₦airaland Forum

If you don't want kids fine . since you lack the financial capacity to, all well and good not to want kids. But do not drag others to it nor seek validation. Yes raising kids demands more but strong people scale through

He knows the tradition, yet he went against it and met his Waterloo. Why sleep with her without cleansing ?

There is no right or wrong food. Let her keep trying different food to discover what works for her. The vomiting often stop second trimester. For me, I vomited everything. Nothing worked. Not even the so called peppery foods . but yam and oil sometimes soothes me. Congratulations in advance

I wonder why mother in laws are like that. My neighbour's mother in law almost killed her when she delivered. It was so bad that she even prepare the woman's bathing water, and wash her cloth and bath baby herself. The woman only put the baby at her back. My mother in law is nice , but she won't help with house chores either . I gently called my husband to psyche her not to come. My mother helped a great deal. When mum left mother in law said she wanted to come. I said mama don't worry I can bathe baby myself. She got the message and stayed back. Whenever she comes for weekend , men I'm dead. I cook and cook and cook. Mother in law shouldn't come for omugwo they tend to be lazy but want everything done for them


To be fair to her , my mother in law is nice to a fault,she isn't just good with chores so I do them. @ op do what you can do and leave what you can't .

I still think all those pregnancy craving that people claim they have is myth. And seeing pregnancy as an opportunity to eat is fallacious. I didn't feel any of those, I was still myself ,when is comes to eating. My problem then was excessive heat.

Wiseandtrue:
visit any pharmaceutical store

Thank you. We check it out

Wiseandtrue:
Take green tea first thing in the morning at least one hour before meal.

Thank me later

Where can I get green tea?

If you have not been invited by either the wife ,or the husband, please stay out, hence they will ask you "is it your business?" If you have been invited, by all means forgive and forget. Intervene and save your SIS's marriage. They "ve wrong you, prove you are bigger and do it.

She obviously needs help. How on earth did the baby got in ? The Virginia must be big enough to take in hundred joysticks at a time

Treasuredlove:
some lazy men will like this. Come back and say this after three kids and you must say it like this

No, we won't give birth to more than what we can conveniently take care of. Marriage is partnership. Do you know some of these women are just naturally lazy? All they do is watch home video. We have lazy men, yes, but more of lazy women. If they can't go to work outside, let the hand find something doing. I can't sit and eat another person's money every day while I bring nothing. I only continue to pray for good health . I no get mind to keep collecting. There is maturity in giving

Treasuredlove:
some lazy men will like this. Come back and say this after three kids and you must say it like this

No, we won't give birth to more than what we can conveniently take care of. Marriage is partnership. Do you know some of these women are just naturally lazy? All they do is watch home video. We have lazy men, yes, but more of lazy women. If they can't go to work outside, let the hand find something doing. I can't sit and eat another Hyman's money every day while I bring nothing. I only continue to pray for good health . I no get mind to keep collecting. There is maturity in giving

kaluxy007:
Na total editing be that na and I don't think I can get memes to fit in properly

If you add meme, your post is likely to reach front page.
Funny post though

kaluxy007:
Na total editing be that na and I don't think I can get memes to fit in properly

If you add meme, your post is likely to reach front page.
Funny post though

JaceNelson14876:
This link is total Bullshit, text me on Snapchat RonStevens123 for the actual video if you want to see it.

Only a pervert will send you a message so as to watch such derogatory video. The person who recorded the act instead of stop the kids is sick. The people spreading the video are worse.

I don't understand how a grown up will 100% depend on another human all in the name of marriage. I'm on maternity leave and it beats my heart to see almost all the women in my compound stay at home, while their men have gone out. Will the men specie die to please women ? She complaining , what is she bringing to the table ? You are both responsible for the family , and if she can't be patient until things fall back , then she should go out and work. Men no come live and work for women.

Looking good is good business. I love neatness. No matter how cheap I bought a dress, I still kill it, but I do no make up. Is never my thing. I feel dirt on my face with make up on. I do lip gloss though

Ivorianaija:
Feel free to elaborate on this but try not to spread hate.

You said people should feel free to elaborate, yet you attacked an opinion that was against yours. If you are taking a poll, no wrong or right answer. Stay clear, it was supposed to be a debate. And your title is wrong. Why not use "should a woman submit to her husband?" Or " Are women suppose to be submissive in marriage?"or " Does a woman have to submit to her husband?" We submit to, not submit for. Each has different meaning

Well , you are in it already, and it will be unnecessary to ask if you didn't see all these flaws in him before marriage. People change!
Do not abort that pregnancy; later on, you will be glad you didn't. It might look tough ahead, but in all, please let the innocent baby have a slot to life
Your husband has gone far by involving the police, stating you threatened to poison him. if anything happens you will be the first to rot in jail. A Yoruba adage says " we do not go to police station and still come home to become friends" your hubby is obviously tired of the marriage, and since you are too, for sanity purpose please take a break. Go back to your fathers house and have your baby. Forget about what people will say, if that man kills you during one of his domestic violence, people will blame your dead body still. They will ask "why didn't she leave?"
Think of any type of business you can do - even if it is to cook noodles or any type that will suit you -while pregnant so you could fend for you and your kid and unborn baby. I know it is hard to think of, but you CAN if you WILL. You can always look for a "noble job" after giving birth.
Your hubby is a cheat , sleeping with your mother's friend's daughter and still throw it to your face. Your marriage has lost respect. He cares less.
I hate divorce, it's never the best . I will advise you take a break , pray and just hope for a total restoration of your marriage. And if after long waiting no change, then by all means MOVE ON

A man should never be too calm, neither should he be too hot. But being too calm is worse off.a A woman will grind you, ride you, and dumb you to be with a strong man. Women generally detest when a man is soft. Such a man becomes a doormat. My hubby is soft and hot. I have come to respect both sides because he has created a balance.There's nothing wrong with helping out at home, or being a calm man, but if you do it often, your woman will take you as a weakling. Yes tell your wife things, but hold some information until she has proven herself worthy of holding such information without abuse.
To the scene painted, my dear, MAN UP and watch her SIT DOWN to honour you as a woman should a husband.

You are not overreacting, you are an adult! I could only imagine your pains at 30 , yet you are still being treated like a kid. Get your own place if you can, or remain with them and stood on your grounds. Go out and come back whenever you like , go to places you like and do your things. They will only shout, get surprised , get used to it and keep quiet.

Nigerian parents no be am everything about them is done at the extreme.

Always in Kenya do things like this erupt. I wouldn't blame women who use nannies . as women we have to work and augment our husband's money one source is never enough except the quy is super rich.

Women should always be on folic acid whether pregnant or not. But as long as you desire to be pregnant some day , please take folic acid and some other vitamins to prevent things like this. Poor kid

Nackzy:
Future wife Pls take note.. After exclusive breastfeeding, make sure whoever is staying with us and taking care of our kids is our relation

A relation could do same , too. I have heard of a man who sold his brother's kids to ritualist. Yes, he was living with the couple. A relation could physically or sexually abuse your child. You never can tell with people. The heart of man is evil I think women should pick up job/business that will allow them have time for their babies

Nackzy:
Future wife Pls take note.. After exclusive breastfeeding, make sure whoever is staying with us and taking care of our kids is our relation

A relation could do same , too. I have heard of a man who sold his brother's kids to ritualist. Yes, he was living with the couple. A relation could physically or sexually abuse your child. You never can tell with people. The heart of man is evil

Every woman is a magician. There is so much a woman's mind and hand can achieve. Kudos to our mothers! Kudos to me!

Number 2 is bae for ladies . add extension to it then you have an amazing style . the men's own is a no. I won't accept any man on any of those look. For the ladies,I can rock 2 and manage 3 the rest are witchcraft

ifyalways:
Nigerian degrees nowadays is over rated and nearly worthless. Find something doing with your hands to earn money, stabilize your life first then switch to something you have a passion for, even masturbation can make money for you. Start a local porn blog/group or whatever.

However, if you think suicide is the best option for u, I know someone that will need your eyes.

e


You are funny and wicked lol

This story is made up. Unbelievable kids using such gross language ?

What a painful death. If the breast milk is not flowing well, why not augment it with baby food? She prolly didnt want to feed them with formula now that she is gone what will the babies be given ? Your guess is as good as mine.

life has never been fair with any of us;but with God we are scaling through while believing God for new heights. in life there will always be those who you are better off, and those better than you. so, do not compare your life to another person -that is the main source of your depression and suicidal thoughts. why not handle your situation one by one and stop looking at what is happening in another person's life. is not always greener at the other side you know? celebrities are the last set of people you should model, or compare your life to. they appear to have everything , truth is some of them go through worse and put up attitudes that make us think they have it all good.
As per loosing faith in and sometimes not praying, God understands and loves you still. His love for us is not about what we do, or didn't do not whether we are believers or atheist. so do not expect that people shouldn't be blessed, rich or famous just because they are non believers. God loves them still ! let God's love dwell in you have faith that he CAN , have plan out something and work around it . it is well.

PS: in all you do, do not kill yourself.choose to come out of this alive