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 Family › Re: This Is Going On B/w A Married Woman And My Hubby (pics) by enabledgoddess(f): 6:29pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
You want her off your husband's neck? Then report her to her own husband. You don't have to apologised to her even if you are an angel. She was pestering your home . apologising to her will give her a upper hand. Forget she's older than you. She acting so foolish. I suspect your husband has had something with her, if not why would she keep flirting with him even when she's aware you know. Your hubby is pretending. If after now you discover she's still disturbing , involve the husband 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: This Is Going On B/w A Married Woman And My Hubby (pics) by enabledgoddess(f): 6:28pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Network issh |
| Family › Re: Funeral Of Man And His Three Kids Killed In Boat Accident In The U.S.(Pics) by enabledgoddess(f): 1:24pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
May they rest in peace. I can't stop thinking of the wife's trauma. What's there to live for anyway ? But then, life continues, she may never recover from this huge lost. Pathetic! |
| Family › Re: Meet Baby Chanco, Japanese With Full Hair Like An Adult (Photos) by enabledgoddess(f): 7:09pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
Is it just me ? I find the baby unattractive though. If not that she's just an innocent baby who depends on adults who should have cut her hair, I would have compared her to something terrible. |
| Romance › Re: Young African Man And His Elderly White Wife (Photos) by enabledgoddess(f): 2:40pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
Its all for the green card and dollar 2 Likes |
| Literature › Re: Number 225 Katakata Street by enabledgoddess(f): 7:57pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Like seriously? Is that all Mr cetino? I'm annoyed. Such a short enticing read. Please give me something during the week and mention me. Biko Thanks still I know how keeping up with this could be hard |
| Family › Re: 5 Important Baby Toy Safety Tips by enabledgoddess(f): 6:09pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Thank you for sharing |
| Family › Re: Help! I Need Solution To My Wifes Predicament by enabledgoddess(f): 7:39pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
Just reduce the length and intense of your pre-intimacy before thrust in. Sometimes just use lubricate and you come first |
| Family › Re: .... by enabledgoddess(f): 9:49am On Jul 18, 2018 |
If all the blames and jabs are thrown at you, you deserve it , even much more.when this started,according to you, you have graduated and was on the train to NYSC so you were not a kid, you only used that line to save face. Simply put, you and your family are leeches. You got what best fit you. As a woman, when things were going on well, you didn't help him save and think of what to do to keep the income flowing ? All you did was buy material stuff and chase after a government job with 2million? You are a vitreous woman! This isn't about you leaving the Yoruba guy, but you and your family feeding off someone till he he was drained. You didn't take your time you we're too fast because money was involved. The guy was there for you when he had, so be there for him now he doesn't have. He started beating you because he is now frustrated , so mind how you talk back at him. Don't sit at home and claim the victim. Go out there and look for a job and take care of you and your family and plan out how your hubby could get back to his feet again. And just so you know, you write poorly as a graduate. |
| Family › Re: I Need Help. Urgent by enabledgoddess(f): 9:11am On Jul 18, 2018 |
Partnerbiz:However she wants it aborted, she should just make sure a doctor is involved. I suggested D&c because I think is the safest. Anyhow I'm it of this 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Guys, I Pray That You Check This Out.It will mean so much to me. Please by enabledgoddess(f): 7:19pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
So many e-begging hard to see the genuine ones |
| Family › Re: I Need Help. Urgent by enabledgoddess(f): 6:59pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
Enough with the condemnation and the hypocrisy religious talk. If you can't throw in your view and advice without insulting then you should pass. She's feeling depressed and regrets that's enough punishments already. @ op learn from this mistake. Stay away from unprotected sex, and if possible flee from it. Its consequence weights more than its moments of pleasure. Tell you what I have been there . not a good way to go. Instead of taking the drug, why not go see a doctor ? A D&C will be safer.and if you can, keep the baby. You"ll be glad you did at the long run 6 Likes |
| Health › Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by enabledgoddess(f): 5:29pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Then do not consider having kids as an option 1 Like |
| Literature › Re: Number 225 Katakata Street by enabledgoddess(f): 4:49pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Thank you , centino |
| Celebrities › Re: Kunle Afolayan Buys A Vintage Car (Photos) by enabledgoddess(f): 2:07pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Nice car hunnn? |
| Politics › Re: Governor Ambode Hosts Kareem Waris Olamilekan (Photos) by enabledgoddess(f): 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
This is every mother's joy when your children are shining brighter than you. Well done boy 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: Single Motherhood, My Tears And Fears by enabledgoddess(f): 3:32pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
The last place a woman wants to be is to be a single parent, but then life happens. Dearie you will be fine although is not going to be a smooth ride , but brace up there's light at the end of the tunnel. As others have said , get a job or start something no matter how little. I tell you what , your kids will grow up to be proud of you. They understand and are watching you please do not fail them. Cry if you want to , take a bath and see a movie. Go out and make friends who are of strong characters. I sent my prayers |
| Education › Re: How Nigerian Mentality In Education Is Slowly Killing Our Youths by enabledgoddess(f): 2:08pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Education is many things to a white man , but a paper (certificate) to a black man. It is an avenue to explore and build to a white man, but a means of seeking for a job (comfort zone ) for a black man. Kudos op. Is High time parents sat up and understand that education is beyond four walls. Do you know that most of the blue collar job we look down here in Nigeria such as hairdresser, plumber, tailoring, baking and many are actually noble jobs abroad and are run under organized platform education is not just ABC but what can you do to give yourself and others a better , happier and fulfilled life ? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Why Your Husband Won't Meet Your Needs by enabledgoddess(f): 6:36pm On Jul 11, 2018 |
bukatyne:Both emotional, physical and financial. For example, I used to expect him to automatically know when I'm sad and to guess right and do exactly what I want even when I don't ask. I used to expect him to buy all I say we need without agreeing to wait. If he say wait I just withdraw till I force him to even when not convenient. Physically, for example he often help me take the hanger out to spread my cloth. One day I woke him up to take the hanger out. He said wait let me rest a bit I got sad . but since I have learnt to wait and do what I can do myself and communicate more and expect less and told myself I can be happy. Guess what, we quarrel less and he's seem happier too and the sex have increased because fight has reduced. Lol I used to complain about him not being appreciative, now he appreciates and sends thank you messages from work. Truly, men can't meet all our needs so why hang our happiness to that ? 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Cost Effective Means Of Taking Care Of A Baby by enabledgoddess(f): 2:08pm On Jul 11, 2018 |
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| Family › Re: Cost Effective Means Of Taking Care Of A Baby by enabledgoddess(f): 2:04pm On Jul 11, 2018 |
Your baby takes three nan in a month ? That's poor. Mine takes 2 in a week. That's roughly 8/9 in a month. One big cerelac, papnand soya milk.uses big huggies.. 64 in a pack . then 2 packs of big eva water. Babies are expensive. I think we spend roughly 20k-25k in a month. Tell wifey to reduce budget to that amount, but not 15k. What will she do with that ? In few months when babies begin to eat normal food, you won't have to spend. Take care of your jewel if you have the cash 1 Like |
| Family › Re: I once thought of doing something crazy by enabledgoddess(f): 3:19pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
Suicide is an easy path for coward to take. Life is worth living . give it a shot. Why not share your pains and fears ? Who knows, you might get help. We all have that inner atuggle for a better place , yet will are determined to live it thorough the end. Chill dear, death is a compulsion for every one; why the rush? |
| Family › Re: My Pregnant Wife Water Had Broke by enabledgoddess(f): 3:12pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
Get her to a better hospital if the one you are are doing nothing. Since her water is broken , then the baby is about to be born. Delay is dangerous as the baby might be stressed already.you might need cs if all the water needed for the baby to swim out is lost |
| Family › Re: Why Your Husband Won't Meet Your Needs by enabledgoddess(f): 3:04pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
crackhaus:True talk. I remember when I used to expect my husband to do everything for me;he never always met my expectations and that made me unhappy every time. If something didn't go right, I will say if only you had done this, if only you have bought this , if only I had this . I expected him to do all this. Then I realized he is only a human , prone to fail and has needs too. I began to tell myself to do something by myself and appreciate the ones he can and learn to wait for him to fulfil his promises. I became happier and well mentally. It is dangerous for another human to depend fully on another human. Love is beautiful when we don't expect our happiness from our spouse. After all having all our needs met by our men do not equate happy marriage 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by enabledgoddess(f): 12:45pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
DankemzI:Educate me, please what's is fattening? I understand is means capable to make one fat. But is seem it means something else from your write up |
| Celebrities › Re: Cee-C Celebrates Leo Dasilva's 26th Birthday by enabledgoddess(f): 12:34pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
Khd95:You just need to add 5k you can get a brand new benz 3 Likes |
| Education › Re: How To Prepare And Pass Post UTME In One Week by enabledgoddess(f): 12:08pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
Success is not automatic |
| Celebrities › Re: Leo Babarinde Dasilva Celebrates 26th Birthday, Launches Website by enabledgoddess(f): 12:06pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
Dude looks older. Can't believe I'm older than him. But then again people appear bigger in media than real life. Happy birthday 6 Likes |
| Literature › Re: Number 225 Katakata Street by enabledgoddess(f): 8:40am On Jul 10, 2018 |
Superb read. Permit me to say, it is such a short read. Please next update should be long enough to carry us through the week. God bless you bro |
| Family › Re: Help With Your Advice Plsss by enabledgoddess(f): 3:09pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Your husband ego won't let him allow you go stay with your parents with the kids. Since is just food you are spending your 80k on , I think you should learn the art of budgets and prioritizing. At this stage, you don't have to buy luxurious things. Just focus on feeding your family well. Buy stuffnin bulk. Talk to your mother , let her help without necessarily asking you to come over to her house. Is not like your hubby is jobless or lazy, he just got a bad debt to pay. What would you have done if you had no salary ? Leave the marriage ? I would advise you stay back and pull is through. Your husband shouldn't use all his pay for the debt every month. He should leave some behind for food , too. It is well my sister. This too will pass. Just believe. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Job Openings At SAVE THE CHILDREN- Nigeria by enabledgoddess(f): 3:26pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Don't they have space for voluntary jobs ? I want to work for an NGO got frer |
| Car Talk › Re: See The Typical Dashboard Of Danfos In Lagos (PHOTOS) by enabledgoddess(f): 2:13pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Whenever I take those danfo. I hold my breath till I get down. Safety isn't in their dictionary. Just make the cheddar |
