Stereotypes:
The way people gloss over rape on NL is shocking.So many sick men or boys here.

The Op said he slapped his wife till blood was pouring from her face.Does that sound like one slap to you? Is his hand  made of iron? This man probably punched her face till she bled.

His wife must've been screaming and struggling with him,but what did he do?

He had an erec tion which he proceeded to put into a terrified woman who's vag ina was dry.

What happens when a vagina is dry? It gets bruises and tears,Op continued to fu ck till he ejac ulated.
Who gets turned on till ejaculation with a partner who is bleeding,struggling and dry down there? Does this sound normal to you sickos?

Next day,his wife must've had a bruised face ,traumatised psyche and a battered bleeding  vag ina,and Op expects her to be fine  just because he said sorry.

Then you sick fu cks expect her to have recovered instantly and accepted it as punishment for not having secks for 2 months.

No one is taking into account the sort of trauma he has caused her.This will be with her forever.The woman is so traumatised that she hasn't said a word to him since that day and you people are here talking rubbish.

So, if he asks her something and she says no,what next? Beat out another blood and shove it in again? You people have no concept of trauma ,the effect of seeing someone that loves you become a monster ,beat out blood and then proceed to be aroused from it Disgusting!

There are a lot of ways to deal with lack of sex for 2 months.Forceful intercourse garnished with iron fisted slaps is not the way.

Imagine saying her parents are not welcoming you? No atom of self awareness in your bones.
They have said she needs time,leave her alone and let her have that time.Its not in your place to dictate how she should deal with what has happened.

A lot of you have daughters or will have daughters abi? No problem.

KillIgbohoN0W:
So dis old Afonja man just dey celebrate 1 year for pikinhood.

A disgrace!!

Laurene:
Dress sexy, workout and mind what you eat.

VEXT:
Go online and ask what attract men to prostitutes,then act like one to your man..Be his prostitute..


You also have what those prostitutes have...

mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

mibrims:

Man proposes and God disposes
What if you die before completing your estate?
What then happens to the uncompleted building? Ok what if marry @40 and experience a delay in child bearing?
You can still building heavens while In marriage bro, the essence of life is propagation of your species and survival..

BRATISLAVA:


Finally, someone is reasoning.

Most men just want to bed a beautiful lady, but they are scared that she's too beautiful to be faithful. You often see how some men discuss wanting moderate to ugly women, so that they won't stray to other men because they won't be attractive.

The assumption that beauty means trouble. I don't even know how Nigerian men concluded on this one.

Then there's the assumption that she's already taken, yet she may not be.

Then there's the belief that she's not intelligent and will be snobbish. By the time men have pestered a beautiful woman for relationships, she must be tired and would've created walls. Some are just introverts who want their peace.

There beautiful women married to poor men. The man is the determinant. Most men don't have good characters but expect so much from women. Beautiful or not, women also want peace of mind.

adebayour26:
My Mum was in my brother's place and brother's wife served food to grandma (my Mum) first, then she served my niece. Grandma jokingly said "let me eat from your food".
This girl just replied grandma that "the food infront of you, do you want to pour it away?"

felixzo1:
passing out comdemination on people is not very smart. leave judgement to God, only he truely knows the heart Man. only God know who will go to hell. in the Old Testament people married many wives. David the man after God 's heart had many wives(and concubines) in today world you will describe him as a Randy man. Same God of yesterday is God of today and tomorrow. leave judgement matter for God to decide. carry your cross and worry less about who goes to hell. I do not in any way support his actions but it's not in my place to say he is going to hell

NwaAmaikpe:





This is the way to go.
Impound them and crush it up.
Same way, EFCC should make all those Yahoo boys withdraw their monies and have it shredded in public for all to see.

What's a better way to deter people from crime other than destroying something that could benefit the government so the public will know that they'd rather take loans to buy the same thing they destroyed than convert the confsicated ones because useless laws were broken.

But I strongly believe that this should serve as a lesson for those who would rather learn from the lessons of the ones who refused to learn from the lessons of other people's lesson.

Keep your things of value well, or it will be misused by the person who values it not.

If you sexually, emotionally, financially or physically ignore your woman to concentrate on work, the heavenly race or making more money; one hooligan who fears neither god nor man will impound her like this.

The last photo reminds me of how I was crushing and demolishing Pastor Kunle's wife's kpekus every single time he stayed back for prayer meetings or went on retreats.

Flier:
I think the poster is still classless no matter how he tries to paint it
I wouldn’t beg for help even if I have a walk 20km back home let alone 10km and I wonder how it’s possible not to have anyone to send you 500 naira to pick at nearest POS

emmeyen:
You are free to leave her o, you hear? You saw a girl from a bad background, you did not leave her to roam aimlessly on the street so that history will not repeat itself. You then make sure you slept with her and did not remember history until you got her pregnant. Then you remembered her history and made her abort the baby. Now you want to leave her and you say conscience is blaming you? Did you expect the conscience to fan you before and be telling you well done my dear? If you cannot help a girl that you know her family and background is bad already, stay away from her and don't make it worse. Why are you men like this? Even if the girl wan even good before you have introduced her to abortion, you have added to making that girl's life worse and you are talking about history? Go and sit down mbok. Mtchew

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

ChangedMan1999:




You didn't get the irony.

The irony is women are wicked and heartless creatures.

Had it been that the husband is the one down with the physical challenge and the wife is sound physically, the wife wouldn't have looked at the husband a second a time after sighting him for the first time.

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

Godoverevery:
https://www.nairaland.com/6842578/it-wrong-cook-married-brothers#107474802

I went through that thread and I have just one question for everyone who said the guy was wrong.

Why is it always a big deal if is the husband brother/sister that enter the kitchen but no one hear anything if is the wife brother/sister??

For instance in my elder bro case, me and my lil sis don't go to his house anymore for like 5yrs now infact he trying everything possible to get my lil sis to actually speak to him but she just distance herself totally and this exactly what caused it......she went there to see him and met his wife at home ,she was hungry this lady decided not to give her anything.....she went out to get food went into the kitchen to get water this woman rained insult on her for entering her kitchen to take water.

This the same woman her own siblings will spend weeks in this same house and do whatever they like, enter the kitchen anyhow and no one hear anything.

The wife family can cook in her kitchen,do whatever they like but her husband family mustn't near there Just shocking how some guys see nothing wrong in this not knowing they are actually allowing there wife create enemity.

Mods....front page

Themandator:



You are eager for your masturbatory satisfactions from the "victory" of UGM against the wishes of Ndi Anambra and I am telling you that your frustration is just about to receive new life

Not only will inec move around freely but also the willing voters despite your subtle threat

Themandator:



Fool go to twitter and follow #AnambraDecides2021

People are out performing their civic duties against your IPOBIAN infatuation...

Go out to do anyhow and collect from the Able armies of Nigeria

LET Esn stick with herdsmen killings across farmlands and get my support otherwise hell to dem

mbaka0433:


i dont trust them at all, anything can happen, they can kill the kidnapped victim and label him/her the kidnapper...... I fear who no de fear our security agents oooo

twosquare:
You meant Intersex is different from being gay.


There is a difference between Intersex and Transgender