₦airaland Forum

Lastpharoah33:
Good day landers, I would like to hear your opinion on this matter bothering me for days now.

I am faced with choosing between working in one of the breweries here in onitsha as a casual for 35k monthly and traveling to abuja be with an uncle who is into metal fabrication ( welding, painting and general sales of his product).
I am talking out of experience, this your mom shop looks like Williams by northtage Onitsha if I am not mistaken. I was once with my father in your mom's business,textile materials but things later went south my little advice for you is that your mom business can wait go and learn your uncle skill had it been I had one during my time I would have learned time still with you so if your uncle own did not work out you can still join your mom bus in fact there is nothing much to learn during my period I did not learn anything just finished secondary school join my father till date I still know much about the business. So go to your uncle to learn that skill, it can take you years to learn skill but bus na just few months.

Thing is, if I am to stay here in onitsha...I have planned to save up 100-150k before next year to start a business my mom is currently into and she's doing pretty well in it .

While if I am to stay with this uncle in abuja, he agreed on teaching me basics of his profession like paint spraying with machine, and he also promised to set me up with trade in the welding industry as time goes on, but I will be placed on monthly salary after I must have learnt the painting process and stuff, ( mind you, his proposed salary is between 20-30k monthly).

My brothers and sisters, is welding something that can guarantee a good future in this present state of the country? Does it worth my time as a guy in his late 20's? Should I just continue with my 7-5 job ?

I have until 5th of april to decide. Thanks for your time.

Okoroawusa:
Mtchew... what is this one saying?

Babysho:
I am not better and my mind is finally in the worst place. I try to use little things to find happiness and take my mind off it but in the end, it's too hard.
I'm looking forward to tomorrow my brother's travelling so maybe I'll find enough strength to commit suicide.

KarinaLove:
Are you married?

Why are you having sex when you are not married?

Don't you know you are Fornicating and committing a very big and terrible SIN Mr Man!!!
Your profile picture does not support your comment rather it stand against your comment. How can you wear such thing and speak against fornication when you are making a lot of men to sin against God through what you wear my sister I am a born again Christian and I put it to you that you need repentance including the op.

Well, I think that's pay back for your sins.

Bye

Unknown31:
[s][/s] nonsense.
STD has killed millions of people all over the world and you said it worst than masturbation.

You are not serious

Tobedated:
another idiot

OgunkeelAllMod:
Na very big fat lie African and their stupid superstitious belief and wack idea on just about everything.. No proof, no evidence, nothing to back up the claim.. When white says something is not good or even good, they BACK IT UP with proven fact! Many health expert are still very much divided on this masto things.. So there you have it
.

Tobedated:
Different strokes for different folks i guess i've been mastubating for ages and i'm yet to experience any negative effect instead it makes me more confident relietes my stress and there's nothing as perfect as thinking on your life during post-nut clarity

Samirana360:
You will still masturbate one day... just time

mema900:
How are you coping with intense konji....tell us that side. Don't tell us one sided story.

Some people turn to pedophile while trying to stop masturbation.

Tell us the full story man....how do u now handle the urge the use to cause u to masturbate....abi u just drink water and bear the pain and frustration that come with sexual urge

Kaido:
2 days ago, my neighbour's daughter about 23 years old, came close to my window to wash her clothes and when I opened the curtain, I saw a big booty in a tight mini skirt facing me...grabbed my vaseline and jerked off furiously.

I have to tell my girlfriend about my this awful habit

DamianX:
It's good you got a girlfriend

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!

I still masturbate and it's what helps me focus and prevents me from getting distracted by women

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!

I still masturbate and it's what helps me focus and prevents me from getting distracted by women

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

Masturbation is not a bad thing

Africans and thier stupid mentality

Always thinking masturbation is bad...

Masturbate if you want.....it is very good

And for those that are addicted....the solution is that you need to first stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....
masturbation is not a bad thing

ednut1:
your pastor has no powers to prevent natural disasters. We are only lucky based on our location on the map. Grow up