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ChangedMan1999:
You didn't get the irony.

The irony is women are wicked and heartless creatures.

Had it been that the husband is the one down with the physical challenge and the wife is sound physically, the wife wouldn't have looked at the husband a second a time after sighting him for the first time.

The ones that married handicapped men are also heartless right. Receive sense o

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

Get serious with God man! If you like o. If you dont, follow the advice of people that are telling you to concentrate on making money. Life is spiritual and for something to happen 3 times is not a mere coincidence. I doubt if you told any one of them the cause of your initial break ups. No be only women dey get marital problems. Like i said, hold God tight. But it's a choice anyway.

Godoverevery:
https://www.nairaland.com/6842578/it-wrong-cook-married-brothers#107474802

I went through that thread and I have just one question for everyone who said the guy was wrong.

Why is it always a big deal if is the husband brother/sister that enter the kitchen but no one hear anything if is the wife brother/sister??

For instance in my elder bro case, me and my lil sis don't go to his house anymore for like 5yrs now infact he trying everything possible to get my lil sis to actually speak to him but she just distance herself totally and this exactly what caused it......she went there to see him and met his wife at home ,she was hungry this lady decided not to give her anything.....she went out to get food went into the kitchen to get water this woman rained insult on her for entering her kitchen to take water.

This the same woman her own siblings will spend weeks in this same house and do whatever they like, enter the kitchen anyhow and no one hear anything.

The wife family can cook in her kitchen,do whatever they like but her husband family mustn't near there Just shocking how some guys see nothing wrong in this not knowing they are actually allowing there wife create enemity.

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People do not understand the meaning of love and how to bond with inlaws anymore. Anyone who supports what the wife did simply do not understand what unity is. Someone is hungry and went to prepare for for himself, instead of her to dish food and eat, she is feeling angry. I dont know when women will get into their head that marriage is too complex already for you to be adding inlaw drama. Except if your inlaws are giving you issues, take them as your siblings. People are saying he should ask for permission, as how? Like please o, I want to go and use my money and buy soup ingredients, you go allow me cook? Or you go allow me eat? Isn't it wierd? What is in okro soup that she cannot allow the guy man to eat in peace since he does not want to disturb you or complain. He is an adult an not a slave for you to feel he must submit to you even to cook what he feels like eating.These kind of women can't even allow people who are not their relatives live with them in peace as they feel they should be worshipped since it is their house. If i cant live in my brother's house and feel free to an extent because he married you, i will leave o. God forbid bad market.

Note: My SIL and BIL all have sense and i have learnt enough from them already so dont tell me to wait till i get married.

Themandator:
You are eager for your masturbatory satisfactions from the "victory" of UGM against the wishes of Ndi Anambra and I am telling you that your frustration is just about to receive new life

Not only will inec move around freely but also the willing voters despite your subtle threat

You need help. I pray help finds you soon.

Themandator:
Fool go to twitter and follow #AnambraDecides2021

People are out performing their civic duties against your IPOBIAN infatuation...

Go out to do anyhow and collect from the Able armies of Nigeria

LET Esn stick with herdsmen killings across farmlands and get my support otherwise hell to dem

Baba, you should have just ignored the comments instead of disgracing your ancestors and entire family. Some of you just open mouth waaaaaaa and spew rubbish. What did i say now that warrants you calling me a fool? Just read what you typed. I aint the cause of your unhappiness. If you are suffering from depression, go to a chemist and let them find you something.

Really anyone that goes out to vote is simply a case of OYO.

. Anything is possible

mbaka0433:
i dont trust them at all, anything can happen, they can kill the kidnapped victim and label him/her the kidnapper...... I fear who no de fear our security agents oooo

twosquare:
You meant Intersex is different from being gay.


There is a difference between Intersex and Transgender

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I'm even confused sef. Because the lady's case just came to my mind. Like how does she even cope?

lalasticlala:
SOURCE: https://www.aljazeera.com/features/2021/11/1/i-feel-invisible-the-challenges-of-being-trans-in-nigeria

Reading this article made me remember one guy abi na girl like that. She claimed to be a girl but looking at her you would know she was born a man. She had muscles and hard looking legs. Seeing her on skirt was just funny with the behind so flat and stiff. Then she will now tie scarf on the head and rub lipstick. Even everybody knew the girl don miss road for gender choice. Now i think i understand what that kind of person must be going through. They say you are a girl but your body is telling you that you are a man. Maybe if parents of these kind of children are educated, they could be raised better.

nabiz:
Even the earth regret having you as a mother.

Why do you people talk like this? How do you open your mouth and say such to an aged woman? What is wrong with our generation?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Tell her to go to the uae police if she really want to return back


But to me ooo....I say it the way it is in my heart...because am a real niggarrr


If that your sister nor be virgin and probably get two or three boyfriend way dey bang her steadily for Nigeria before she enter uae...why she come dey complain na.....make she just run things gather up some funds


Baby girl...let me tell you a secret....runs babe are the cleanest....them clean pass our normal girl friends at home

Please shut up and stop showing your foolishness all the time.

Eyinju112:
You know one thing he does, he keeps dragging this girl he cheated with when we had a fight into the relationship, I no longer talk to that other guy, infact I blocked him on every social media platform,

But he is not ready to let go of that girl he cheated with and everytime I complain, he would say he’s the man

Why is it so

And you want to go ahead to marry someone with this mentality? Babe this isn't love o. He will keep cheating on you as a revenge for sth you did that was his fault. One reason why I don't go back to my vomit. Once it's over, it haff over patapata, if you like cry blood.

Please is he wearing a skirt?

See ehn, stay away from starchy food and so a lot of vegetables. Make soup with ugu leaves and just lick only the soup while you are looking out for medications. Food like rice, bread, eba and yam only worsen it. If. You are going to eat any, take it with much of vegetable soup and drink lots of water.

When anything happen now them go commit suicide

I once saw somewhere can't remember when someone talked about how she battled this same issue. One thing I can remember she said is that apart from reduction of food and fluid intake after a certain time, she mentioned setting alarm at 2 hours intervals every night and it helped. With time she will get used to waking up without the alarm.

nijaomegacode:
Men are the donors, women are receptors; they collect and carry spirits.
That is the mistake King Solomon made when he brought those women into Israel. The wives came into the holy city of Israel with the spirits of thier gods. That single act broke Israel.
On why my post pains you so much ,accept my condolences.

I understand dear, like I said get your some love

nijaomegacode:
Forget all this trash. If you like lock them inside a room the will still practice sex on themselves.
The only way to prevent this evil is to breed with a clean (virgin) woman.
The spirit of fornication is transferred from the woman to the child which now radiates around the child therefore making that child vulnerable to evil uncles and brothers.
To all that married non virgin, you have destroyed the lives of your born and unborn children!
A woman who has slept with more than one man should be discarded like a broken glass because she carries many spirits (traits) in her DNA which will definitely manifest in your children.
Those who keep a cheating wife should just commit suicide!
If your wife is not a virgin when you met her then you are a Father of BASTARDS!
God forbid I breed with a Wh0re.

So a woman who isn't a virgin should be discarded and a man who isn't one should be what? The woman carries many spirits in her and a man who has slept with so many prostitutes carries what? Don't you even know the father's blood is stronger and children have to battle more against spirits from the father side. Go and ask men from polygamous homes and let them tell you how they battle to deal with sticking with one woman. You better shut up and learn some morals if you don't have anything to say. How am I sure you are not even a bastard for writing such jagons on this page for people to read and get broken mentally. There is nothing in your life apart from hate. Go and get it right with your family so you can have some peace. Such venom on a cold morning! Mtchew

I'm so loving the comments. To think the op wanted to give advice. Yenyenyenyen

ZAZAp:
I don't eat meat until after the food

We're the same

appointments:
Hello guys,

I'm rounding up NYSC soon and thinking of getting my colleagues some appreciation gifts.

These guys were so good to me from the beginning of my stay till present.

Our office is easily the happiest place in the 8-storey building office.

I share office with 5 colleagues (4 female and 1 male), then our (Female) Manager & Male boss.

They were always there for me.

One time I didn't get NYSC allowance for 2 months, my colleagues were doing donation for me , sometimes they bring food from home for me and nearly gathered to visit NYSC office to know what's up with My allowances

I'm leaving now and would love to get them gifts.

Please help me guys, I be local boy I no Sabi all these tus.h tus.h things. If una leave me na Kuli kuli I go buy them.

On a serious note, I need suggestions for simple but good gift items (around 5k) each.

They could be different items for each gender.

Customize a good t shirt for all of them with your initials on it or a simple thank you written on it.

Buy beautiful Ankara prints for all of them 3 yards go do. Different designs for each person.

Bewiseedet:
Mind your business. Your son is matured enough to chose who to love. Isn't it better you try to know the lady better than just portray her as a prostitute?

Her son's life is her business especially since he is still living in her house. By the way have some respect and dignity and talk to people politely.

Why this sudden bitterness over this? Yes she lied but I'm sure right now she feels stupid for doing that. Then you now saying you have never benefitted anything from her is too shallow abeg. She made a mistake, forgive her and move on. Have you never offended her before? I don't know why she lied anyway but sit her down and talk to her. You married a human being na. Smh

Deltafynest:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year now. We have been committed even with travails here and there sometimes.

I'm a student, she also and she's an orphan. My intention boarded on the idea that she would understand me knowing fully well where i was coming from.

Every week, i began to discover new stuffs mostly on the ground that she has slept with all categories of people in the past including cripple, pastor, someone she's older than, and even her uncle, her former boss too and her boss's brother. Even with all these revelation i was still willing to stay with her. There are secret stuffs that i can't share online about her.


Her ex boyfriend has been a bone in the neck since the start of this relationship. He didn't want to let go so i learnt and the girl has expressed total hatred on the guy. She doesn't even want to hear his name at all.

So she recently travelled and was calling me. One day, she called me that she has something to say, she said she would come to town to tell and because of the intrigue i was able to get her to talk on the phone. She said she has slept with the ex boyfriend since we started the relationship.

Now the main thing is, a pastor once told me that my gf's glory was used for rituals which we suspected the dude being that they dated for over 9 years plus and she was certain it was the guy due to some factors which i can't say.

Things hasn't been easy whenever she is around me mostly when she spends time in my house. Things will just go bad and terrible, doors will just close...

So, when she told me about the guy. She said she did it because she was looking for 20k. I was angry because the period she said she took the money, i remember i had $4500 sent to me and she never asked me for any money.

The matter has been on ground and i have been so pained since cos i know she must have done it with someone else too.

So i travelled to Portharcourt to see her today from Warri even though i was short on cash and had to raise the money to see her. On getting there we trashed the matter out and her sister said i should forget the past so that we can move on. I agreed, i was already getting tired of her shenanigans, so i decided not to be used by this id#ot again. The bit*h even mentioned that the guy has been disturbing her life with calls to come back.

I took the guy's number and called him like a guy man. We have actually related in the past before so we needed no too much introduction. The guy said they are not dating but he is only having time with her and that she would call him to ask for money almost all the time. This girl never told me she was looking for money and i refused. I have always tried my best for her.

After talking, i and the guy agreed to just use her. The guy said i should not take her serious and should just enjoy myself with her. That whenever she go back to town i should call him to take over from that side. So i agreed.

Bit*h will be shocked if she thinks i will take her serious. We will just useless her for years and waste her time. If you see the way we agreed to use her ehn, you will know the hatred is real.


Don't trust these girls.

Wait first sef, who has been used? You or the girl? I think you are the one whose glory has been used bro. Who in his right senses sleeps with a girl whose glory has been used if not a hopeless guy. Better go for deliverance. The ex has used the girl to use your glory. Stay there and be boasting of your glory less life.

So that I will just eat and put tooth pick in my mouth and be telling people, that food I just ate is 43 tousan. Mtchew

Timoleon:
e Dey shock me aswear. The Uber driver and him family now go Dey find how to feed. The car had to be destroyed for God to be praised.

The God that kept the Uber Driver alive will feed him and his family. You don't need to worry your head about that.

AntiChristian:
Bitter truth!

Your time of death has not arrived!

Death is a pill we'll all take and it can be anytime not dependent on age, religion, race, tribe or political party.

If you think you'll live long check the records and see the deaths. Miscarriages, death at birth, infant death, etc.

Saying your God is faithful for saving you makes no sense. That would make Him unfaithful for allowing the death of others!

Our time dey come!

How is that you people come out from nowhere to make this kind of comment on people's faith? She should not have said God is faithful even after she and her friends came out alive? What should she have said then? God is wicked. Whether she died or not, God still remains God. Allow her to call him whatever names she deems fit now that she still has breathe. When she dies Like otherS that you referred to, she won't have that opportunity again. Besides you are not an advocate of God, stop speaking for him. �

A lot of men don't see the need to come close to God, they leave prayers for their wives. Your friend and spiritual guide has told you your MIL is a witch. What has God told you? This is when your relationship with God becomes important. Forget what a lot of people will tell you here, life is spiritual. Running away won't solve it. Get serious with God or keep running around in confusion.

Any right thinking Corper shouldn't go anywhere far from his or her state. Not in this present security crisis across the nation.

Righteousness2:
The LORD hath his way in the whirlwind and in the storm, and the clouds are the dust of his feet.

For he commandeth, and raiseth the stormy wind, which lifteth up the waves thereof.

And there shall be signs in the sun, and in the moon, and in the stars; and upon the earth distress of nations, with perplexity; the sea and the waves roaring;

Men's hearts failing them for fear, and for looking after those things which are coming on the earth: for the powers of heaven shall be shaken.

Ladies and Gentlemen, Our World hanges on the Precipice of Eternity.
The Signs of the times are too clear and loud to be denied.
These are no longer the Last days but the Final Minutes.
REPENT! Get right with GOD by Surrendering to JESUS Christ. That is the Only way to be Saved.

God bless you for not keeping quiet. You are like John the Baptist of Nairaland. �