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Dirty linens... We seem to be seeing a lot of those lately.

placeofallure:
Who raised you? Obviously he or she did a bad job. This is the immaturity we're talking about. Many men like you here who have quoted me seemed to disagree when I said many of you are immature. Why bring somebody's father into this? Se o lagba ni le ni? Won o ko e abi wo lo gba eko? I send people like you errands to open my car door or carry my bag. Don't disrespect me, much more my dad cause he's a responsible man not like the ones that you grew up under. Alaileko amunibuni!

You know why I don't blame strays like yourself much? 'cause you're obviously following in the steps of your mother, having severely emasculated your father. Inebriate like you would only get married out of pity or blackmail and I pity the fool who would fall for either. Good thing is, it wouldn't last, and you'd spend the rest of your days in bitterness and accusing men of being immature . If you weren't terribly unattractive, some mature lesbians might have considered you already. Mumu girl!

placeofallure:
Family nuances.

Every marriage with its peculiarities. All kinds of abuses physical, emotional, verbal and the rest of them boils down to our inability to properly communicate in the house. Communication isn't just opening and closing your mouth.

There'll always be misgivings committed by either of the partners. Now if your spouse does something bad, address that issue, ONLY that issue, proffer solution if you can. It ends there. Don't bring the history of how his uncle was like that, or reminding her about how all her sisters are divorced ....how he did the same thing last century and blablabla... Women are more guilty here. That is what annoys the man and if he lacks self control, your guess is as good as mine.

Many men in my opinion are immature. You need to nurture them the way you would your 5-year old. If women understand this, there'll be peace.

That's not an excuse to misbehave notwithstanding. If you are not up to it as a man, don't marry. A man should be able to make informed choices that is best for his family. These failings or shortcomings are the things that infuriate a woman. And if she has an unbridled tongue, reeling begins. Plus men have this ego problem. It's not a taboo to see a wife more sensible than the husband. Men, know this and know wisdom. As a man, you could borrow sense if yours is inadequate. It doesn't make you less of a man. You're to complement each other. Marriage is not a competing ground.

God save our marriages.

Show this to your father.

dacblogger:
I will not lie, I dey insult Sha and if not for the kind of man my hubby is, him for don.commit suicide because of the things I tell him.
But the truth is that, I'm a very emotional person and I'm easily angered. Infact my hubby is the most annoying human being on planet Earth...
He has a way of getting at you and he does that on a daily basis .
So when he does that, I try to hold in the anger for days but when I can't hold it anymore, I explode... When I'm done telling him all those things, I feel better.
So you see , Venting is my coping mechanism.
We women we DNT do that intentionally, that is just our own way of expressing the anger that we have held for so long.
May God help each and everyone one of us Sha.

So what do you think should be your husband's coping mechanism? Beat you to a pulp? Pour acid on you? Throw you out? "I'm easily angered"... Shame no even catch you! Witch! I want see that your anger today o! Useless woman!

See my father-in-law o

See groove!

EmekaBlue:
She would have jumped ontop of the car and hang on

Na movie?

I believe him by default.

Imbe.

You dey mad?

Envy kills.

Saboteur. More of his like should be sorted and eliminated.

What were they all waiting for?

They're kids.

Seems like there's an unwritten decree to keep the Igbo man away from power. This can't go on forever. If Nigeria is truly ONE NIGERIA, then the Igbos should be given a chance.

Caught on the run. Shaft man! Abeg keep quiet!

Definitely not the first ashawo. We have seen many more before her, and there'll be many more after her.

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Better pikin.

What exactly is "breaking" about it?

Throwback:
Maybe he meant DSS employees who are Igbo?




A certain narcissistic mad man once promised to make Nigeria worse than Somalia. He also reminded his zombified disciples to burn down the zoo if they hear that he has been re-arrested due to his ongoing trial.

Now just a few years later, his region is competing with Somalia as a failed society without order and ridden with all manner of crime, while same region has become the zoo that is being burnt by those he put under oath.

All who were parroting his propaganda and threats are now begging Nigeria and Buhari to rescue them from a self-inflicted terrorism. They have suddenly forgotten that Buhari is dead and the President is Jubril al Sudani. They have forgotten that the Queen of England wrote a condolence letter.

Immortal clowns!

The ones who we wrongly thought possessed sound education to counter the hatred and misinformation, stayed quiet and even joined to chorus the insanities that were peddled by IPOB. If they were not busy analysing pictures, they would be demanding for Buhari to remove his cap, or asking the whereabout of Osinbajo.

Now that they are tired of their own propaganda and conspiracy theories which included blaming the DSS, they have now wisened up after personal and tragic interactions with the terrorists who look and speak like them.

They have now become the "Unity Beggers" knowing that they are disposable victims to satisfy a mad man's desire to command loyalty and criminally usurp power that he is not willing to pursue democratically.

apt.

At 29 you shouldn't be rushing into marriage na, you're still a small boy.... Wait till you're 50.

Based on the principle of "you scratch my back, I scratch yours", this isn't fair to Tinubu.

I said it the other day that I might just rescue this Cuppy girl... And people were asking "from what?".... E don clear now.

The Fellowship of The "Old Mama Youngies".
They're still manageable Sha. As for Rita, congratulations to her and that young man she's about to enslave.

Modified:
As for the Late Night News below, don't be so pained. I can understand your frustrations wasting your youth looking for gold to dig and failing woefully... There'll always be a 60 or perhaps a 70 year old man who would find your Sahara kpekus and excessively wrecked olympus quite refreshing... Just be patient and keep searching.

This boy waste time, we for don born 4 by now.

Shouldn't be more than a page if you bloody hell expect anyone to actually read it.

waste of a bodyguard.

Well, she seemed happy.

Dorwadora:
Thank you ma..... That's what I've been thinking too.... There are still good people. But seriously ma I'm always scared whenever I'm at the house... Even right now I've opened the whole door incase I need to escape any danger. I'm sitting outside the veranda with a kitchen knife beside me... Because I don't want my story to end as raped then strangled

Silly me, and I thought it was all real. Take this story to Fiction and Tales by Moonlight.

Dorwadora:
Of course my instincts are against the whole thing, that's why I want people's opinion. And also a way to stop the whole cooking thing without losing the job.

I'm certain you know how this would end.... Because you've played, and replayed it all in your head.