ImoleNaija:


You're not far from truth. The lady might have been pretending all along. Some girls pretend as though they don't like sex until they feel safe & free with their guys.

You just nailed it.

eneye1:
Probably she was pretending. Most ladies will tell you that they are not sex kind of a person. After been close to them as close pals, many if them have told me they love sex very well.
I now wonder why they told me they don't line sex initially.

You be real OG...many Nigerian girls are pro not only on sex issues even when it comes to taking alcohol or smoking.

jimmychang:


Seriously...you have experienced it.I know from experience some will still pretend to be innocent or have the same low libido just to prevent you from having such suspicions.

Now you got the logic....she as been a pro before you guys met, she is just pretended just to appear like a good african girl...that doesn't mean she is cheating on you though.she is probably more comfortable with you now.

Zeal0000007:
Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing.
I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.

This was her before you met, she probably hid this part of her for you. Most Nigerian women her like this due to fear of being judged or probably being hypocritical.

Dailyparrot:


Where they currently live, they don't pay rent. The house is built by my brother's friend.

As for those asking if my brother begged her to marry him, in fact, she's never my brother's type.

She took in for my brother and the marriage was forced. But you know, once children are involved, a woman will always use them as bargaining chip for everything.

Lol...how can you force marriage. Is there any law that states you must marry your babby mama? I dislike people won't can stand their ground. Now the innocent children are suffering because of your brother's mumurity.

Proudlyngwa:
I stand with China and Russia.
The days of that Agbaya called US is gradually coming to an end.

Quote me and get educated.

Don't believe that US figures you see up there... They have many secret dangerous weapons, machinery... They will outrun both countries when proper walls start. And they have many puppets who would support in different ways.

YungMillionaire:
Change 'MOST' to 'ALL' and you will be closer to the truth. The white god of Nigerian Christians and the Arab god of Nigerian muslims do not have power to perform miracles.

Just imagine, Pastors has become the commanders and God the doer. They'll just fix cameras and televsions and then command God to come and perform. Thank God I don't attend all those dramatic schedules

Christ never centered his message on miracles rather on salvation ( delivery from the power of Satan, Sin, and Death). The greatest miracle that could happen is when a sinner turns his/her life over to Christ. That something supernatural happened does not portray the certainty that the finger of God is in it. The Metaphysical or supernatural realm is the realm of spirits, these spirits could be either Spirit of God or demonic spirits. The miracles produced depends on which of the "spirits" the miracle worker is paying allegiance to. Even magical powers can produce miracles. The bottom line is that miracles are not the end in itself but a means to an end.

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aribisala0:
Should a man marry a lady living with her father?

I tired o...ladies that cannot feed themselves will be making choices upanddown

WowSweetGuy:
Next in line...If u don't gerrit, forget abourit

Lol...you no get joy at all.

How can they be divided when only one of them had come out to state his intentions to run.

Don't go for a lesser course...one of our major problem is going out school just for the sake of it . There are a lot of things that can keep you busy till your visa is sorted or till you try jamb again.

Ogalanyaidi:
First I want peace in my home and I've been enjoying relative peace in my home.

I've been married for less than a year. I called my wife to discuss how we could keep the house clean and I went on to tell her that she puts things where they shouldn't be. She got upset and called her mum, she was crying while speaking with her mum over the phone.

Her mom called and we both made peace I discovered that she was recording our argument but I chose not to confront her there and then.

A day later, I asked why she was recording me and she lied but I gave her facts and she agreed. She said if I've nothing to fear why am I being upset about it. She said I should record her too cus she observed that when we speak to her mum after an incident I don't say the whole truth.

We both live overseas and she is the only person I've here.

I want peace in my home and I don't like trouble

She wants to do a Greenwood on you. I pity you in advance

YinkaOlusesi:
Some women mumu no be small

Na thd guy mumu. They will leave important issues and be chasing shadows. What as waist beads got to do will a girls personality. It's like calling someone a criminal because they have tattoos on.

DropsMic:
All these people and their useless stats

Don't doubt this. Most Nigeria girls travels abroad just to hawk. I was surprised when I met some girls online that traveled to Ivory coast just to hawk. Ivory Coast of all countries. One of my exes traveled to Italy through Libya telling me she is into hair dressing but deep down I know what she does.

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

Don't be surprise that they are a lot of ladies like her outside there....Our Parents no try at all, imagine the kind of girl child this one will bring up.

OlawaleBammie:


God bless u bro for that bella sshmurda lines, i hate that line like wetin.

In my mind i was like...what was the mother doing in her prime that she could not make money, obviously she was hoeing around(sorry to say)

I hate ut wen parent say those ritual indicting words.

E easy na hin those parent no build Mansion in their prime??

When I told people that parents are the main cause , people are too quick to blame government for everything. Even the bad leaders we have are a result of poor parenting . The O.P deserves a round of applause.

OlawaleBammie:
All i know is dat money is unisex, she should make her own money if its easy. Mumu gal, alaigbon bf

The guy be mumu and alaigbon together. After all the red flags, A grown up adult will still be seeking advice! The O.P na simp 2.0

Is the security votes meant for him in the first place?

ppogba:


You are right. But most like him are hiding under the guise of " born againism". You find there is everywhere.

Those who believe he his born again in the first place need help. The born again we have in Nigeria is hypocrisy or ignorance. You can be an atheist and be a good person at the same time. I will rather make friends with atheist than the self proclaimed Born Again.

Danjikanbauchi:
Have you tried getting him a descent job and he refused to work ?

If you are the one broke and he is taking care of you do you think he will complain, won't he help you find a job.

Useless ladies

10 bottles of Budweiser for you...at least the guy is not having sex for money like the lady.

Juliusmomoh2:
Jesus !!!!!

just tell me what I read is just a joke.

you are a mad man.. (sorry to say)

Nigeria girls, please and please use your head.



most times what I read online makes me go dizzy. aswer
I personally think to live long in this country you have to avoid reading news.


young man,, tell me what's the difference between you and Boko Haram.

Both of them are mad.

ppogba:
It is only a fool that will believe that Sammy Okposo is anything near being born again.

It is one thing to be gifted musically while it is another to be spiritually filled.

If you can believe in Okposo, you can as well risk your wife being with Atorise.

I am not judging as instructed by the bible ooo.

His there any born again anywhere? If you are good, u are good, if you are bad , you are bad . it has nothing to do with faith.

The God fearing men you all pray for. Many of your G.Os and pastors are worse. I like his courage to apologize.

Romanoff:
It is suspicious but without proof, any smart woman can lie her way out of this.

Look for concrete proof before you confront her.

But why una dey always say "future wife, the woman I'm about to marry, we are about to do introduction, I'm about to propose" when una dey create posts like this?

The guy doesn't need any proof, this is enough proof. Even if you catch them together on a bed, she would still lie her way out. Back down now or be ready for a DNA test.

The father should be arrested first then human rights activist should take over the case.... See him talking like person without sense, you accepted 200 thousand for a case that is this glaring.

Very true...they should stay to censor these movies.

LordIsaac:
"... anytime she leaves home...she usually doesn't exceed one day..." To where?

To work na....They even claim to be a believer. Our parents have failed us, we must not fail the next generation.

2braithe:


Hiring a cook at this stage is equivalent to the guy hiring a side chick.

Why would you hire someone to do your duty when you are hale and healthy?And you won't be ashamed?

See mentality...those that hire drivers when they can drive are lazy? Its people like you that will say washing machines is for the lazy ones, that a good wife must always wash with there hands.

aanuoluwami14:
this one is new here on romance section, take time to read marriage Chronicles about men that married slay mamas, they are regretting it. You should think twice. A lady should know how to balance home duties with her career. All shouldn't be done by house maids only, she must be able to do some of them.

Slay mamas at not faithful, they are neither submissive nor supportive...they are the opposite some even cooks

LotaTee:
She leaves for work by 7.30am and you still want her to cook for you and do house chores?Are you a slave master?You want to kill somebody's child because she agreed to date you?Abeg abeg, if you can't cook for yourself then hire a help.This shouldn't even be a problem talk more of bringing it to nairaland.

You dey mind the op ni....you see someone who is supportive in a society full with women that at parasites, you see a faithful woman in a society full of runs babes and girls. you are now looking for a cook that can easily be hired.

Emperor88:
Before you got a fiancee, who cooks for you? Go and marry an house help or a cook if thats your priority over being faithful and honest.

Let me help you a little as a brother. with what you just said she is the perfect woman for you. Marry women can cook, even prostitutes but finding a faithful woman is a luxury, many women can do house chores but finding one that is submissive and supportive(financially) is a luxury in our society today.

The only part you should be careful about is the 4 hours prayer. Make sure she is not "the pastor said" type. Aside that everyother thing can be learnt and if she agrees to share the bills with you on house help/cook then be it, it is called division of labor. The develop world are creating different technologies to make work easy for humans that doesn't mean they are lazy. We have machine that does laundry, dishes, sweeps etc. If you can afford an house help go for it and save your energy for something else