₦airaland Forum

Sammy101111:
Have deleted my post if you like listen and if you like dont listen .
Addiction is different from prostitution

People that even go to ara or yaba left are they not human being .

Addiction can be changed
Prostitution is a decision from the mind and body

Very true...he has slowed down on smoking, he can with trams also with the right approach.

If only Nigeria can work like Lagos state we won't worry about a muslim/muslim or a Christian/Christian political office sloth. Or even an Hausa/Hausa or Igbo/Igbo combo.

sart:
Why did he not run as Vice and let an Igbo man run as President if he truly believes in the region

Two bottles of Heineken for you...you are one of the few with sense here....The only reason he didn't pick Tinubu is because of the way Nigeria is structured. Tribe and religion has done us no good. Of Atiku or Buhari were Christians they would not think twice before picking Tinubu as running mates.

Kobojunkiee:
The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so there is technically nothing wrong with what she did.

Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter. So the in-laws should probably work on accepting their loss and moving on from this.

Ori e ti daru....the wife should be sentenced to death by electrocution alongside you.

What else can you offer other than sex...exhibit this trait first, make friends with them then you will know what they want in you.

Don't fall for that pressure...make sure you observe all red flags including are family, get a job and also make sure she is employed also. Talk to your partner about your financial status then hear what she has to say. After all this the you can talk about marriage.

thesicilian:
Normal scope. A typical businessman will tell you that there are many people waiting to pay for the product you're pricing and it's first come first serve. That shouldn't stop you from looking well before you leap.

I like your comment�...you get the scope.dem wan rush the guy.

AJSfan:
Good development. If they have to do business here they have to be duly registered. It is because they are operating illegally that they use unconventional methods for debt retrieval. They have to be regulated

So Id*ots are even criticizing the federal government....how do you operate illegally in another mans country. Especially when it has to do with finances.

vivalavida:
My own is that you used your hard earned money to open a business for a woman u have not married. Can never be me. Don't you people learn from the mistake of other people? If I haven't paid for ur dowry, u are not receiving major finance from me. If e vex u, go knack ur head for wall.

90% of Nigerians are senseless...O.P is in the top ten. You Opened shop for someone u are not married to. You prayed about it and your imaginary god showed you that she was charmed but your imaginary god did not give you sense.

MARKone:
The level of backwardness in this country is alarming.

Walahi....who ever brought me to this country is a wicked being.

Comradewhy:
Amazon of course or any online store.
If you could walk into a shopping plaza fine,will be cool.

He should just do a Wayne Rooney on his hair...#shikena

Na people like you the previous post the talk to....you go see red flags then turn blind eye in the name of marriage.....your wife didn't change, you are the one who refuse to see.

That's the reason I don't pity them when they come to seek for advice.

Chipink:
Truth be told average yoruba gal like all these dirty street bleaching yoruba yahoo boys..They have messed up their brain.
To the extent that a yoruba gal can turn down proposal from well established engineer just to elope with dirty street yahoo yoruba boy..
I Hav witnessed that not once not twice.
And that makes me always question their upbringing.

You just nailed it...I'm a Yoruba boy though

chatinent:
They are using the
Russian war to punish innocent Russians...and guess what? None of these sanctions has affected Putin personally in any way.

It's all on Russia...mostly the poor Russians! Putin and co are rich...don't you sanctioners get that!

So Roman is a poor Russian?

englishmart:
Assuming after tearing the pack and they found nothing, would they compensate for the damage?

There is a machine that detects hard drugs even without opening it...

DEMAGE:
It's a normal my brother. also if as a man and your mom is late and her bride price was not pay by your father. you will have to pay your late mom bride price. As for your girlfriend, she might be right

What is normal there? Just as killing of twins was once normal?

McEphiks:
It is like that where I come from as well. Its nothing like double bride price... its just little things most times less than 10 percent of what you'd spend paying your wife to be bride's price

A daughter can't be married when the mom is not according to out tradition.

Modified: the bride price can be paid by anybody in the family either her brothers or her son if she have a grown son.

So If the wife marry without the mother being married what will happen?

dauntless15:
Is it that people like you don't read or your fat head is just full of meat, he clearly stated that he doesn't believe she's the cause that he's just stating it because it's significant, I just tire for Nigerians.

You can't read between the lines...don't blame you.

tctrills:
Take responsibility of your life and affairs and stop blaming the poor girl.
If you are tired of the relationship break up and let her be

God bless you...

CaveAdullam:
1. You still got those religious fears because of the religious society you live especially if you're an African/Nigerian. This is a mere case of coincidence + your imagination at work + superstitious stories flying around.

2. If you're now experiencing lags where you achieved success before, go back to the drawing board, decipher where errors are coming from and strategize properly. You're overwhelmed with her and the sexual pleasures, hence, you seem not to put things orderly.

3. To end the relationship:

a. Feign an internal sickness, tell her you want her to go and live the best life and wouldn't want her to suffer as a result of it.

b. Or, feign job loss or loss of any other worthy possession. Tell her you won't have peace and she should give you space until you regain your loss.

c. Or, act poor, weak and broke!

d. Or, relocate to another residence.

Thanks.

You are very intelligent..you deserve a better environment than this backward country...The op claims he is not religious,yet he is superstitious!... People will blame their misfortune on sex and I wonder why people like Snoop dogg, Lil wayne,, Dangote, Donald Trump, Tu face, Wizkid, Davido are not experiencing financial problems.

Let me outline a few points around noticed.
1. She might be fetish because a lot of Nigerians are.
2.You are not religious but you are superstitious..doesn't makes sense.
3.You problem is psychological rather than being spiritual.
4.The lady used reverse psychology tactics on you, you are not really smart believing an average Nigerian girl is an Angel.

Rahkman:
Mercedes benz gle coupe 2022 customised version with panoramic roof

� you well so?

Toktee:
How old are you.?

Under 23 I guess. You never see the one way go introduce you to his sugar daddy in form of Uncle.

Pasima:
I told my girlfriend to post my pics on her Whatsapp profile and she refused to do so, but I post hers telling the world how proud I am to have her.

I was very angry I want to end the Relationship. You see all this Catholics girls na now I fear them wella. Full of games and cheating.

Oga na by force?...your girlfriend not your wife.....misplaced priority

Aufbauh:
Sorry to say this, it seems you're not really matured for marriage.

Seeing this deficiency in your partner Just one year into your marriage and you're already fed up with the marriage. Haba!
If he was your blood brother would you have given up on him so quickly?

He might be doing this with the intention of hitting it big for the family even though you perceived it differently.
Sit down with him & advice him tactically or make an alternative investment suggestion to him that will take his attention off the online gambling.

God bless you...The same women that marry Yahoo boys, armed robbers, hoodlums, ritualist because they make money from it are complaining of gambling.

pmc01:
No one is holding you. Leave him and goan marry Putin

Because of gambling they are advising her to leave but they will get stucked to a cheat and abusive spouse as long as he wealthy.

aikyg:
How you didn't notice this while you were dating is a big question. Divorcing him may not be an easy decision, since you have a baby coming. Since he doesn't physical abuse you, I'll suggest you both go for counseling

They just get married for the sake of it only to complain later...They should bother seek for counseling like you said and pls O.p should not stop showing love and support. I hope he will change for good and if he doesn't and not willing to you can go ahead for divorce...your happiness is paramount.

Kobojunkie:
I see the wiggling is strong with you. I will leave you with it then..

Thanks ....I'm bored already

valdes00:
Folake for the night


You go soon gt sense, give it time

You think this one go get sense so?

Kobojunkie:
Even while plotting divorce, mama bomboy still has to fend to her family and so still needs to resort to offering her husband sex for money. So again, the question remains....

What is wrong when mama Bomboy taking to asking her husband for money when he demands sex from her?

What can be construed as satanic about that?

Who told Mama bomboy not to be self_dependent. When are we going to start raising female children like Alakija, Ophrah, Michele.O, Angelina Jolie,... If the man can fend for himself and his family what is stopping the woman too. I condemn both laziness and cheating. If women are financially independent they will be able to make right decision.

SultanOfPuna:
The same oldies that made Nigeria extremely poor and corrupt.
The same oldies that are allowing neoptism and tribalism destroy our future.
The old generations put Nigeria into the Huge mess we are facing today.
All sectors of this Country are still run by the old generations.
So that shows you how messed up and ignorant the old generation was. Their actions are affecting youths till this day.

You dey mind the mumu ni...even their God country (Isreal) have legalize homosexual, UAE is gradually abandoning religion for science...China as more Atheist than religious people(xtrian stands at less than 2%) yet we with all the religion are suffering.