Danjuma04: A man identified as Chief Mbanabalagu, went to his in-law's house in the Alor community, Idemili South Local Government Area of Anambra State, and traditionally divorced his wife over alleged infidelity.
In a video posted on the internet, the man accused his wife, Ndidiamaka Hope Okoye, of sleeping around with different men in various communities and engaging in 'akwunakwuna' (prostitution).
Speaking in a trembling voice, he also accused his wife of sleeping with a married tipper driver who supplies sands to his block industry, adding that she even rented a house where she engages in illicit affairs with men.
“I came to say that starting from today, I am no longer interested in the marriage. She is engaging in prostitution in my own house," he said.
Pointing at the wife's paternal compound, he said; “This is Herbert Okoye's compound. This is where I conducted Ndidiamaka's traditional wedding rites. I came to traditionally divorce her. I'm not marrying again,"
“Despite me having something (manhood) This woman would wake up each morning and go to have sex with the tipper driver,” he added
He also informed his in-laws that he will be dragging Ndidiamaka to court.
Jewessgratitud3: My fellow ladies, Has it gotten to this? What if you die in the process of physical abuse? Anyways, none of them is good because death can still occur in a poor relationship if there's an emergency and there's no money for medicals.
Easy ladies. An abusive marriage is a no no. Many have gone to the great beyond as a result of domestic violence. Me I can't even stand a slap from from a man let alone the constant gbas gbos that goes on there.
ibrutex: To the married men and women in the house , let's give them some, not on papers experience which you will never be told before marriage...
Some of these I learnt through a friend....
A) If you (husband) have 5k and the woman has 3k , sum it together in marriage arithmetic , total cash available in that house is 5k, thanks.
B) As a man be prepared to enter kitchen, expecially those early morning cooking, or else be ready to visit mama put..
Keep it rolling......
Mumu mugu imun gun...,etc; asks your father, grandfather, mother and grandmother, forefathers and "fore,afore,dore & adore/before" mothers... You can always/also asks Muniru Nuru Sikiru ati beebeelo... Muniru and Ambali...etc...
You would never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever understands... After all, you know KNOW let alone understands JEHOVAH RAVA or JEHOVAH RAVAH/JEHOVAH NISI... Eyin omo eefa..., lucifer,olufa, atibeebeelo... Eyee sebi omo ijo mefa...
Abujaexpress: A friend just complained to me that he hadly have sexual feelings for his wife. Couples already have 4 children in a 9 years old marriage.
He is sexually active, but he just lacks the excitement when it comes to meeting the wife for intimacy. It's been three months now without it and wife either, does not help matters as she does not initiate or disturb the husband for intimacy.
Could this be a sickness or what?
Ask your mothers mother... Afise ko...iseemi ni orin ope...won o fi semi BABA ati OLORUN MI ni keebi lere...OHUN ti WON se funmi...loje/lojekoje igbagbogbo sa lope... Ati orin ati ijo, lemi yo figbe JESU ati OLORUN ga o...Halleluyah...
tonicyril: Doctor in the house please help. For the past 7 or 8 months now I have bn having this serious rashes on my body, fully concentrated on my genitals and my inner laps those I am feeling the tingling sensation all over my body but that of my laps and genitals are unbearable.
Now I don't wear boxers again else I will regret my decision, even without wearing the boxer I am always in pains and feel uneasy as I always scratch my body every minute.
The tins shows on my body like I am having measles but it's not measles
I have gone to our local doctor he prescribed drugs for me but it did not go, I went to the chemist I usually patronise and she sold drugs to me, now I use to buy the drugs every weeks still this tin refuses to go. My woman called another nurse of her, she prescribed an injection for me and my woman, each injection is 14k, now I have bought two of it yet the symptoms persists
What do I use pls, doctor in the house.
Now I can't stay for 10sec without scratching my body as I use to feel the tingling and biting sensation all over my body..pls help me
YourBestWriter: The biggest mistake Nigerian parents do is to prioritize on seeing your children through school without a clear plan about their lives after they graduate. Have you heard about living rich but die poor? This is often the outcome for many unlucky families that thread through this path. The society is unforgiving. Not only in Nigeria, but also in developed countries.
I call on all parents to invest in their children's lives beyond just going to school. Buy lands if you could, buy art works in the hope of passing it to your children for huge profits, build connections, get ready because if you retire one day, and your children are still unemployed, is it not back to poverty? Education alone doesn't pay in the 21st century. If you insist on investing solely on your children's education, then strive to make that investment abroad in developed countries. Don't fall into the modern scam called private universities in Nigeria.
Above all, force your children to learn skills. Tinubu doesnt care about who you are, or what struggles await the future Nigerians.
Mufu...ara wa ko muufu(my/our BODY,ETC doesn't moves...), enije tete lara unfu...emi koje tete ara ko fumi...
BoldBrainz: Then go and look for your real husband and leave us alone !
Dollar is approaching 1K. Fuel is about to cross 700naira per liter. The least of our worries has to be your stupid husband who has forgotten the road to his proper home.
My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.
My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.
It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.
After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.
My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.
When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.
We had little issue then but he later resolved it.
He brought everything they asked for.
During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.
That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.
I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.
His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.
I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.
He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?
I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.
He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.
After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.
I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.
Have I said something wrong?
I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.
mrrandomguy: I was in a banking hall (UBA) recently and I observed that about 98 percent of the operations staff are women. I have every reason to believe that 50 percent of the other staff, excluding security personel and drivers are women. The other men I saw, including a security man, were all wearing Michael Jackson kind trousers.
It seems like you have to become an effeminate man to gain employment in the corporate world. This could explain why most men are obssesed with looking fresh.
I also observed that most universities now admit more femle students (espessially in the southern part of Nigeria) in order to be seen as gender friendly. The male students are left with other less-rewarding options like polytechniques or nothing.
This is good news for feminists and gender empowerment satanists, who have over the years being pushing for female dominance in the workplace and in the home by extension, because who controls the income controls the home. These satanistas are even trying to take over religious orders by setting themselves up to become traditional priests, pastors, even imams, etc.
It can also be seen that most unemployed educated youth are men. Many of whom end up taking up extremely toxic jobs, few end up driving Uber, okada or tricycle (rickshaw), the rest become incacerated, the more unfortunate ones die young.
Unfortunately for the men folks to wake up and help their fellow men, they are busy celebrating international womens day. These same men will employ a less qualified female because they hope to sleep with her. In the end, these randy men get setup with sex scandals like rape or sexual assault.
All these put together have serious implications on the family and the future of humanity.
Nice2023: Listen to me: stop asking your Rich friends to buy you alcohol, stop accompanying them to expensive places because you don't understand what you are doing there except that you getting good treats, stop asking them for money, stop being their puppet if it doesn't serve you any purpose nor enriching you.Leave your Rich friends company if you are not getting anything positive out of it.
Now you need to have a deep self introspection, you need to get something very important from your Rich friends.That is not money because they can give you 100K and you will blow it, they can give you a Million you will still blow it, they can give you all the money you want and you will still blow it and will remain poor.Remember it's not money that makes you wealthy but it's Financial Education.That is all you need from your Rich friends.That is all you need to get Rich yourself.Ask your Rich friends how to make 1K, how to keep it and how to increase it.Trust me rich people are more than happy to share Financial Knowledge more than sharing their money.Normalise asking your Rich friends for information more than money, Rich people only give their money if they are getting something out of it.Information is free they can share it freely.But to you that information is not free it's what you going to use to get Rich.Ask your Rich friends to be your mentors so you can be like them. Copy what they do.
Hustler inspiration.
Stop making noise...we ain't/don't have to hear your voice and voices... We don't/ain't hear your voices or no voices...
Kobojunkie: 1. That is akin to having a fraudster and bully, all wrapped in one, as a business partner. Na so you she go dey clench teeth throughout the rest of that marriage.
2. We are all different and have different tolerance levels. So, rather than seek opinion of others, my suggestion for anyone dealing with such is to look inwards to decide how much he/she is worth, and as such deserves out in a relationship.
Dainy1: So, a lady shared her experience with me at work and I want more insight. A man lied and defrauded his struggling wife of some certain amount of money in a business transcaction, only for the lady to get to know the truth, the real amount the item was bought and the account which she made payments to, was an arrange POS guy's account and not the company's account as he claimed.
After confronting her husband, he got angry at her for making unnecessary investigation behind his back accordingly to him.
Married people in the house, have you ever experienced a situation where your partner, lied and defrauded you and you get to know later? What did you do? What can you advise in such situations? Do you think a husband or wife who behave like this, truly love? Can you divorce your partner for this reason? Pls matured mind.
Hagiazomakai: There have been a lot of debates on whether Federal Registry is more authentic than Local or State Government Registry?
Well I am not here for that though but Federal is still superior though you can use both certificates to travel abroad as it is acceptable in embassies all around the world.
Moving forward
I will do another thread on what to expect when going to Ikoyi Registry.
ademidedavid: It's no longer a story that pastors divorce their partners, imams divorce their partners, highly educated people do same and even the so called marriage counsellors are not left out in the order of the day and it has always been a thing of worry for me with the thought that they never loved each other before marriage but getting married has changed my thinking and has made me realised that marriage only takes the grace of God to work out.
I have been married for 3 years with 1 beautiful daughter with a loving wife (maybe before and some years into the marriage). I have always believed that I cannever raise my hand on my woman since my father never did such but I find it hard to believe I did the unimaginable today although It wasn't intentional.
It was due to annoyance after she asked me to stop sitting at home and go work for more money like other men even though I am a federal worker with above 100k monthly income and still do personal work as a civil engineer apart from the federal job despite the lockdown.....
It really got me aggravated because I have been the one fending for the family and the kid for the past 3 years and never asked for a kobo from her.....
Although I have noticed the urge for very flamboyant life style in her lately and has even asked me to get more money at any means, that money is everything in this life even though I have tried telling her its a gradual process, she still doesn't listen and even asked me to raise money for her to travel out of Nigeria.
I have never thought of raising my hands on any woman let alone my wife.....
Please how do I change her sudden mentality towards this sudden extravagant life style because I pray it doesn't lead to something else since I can't do illegal things to acquire the type of wealth she dreams of?
I am seeing or looking at things like streams and extremes...,etc... Cremes...? If I could see streams and extremes..., I would,should or could buy allure rims or "a lure & allure rims,etc; that ain't deem/seems deems or seemingly deeming...as I deem it fit... I should or would also buy air/hear and hair... cremes...? What of baby/"babe" cream creme or ice creams...?... In the interim or prelims... like the prelims and interim,etc; "muslim idiosyncrasies"... bearing Teslim...,who/whom doesn't...?... Mufu...
pinkbarby: This topic is for a matured well to do man from age 40 or more that is interested in having a child without marriage: The man must be a Yoruba christian that wants a baby's mother that they can have a child together. The intending lady is in her 20s, single and has never had kids before. If you're interested, call or Whatsapp 09064317755 to discuss things.
Pls, this is for baby's motherhood ONLY.
Also, small boys, immature people and religion extremist should pls keep off this topic, as this topic is not for you.
Battlefield2: Like I'm broke to the extent of feeling suicidal I'm broke to the extent of not knowing where my next meal is coming from When I say broke, I mean I'm dead broke The kind of brokeness that will make you think about your life The kind of brokeness that makes you feel empty Sincerely, the kind of broke that makes you sleep and don't wish to wake up the following morning The kind of broke that not even a Naira is inside your bank account,pocket or purse I'm at that stage of brokeness right now
E chokes... I heard that,there are many words after brokes... one can be broke as a result of what...? And ones brokes/being broke can leads to a stroke or having a stroke...? You probably need a stroke of coke...? A yoke, poke or some smoke and coke...or smoke like coke...? You can ask the rest from those who are not broke...lest I asks you for a coke and etc...or lest you gives me a coke/cokes and etc... Mufu or buffoon...or Mufu is a buffoon... Mufu like buffoon or buffoon like Mufu... You can ask....
Nataliace: The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.
He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.
Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.
He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.
I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.
My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.
I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.
How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?
Timblogga: darling girl. I intentionally try to check up on you.. 😍 cos I have been so busy in the real world
As if this is Zeeworld...is this Zeeworld or Seaworld...? Seems you are/have become a landlord and are watching a lot of Zeeworld and "seaworld"...? Have you accept GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST as your LORD GOD and PERSONAL SAVIOUR...? You won't/don't hear words, and won't let someone else/somebody else to hear words... When you don't know or haven't accepted GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST as your LORD GOD and PERSONAL SAVIOUR..., you won't know THE WORD, HIS WORDS and THE world... created by GOD, THE WORD and or HIS WORDS... "In the beginning, GOD created (crested,vested and manifested,etc...?), The HEAVEN and Earth-whole world..."-Genesis 1vs1-... Also or now, ;"In the beginning was THE WORD and THE WORD was with GOD and THE WORD was GOD...without HIM was not anything..." John 1vs1-... You don't know THE REAL WORLD... so far and or as far as you don't know GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST...let alone accept GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST as your LORD, GOD and PERSONAL SAVIOUR... You are sitting/busy sitting on the sofa... listening to or looking for/looking at a tonic sofa,some tonic sofa or THE TONIC SOFA... DRMFSLTD DTLSFMRD...?... You don't know THE REAL WORLD... Only Zeeworld,etc; is or are what you knows.../think you know,can know or should know and should have known...
Damian911: Hey dunderhead! I'm not responsible for your miserable life So relax and take the chill pill!
Dunderhead ko "pondandan atibeebeeloo funyin lati sofunmi wipe it's off or Bleep off..." Dunderhead ko thunderhead ni..." You are calling GODHEAD...or what...? You don't know the differences between thunderhead,dunderhead or sunderhead.../what have you, and GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST ETC; as THE HEAD...or as GOD HEAD...?... Are we at loggerhead or a/the/some loggerhead turtles...?... "Dumbbell set with rack for the day..."..
Damian911: A guy approached me yesterday and introduced himself and pointed to the direction of few guys saying they're money doublers and I should give it a try that I won't regret it blah blah blah. Well, I already knew they were scammers but decided to play along. I started with #500 and they did their stupid abracadabra and gave me 5k that I won I pretended I was surprised and happy and told them I'll be back and getting I wanted to take all my savings but decided to take a part of it totalling #200k. I decided to play a fast one on them using psychology
Immediately I got there I told them I'm with 200k and whispered into their ears "Shh, you see this money I brought is nothing if you can double it for me, the company I work for kept #20m with me and I have access to my Dad's account and he's got #2.5m so if you double it for me I'll give you guys #20.5m and you double it we share the proceeds" They encouraged me to and quickly doubled the #200k to #500k. I pretended to be even more astonished and promised to be back with #20.5m. They encouraged me saying its my my opportunity of making it in life and utilize it well! Took the #500k and almost screamed "I Will Be Back"
Since I never go and the mugus have been calling me. I kukuma break make I have peace! They no know say if scamming was food chain I'll be the apex predator! They met the apex predator!
Creamypussy: The heart of man is desperately wicked.
Creamy pussy or creamy pissy pussy..., what are you saying or talking...? How creamy us your pussy...? Of all the good names or among all the good names,etc; to use for your moniker and thinker/moniker like thinker and "eekanna tinka", you choose/chooses/chose/chosen Creamypussy...?...
Doolove: It's not really about my boyfriend, I am scared of the result of staying with the man, he has tried to rape me before
I thought you people do have mentors,tutors, pastors,etc... Which one are you...,and which ones have you...?... Are you.../have you anyone...?...🤔... What does/did Matthew 6vs33...said...in THE BIBLE/in THE HOLY BIBLE... Get out of here...? Dilemma indeed!... I thought you had or have... stigma and enigma... Did you have/had stigma or enigma...? Did stigma,etc; gives you eczema/asthma...,or eczema and asthma,etc; gives you stigma or a stigma...? What of enigma...? Enigma,etc; gives you stigma...or what...? Or, you have been able to buy plasma/plasmas...; with your enigma and stigma...? Which enigma or stigma...? Which among stigma and enigma,etc; would makes you buy plasma...and be saying UP NEPA...? Stigma of enigma, enigma of/in stigma or stigma of/with enigma...? Stigmatized or enigmatized, traumatized or stigmatized, stigmatized or enigmatic and gigantic enigmatic/energetic... Stigmatized or energized and enigmatized...? You would soon be traumatized or soon traumatizes... Automatic traumatics and lunatics...because of romantics antics and gimmicks... Full of lunatics or full grown lunatics...?... Did you want to go to/goes for & to Baba Automatic/ Prophet Traumatic Automatic...? What are you waiting for/still waiting for...? You want me to energizes, pluralizes, dogmatizes and emphasizes,etc...? Did you know "someone who is called BODA EMMANUEL, or BROTHER/BODA EMMA or what have you, etc"...?... Awon/eyin iyawo Benzema...ale Quaresma ati Ledesma... Are you looking for drama, melodrama or panorama,etc; you wants to be doing drama melodrama or panorama... Now that you have been hearing or since you have been hearing Rhema from Mr/brother EMMA...or Mr& Brother EMMA Rhema..., gives me your Wema/money in your Wema and or money from your Wema account..
Doolove: Good afternoon everyone, I am currently in a fix and doesn't know my way around the cross road that I have found myself in. I will try to be very brief.
I just graduated not long ago and just finished my project a couple of weeks back. I've been looking for a job and submitted my cv is some places.
Now there is a single man in his mid forties that has been on my case, he has bailed me financially several times and already shown interest in me and my boyfriend knows about the man. He is also aware that the man tried to force himself on me when I went to visit him on two separate occasions but I managed to escape.
The man offered to connect me to a job that pays 50k in abj while I stay in a room in his apartment since he's not always in town. Now this is an upgrade to the 20k jobs that I've been seeing in my present location but my issue is that my boyfriend is against me staying in the man's house because he knows the man is interested in me.
Instead, he is suggesting I stay with my rich uncle that resides in Abj but the issue is that the man is too strict and everyone in the family avoids him so I can't possibly stay there. My guy is facing some financial challenges and I can't depend on him right now. On the other hand I am not free with this man, I am always jittery around him and can't wait to leave. He's already playing a boyfriend role now and I am scared he will just colonize me if I stay with him and probably start thinking about marriage which I don't want at all because I just get that father or uncle vibe whenever I am around him.
Should I stay back in my location and look for better jobs or should I move to Abj and damn the consequences of living with the man because I already know the outcome?
gameova: Bro what's the point of all the strive if it doesn't make any headway financially. I mean look at pastor Jerry of NSPPD. Will you say he was closer to God than me? I knew him when he started his ministration in Abia state. Was a very small gathering which I was part of but look at him now, he literally flies private jet to anywhere he wants to in the world. He is a millionaire in Dollars now.
My point is I don't want to be as rich as him but let me just be able to put food on my table without being afraid of where my next meal will come from or threats from Landlord. Having money will surely make serving God easier cos you will be focused and not distracted by pursing vanities or being dishonest to get gain etc. I don hustle for this life but tbh I discovered is not by mere working hard but smart work with a sprinkle of grace.
I studied public administration ( 2:2 ) and I know how to write. Also sing too as a past time. I have some gospel and secular songs released. I really appreciate your post. Please send me your email address so i could message you. Can't access the mail of this my NL account. God bless !
So, who is delaying from asking him his source and or sources of wealth...; so you can get your own...or be like him...?... Mtcheew...
Family › Re: I Am Not Marrying Again, She Sleeps With Other Men - Anambra Man by Emmanuel30a: 10:30am On Aug 15, 2023
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