Zonefree:
There's nothing a wife can do that a girlfriend or babymama cannot do.

God bless you...two bottles of Russia Vodka for you

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Your reasons shows you are an hypocrite..The good news is that 90% of Nigrrians are so you are not alone. You don't want to offend your imaginary god not that you have self-dignity.

MadamVanessa:




Let me be very candid, I never believed that Ukraine can be this powerful at Initial stage of the war. Even though I supported them, I was still doubting their ability to withstand Russia because I believe all the Russia hyped I read online that Russia have this , Russia have that, they're this and they're that, little did I know that all that was just a mere lies and propaganda done by Putin's puppet.


Russia is nothing believe me.

Putin is overrated, this war has really exposed who Putin really is.

over 10millon Ukrainians have flee the country....The level of destruction is like volcanic eruption+ tsunami+ land slide combined but you are still thinking Ukraine are winning...continue till Ukraine becomes a dessert.

Rastaramsey:
Imagine
Pastor acting on suspicion
Shebi he suppose get spirit wey go tell am

The only spirit that communicates with them is alcohol...They will tell you only god can protect but their god could not protect his house....They could not report to their god rather report to police. I smh for my people.

So their god could not prevent the church from being robbed?! They could not report to thier god to punish the robbers but they have to use man made means to arrest the suspect. Smh

Some werey will blame men for this....where are the activist?

Videour:
Actually she's a good girl in all aspects. We have been dating for 3year now, she's all I want in a woman, her smile gives me joy every time with dimples.

I am 35 years she should be going to 25 this year. A career lady that has this hustle spirit in her but my problem is that she's obsessed with sex.

Imagine a man at my age having 2 to three times a week, which I know if I don't put in work she's definitely going to get it else where.

Psychologically, it's affecting me.
Please what is the best way to handle this?
My Nairaland family.

2 to 3 times a week pere? Me that I dated a 20 year old back then..we use to have sex like 2 to 3 times a day for a whole month non stop.

lebete3000:


Abeg which area una dey see these 14year old girls fvck? Shey na money or motor dem dey take fvck dem or na beard gang?
I just dehy die of sexual starvation for here meen...

I don't support child abuse bro...I'm just saying...you will see this girls everywhere on the mainland except those ones with wealthy parents who lives in top estates like Magodo, attends private schools with private drivers.

lebete3000:


Chai, sex wey me dey find like gold all over mainland. I must be the most unattractive guy in earth. No girl wants to do me...

Bro na lie....where on the mainland you dey?

Nice one OP.....after all I did for you when you had nothing....O girl you dey follow me go work ni?

Rubyjade:
it's not normal o! Some STI does not have a cure.

I mean the common treatable ones...some girls will even die of HIV but ignorant people will say they were used by Yahoo boys.

Rubyjade:
Why not connect with him again, I just want to check something, he must have treated STI

STI na normal thing for street.....I lost the guys contact a longtime ago.

Datboredberri:


Some men thinking money impresses women... Smh

No one cares...

Use a taxi...

If you're good, you have nothing to fear... The police would let you be...

Money does especially Nigerian women including you....Take the bitter truth.

Rubyjade:
Grandmaster! Is the guy still alive?

Don't know though...It's been a long time now.

Ladies closing their legs will solve 95% of everyone's problem.

Rubyjade:
You have vast experience

When I was 17/18 I was already bedding on average 3 different ladies/girls per week for a whole year. I was financially okay and handsome so it was easier for me. Though I can't do it without protection .And there was this older colleague of mine who does same but said he never used protection in his whole life...I was shocked.

Rubyjade:
Do you work in a lab?

I live all my life on the mainland...sex is as cheap as biscuit, reckless as a drunk driver. And the mainland is far more populated than the Island with majority of the population below 35 and jobless. They will even be telling you I hate condom

KIDfurniture:
Herbs 100%

village they go for test?

Rubyjade:
Do you work in a lab?

I live all my life on the mainland...sex is as cheap as biscuit, reckless as a drunk driver. And the mainland is far more populated than the Island with majority of the population below 35 and jobless. They will even be telling you I hate condom

VladimirPutiin:
I have been hearing this, but don’t know how through. But again there are too many Hoes and loosed men on the island.

And the mainland is what? Mainland where a 14yrs old girl already lose her body count....Just because people in the Island have money nd awareness to run a test? Do a random tests on the mainland and you will faint with the outcome.

DM....I have an uncle whom is a custom boss here in Lagos...he was transfered from Kaduna. If your story is genuine you will get your goods back.

Olayetan:
They will do it but they won't let you see when they are turning, the turning process will be hidden while you will see only the result.

Why should it be hidden?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

No problem being bisexual? What if it was a male?

manee2:
Bomb �

This are the type of People Russian are looking for.

cigaricon:
Lol. Normal life

Abi na....Nigerians are worse they just won't say it out.

MrBroke:
Pick up the money and go my way, those things don't work on me

It works on no one... Except the superstitious one,, it has a psychology impact rather than spiritual impact on them

All this na scam...just park it if it is original, nothing bad will happen to you.

Revolution2022:
This African inferiority mentality should stop.

Both the Nigerians and Ghanaians are not serious... The most useless and needless rivalry I have ever seen.

9ja guys never jam this one.

When we see something good from this god forsaken we should applaud. Nice one

Daroldigits:
My wife used this statement for me but she didnt means it.

She meant it you just didn't see it..she will probably give you one naira and collect a thousand naira or borrow money to collect 10 times in return. It's business to her.

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

This and beign promiscuous are two of my biggest red flags. I will run as far as I can. Non negotiable even if she is Nicki Minaj.

Oscillator:
how foolish that you're seeking help desperately for someone else when it is you who need help!

Any girl/woman addicted to drug users let alone one who is addicted to drugs needs help more than the druggie himself.

Are you a magnet for social despot and reprobates?

What's the filth in you that keeps finding these kind of dude?

And what's taboo you enjoy that keeps making you deceive yourself you can change him?

Lol. I don't know why I found this funny...I like this your logic and I just learnt something new. They both need help though.