₦airaland Forum

ivandragon:
You lack manners. If my opinion does not jibe with yours, you can make your point without being rude...

but then again, what does one expect from this noodles & yahoo generation.

nero2face:
this kind of person won't be far from ritualism... He's heart is dark already

ivandragon:
Hmm...

Putting an end to this would require the combined efforts of everyone in the society... especially parents...

But the most important set of people who can really contribute to ending it are the ladies...

The moment majority of ladies turn down advances from these guys & chose guys with verifiable means of livelihood, the attraction to get quick wealth by young boys will drop by 90%.

The primary reason guys do this yahoo thing is to impress ladies, so if ladies stop being impressed by such sources of wealth, it will gradually lose its attraction...

Women are powerful shapers of human nature & society, it is one of their greatest strengths when applied correctly.

ViperAda:
Dear Noble Igwe, we appreciate your concern towards Yahoo induced ritualism not only in the SW but entire southern region. However, we rarely see you express as much worry at the menance of blood rituals pervasive in the south east as the population of mothers and daughters are getting lesser while the men are getting richer. Mothers suddenly vanishing while daughters are being pounded on the alter of riches.
I employ you to first remove the spec in your eyes as they say, charity begins from home.


-Viper

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed afnd traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

Icandream:
Only few Nigerian gospel musicians are genuinely born again. 99% just do it for money, fame and sex

Stereotypes:
The way people gloss over rape on NL is shocking.So many sick men or boys here.

The Op said he slapped his wife till blood was pouring from her face.Does that sound like one slap to you? Is his hand  made of iron? This man probably punched her face till she bled.

His wife must've been screaming and struggling with him,but what did he do?

He had an erec tion which he proceeded to put into a terrified woman who's vag ina was dry.

What happens when a vagina is dry? It gets bruises and tears,Op continued to fu ck till he ejac ulated.
Who gets turned on till ejaculation with a partner who is bleeding,struggling and dry down there? Does this sound normal to you sickos?

Next day,his wife must've had a bruised face ,traumatised psyche and a battered bleeding  vag ina,and Op expects her to be fine  just because he said sorry.

Then you sick fu cks expect her to have recovered instantly and accepted it as punishment for not having secks for 2 months.

No one is taking into account the sort of trauma he has caused her.This will be with her forever.The woman is so traumatised that she hasn't said a word to him since that day and you people are here talking rubbish.

So, if he asks her something and she says no,what next? Beat out another blood and shove it in again? You people have no concept of trauma ,the effect of seeing someone that loves you become a monster ,beat out blood and then proceed to be aroused from it Disgusting!

There are a lot of ways to deal with lack of sex for 2 months.Forceful intercourse garnished with iron fisted slaps is not the way.

Imagine saying her parents are not welcoming you? No atom of self awareness in your bones.
They have said she needs time,leave her alone and let her have that time.Its not in your place to dictate how she should deal with what has happened.

A lot of you have daughters or will have daughters abi? No problem.

KillIgbohoN0W:
So dis old Afonja man just dey celebrate 1 year for pikinhood.

A disgrace!!

Laurene:
Dress sexy, workout and mind what you eat.

VEXT:
Go online and ask what attract men to prostitutes,then act like one to your man..Be his prostitute..


You also have what those prostitutes have...

mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

mibrims:
Man proposes and God disposes
What if you die before completing your estate?
What then happens to the uncompleted building? Ok what if marry @40 and experience a delay in child bearing?
You can still building heavens while In marriage bro, the essence of life is propagation of your species and survival..

BRATISLAVA:
Finally, someone is reasoning.

Most men just want to bed a beautiful lady, but they are scared that she's too beautiful to be faithful. You often see how some men discuss wanting moderate to ugly women, so that they won't stray to other men because they won't be attractive.

The assumption that beauty means trouble. I don't even know how Nigerian men concluded on this one.

Then there's the assumption that she's already taken, yet she may not be.

Then there's the belief that she's not intelligent and will be snobbish. By the time men have pestered a beautiful woman for relationships, she must be tired and would've created walls. Some are just introverts who want their peace.

There beautiful women married to poor men. The man is the determinant. Most men don't have good characters but expect so much from women. Beautiful or not, women also want peace of mind.

adebayour26:
My Mum was in my brother's place and brother's wife served food to grandma (my Mum) first, then she served my niece. Grandma jokingly said "let me eat from your food".
This girl just replied grandma that "the food infront of you, do you want to pour it away?"

felixzo1:
passing out comdemination on people is not very smart. leave judgement to God, only he truely knows the heart Man. only God know who will go to hell. in the Old Testament people married many wives. David the man after God 's heart had many wives(and concubines) in today world you will describe him as a Randy man. Same God of yesterday is God of today and tomorrow. leave judgement matter for God to decide. carry your cross and worry less about who goes to hell. I do not in any way support his actions but it's not in my place to say he is going to hell

NwaAmaikpe:





This is the way to go.
Impound them and crush it up.
Same way, EFCC should make all those Yahoo boys withdraw their monies and have it shredded in public for all to see.

What's a better way to deter people from crime other than destroying something that could benefit the government so the public will know that they'd rather take loans to buy the same thing they destroyed than convert the confsicated ones because useless laws were broken.

But I strongly believe that this should serve as a lesson for those who would rather learn from the lessons of the ones who refused to learn from the lessons of other people's lesson.

Keep your things of value well, or it will be misused by the person who values it not.

If you sexually, emotionally, financially or physically ignore your woman to concentrate on work, the heavenly race or making more money; one hooligan who fears neither god nor man will impound her like this.

The last photo reminds me of how I was crushing and demolishing Pastor Kunle's wife's kpekus every single time he stayed back for prayer meetings or went on retreats.

Flier:
I think the poster is still classless no matter how he tries to paint it
I wouldn’t beg for help even if I have a walk 20km back home let alone 10km and I wonder how it’s possible not to have anyone to send you 500 naira to pick at nearest POS

emmeyen:
You are free to leave her o, you hear? You saw a girl from a bad background, you did not leave her to roam aimlessly on the street so that history will not repeat itself. You then make sure you slept with her and did not remember history until you got her pregnant. Then you remembered her history and made her abort the baby. Now you want to leave her and you say conscience is blaming you? Did you expect the conscience to fan you before and be telling you well done my dear? If you cannot help a girl that you know her family and background is bad already, stay away from her and don't make it worse. Why are you men like this? Even if the girl wan even good before you have introduced her to abortion, you have added to making that girl's life worse and you are talking about history? Go and sit down mbok. Mtchew

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be