she couldn't smell it when we had the talk she said she feels less itchy down there and she's more comfortable. Why I'm i putting up this thread? i put it up to educate some of us men that it's not cos your woman is dirty that's why it stinks. It has nothing to do with her hygiene and again you can always help in situations like this, you don't have to push her away rather profer solution to the situation. Here's the vendors link https://vernicenatural.bumpa.shop cos it's her i trust.

OVB123:
Untimelly death shall not be my portion in this month of August in Jesus Name. Amen!

illicit:

DyingFetus:
Just kys nigger

DyingFetus:
Is onlyfans a joke to you??

BItt:
People disappear willing often times because they are unable to find their footing. Dejected and frustrated about life when there is no one to rely on.

Few days ago I lost my job and I wasn't prepared for that at all. I have been having the thoughts of just leaving everything behind and just go to a place where no one knows me

wrongman665:
Everyone dey face oh... At times i feel like to commit sucide, but still standing strong, my dear don't worry a new hope is coming don't give up.

DyingFetus:
I'm 21. My mom hanged herself when I was 10 after a heated argument with my dad and her.
I recently found out I'm autistic( Galatians syndrome) and i hate myself because of it, because of how obsessed I get over my special interests, because of how weird and uncaring i am with others.
I started therapy recently, and yet i feel so small and insignificant. I feel no consolation from knowing that there are others who are in my same condition.
If anything i feel like a massive hypocrite, sharing snippets of my life that nobody cares about, and yet here i am, asking for a fix like the lowly addict i am.
Is there any hope left for me?

PoliteActivist:
Jumoke you write very well. I hope someone reads this and offers you a job as an editor or content creator - something you can do from home, from your phone.
Just curious, how do people send money to OPAY?

Oh, RIP to the poor girl. 21 years old at that!

noele:
Ahhh, what a pity.

Good PM N'Landers. I hope this message finds you all in good health. My name is Jumoke, and I find myself in a situation where I must humbly reach out to seek your support during these challenging times. I am a widow who recently lost my beloved husband in a tragic car crash. Coping with this loss has been overwhelming, especially as I am now solely responsible for providing for my precious baby and myself.

The impact of the ongoing economic difficulties, exacerbated by the removal of fuel subsidies, has further compounded my struggles. The ripple effects of this decision have resulted in a sharp rise in living costs, and I have found myself without a stable source of income. As a result, I am facing the heartbreaking challenge of being unable to afford basic necessities, particularly nutritious food for my baby and myself.

I understand that everyone is facing their own set of challenges, and I am truly grateful for any support, no matter how small, that you might be able to offer. Your generosity would alleviate the burden I am currently bearing and provide us with the sustenance we desperately need.

For your convenience, I have provided my Opay account details below:

OPAY Account Name: Jumoke
80 233 48 658

I want to assure you that any contribution you make will be used solely for the purpose of providing nourishment and care for my baby and me. If you are unable to contribute financially, your words of encouragement and support are equally valuable and deeply appreciated.

Thank you for taking the time to read my message, and I am hopeful that your kindness and empathy will help us through this difficult period.

With heartfelt gratitude,
Jumoke

Donkogbe:
I have never been indulged in fraud or evil acts.
i have always work hard and earn legitimately.

My mother is sick and they created a family group on how we can help her to pay for operation else she will go blind and God sees my heart i have no money on me right now. why is it so difficult for God to bless me and i can be able to assist my own mother.

If you want prove and letter of appointment i can send it to you privately, for people thats think people just come up to form stories on nairaland.

i feel worthless and useless, suicide keeps knocking.

sometimes i feel my family is cursed or something, it is well

Donkogbe:
I have never been indulged in fraud or evil acts.
i have always work hard and earn legitimately.

My mother is sick and they created a family group on how we can help her to pay for operation else she will go blind and God sees my heart i have no money on me right now. why is it so difficult for God to bless me and i can be able to assist my own mother.

If you want prove and letter of appointment i can send it to you privately, for people thats think people just come up to form stories on nairaland.

i feel worthless and useless, suicide keeps knocking.

sometimes i feel my family is cursed or something, it is well

Donkogbe:
I have never been indulged in fraud or evil acts.
i have always work hard and earn legitimately.

My mother is sick and they created a family group on how we can help her to pay for operation else she will go blind and God sees my heart i have no money on me right now. why is it so difficult for God to bless me and i can be able to assist my own mother.

If you want prove and letter of appointment i can send it to you privately, for people thats think people just come up to form stories on nairaland.

i feel worthless and useless, suicide keeps knocking.

sometimes i feel my family is cursed or something, it is well

Serendipity2023:
Is there any scientific reason why I have diarrhoea ("purging" each time I eat Nkwobi, Isi ewu or Abacha?

Is it the potash or pepper?

Tob456:
I have an almost 8 months old daughter with my ex girlfriend. My daughter was sick for 2 weeks and she was admitted to the hospital for a week and 3 days my family were very supportive as usual.

My daughter is doing so much better and she got discharged last week friday I give God all the glory.

The problem on ground is because my ex girlfriend leaves alone with her younger ones she doesn't have an adult who will help her to monitor the baby health so my parents asked her if she can come and stay with them for a week or two so they will be monitoring ans helping her with the baby she can go back to her place when she us fully recovered.
They've told her to bring her last born with her too but she refused saying she can't leave all her siblings alone but her 23 years old younger brother who just returned home from a different state can look after her other siblings in her absent.

I don't live with my parents I live alone and I wanted her to stay with my parents so we can all share the responsibility of taking care of our daughter but she declined.

My parents and I are not so happy with but we can't force her .

What do you guys think about this. Is she right or wrong for declining my parents request ?

christe3153:
This is suppose to go ROMANCE, but site wont allow me. we have been together for 3 years now, so last year I decided to go for my MSC in Canada. First and foremost when I met her, my business was really booming, am an attractive 37 year old man with vibes, funny and every other thing most women would want in a man. But generally being a generous man,and because I liked her from day 1, I tend to shower her with gifts,attention and so much more than I moved her from her private hostel into an apartment 5months after we started dating and eventually bought her a nice car a year and the half after. Coupled with some weekly and monthly stipends that would make her life comfy. I know some people would think am a simp, either ways its life and we all do things differently anyways.

Throttling to last year when I traveled, before I did, I gave her a promise ring and made vows of what we would avoid to bring about stability while away from each other, infact she loved the move and almost did something that she usually would not allow me to do. I came back to Nija sometimes in March which was like after 5months apart. To me oo, I sensed her loyalty to me was up to date, and so did I. In as much as there was so many temptations I stayed true to myself and kept my own part of the vows and promise. I spent 10 days and came back here. Fast-forwarding to 2months ago, things started changing, I could sense she's cheating, my inner instinct told me something is not right. So when I sat down to analyze what could have gone wrong. I noticed it was probably because she was not getting much incentives as much as she was getting before. All these while being in Canada, when am horney, we do video sex, she shows me her buddy and all of that. Then months during trial period, we were talking and then asked for her to open buddy so I can do myself, she was like no oo she cant, I was like why, she said well she just dont know. I asked if there is a reason, she could not give me a reason, in which previously when we were video sexing, she opened up and I could see that she was having some sort of hemorrhoid sort of looking anus which I was aware of back then cos she does experience constipation once in a while. But the sight of what I saw looked more than that. So I had to take a snip of what it looked like so I can research if shes having a chronic hemorrhoid or maybe its the other way round. I opened up about my findings and told her she may need urgent medical attention, she was angry that I snipped her butt without her consent, I apologized and told her if I was gonna take permission to snip, she would not have allowed me and I would not have been able to determine whats wrong with her. After that time, we had done 3 or more sex video without denying me, but it was during the period that I she was now getting much from me that she decided not to do stuff with me again. So my question is, could it have been because I snipped her butt without her being told, although we have done more after I opened up to her, or could it be that its because shes not getting much from me?

Kobojunkie:
The law has been working for those who have been taking advantage of it. Albeit their remain the minority in a country where most think as you do.